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"You are the same age as my son who is at uni. Go and have fun with your mates and go clubbing as mine does. You are far to young to be on here FFS." Just because he's young doesn't mean he shouldn't be here. I'm young, does that mean I shouldn't be here either? Even though I belong in places like this. | |||
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"And experience goes a long way too x" Totally agree! | |||
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"You are the same age as my son who is at uni. Go and have fun with your mates and go clubbing as mine does. You are far to young to be on here FFS. Just because he's young doesn't mean he shouldn't be here. I'm young, does that mean I shouldn't be here either? Even though I belong in places like this. " Oh please..... Get a life.. 21 on a swinging site sorry but you need to get out more. You belong in places like this. Places like what exactly, what are you saying. You need to get a life and get out with your mates, be young, be happy, get pissed, go to Ibiza and get wasted, live a little. Enjoy life and have fun with your mates | |||
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"And experience goes a long way too x Totally agree! " erica ur stunning very lucky chap ur hubby | |||
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"You are the same age as my son who is at uni. Go and have fun with your mates and go clubbing as mine does. You are far to young to be on here FFS. Just because he's young doesn't mean he shouldn't be here. I'm young, does that mean I shouldn't be here either? Even though I belong in places like this. Oh please..... Get a life.. 21 on a swinging site sorry but you need to get out more. You belong in places like this. Places like what exactly, what are you saying. You need to get a life and get out with your mates, be young, be happy, get pissed, go to Ibiza and get wasted, live a little. Enjoy life and have fun with your mates" Places where there are like minded people who aren't out to judge you for how you want to live your life. Just because young people are on a swinging site doesn't mean they don't have a life. We have a naughty sides too that want to explore is that a bad thing? I have a life thank you very much and this is very much a part of it! | |||
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"And experience goes a long way too x Totally agree! erica ur stunning very lucky chap ur hubby " Thank you! | |||
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"And experience goes a long way too x Totally agree! erica ur stunning very lucky chap ur hubby Thank you! " your welcome say it as it is x | |||
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"And classy laydee " Ah thank you | |||
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"No I just think it is very very sad. " I could say the same about older people. Should be at home with a cuppa and ya slippers on. But I wouldn't say that because people choose how they live and that's fine. No one has a right to judge another. | |||
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"Thank you " not trying to be patronising but I just feel you'd have loads of success in reality. like I said, try a club night & go for one that attracts a younger crowd & jazz up your profile. | |||
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"And classy laydee Ah thank you " ur welcome x | |||
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"No I just think it is very very sad. I could say the same about older people. Should be at home with a cuppa and ya slippers on. But I wouldn't say that because people choose how they live and that's fine. No one has a right to judge another. " I don't think people are judging hun they're just trying to answer the OP's question ~ and the reality is for a lot of people he is the age of their children! Might be a maternal thing as I think women of a similar age do okay. | |||
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"No I just think it is very very sad. I could say the same about older people. Should be at home with a cuppa and ya slippers on. But I wouldn't say that because people choose how they live and that's fine. No one has a right to judge another. I don't think people are judging hun they're just trying to answer the OP's question ~ and the reality is for a lot of people he is the age of their children! Might be a maternal thing as I think women of a similar age do okay." . Yeah I get that and what your saying is right. I just think it's wrong to tell people they shouldn't be on here just because they're young. Obviously the young ones aren't for everyone but we all have a right to be here and have fun | |||
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"I won't play with men my sons age just not for me I prefer my age or older but there are lots of ladies who like younger " | |||
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"No I just think it is very very sad. I could say the same about older people. Should be at home with a cuppa and ya slippers on. But I wouldn't say that because people choose how they live and that's fine. No one has a right to judge another. " To be honest there are some days when being at home with my slippers on and a cup of tea seems very attractive. | |||
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"Ok another question. What are your mates doing this weekend....if they are doing something are you going with them? Or are you on here on a Friday night looking for a couple old enough to be your mum and dad or you out. Pre drinks first at someone's house then off to a pub then off to a club. What you doing tomorrow night? " Most of us have a social life away from fabs and swinging it is all about balance just do not see fabs as an easy way to have sex as it will be very disappointed x | |||
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"Ok another question. What are your mates doing this weekend....if they are doing something are you going with them? Or are you on here on a Friday night looking for a couple old enough to be your mum and dad or you out. Pre drinks first at someone's house then off to a pub then off to a club. What you doing tomorrow night? Most of us have a social life away from fabs and swinging it is all about balance just do not see fabs as an easy way to have sex as it will be very disappointed x" Men a lot older than the op see fab as an easy way to have sex then come crying on to the forums that they've been here ten minutes and they don't have a queue of nubile young women at their door | |||
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" We definitely think it is about attitude rather than age. Unfortunately a lot of young people are, well immature. However there's quite a few immature older people aswell! Once you are 18 then it is everyone's individual choice. Who are we to tell them otherwise?" If you don't mind me asking do you have children? If so may I ask how old they are? | |||
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"I not giving you a hard time mate just trying to put a grown up view on it. Ten years come back and enjoy..... You are 21 darling....please go out and have fun. As I said pre drinks, pub, club, fun fun. Time for this when you are older. Please enjoy your life. You are just starting out.......hey have a meal and do a runner be wicked be wild and have fun with your mates. " You might not be giving him a hard time but you're being incredibly patronising. | |||
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" We definitely think it is about attitude rather than age. Unfortunately a lot of young people are, well immature. However there's quite a few immature older people aswell! Once you are 18 then it is everyone's individual choice. Who are we to tell them otherwise? If you don't mind me asking do you have children? If so may I ask how old they are?" Yes we are parents. Don't see what our childrens age has got to do with it. If you are going where I think you are going then no we wouldn't be happy if it was our children. We would talk to them about it and try to persuade them to wait and decide later. But then they would be 18 it would be their choice. | |||
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"I not giving you a hard time mate just trying to put a grown up view on it. Ten years come back and enjoy..... You are 21 darling....please go out and have fun. As I said pre drinks, pub, club, fun fun. Time for this when you are older. Please enjoy your life. You are just starting out.......hey have a meal and do a runner be wicked be wild and have fun with your mates. You might not be giving him a hard time but you're being incredibly patronising. " u butting in again lol | |||
