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Veri=guarantee or Not ???
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So here is the deal. Great looking lady, great verification. Got stood up by her. Ignored never replied my messages. Kinda sucks lol
Question is. Does good verification really mean you can be rest assured they are for real.
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over a year ago
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Unfortunately no it doesn't , some are faked some are tricked into giving a veri , always trust your gut instinct and chat for awhile, just because one person says they are real doesn't mean they are |
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There are some unscrupulous types that verify fake profiles. There is no guarantee that comes with them, the only advice is to follow your gut feeling when your in conversation with others. |
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A verification is just another tool in the tool box of meeting someone new. It's not a guarantee, it's an indication that the person has had a meet or been seen on cam. Doesn't mean they will turn up for a meet. |
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"Unfortunately no it doesn't , some are faked some are tricked into giving a veri , always trust your gut instinct and chat for awhile, just because one person says they are real doesn't mean they are "
These two are real though!  |
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over a year ago
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"Unfortunately no it doesn't , some are faked some are tricked into giving a veri , always trust your gut instinct and chat for awhile, just because one person says they are real doesn't mean they are
These two are real though! "
Lol no we weren't there, that was our robotic facsimiles |
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"There are some unscrupulous types that verify fake profiles. There is no guarantee that comes with them, the only advice is to follow your gut feeling when your in conversation with others. "
Wow, |
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"So here is the deal. Great looking lady, great verification. Got stood up by her. Ignored never replied my messages. Kinda sucks lol
Question is. Does good verification really mean you can be rest assured they are for real.
Lets discuss experiences"
They can be real and totally NOT what is described, or total arses, or not intending to meet at all. |
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"Unfortunately no it doesn't , some are faked some are tricked into giving a veri , always trust your gut instinct and chat for awhile, just because one person says they are real doesn't mean they are "
I thought I had good instinct lol, Never mentioned we chatted over the phone to arrange. She dropped me a message in the morning to say she was looking foreword. And she had over 10 extremely positive feedback |
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My first meet had great veris. Brilliant with his fingers and tongue. We met. We flirted. We came back here to play and he turned round and said that he hadn't played with a woman for years! His veris were recent too   x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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so she only had one verification? i think some peoples verifications arent real ones also i have met people who were described as nice only they werent so nice to me.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Seems to many folks can muster up verifications after existing for such a short amount of time.... Surely Fab admin can tweak the prohibition of fake veris...
Keep the swinging real fabbers  |
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"Some people like playing games. To just not turn up, unless dead or in a coma is despicable. I don't know how people do it without feeling bad "
Didn't want to sound too pissed or sentimental but you hit the nail on the head. I was pissssed lol, (50 miles I travelled) and she knew it. I wonder how people do it myself. |
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"My first meet had great veris. Brilliant with his fingers and tongue. We met. We flirted. We came back here to play and he turned round and said that he hadn't played with a woman for years! His veris were recent too x"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Unfortunately no it doesn't , some are faked some are tricked into giving a veri , always trust your gut instinct and chat for awhile, just because one person says they are real doesn't mean they are
I thought I had good instinct lol, Never mentioned we chatted over the phone to arrange. She dropped me a message in the morning to say she was looking foreword. And she had over 10 extremely positive feedback"
Then we can only say she's a complete arse, unless something's happened there's no excuse to waste people's time , a lesson learned just because she's real doesn't mean she's not a time waster, we learnt that quite quickly on here one of our first meets kept doing the same to us , would arrange a meet then not show ( and that was after we had met him the first time ) |
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"Unfortunately no it doesn't , some are faked some are tricked into giving a veri , always trust your gut instinct and chat for awhile, just because one person says they are real doesn't mean they are
I thought I had good instinct lol, Never mentioned we chatted over the phone to arrange. She dropped me a message in the morning to say she was looking foreword. And she had over 10 extremely positive feedback
Then we can only say she's a complete arse, unless something's happened there's no excuse to waste people's time , a lesson learned just because she's real doesn't mean she's not a time waster, we learnt that quite quickly on here one of our first meets kept doing the same to us , would arrange a meet then not show ( and that was after we had met him the first time ) "
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"Unfortunately no it doesn't , some are faked some are tricked into giving a veri , always trust your gut instinct and chat for awhile, just because one person says they are real doesn't mean they are
I thought I had good instinct lol, Never mentioned we chatted over the phone to arrange. She dropped me a message in the morning to say she was looking foreword. And she had over 10 extremely positive feedback
Then we can only say she's a complete arse, unless something's happened there's no excuse to waste people's time , a lesson learned just because she's real doesn't mean she's not a time waster, we learnt that quite quickly on here one of our first meets kept doing the same to us , would arrange a meet then not show ( and that was after we had met him the first time ) "
Lesson learnt. PS she is very much alive and fabbing as she has read my messages this morning. Bottom line I guess is trust take fab with a pinch of salt or sugar or whatever. |
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If we are gonna travel to a meet , we are always very careful to be as sure as possible the person is gonna turn up . It sounds like you did this , and still got let down . Please don't be too despondent , with the checks you did , this is rare .
