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Has anyone divorced through FAB
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Everyone can't be all perfect with joining fab so this is to ask has joining fab spoilt or soured anyone's marriage or have couples split because of swinging |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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a few have, and I'd imagine a few have divorced
and I'm always there as a shoulder to cry on, while feeling their tits n fingering their fanny..cos I'm a real friend! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"a few have, and I'd imagine a few have divorced
and I'm always there as a shoulder to cry on, while feeling their tits n fingering their fanny..cos I'm a real friend!"
Then how lucky your there for them  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"a few have, and I'd imagine a few have divorced
and I'm always there as a shoulder to cry on, while feeling their tits n fingering their fanny..cos I'm a real friend!"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think for some that use swinging to try and fix a shit marriage it can be straw that broke the camels back,so yes ive seen a few couples split but it was'nt a surprise to hear it |
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I imagine that a few have split because they joined fab hoping to resolve existing problems and a few because one of them joined without the other being aware. I don't think fab in itself would be the cause, it isn't that powerful. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What about the saying ...if you love me how can you want another guy / girl to have sex with me
Etc we have the perfect relationship and just a little worried it might sour it going with others but also it excites us too so hey up who knows  |
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"What about the saying ...if you love me how can you want another guy / girl to have sex with me
Etc we have the perfect relationship and just a little worried it might sour it going with others but also it excites us too so hey up who knows "
No one but your partner can reassure you on that score. If you have the tiniest doubt don't do it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What about the saying ...if you love me how can you want another guy / girl to have sex with me
Etc we have the perfect relationship and just a little worried it might sour it going with others but also it excites us too so hey up who knows "
people who cant separate love from sex really have to consider what they are capable of on this sort of scene.... as U are a softswing couple thats all fine..but there are many couples who profess to be more than that and they can ruin many a night lol |
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"What about the saying ...if you love me how can you want another guy / girl to have sex with me
Etc we have the perfect relationship and just a little worried it might sour it going with others but also it excites us too so hey up who knows
people who cant separate love from sex really have to consider what they are capable of on this sort of scene.... as U are a softswing couple thats all fine..but there are many couples who profess to be more than that and they can ruin many a night lol"
I'd agree with that, love and sex are not the same and not realising that is the cause of many problems. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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people who cant separate love from sex really have to consider what they are capable of on this sort of scene
This!!!"
SEE! I do speak snse when I'm not concentrating on fanny!
nice new pics btw..and MMmmmmmmm whatta fanny  |
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I bet Facebook has caused more upsets. We know of quite a few non-swinging couples where one of the partners has got in touch with an old girlfriend/boyfriend and that has caused a split. Or, they have gone on the site and had their status as 'single' and left their computer on.
The mainstream media and relationship advice bandwagon would have you believe that this 'lifestyle' is by its very nature dysfunctional and must necessarily lead to a breakdown in relationships. However, we know loads of couples that have never considered swinging and yet they have divorced. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No offence but its a no brainer that numerous couples on here aren't as secure as they think.
Just a reflection of the " vanilla" ( hate that word ) world too....  |
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"No offence but its a no brainer that numerous couples on here aren't as secure as they think.
Just a reflection of the " vanilla" ( hate that word ) world too.... "
Or not as secure as one of them thinks. It's amazing how many people conceal the truth from themselves as well as each other but make it obvious to a casual bystander. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Thanks for that it has helped us a lot we think and do people think its better getting to know a couple or single and meet up few times for social and drinks too or do people think it would get clingy and messy getting to know others to much , do others think yes just shag then move on x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thanks for that it has helped us a lot we think and do people think its better getting to know a couple or single and meet up few times for social and drinks too or do people think it would get clingy and messy getting to know others to much , do others think yes just shag then move on x"
the other couple might just not be up for the whole continual social aspect of things.It'll be a bit hard convincing either urselves or another softswing cpl to start to play, without some communication problems etc
u cant really win(unless it goes well), unless u stick to what u advertise for really. |
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