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"I not giving you a hard time mate just trying to put a grown up view on it. Ten years come back and enjoy..... You are 21 darling....please go out and have fun. As I said pre drinks, pub, club, fun fun. Time for this when you are older. Please enjoy your life. You are just starting out.......hey have a meal and do a runner be wicked be wild and have fun with your mates. You might not be giving him a hard time but you're being incredibly patronising. u butting in again lol " Yep! I can't help myself, us old uns always got something to say | |||
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"I note you are both 56 and 57 respectively ... I rest my case" Are you referring to us? You don't know when we started swinging. | |||
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"I not giving you a hard time mate just trying to put a grown up view on it. Ten years come back and enjoy..... You are 21 darling....please go out and have fun. As I said pre drinks, pub, club, fun fun. Time for this when you are older. Please enjoy your life. You are just starting out.......hey have a meal and do a runner be wicked be wild and have fun with your mates. You might not be giving him a hard time but you're being incredibly patronising. u butting in again lol Yep! I can't help myself, us old uns always got something to say " not to old for me lol oh and ur teeth still not arrived lol | |||
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"Out of curiosity I see posts stating 21 is too young shouldn't be on fab come back when older So what should be the minimum age of a member to join fab ?" Just a thought what about having a chatroom for the young swingers out there they can chat and meet others of the same age or something. Ps what happened to fabs for singles x | |||
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"Out of curiosity I see posts stating 21 is too young shouldn't be on fab come back when older So what should be the minimum age of a member to join fab ? Just a thought what about having a chatroom for the young swingers out there they can chat and meet others of the same age or something. Ps what happened to fabs for singles x" Personally I think that's a good idea a young chatroom. But keeping it open to older members too Most of my meets since I first joined for first time 2 yrs ago have been older women be it a year older or 10 yrs older. | |||
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"I not giving you a hard time mate just trying to put a grown up view on it. Ten years come back and enjoy..... You are 21 darling....please go out and have fun. As I said pre drinks, pub, club, fun fun. Time for this when you are older. Please enjoy your life. You are just starting out.......hey have a meal and do a runner be wicked be wild and have fun with your mates. You might not be giving him a hard time but you're being incredibly patronising. " I agree! If he wants to be on here at 21 looking for different experience then that's his choice. I didn't think there was a rule to say what age is too young.....or too OP you might want to look again at your profile and try to sell yourself better. Good luck | |||
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"I won't play with men my sons age just not for me I prefer my age or older but there are lots of ladies who like younger " Thats right! Don't scare the young ones away people. | |||
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"Ok so the majority of us swinging folk think a 21year old guy on here is acceptable. Would add normal but can't be arsed with the shit that would generate" I think it is a choice an adult can make,i have met lotsof young people at eureka's and at socials,all to talk to and they were very nice people,i have age block.minimun as i choose not to play with them myself,however they are here and its up to us older generation to welcome them and advise them,not judge them and say they dont belong,as far as im aware everybody is welcome x good luck OP | |||
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"I note you are both 56 and 57 respectively ... I rest my case Are you referring to us? You don't know when we started swinging." No I don't your right, nor do I care but I bet my mortgage you have kids or grand kids and you wouldn't be happy if they were on here at 21 and if you don't have kids you wouldn't be happy if they were on here if you some. Just being curious how many years ago did you start swinging. If you were the same age of the chap in question it must be 30 plus given your age. Did they have swinging sites 30 plus years ago, I don't think we had the internet....so pray tell when did you start and gosh how....if the net wasn't invented. "Get brew light fag and am prepared to be educated" | |||
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"Im in work thanks actualy but an going to blackpool tomormw for a might out belive it or not with my friends sorry am not off my tits on extacey in a club listeying to terrible music hate to not live up to wots expectations of young people today " This lad has a point, realistically he's getting a hard time and getting advice such as "go for a nice meal and do a runner"- yeah, stealing is always a brilliant idea I'm 23 and I don't see the problem with any age group being on here.. This lad is saying he works, has a social life & doesn't do drugs whilst being advised by someone older to break the law? As far as maturity goes, I know who I'd rather be involved with! | |||
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"Im in work thanks actualy but an going to blackpool tomormw for a might out belive it or not with my friends sorry am not off my tits on extacey in a club listeying to terrible music hate to not live up to wots expectations of young people today This lad has a point, realistically he's getting a hard time and getting advice such as "go for a nice meal and do a runner"- yeah, stealing is always a brilliant idea I'm 23 and I don't see the problem with any age group being on here.. This lad is saying he works, has a social life & doesn't do drugs whilst being advised by someone older to break the law? As far as maturity goes, I know who I'd rather be involved with! " agree entirely great point well made too Far too mature for your age lmao | |||
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"And experience goes a long way too x Totally agree! erica ur stunning very lucky chap ur hubby Thank you! " Totally agree there | |||
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"Im in work thanks actualy but an going to blackpool tomormw for a might out belive it or not with my friends sorry am not off my tits on extacey in a club listeying to terrible music hate to not live up to wots expectations of young people today Haha thank you This lad has a point, realistically he's getting a hard time and getting advice such as "go for a nice meal and do a runner"- yeah, stealing is always a brilliant idea I'm 23 and I don't see the problem with any age group being on here.. This lad is saying he works, has a social life & doesn't do drugs whilst being advised by someone older to break the law? As far as maturity goes, I know who I'd rather be involved with! agree entirely great point well made too Far too mature for your age lmao " Haha thank you | |||
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"Thank you ooft do me now my point exactly xx" No problem, being a wool I'm always going to defend a scouser x | |||
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"Im in work thanks actualy but an going to blackpool tomormw for a might out belive it or not with my friends sorry am not off my tits on extacey in a club listeying to terrible music hate to not live up to wots expectations of young people today Haha thank you This lad has a point, realistically he's getting a hard time and getting advice such as "go for a nice meal and do a runner"- yeah, stealing is always a brilliant idea I'm 23 and I don't see the problem with any age group being on here.. This lad is saying he works, has a social life & doesn't do drugs whilst being advised by someone older to break the law? As far as maturity goes, I know who I'd rather be involved with! agree entirely great point well made too Far too mature for your age lmao Haha thank you " Us youngsters are not all the stereotypical view some people have for our age group werel stick together lol | |||
