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over a year ago
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"We generally go to clubs for the social side and have private meets at home for playing. What does everyone else prefer. Clubs or private?"
Clubs for meeting new people.
Private hotel meets for private playing.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Has been private for me. Mutual trust and respect has always been there so have had some fab weekend meets.
...still a newbie to the clubs. But, i did like it there.
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We prefer private meets small groups or just 4 of us. Although we did travel to meet a couple at their local club only because we had played a couple of times befor so chilled in club then took a private room with our friends for fun.
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We started out by clubbing and after a while started doing a few home meets. A couple of years later the balance had shifted from mostly clubbing to mostly home play. We tend to play at home with good friends and go clubbing mainly for casual sex with strangers. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It all depends what we fancy...we like private meets and to accomodate ourselves generally...J just feels more in control...who's watching, who's touching etc and whether or not to initiate play...
we have had some fantastic times at clubs though...we do enjoy the social side and if we fancy being part of a larger group or making new connections they're ideal without the usual issues that you get on here...
we also like parties, for a bit of the best of both worlds but as in clubs, if it's not your party, you have to rely on someone elses vetting of the people who are there...in our own home, we have total control over that... |
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over a year ago
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Prefer private meets myself to clubs as a single guy having tried it once on my own going to a club felt not right and a bit sleezy if honest, and after going to clubs with friends and seeing some of the antics of other guys there am not sure would want to be thought of, or associated as one of those single guys!!
I'm sure if went regulary to one and got to meet people there that would be ok.
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we like to meet at clubs , as said you can then find out if theres a chemistry there ,if not then you move on , I nmay not be to everybodys liking and cant think of a worse experience to turn up on a doorstep to having it flung shut in our faces |
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Primarily clubs for us. Our time is relatively precious and we have 2 clubs that are local to us so it makes sense to meet people there. To be honest we rarely use this site to arrange meets as it's just too much hassle.
We do meet privately but generally only with people we've met before.
I must admit though as a single man, it was pretty much the opposite way round and I loved the thrill of the chase. |
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but it is very rare 