good luck x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some people write verifications a long time after meeting. If a person leaves and comes back for instance then someone could write a new verification. People have different dynamics so you can't expect your meet to go exactly the same as someone elses. Just because a person turns up for previous meets isn't a guarantee they always will |
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"Unfortunately no it doesn't , some are faked some are tricked into giving a veri , always trust your gut instinct and chat for awhile, just because one person says they are real doesn't mean they are
I thought I had good instinct lol, Never mentioned we chatted over the phone to arrange. She dropped me a message in the morning to say she was looking foreword. And she had over 10 extremely positive feedback
Then we can only say she's a complete arse, unless something's happened there's no excuse to waste people's time , a lesson learned just because she's real doesn't mean she's not a time waster, we learnt that quite quickly on here one of our first meets kept doing the same to us , would arrange a meet then not show ( and that was after we had met him the first time )
Lesson learnt. PS she is very much alive and fabbing as she has read my messages this morning. Bottom line I guess is trust take fab with a pinch of salt or sugar or whatever. "
just curious as to why you continue messaging, just report her as a no show, block and move on |
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"If we are gonna travel to a meet , we are always very careful to be as sure as possible the person is gonna turn up . It sounds like you did this , and still got let down . Please don't be too despondent , with the checks you did , this is rare .
good luck x"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't take any notice of verifications,they only say what happened between 2 other people,they will have no bearing over what will happen between them and I
I use my instinct,I never rush into meets and im never that desparate for sex that im blinded by bullshit
If at any point little alarm bells ring or something just does'nt seem right I back away |
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Sadly I've heard of this happening to many of the guys I have met, and they too have spoken on phone, lady is verified etc etc. I don't know how you can get away from it. It happens.
all you can do us minimise the risk to yourself by not travelling further than you would be ok if the meet didn't happen. Or stick to those that you know (although I'm sure I've heard of guys having the same thing happen on subsequent meets!)
OP, we're not all like that  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So here is the deal. Great looking lady, great verification. Got stood up by her. Ignored never replied my messages. Kinda sucks lol
Question is. Does good verification really mean you can be rest assured they are for real.
Lets discuss experiences"
Totally not an answer to your OP but I'd say its her loss, I just peeked at your profile and you have a gorgeous bum |
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over a year ago
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"Best way is to go for people with +5 veris and each of those veris have +5 veris and each of them have + 5 veris. This will eliminate the time wasters "
That would take longer than the average meet lol
I'd get confused or sidetracked into looking at another veri and end up spending my time trying to get back to where I started!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its unbelievable When a lady has 10 verifications and spoke on phone to do that to U x just let it go now and get to one of the regular partys or clubs up in london alot of real woman to meet socially and if you want play,alot people meet there first then go on to arrange one on ones,good luck and hope it dosent happen again for you x |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
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You use verification as a singular so I assume she only had one. Therefore no proof she meets regularly. This is why I ask for 'well verified' people. But even then there are no guarantees that they won't mess you about. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Unfortunately no it doesn't , some are faked some are tricked into giving a veri , always trust your gut instinct and chat for awhile, just because one person says they are real doesn't mean they are
I thought I had good instinct lol, Never mentioned we chatted over the phone to arrange. She dropped me a message in the morning to say she was looking foreword. And she had over 10 extremely positive feedback"
I read this above so it seems 10 verifications the woman had,so as someone has said already its very rare,so dont let it put you off |
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By *iss SugarWoman
over a year ago
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Ive only had a few let downs where they simply havent shown up.. the trick I find helpful is to follow their verifications.. so if thwyve been verified by one person that also only has 1 chances are its hit or piss.. if they have a few and those leaving the veris also havr lots and its a well known name id say ur safe x |
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"Sadly I've heard of this happening to many of the guys I have met, and they too have spoken on phone, lady is verified etc etc. I don't know how you can get away from it. It happens.
all you can do us minimise the risk to yourself by not travelling further than you would be ok if the meet didn't happen. Or stick to those that you know (although I'm sure I've heard of guys having the same thing happen on subsequent meets!)