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"Thank you ooft do me now my point exactly xx No problem, being a wool I'm always going to defend a scouser x" am wooling it myself tonight im over in new brighton haha xx | |||
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"Ok another question. What are your mates doing this weekend....if they are doing something are you going with them? Or are you on here on a Friday night looking for a couple old enough to be your mum and dad or you out. Pre drinks first at someone's house then off to a pub then off to a club. What you doing tomorrow night? " What if he doesn't have the money or have other responsibilities I used to look after my little brother and sis when I was OPs age so why does he have to ho get pissed at a weekend? Yes 21 is young yet I've seen 18 year old girls on here and on the fab list! So why are they not being judged the same? | |||
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"Hi OP, people have already suggested that you work on your profile I know but if as you have said you are here because you want to explore fantasies and fetishes then write about it, how can people know that if you don't say? Only a small minority of people use the forums - altho there are plenty who read them without contributing!! Liked the comment about opening the bidding, it shows you have a sense of humour and can take a joke which goes a long way for many, this is supposed to be about fun. It's true a lot of the more mature (in age not necessarily in attitude!) swingers will not contemplate meeting someone the same age as their kids but there are plenty of people on here younger and willing!! It can be tough as a single male whatever age you are so don't expect too much, if you get meets its a happy bonus whatever age you are. Good luck and have fun " Completely agree not even looking for meets atm but love the people here and love the mature open conversations x | |||
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"I note you are both 56 and 57 respectively ... I rest my case Are you referring to us? You don't know when we started swinging. No I don't your right, nor do I care but I bet my mortgage you have kids or grand kids and you wouldn't be happy if they were on here at 21 and if you don't have kids you wouldn't be happy if they were on here if you some. Just being curious how many years ago did you start swinging. If you were the same age of the chap in question it must be 30 plus given your age. Did they have swinging sites 30 plus years ago, I don't think we had the internet....so pray tell when did you start and gosh how....if the net wasn't invented. "Get brew light fag and am prepared to be educated" " contact magazines. the world didnt start with the invention of the internet, you know. in the times of contact mags, those that swung were less likely to be timewasters or chancers for the amount of time it took to organise anything by post lol | |||
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"You are the same age as my son who is at uni. Go and have fun with your mates and go clubbing as mine does. You are far to young to be on here FFS. Just because he's young doesn't mean he shouldn't be here. I'm young, does that mean I shouldn't be here either? Even though I belong in places like this. " you totally belong here hun x | |||
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"Ok so the majority of us swinging folk think a 21year old guy on here is acceptable. Would add normal but can't be arsed with the shit that would generate For god sake Shut up!!!!!!" after reading this whole thread, pammyandtommy seem to have a huge chip on his/her shoulder. patronising and immature. telling somone of 21 they shouldnt be here and should be having meals and running away. Pftt maybe the op should be knocking on peoples houses and running away too if thats how you see 21 year olds? Good luck op enjoy fab mate | |||
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"You are the same age as my son who is at uni. Go and have fun with your mates and go clubbing as mine does. You are far to young to be on here FFS." How rude ! Of course he is not too young If he conducts himself in the correct fashion as everyone else should then he is as welcome as you and I | |||
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"Ok so the majority of us swinging folk think a 21year old guy on here is acceptable. Would add normal but can't be arsed with the shit that would generate For god sake Shut up!!!!!! after reading this whole thread, pammyandtommy seem to have a huge chip on his/her shoulder. patronising and immature. telling somone of 21 they shouldnt be here and should be having meals and running away. Pftt maybe the op should be knocking on peoples houses and running away too if thats how you see 21 year olds? Good luck op enjoy fab mate" I agree I thibk they are just jealous thy can't get meets with young uns Oh ps Had to fab all your pics lol | |||
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"I not giving you a hard time mate just trying to put a grown up view on it. Ten years come back and enjoy..... You are 21 darling....please go out and have fun. As I said pre drinks, pub, club, fun fun. Time for this when you are older. Please enjoy your life. You are just starting out.......hey have a meal and do a runner be wicked be wild and have fun with your mates. " My fwb is 19 we go to local club about it once was a month (usually kink night) she has got a valanc and of a normal youth and a decent social life, she s not on here but we have met couples from here , you come across as very ageist! | |||
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"No I just think it is very very sad. I could say the same about older people. Should be at home with a cuppa and ya slippers on. But I wouldn't say that because people choose how they live and that's fine. No one has a right to judge another. " I agree young or old dont judge, just be happy in what you choose to do, swinging is for all ages not just the middle aged | |||
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"21 year old new to swinging vs a 35+ hardened swinger. there is no competition. I find, the older the man, the more he knows a woman's body. I would never meet a guy so young" And for everyone there is a type. 21 isn't for you (and maybe me) however the idea of someone hardened to swinging could quite easily translate as jaded so that doesn't appeal to everyone either. Age is no guarantee that a person will be good in bed, neither will years swinging Im afraid. Young and fearless or young and needing teaching appeals to lots of folks. | |||
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"Out of curiosity I see posts stating 21 is too young shouldn't be on fab come back when older So what should be the minimum age of a member to join fab ?" Well apparently the 21 year old needs to come back in 10 years so I guess 31 (bye then cos you're a mere toddler) Excellent, 31. Half the swingers would be gone overnight, as would probably more than half the fun! Amazing that people think swinging belongs to them because they're old. Almost feel like propositioning a few 21 year olds out of protest! | |||
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"I not giving you a hard time mate just trying to put a grown up view on it. Ten years come back and enjoy..... You are 21 darling....please go out and have fun. As I said pre drinks, pub, club, fun fun. Time for this when you are older. Please enjoy your life. You are just starting out.......hey have a meal and do a runner be wicked be wild and have fun with your mates. You might not be giving him a hard time but you're being incredibly patronising. " | |||
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"Ok so the majority of us swinging folk think a 21year old guy on here is acceptable. Would add normal but can't be arsed with the shit that would generate For god sake Shut up!!!!!! after reading this whole thread, pammyandtommy seem to have a huge chip on his/her shoulder. patronising and immature. telling somone of 21 they shouldnt be here and should be having meals and running away. Pftt maybe the op should be knocking on peoples houses and running away too if thats how you see 21 year olds? Good luck op enjoy fab mate I agree I thibk they are just jealous thy can't get meets with young uns Oh ps Had to fab all your pics lol" really dislike people using the word jealous for giving an opinion. a very valid reason they cant get meets with young uns, may well be because they dont WANT meets with young uns. has piss all to do with jealousy. just because you would drop your knickers for someone young enough to be your son, and V wouldnt, for arguments sake, has nothing to do with being jealous. | |||
