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what the best swinging age ?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have noticed arguments on here, mostly older people thinking some younger people are too young for swinging. So what do you all think is a good age to do it. ?Personally, I think if your over 18 then it's up to you and you shouldn't be judged. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If your over the age of 18 and it's what you want to do then why not go for it. Best thing I ever did was join here. Talked to and met some amazing people and had a lot of fun. Hopefully much more to come! |
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Good question and should lead to some good answers 
We can only speak for ourselves of course. Both of us were promiscuous through our teen years, college years, and early twenties party years.
Kate was simply into a string of one night stands and some short lived relationships where she always "cheated".
Adam took part on 3sums, 4sums and moresomes at Uni and had a couple of relationships where, not really swinging, involved 3sums and group play.
It was not until we met, having been with over 100 people each in our twenties, that we got married and settled into what is now our swinging lifestyle in our early thirties.
Though we can say with perspective that our swinging life at thirty is better than it would have been at twenty, we look forward to continuing the lifestyle into our 40s and 50s.
We have swapped with many couple and made many friends, some our age, a few younger, but may older.
Many older couples have not been together all their lives and are in their second relationship or marriage and it is THIS marriage that is the swinging marriage.
You can't force a promiscuous person into a monogamous marriage, they either cheat or want to swing. You cannot force a monogamous person to swing, they have too much jealousy.
Though we have met some mature young people, they are they exception, the ones that seem "mature for their age", and often the female half of a couple where the male is older. We have yet to meet a young couple, who are a genuine couple not fuckbuddies, in a real marriage, who swing like the rest of us.
Just our perspective so far - let's see what everyone else thinks.
K&A
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Good question and should lead to some good answers
We can only speak for ourselves of course. Both of us were promiscuous through our teen years, college years, and early twenties party years.
Kate was simply into a string of one night stands and some short lived relationships where she always "cheated".
Adam took part on 3sums, 4sums and moresomes at Uni and had a couple of relationships where, not really swinging, involved 3sums and group play.
It was not until we met, having been with over 100 people each in our twenties, that we got married and settled into what is now our swinging lifestyle in our early thirties.
Though we can say with perspective that our swinging life at thirty is better than it would have been at twenty, we look forward to continuing the lifestyle into our 40s and 50s.
We have swapped with many couple and made many friends, some our age, a few younger, but may older.
Many older couples have not been together all their lives and are in their second relationship or marriage and it is THIS marriage that is the swinging marriage.
You can't force a promiscuous person into a monogamous marriage, they either cheat or want to swing. You cannot force a monogamous person to swing, they have too much jealousy.
Though we have met some mature young people, they are they exception, the ones that seem "mature for their age", and often the female half of a couple where the male is older. We have yet to meet a young couple, who are a genuine couple not fuckbuddies, in a real marriage, who swing like the rest of us.
Just our perspective so far - let's see what everyone else thinks.
K&A
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By (user no longer on site)
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Personally, I would have NEVER been able to do this in my 20s or even 30s. Sure, I had the sex drive and some experience, but mentally, I just would not have been there.
Even if I had tried, I would have just wound up mind fucking myself. But that's just me. Obviously, people are different, and some people are ready for this at 20.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have noticed arguments on here, mostly older people thinking some younger people are too young for swinging. So what do you all think is a good age to do it. ?Personally, I think if your over 18 then it's up to you and you shouldn't be judged. "
Here here - you must have read the same patronising shite that I've just read. The OP should have turned round and told the poster they shouldn't be on this site either!! they should be busying themselves with bowls and doing crosswords ; bit of gardening for Mr and some crotchet for her  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think I was in my early 30s before I had the confidence and wherewithal to handle the swinging lifestyle. It's so much more than just sexual performance that's important, it's being secure about yourself, being able to talk to people. However, I've no doubt that nowadays younger people are better at expressing themselves and knowing what they want that I was. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i think anywhere around 38.
if you see anyones profile, and it says they are 38, then you should message them and organise to meet as quickly as possible as they are great (obviously this answer will change next year lol) |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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"I have noticed arguments on here, mostly older people thinking some younger people are too young for swinging. So what do you all think is a good age to do it. ?Personally, I think if your over 18 then it's up to you and you shouldn't be judged. "
It's a free world - but as far as good meets and sexual awareness, it's 30+ for me. I have met younger and for the most, it's like loosing your virginity again. |
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