OP, we're not all like that "
Perhaps not. I haven't totally lost faith, Still holding on to my faith in Fabmanity. |
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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago
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"I don't take any notice of verifications,they only say what happened between 2 other people,they will have no bearing over what will happen between them and I
I use my instinct,I never rush into meets and im never that desparate for sex that im blinded by bullshit
If at any point little alarm bells ring or something just does'nt seem right I back away"
This.
Nothing is guaranteed in life, especially not sex.
Indeed, they may meet you and not fancy shagging - has happened to me more than once, and I can't blame them for it - not everyone can fancy everyone else and until you actually meet that person you can't tell. |
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"Ladies veris arnt very trust worthy as lots of guys will verify them without meeting as a "favour" if asked."
Nor are some mens. I had two noshows two weeks following. we had been texting by phone night before both times. was just a social both times I turned up sat there a hour both tines, no show. reported them, they either left or were booted off. |
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"Ladies veris arnt very trust worthy as lots of guys will verify them without meeting as a "favour" if asked.
Nor are some mens. I had two noshows two weeks following. we had been texting by phone night before both times. was just a social both times I turned up sat there a hour both tines, no show. reported them, they either left or were booted off. "
It's obvious some spoil It for the majority. Regardless of gender |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"A verification is just another tool in the tool box of meeting someone new. It's not a guarantee, it's an indication that the person has had a meet or been seen on cam. Doesn't mean they will turn up for a meet. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Happened to us too, both having lots of lovely veris. So seems they're an unreliable source and lets be honest, most veris just say the same thing over and over.
Would never ever do it to someone and if you've had a change of heart should really have the bollocks to just say so.
That said, we just suck it up and move on to find better sorts.
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"Ladies veris arnt very trust worthy as lots of guys will verify them without meeting as a "favour" if asked.
Nor are some mens. I had two noshows two weeks following. we had been texting by phone night before both times. was just a social both times I turned up sat there a hour both tines, no show. reported them, they either left or were booted off. "
Im amazed if anyone gets booted off for no shows, as have reported when been let down myself and after speaking to an admin on here it very rarely happens!! just like the "paid" parties and the people who ask for "gifts" to meet don't get removed!!
As for Verifications they are to be used as a guide nothing more. We all know that 6 months on here and no verifications means very unlikley that they will meet face to face, just like the serial webcammers!!
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"Happened to us too, both having lots of lovely veris. So seems they're an unreliable source and lets be honest, most veris just say the same thing over and over.
Would never ever do it to someone and if you've had a change of heart should really have the bollocks to just say so.
That said, we just suck it up and move on to find better sorts.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Two things, 1. I'm actually stunned you were stood up and 2. The veris help a little bit, but can't be replied on 100%. I've read veris about guys I've met and I know they aren't accurate. |
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I was let down on Wednesday. She had 20 veris. She was ill at the very last second ;( but changed her status to had a good night later on. I made the mistake of not getting her phone number. I find that normally helps if they are willing to send it |
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"Two things, 1. I'm actually stunned you were stood up and 2. The veris help a little bit, but can't be replied on 100%. I've read veris about guys I've met and I know they aren't accurate. "
I concur, the woman must be a right dipshit.
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"Ladies veris arnt very trust worthy as lots of guys will verify them without meeting as a "favour" if asked."
or indeed we pick up crack pot weirdos who choose to verify us over and over without actually having ever met us. I dont show those ones but they still show up on my summary. So does that mean he's making me a faker?  |
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over a year ago
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Just because a profile has multiple verification it does not mean for one instance they will turn up if you agreed anything.
Relying on verifications (the amount of OR lack of) is a dim sighted way of being in the lifestyle.
Use your better judgement and your common sense (perhaps thats what is real issue with a number of people on here?) when it comes to arranging meets.
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By *nnyMan
over a year ago
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Use your better judgement and your common sense (perhaps thats what is real issue with a number of people on here?) when it comes to arranging meets.
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over a year ago
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Maybe there should be a DNA button. And of course that's open to abuse before I get my head bitten off. But if it was just a button you pressed which reported if to Admin then perhaps after 3 from different people it would show on their profile, might deter people from making arrangements they have no intention of keeping.
Gut instinct is great and you get better with time but for people new to swinging it's a minefield. |
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"I've always wondered why people get so hung up on verifications. Just because they "meet" doesn't mean they'll meet you."
U think your post will be better placed if u said " just because they showed up as planned with someone else does not mean they wouldn't be time wasters" |
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"I've always wondered why people get so hung up on verifications. Just because they "meet" doesn't mean they'll meet you.