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"My Moto - If you could have given birth to it, stay away from it xxx" I could have given birth to the men in their thirties that we mix with, I wouldn't be so rude as to call them it or assume that they were too young know if they wanted to have sex with me. | |||
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"Ok so the majority of us swinging folk think a 21year old guy on here is acceptable. Would add normal but can't be arsed with the shit that would generate For god sake Shut up!!!!!! after reading this whole thread, pammyandtommy seem to have a huge chip on his/her shoulder. patronising and immature. telling somone of 21 they shouldnt be here and should be having meals and running away. Pftt maybe the op should be knocking on peoples houses and running away too if thats how you see 21 year olds? Good luck op enjoy fab mate I agree I thibk they are just jealous thy can't get meets with young uns Oh ps Had to fab all your pics lol really dislike people using the word jealous for giving an opinion. a very valid reason they cant get meets with young uns, may well be because they dont WANT meets with young uns. has piss all to do with jealousy. just because you would drop your knickers for someone young enough to be your son, and V wouldnt, for arguments sake, has nothing to do with being jealous." I don't drop my knickers for anyone at all thanks ...... | |||
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"Ok so the majority of us swinging folk think a 21year old guy on here is acceptable. Would add normal but can't be arsed with the shit that would generate For god sake Shut up!!!!!! after reading this whole thread, pammyandtommy seem to have a huge chip on his/her shoulder. patronising and immature. telling somone of 21 they shouldnt be here and should be having meals and running away. Pftt maybe the op should be knocking on peoples houses and running away too if thats how you see 21 year olds? Good luck op enjoy fab mate I agree I thibk they are just jealous thy can't get meets with young uns Oh ps Had to fab all your pics lol really dislike people using the word jealous for giving an opinion. a very valid reason they cant get meets with young uns, may well be because they dont WANT meets with young uns. has piss all to do with jealousy. just because you would drop your knickers for someone young enough to be your son, and V wouldnt, for arguments sake, has nothing to do with being jealous. I don't drop my knickers for anyone at all thanks ......" you keep them pulled up? do you have them crotchless ones? must admit, they are very much easier lol | |||
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"Ok so the majority of us swinging folk think a 21year old guy on here is acceptable. Would add normal but can't be arsed with the shit that would generate For god sake Shut up!!!!!! after reading this whole thread, pammyandtommy seem to have a huge chip on his/her shoulder. patronising and immature. telling somone of 21 they shouldnt be here and should be having meals and running away. Pftt maybe the op should be knocking on peoples houses and running away too if thats how you see 21 year olds? Good luck op enjoy fab mate I agree I thibk they are just jealous thy can't get meets with young uns Oh ps Had to fab all your pics lol really dislike people using the word jealous for giving an opinion. a very valid reason they cant get meets with young uns, may well be because they dont WANT meets with young uns. has piss all to do with jealousy. just because you would drop your knickers for someone young enough to be your son, and V wouldnt, for arguments sake, has nothing to do with being jealous." Plus they may not want to meet younger people But there is no need to then try and bully young people into leaving fab | |||
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"Ok so the majority of us swinging folk think a 21year old guy on here is acceptable. Would add normal but can't be arsed with the shit that would generate For god sake Shut up!!!!!! after reading this whole thread, pammyandtommy seem to have a huge chip on his/her shoulder. patronising and immature. telling somone of 21 they shouldnt be here and should be having meals and running away. Pftt maybe the op should be knocking on peoples houses and running away too if thats how you see 21 year olds? Good luck op enjoy fab mate I agree I thibk they are just jealous thy can't get meets with young uns Oh ps Had to fab all your pics lol really dislike people using the word jealous for giving an opinion. a very valid reason they cant get meets with young uns, may well be because they dont WANT meets with young uns. has piss all to do with jealousy. just because you would drop your knickers for someone young enough to be your son, and V wouldnt, for arguments sake, has nothing to do with being jealous. I don't drop my knickers for anyone at all thanks ...... you keep them pulled up? do you have them crotchless ones? must admit, they are very much easier lol" Nope I just don't have sex ... | |||
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"I note you are both 56 and 57 respectively ... I rest my case Are you referring to us? You don't know when we started swinging. No I don't your right, nor do I care but I bet my mortgage you have kids or grand kids and you wouldn't be happy if they were on here at 21 and if you don't have kids you wouldn't be happy if they were on here if you some. Just being curious how many years ago did you start swinging. If you were the same age of the chap in question it must be 30 plus given your age. Did they have swinging sites 30 plus years ago, I don't think we had the internet....so pray tell when did you start and gosh how....if the net wasn't invented. "Get brew light fag and am prepared to be educated" " Yes we have children, no grandchildren yet. What I hope for them is that they have safe, happy, experimental sex lives in whatever way they choose with partners who enjoy the same as them. I'm not here to educate anyone and indeed there is no educating some however contact magazines were around in the seventies and eighties along with discreet adverts in the back of newspapers. | |||
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" But there is no need to then try and bully young people into leaving fab " tbf, i have to totally agree wit hyou on that, as much as its wrong to bully any legitimate member to leave. you dont have sex? what a waste.... lol | |||
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"You are the same age as my son who is at uni. Go and have fun with your mates and go clubbing as mine does. You are far to young to be on here FFS. Just because he's young doesn't mean he shouldn't be here. I'm young, does that mean I shouldn't be here either? Even though I belong in places like this. Oh please..... Get a life.. 21 on a swinging site sorry but you need to get out more. You belong in places like this. Places like what exactly, what are you saying. You need to get a life and get out with your mates, be young, be happy, get pissed, go to Ibiza and get wasted, live a little. Enjoy life and have fun with your mates" So based on that statement your on here because you don't have a life? | |||
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"I note you are both 56 and 57 respectively ... I rest my case Are you referring to us? You don't know when we started swinging. No I don't your right, nor do I care but I bet my mortgage you have kids or grand kids and you wouldn't be happy if they were on here at 21 and if you don't have kids you wouldn't be happy if they were on here if you some. Just being curious how many years ago did you start swinging. If you were the same age of the chap in question it must be 30 plus given your age. Did they have swinging sites 30 plus years ago, I don't think we had the internet....so pray tell when did you start and gosh how....if the net wasn't invented. "Get brew light fag and am prepared to be educated" Yes we have children, no grandchildren yet. What I hope for them is that they have safe, happy, experimental sex lives in whatever way they choose with partners who enjoy the same as them. I'm not here to educate anyone and indeed there is no educating some however contact magazines were around in the seventies and eighties along with discreet adverts in the back of newspapers. " the problem with that is, your children are now growing up in an age where most of their social interaction is carried out on electronic media. yes, when you were younger, the only way to meet people was to be sat down the local hip n happenin joint (see what i did there? be glad i didnt say the hop lol) but nowadays, entire parties can be organised without hearing the voice, let alone seeing the face, of the person you are going to see and spend a night drinking/partying with. thats the way of the world now. so, sexual contact and interaction si going the same way. no more hanging out the back of some young lass at the local disco no more chatting to the bloke at the bus stop and going back to his for a quick fumble and a walnut whip. for young uns now, that understand it all, there is vyber. kik, whatsapp and a multitude of other apps and websites to enable people to get hook ups without the need to go into town and get hammered first. so to say you hope your kids would never do it, is to say you hope your ids dont fit in with their peers | |||
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" But there is no need to then try and bully young people into leaving fab tbf, i have to totally agree wit hyou on that, as much as its wrong to bully any legitimate member to leave. you dont have sex? what a waste.... lol" Good lol I am always right Yes lol maybe a waste but I like it lol I would with someone exceptional | |||
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"You are the same age as my son who is at uni. Go and have fun with your mates and go clubbing as mine does. You are far to young to be on here FFS." What a stupid thing to say | |||
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" But there is no need to then try and bully young people into leaving fab tbf, i have to totally agree wit hyou on that, as much as its wrong to bully any legitimate member to leave. you dont have sex? what a waste.... lol Good lol I am always right Yes lol maybe a waste but I like it lol I would with someone exceptional " That us how it should be | |||
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" But there is no need to then try and bully young people into leaving fab tbf, i have to totally agree wit hyou on that, as much as its wrong to bully any legitimate member to leave. you dont have sex? what a waste.... lol Good lol I am always right Yes lol maybe a waste but I like it lol I would with someone exceptional That us how it should be " Yes | |||
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"You are the same age as my son who is at uni. Go and have fun with your mates and go clubbing as mine does. You are far to young to be on here FFS. Just because he's young doesn't mean he shouldn't be here. I'm young, does that mean I shouldn't be here either? Even though I belong in places like this. Oh please..... Get a life.. 21 on a swinging site sorry but you need to get out more. You belong in places like this. Places like what exactly, what are you saying. You need to get a life and get out with your mates, be young, be happy, get pissed, go to Ibiza and get wasted, live a little. Enjoy life and have fun with your mates" Lol have you heard yourself?? 'get a life' soooo what your saying is if you swing you have no life... You included? Think if swinging IS your life then yes you have no life! you can have your normal social life and swing... Think you should get out more by the sounds of it lol | |||
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"I note you are both 56 and 57 respectively ... I rest my case Are you referring to us? You don't know when we started swinging. No I don't your right, nor do I care but I bet my mortgage you have kids or grand kids and you wouldn't be happy if they were on here at 21 and if you don't have kids you wouldn't be happy if they were on here if you some. Just being curious how many years ago did you start swinging. If you were the same age of the chap in question it must be 30 plus given your age. Did they have swinging sites 30 plus years ago, I don't think we had the internet....so pray tell when did you start and gosh how....if the net wasn't invented. "Get brew light fag and am prepared to be educated" Yes we have children, no grandchildren yet. What I hope for them is that they have safe, happy, experimental sex lives in whatever way they choose with partners who enjoy the same as them. I'm not here to educate anyone and indeed there is no educating some however contact magazines were around in the seventies and eighties along with discreet adverts in the back of newspapers. the problem with that is, your children are now growing up in an age where most of their social interaction is carried out on electronic media. yes, when you were younger, the only way to meet people was to be sat down the local hip n happenin joint (see what i did there? be glad i didnt say the hop lol) but nowadays, entire parties can be organised without hearing the voice, let alone seeing the face, of the person you are going to see and spend a night drinking/partying with. thats the way of the world now. so, sexual contact and interaction si going the same way. no more hanging out the back of some young lass at the local disco no more chatting to the bloke at the bus stop and going back to his for a quick fumble and a walnut whip. for young uns now, that understand it all, there is vyber. kik, whatsapp and a multitude of other apps and websites to enable people to get hook ups without the need to go into town and get hammered first. so to say you hope your kids would never do it, is to say you hope your ids dont fit in with their peers" Eh? I didn't say I hope my kids never do it. They are very much kids of their time I'm not entirely sure what you're trying to imply about me or my children here. | |||
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"No I just think it is very very sad. I could say the same about older people. Should be at home with a cuppa and ya slippers on. But I wouldn't say that because people choose how they live and that's fine. No one has a right to judge another. " Should be looking after your grandkids and reading books.... How do you feel about that rude right? Yeah my point exactly | |||
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"No I just think it is very very sad. I could say the same about older people. Should be at home with a cuppa and ya slippers on. But I wouldn't say that because people choose how they live and that's fine. No one has a right to judge another. Should be looking after your grandkids and reading books.... How do you feel about that rude right? Yeah my point exactly" I haven't got any grandchildren what am I going to do? | |||
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"Lol I remember getting those, writing letters and sending off poloroids haha. It took forever to get replies " I used to work for a publication that ran contact ads on the back pages, and had.box numbers for replies, you wouldn't believe what people sent each other. | |||
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"I Still have nights out with friends regular and all the other 'normal' stuff young people do. Fail to see how being on here would prevent that from happening. " | |||
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"Lol I remember getting those, writing letters and sending off poloroids haha. It took forever to get replies I used to work for a publication that ran contact ads on the back pages, and had.box numbers for replies, you wouldn't believe what people sent each other. " Wow that's the worlds best job | |||
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" But there is no need to then try and bully young people into leaving fab tbf, i have to totally agree wit hyou on that, as much as its wrong to bully any legitimate member to leave. you dont have sex? what a waste.... lol Good lol I am always right Yes lol maybe a waste but I like it lol I would with someone exceptional " you have boobs, so law of nature suggests even when your wrong, your right lol | |||