Beat me too it #him & her#"
That's an irrelevance though if someone has made it clear they want to meet, made arrangements etc, kept in contact and then just doesn't show up.
Agreeing to meet and not showing is plain shoddy.
We would skim through verifications and look at them 'in the round' along with the messages, calls and profile. Any gut feel that it's wrong we put the brakes on and simply tell the other person. Not nice but it's worse to muck someone around.
If you've been at this for a while this starts to become second nature but not everyone is at that stage. |
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"I've always wondered why people get so hung up on verifications. Just because they "meet" doesn't mean they'll meet you.
Beat me too it #him & her#
That's an irrelevance though if someone has made it clear they want to meet, made arrangements etc, kept in contact and then just doesn't show up.
Agreeing to meet and not showing is plain shoddy.
We would skim through verifications and look at them 'in the round' along with the messages, calls and profile. Any gut feel that it's wrong we put the brakes on and simply tell the other person. Not nice but it's worse to muck someone around.
If you've been at this for a while this starts to become second nature but not everyone is at that stage."
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Someone could have 1, 10, 100 or even 1000 met in person veri's.
It still means that real life comes first, and they have the right to say no, or change their minds. Things happen..
Would we be honest and let them know as soon as we could.... yes.
However many people feel they owe random strangers no excuses or justifications.
Sometimes it isn't always possible to let someone know in good time or ahead of time. Because if something serious happens and you end up in a&e, car breaks down, etc (not actually enroute) sending an email via fabs is going to be the last thing on your mind.
Equally, sending a 'sorry it is not going to happen' email without any reason other than gut feeling, isn't always easy as some have received abuse back.
A few pm's back and forth is no guarantee of anything.
It either happens or doesn't.
Enjoy those that happen and forget those that dont. You cant change other people, just be yourself. |
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"Someone could have 1, 10, 100 or even 1000 met in person veri's.
It still means that real life comes first, and they have the right to say no, or change their minds. Things happen..
Would we be honest and let them know as soon as we could.... yes.
However many people feel they owe random strangers no excuses or justifications.
Sometimes it isn't always possible to let someone know in good time or ahead of time. Because if something serious happens and you end up in a&e, car breaks down, etc (not actually enroute) sending an email via fabs is going to be the last thing on your mind.
Equally, sending a 'sorry it is not going to happen' email without any reason other than gut feeling, isn't always easy as some have received abuse back.
A few pm's back and forth is no guarantee of anything.
It either happens or doesn't.
Enjoy those that happen and forget those that dont. You cant change other people, just be yourself. "
I agree totally with your last point, I've never dwelled on the no-shows (im talking about the ops situation not mine)
What I would say is trips to A&E and car breakdowns are both pretty rare occurrences. Most no-shows are not this, they're just people dicking other people around. In most cases you can and should let the other party know.
And if you should be adult and suck it up when people don't show then you should also be adult and have the common courtesy to tell someone you don't want to meet them.
If you're worried they might be abusive by saying you've changed your mind then how are you improving this potentially inflammatory situation by carrying on the facade and then leaving someone sitting in a bar?
Don't think you've thought that through.
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1. We've NEVER missed a date we've made through this site
When I was a single on here, my mum had a stroke and yes it was on a day I was supposed to attend a party with a number of people that were all on here.
Now it happened in the morning & admitted the party was that night, but honestly I forgot all about fabs, the party and everything else. Simply real life happened. I did send a pm, I guess about 3 days later, (when I found out she would be in a cared facility, and discharged later that week).
Yes they were peeved and blocked me.
I didn't care then and I dont care now.
Did I explain that to them.... no.
I was in shock and it was nothing to do with anyone outside my siblings and partner.
That's the only occasion I can think of personally, but then I dont arrange to meet (without intending to meet) or talk bs on here.
I cant say who has a genuine reason for not turning up or doesn't.
I just accept I will never know, have no right to know, and accept life happens, or people change their minds.
Even if it did happen to us, I dont think it would phase us really. |
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"1. We've NEVER missed a date we've made through this site
When I was a single on here, my mum had a stroke and yes it was on a day I was supposed to attend a party with a number of people that were all on here.
Now it happened in the morning & admitted the party was that night, but honestly I forgot all about fabs, the party and everything else. Simply real life happened. I did send a pm, I guess about 3 days later, (when I found out she would be in a cared facility, and discharged later that week).
Yes they were peeved and blocked me.
I didn't care then and I dont care now.
Did I explain that to them.... no.
I was in shock and it was nothing to do with anyone outside my siblings and partner.
That's the only occasion I can think of personally, but then I dont arrange to meet (without intending to meet) or talk bs on here.