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"Ok so the majority of us swinging folk think a 21year old guy on here is acceptable. Would add normal but can't be arsed with the shit that would generate For god sake Shut up!!!!!! after reading this whole thread, pammyandtommy seem to have a huge chip on his/her shoulder. patronising and immature. telling somone of 21 they shouldnt be here and should be having meals and running away. Pftt maybe the op should be knocking on peoples houses and running away too if thats how you see 21 year olds? Good luck op enjoy fab mate I agree I thibk they are just jealous thy can't get meets with young uns Oh ps Had to fab all your pics lol really dislike people using the word jealous for giving an opinion. a very valid reason they cant get meets with young uns, may well be because they dont WANT meets with young uns. has piss all to do with jealousy. just because you would drop your knickers for someone young enough to be your son, and V wouldnt, for arguments sake, has nothing to do with being jealous." They didn't just say they didn't want to meet young people they said if you bothered to read the whole thread that is was not acceptable for a 21yr old to be on fab!? And to also 'get a life' lol | |||
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"No I just think it is very very sad. I could say the same about older people. Should be at home with a cuppa and ya slippers on. But I wouldn't say that because people choose how they live and that's fine. No one has a right to judge another. Should be looking after your grandkids and reading books.... How do you feel about that rude right? Yeah my point exactly I haven't got any grandchildren what am I going to do? " Swingggggggggg | |||
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"I note you are both 56 and 57 respectively ... I rest my case Are you referring to us? You don't know when we started swinging. No I don't your right, nor do I care but I bet my mortgage you have kids or grand kids and you wouldn't be happy if they were on here at 21 and if you don't have kids you wouldn't be happy if they were on here if you some. Just being curious how many years ago did you start swinging. If you were the same age of the chap in question it must be 30 plus given your age. Did they have swinging sites 30 plus years ago, I don't think we had the internet....so pray tell when did you start and gosh how....if the net wasn't invented. "Get brew light fag and am prepared to be educated" Yes we have children, no grandchildren yet. What I hope for them is that they have safe, happy, experimental sex lives in whatever way they choose with partners who enjoy the same as them. I'm not here to educate anyone and indeed there is no educating some however contact magazines were around in the seventies and eighties along with discreet adverts in the back of newspapers. the problem with that is, your children are now growing up in an age where most of their social interaction is carried out on electronic media. yes, when you were younger, the only way to meet people was to be sat down the local hip n happenin joint (see what i did there? be glad i didnt say the hop lol) but nowadays, entire parties can be organised without hearing the voice, let alone seeing the face, of the person you are going to see and spend a night drinking/partying with. thats the way of the world now. so, sexual contact and interaction si going the same way. no more hanging out the back of some young lass at the local disco no more chatting to the bloke at the bus stop and going back to his for a quick fumble and a walnut whip. for young uns now, that understand it all, there is vyber. kik, whatsapp and a multitude of other apps and websites to enable people to get hook ups without the need to go into town and get hammered first. so to say you hope your kids would never do it, is to say you hope your ids dont fit in with their peers Eh? I didn't say I hope my kids never do it. They are very much kids of their time I'm not entirely sure what you're trying to imply about me or my children here." not implying anything about anyone. you said the OP should be out living his life. im saying the vast majority of young peoples lives, these days, are lived out over electronic media, whether it be facebook, myspace and any number of social media outlets, and it stands to reason romantic, or sexual liason can be gained and organised over these media. so, whether it be fab, POV or wherever, electronic contact is at the core of most, not all, but most, young people lives. | |||
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"No I just think it is very very sad. I could say the same about older people. Should be at home with a cuppa and ya slippers on. But I wouldn't say that because people choose how they live and that's fine. No one has a right to judge another. Should be looking after your grandkids and reading books.... How do you feel about that rude right? Yeah my point exactly I haven't got any grandchildren what am I going to do? " Swingggggggggg | |||
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" They didn't just say they didn't want to meet young people they said if you bothered to read the whole thread that is was not acceptable for a 21yr old to be on fab!? And to also 'get a life' lol " i know, but that still doesnt equate to jealousy though, does it? | |||
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"Having read nearly all the replies to the OP if Its a safe statement to say that no one's is saying he shouldn't be on here, what is being said by the majority is that they wouldn't want to meet him. His original post was to claim he was being ignored because of his age, this may be partially true, but everybody has free will and a right to choose who they will meet. People mature at different ages and by experience (I teach at 6th form & FE college) the girl's mature at an earlier age than boys. Perhaps he should re-read his profile and consider a rewrite." No one? Have you read the same thread as me? One couple have said he's too young to be here and then continued to patronise the OP Maybe you need to go back and read ALL the answers | |||
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" They didn't just say they didn't want to meet young people they said if you bothered to read the whole thread that is was not acceptable for a 21yr old to be on fab!? And to also 'get a life' lol i know, but that still doesnt equate to jealousy though, does it?" Well who knows? Unless you know them in person who are you to say they aren't jealous that there over 50 and they have some kind of chip on there shoulder because the op are just starting out again in there swinging lives....? And btw I'm not saying this is the case but who's to know | |||
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" They didn't just say they didn't want to meet young people they said if you bothered to read the whole thread that is was not acceptable for a 21yr old to be on fab!? And to also 'get a life' lol i know, but that still doesnt equate to jealousy though, does it? Well who knows? Unless you know them in person who are you to say they aren't jealous that there over 50 and they have some kind of chip on there shoulder because the op are just starting out again in there swinging lives....? And btw I'm not saying this is the case but who's to know " *know them personally | |||
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" They didn't just say they didn't want to meet young people they said if you bothered to read the whole thread that is was not acceptable for a 21yr old to be on fab!? And to also 'get a life' lol i know, but that still doesnt equate to jealousy though, does it? Well who knows? Unless you know them in person who are you to say they aren't jealous that there over 50 and they have some kind of chip on there shoulder because the op are just starting out again in there swinging lives....? And btw I'm not saying this is the case but who's to know " Lots of older people are jealous of young people. | |||
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" They didn't just say they didn't want to meet young people they said if you bothered to read the whole thread that is was not acceptable for a 21yr old to be on fab!? And to also 'get a life' lol i know, but that still doesnt equate to jealousy though, does it? Well who knows? Unless you know them in person who are you to say they aren't jealous that there over 50 and they have some kind of chip on there shoulder because the op are just starting out again in there swinging lives....? And btw I'm not saying this is the case but who's to know Lots of older people are jealous of young people. " How do you come to that assumption | |||
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"In short then op, yes your age will go against you and you need to improve your profile. All this is very interesting, my partner is 21 and we have had no problem getting meets especially with the older generation. The right people are out there you just need to find them " Unfortunately, I think there's a bias against younger guys and younger girls are more than welcome on fab. | |||
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" They didn't just say they didn't want to meet young people they said if you bothered to read the whole thread that is was not acceptable for a 21yr old to be on fab!? And to also 'get a life' lol i know, but that still doesnt equate to jealousy though, does it? Well who knows? Unless you know them in person who are you to say they aren't jealous that there over 50 and they have some kind of chip on there shoulder because the op are just starting out again in there swinging lives....? And btw I'm not saying this is the case but who's to know Lots of older people are jealous of young people. How do you come to that assumption " Most people just know that to be the case. on occasion i have met a very young man with a very old man, even when they didnt actualy admit they were jealous of the much younger man it was so obvious they were. | |||
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"I note you are both 56 and 57 respectively ... I rest my case Are you referring to us? You don't know when we started swinging. No I don't your right, nor do I care but I bet my mortgage you have kids or grand kids and you wouldn't be happy if they were on here at 21 and if you don't have kids you wouldn't be happy if they were on here if you some. Just being curious how many years ago did you start swinging. If you were the same age of the chap in question it must be 30 plus given your age. Did they have swinging sites 30 plus years ago, I don't think we had the internet....so pray tell when did you start and gosh how....if the net wasn't invented. "Get brew light fag and am prepared to be educated" Yes we have children, no grandchildren yet. What I hope for them is that they have safe, happy, experimental sex lives in whatever way they choose with partners who enjoy the same as them. I'm not here to educate anyone and indeed there is no educating some however contact magazines were around in the seventies and eighties along with discreet adverts in the back of newspapers. the problem with that is, your children are now growing up in an age where most of their social interaction is carried out on electronic media. yes, when you were younger, the only way to meet people was to be sat down the local hip n happenin joint (see what i did there? be glad i didnt say the hop lol) but nowadays, entire parties can be organised without hearing the voice, let alone seeing the face, of the person you are going to see and spend a night drinking/partying with. thats the way of the world now. so, sexual contact and interaction si going the same way. no more hanging out the back of some young lass at the local disco no more chatting to the bloke at the bus stop and going back to his for a quick fumble and a walnut whip. for young uns now, that understand it all, there is vyber. kik, whatsapp and a multitude of other apps and websites to enable people to get hook ups without the need to go into town and get hammered first. so to say you hope your kids would never do it, is to say you hope your ids dont fit in with their peers Eh? I didn't say I hope my kids never do it. They are very much kids of their time I'm not entirely sure what you're trying to imply about me or my children here. not implying anything about anyone. you said the OP should be out living his life. im saying the vast majority of young peoples lives, these days, are lived out over electronic media, whether it be facebook, myspace and any number of social media outlets, and it stands to reason romantic, or sexual liason can be gained and organised over these media. so, whether it be fab, POV or wherever, electronic contact is at the core of most, not all, but most, young people lives. " Nope! I think that the amount of quotes and re-quotes has lead to you thinking I said something I didn't | |||
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"No I just think it is very very sad. I could say the same about older people. Should be at home with a cuppa and ya slippers on. But I wouldn't say that because people choose how they live and that's fine. No one has a right to judge another. Should be looking after your grandkids and reading books.... How do you feel about that rude right? Yeah my point exactly I haven't got any grandchildren what am I going to do? Swingggggggggg " yea but I've missed the three month window in my life when its acceptable for me to do that | |||
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" They didn't just say they didn't want to meet young people they said if you bothered to read the whole thread that is was not acceptable for a 21yr old to be on fab!? And to also 'get a life' lol i know, but that still doesnt equate to jealousy though, does it? Well who knows? Unless you know them in person who are you to say they aren't jealous that there over 50 and they have some kind of chip on there shoulder because the op are just starting out again in there swinging lives....? And btw I'm not saying this is the case but who's to know Lots of older people are jealous of young people. How do you come to that assumption " Just another sweeping generalisation! Lord, I wouldn't want to be young again if I was paid to be!! My life is the best its ever been - if I could stop the clock now for a few years and enjoy it as it is now I would seriously consider it but being young again - NO WAY! | |||
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"Points against OP:- 1 He is a single male on a site where there are at least 10 single males for every female. 2 He has a really bad profile 3 He is youngyoung Don't think he is being ignored on here any more than every other single male who can't be bothered to write a good profile. Age is against him but is the minor factor in the equation " Lots of couples can't be bothered either tho? I've seen many, many crappy ones from couples and females, surely everyone should be bothered, not just the guys? | |||
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"Points against OP:- 1 He is a single male on a site where there are at least 10 single males for every female. 2 He has a really bad profile 3 He is youngyoung Don't think he is being ignored on here any more than every other single male who can't be bothered to write a good profile. Age is against him but is the minor factor in the equation Lots of couples can't be bothered either tho? I've seen many, many crappy ones from couples and females, surely everyone should be bothered, not just the guys? " | |||
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"Points against OP:- 1 He is a single male on a site where there are at least 10 single males for every female. 2 He has a really bad profile 3 He is youngyoung Don't think he is being ignored on here any more than every other single male who can't be bothered to write a good profile. Age is against him but is the minor factor in the equation Lots of couples can't be bothered either tho? I've seen many, many crappy ones from couples and females, surely everyone should be bothered, not just the guys? " That's very true. But ranty profile's get you no where and the OP's is very short and ranty. Have you read? | |||
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"Points against OP:- 1 He is a single male on a site where there are at least 10 single males for every female. 2 He has a really bad profile 3 He is youngyoung Don't think he is being ignored on here any more than every other single male who can't be bothered to write a good profile. Age is against him but is the minor factor in the equation Lots of couples can't be bothered either tho? I've seen many, many crappy ones from couples and females, surely everyone should be bothered, not just the guys? That's very true. But ranty profile's get you no where and the OP's is very short and ranty. Have you read? " It's not a profile that is inviting, odd really as the op has come across differently and more favourably in this posting. | |||