I cant say who has a genuine reason for not turning up or doesn't.
I just accept I will never know, have no right to know, and accept life happens, or people change their minds.
Even if it did happen to us, I dont think it would phase us really. "
Nobody suggested you'd not turned up for a meet, this isn't about how you behave on meets?
Sorry about your personal experience, wasn't trying to upset you. The difficulty you faced though you surely realise is out of the ordinary and the person blocking you well, their loss. Most no shows are nothing so traumatic though.
Although we're all here for sex (and for some friendship) that doesn't mean that in normal circumstances we should forget manners and that the person sitting alone in the bar has a life too and in some cases feelings?
I just don't think it's ok to think oh well f**k em and make out you're going to a meet when your not, specially ladies I would expect some take hours getting ready.
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By (user no longer on site)
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I don't think a veri can really say much, you can't rely on a veri for good friendships, sex , blow jobs ect.
I like reading them out of curiosity, you can tell if it is over the top bollox.
I like the ones that describe the person, not capabilities.
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"I don't think a veri can really say much, you can't rely on a veri for good friendships, sex , blow jobs ect.
I like reading them out of curiosity, you can tell if it is over the top bollox.
I like the ones that describe the person, not capabilities.
Her
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Yeah, if i had a quid for every time ive read "had me coming over and over" or "don't miss out" I'd have.......several pounds.
You can see helpful common themes about personality type though. |
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"Ladies veris arnt very trust worthy as lots of guys will verify them without meeting as a "favour" if asked.
Nor are some mens. I had two noshows two weeks following. we had been texting by phone night before both times. was just a social both times I turned up sat there a hour both tines, no show. reported them, they either left or were booted off.
Im amazed if anyone gets booted off for no shows, as have reported when been let down myself and after speaking to an admin on here it very rarely happens!! just like the "paid" parties and the people who ask for "gifts" to meet don't get removed!!
As for Verifications they are to be used as a guide nothing more. We all know that 6 months on here and no verifications means very unlikley that they will meet face to face, just like the serial webcammers!!
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I don't know, which is why I said they either left or were booted. They may have been serial no shows |
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"I don't think a veri can really say much, you can't rely on a veri for good friendships, sex , blow jobs ect.
I like reading them out of curiosity, you can tell if it is over the top bollox.
I like the ones that describe the person, not capabilities.
Her
Yeah, if i had a quid for every time ive read "had me coming over and over" or "don't miss out" I'd have.......several pounds.
You can see helpful common themes about personality type though."
lol yeah, proberly sod all happened lol, and as the lady below said " as a favour" lol I always thought that, put someone on a promise, they will write anything. We send them when have enjoyed their company. |
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"So here is the deal. Great looking lady, great verification. Got stood up by her. Ignored never replied my messages. Kinda sucks lol
Question is. Does good verification really mean you can be rest assured they are for real.
Lets discuss experiences"
well yes and no! We tend to check veries and have a general nose about to see who had met who and so on. Think really trusting your instincts and gut feeling a good indication too. But as you have stated , its not always the case , when all seems well till the actual meet! Has never happened to us and we have met some great people, mainly in clubs but also few cples/ regulars we see when able carry on OP! Are decent people out there for sure |
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You won't know if I'm real or not. I say I am and feel let down by those who pretend to be what they are not. Just need to take time to find out what the person is like - humour, kindness, respect etc - then when you do meet, it's good and any sex is far far better! |
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"So here is the deal. Great looking lady, great verification. Got stood up by her. Ignored never replied my messages. Kinda sucks lol
Question is. Does good verification really mean you can be rest assured they are for real.
Lets discuss experiences well yes and no! We tend to check veries and have a general nose about to see who had met who and so on. Think really trusting your instincts and gut feeling a good indication too. But as you have stated , its not always the case , when all seems well till the actual meet! Has never happened to us and we have met some great people, mainly in clubs but also few cples/ regulars we see when able carry on OP! Are decent people out there for sure "
Thanks Guys for your kind words |
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"So here is the deal. Great looking lady, great verification. Got stood up by her. Ignored never replied my messages. Kinda sucks lol
Question is. Does good verification really mean you can be rest assured they are for real.
Lets discuss experiences well yes and no! We tend to check veries and have a general nose about to see who had met who and so on. Think really trusting your instincts and gut feeling a good indication too. But as you have stated , its not always the case , when all seems well till the actual meet! Has never happened to us and we have met some great people, mainly in clubs but also few cples/ regulars we see when able carry on OP! Are decent people out there for sure
Thanks Guys for your kind words "
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