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"Points against OP:- 1 He is a single male on a site where there are at least 10 single males for every female. 2 He has a really bad profile 3 He is youngyoung Don't think he is being ignored on here any more than every other single male who can't be bothered to write a good profile. Age is against him but is the minor factor in the equation Lots of couples can't be bothered either tho? I've seen many, many crappy ones from couples and females, surely everyone should be bothered, not just the guys? That's very true. But ranty profile's get you no where and the OP's is very short and ranty. Have you read? It's not a profile that is inviting, odd really as the op has come across differently and more favourably in this posting." almost certain that wasnt like that last night. could be wrong though. it was late. looks like someone isnt as mature as he comes across as. and thats not a slight on the OPs age, but more on attitude. have seen people twice his age spit the dummy and write a ranty profile similar ah well, shooting oneself in the foot | |||
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"You are the same age as my son who is at uni. Go and have fun with your mates and go clubbing as mine does. You are far to young to be on here FFS." I guess being old does have one advantage in that we aren't told we shouldn't be here..... Well not for age related reasons anyhow | |||
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"Lots of couples can't be bothered either tho? I've seen many, many crappy ones from couples and females, surely everyone should be bothered, not just the guys? " Buyers market, a female aged 20 - 49 could put up a profile with no pics saying just "Available" and would get 50+ messages probably telling her how her profile struck a chord and her pictures are so sexy! Couples well there are approximately the same number of couples looking for couples as there are couples! Single guys looking for single females or couples have to do a lot more work, when the day comes that single females outnumber the single guys 10 to 1 then it will be easier for 21 year old men to score. | |||
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"I think you'll find that the OP has had a re write after reading some of the patronising comments on this thread. That wasn't his original profile!!" I don't blame him for re-writing, in that case, but patronising folk with idiotic viewpoints should push him to do that. That's exactly what I was referring to in my first post up there whwn I said the last thing we need is people scaring off decent single males. | |||
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"I think you'll find that the OP has had a re write after reading some of the patronising comments on this thread. That wasn't his original profile!! I don't blame him for re-writing, in that case, but patronising folk with idiotic viewpoints should push him to do that. That's exactly what I was referring to in my first post up there whwn I said the last thing we need is people scaring off decent single males. " exactly. There's room on Fab for people of all ages and no one needs to be patronising towards anyone regardless of their young age! | |||
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"Does it make a difference he has changed his profile? Now he has got some interest anyone reading his profile will now see him in a different light, he did himself no favours with the tone and attitude of the new profile. Because you do not get what you want the mature attitude is to find out why you cannot have it examine why you cannot have it, not throw teddy in the corner and act like a spoilt brat." And was it mature for a couple in their 50's to tell him he shouldn't be on here, to get a life, to go and get d*unk and shag on a balcony? Oh and not forgetting going for a meal then running off without paying! Hmm maturity doesn't always come with age it seems!; | |||
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"Does it make a difference he has changed his profile? Now he has got some interest anyone reading his profile will now see him in a different light, he did himself no favours with the tone and attitude of the new profile. Because you do not get what you want the mature attitude is to find out why you cannot have it examine why you cannot have it, not throw teddy in the corner and act like a spoilt brat. And was it mature for a couple in their 50's to tell him he shouldn't be on here, to get a life, to go and get d*unk and shag on a balcony? Oh and not forgetting going for a meal then running off without paying! Hmm maturity doesn't always come with age it seems!; " Think this proves that maturity does not always come with age sometimes it's lost! | |||
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"Lots of couples can't be bothered either tho? I've seen many, many crappy ones from couples and females, surely everyone should be bothered, not just the guys? Buyers market, a female aged 20 - 49 could put up a profile with no pics saying just "Available" and would get 50+ messages probably telling her how her profile struck a chord and her pictures are so sexy! Couples well there are approximately the same number of couples looking for couples as there are couples! Single guys looking for single females or couples have to do a lot more work, when the day comes that single females outnumber the single guys 10 to 1 then it will be easier for 21 year old men to score. " That's very true, we had a hundred messages within an hour so had to act with filtering. It changed how we communicate but not how we behave. It seems a bit arrogant to just think as a couple or woman that only men should be compelled to make an effort. I would never want a physical encounter with someone(s) who saw it as such. Just to be clear, not saying this as you being arrogant, just the point you made strikes me that's how I'd feel if I was a guy and saw a crappy profile listing nothing but demands. Just as we couples can be choosy, so can decent blokes who want something a bit less one-sided. | |||
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"No one has time for younger people on here if your looking to spice shit up wouldnt young attitude and energy be the ideal solution well if anyone in the north west agrees then here i am " Why I don't pick guys your age - most come on here with the attitude that it's instashag site and not swingers site, and for that I'll pick the ones that are patient and non pushy | |||
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" That's very true, we had a hundred messages within an hour so had to act with filtering. It changed how we communicate but not how we behave. It seems a bit arrogant to just think as a couple or woman that only men should be compelled to make an effort. I would never want a physical encounter with someone(s) who saw it as such. Just to be clear, not saying this as you being arrogant, just the point you made strikes me that's how I'd feel if I was a guy and saw a crappy profile listing nothing but demands. Just as we couples can be choosy, so can decent blokes who want something a bit less one-sided." without the help of meeting face to face in a first instance, a profile is your main selling point, whether it be the wording or the pictures, they all go towards showing others how you perceive yourself, or how you want others to perceive you. thats why i cringe a little when people ask for specifics as to how to improve their chances. robbing, say, our profile wouldnt work for you, and vice versa. if you arent very creative then dont try to be so, just be honest and that SHOULD be enough. so agree with you whole heartedly | |||
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"No one has time for younger people on here if your looking to spice shit up wouldnt young attitude and energy be the ideal solution well if anyone in the north west agrees then here i am Why I don't pick guys your age - most come on here with the attitude that it's instashag site and not swingers site, and for that I'll pick the ones that are patient and non pushy " that has NOTHING to do with being young, and everything to do with attitude. | |||
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"And another thing....you want to fulfil your fantasies!!!!!! What are you talking about. You fulfil everything now at 21 what you got to look forward to by the time you are 25. Don't rush your youth away seriously, time enough to be on a site like this when you have done that and got the tee shirt. Go and book a holiday and have sex with young 21 year olds how don't want a nice meal and few drinks and a shag on the balcony because it's "daring" " I agree with your comments about living whilst your young... But this is a website not a life sentence! Sure people both young and old on here also have a real life and do go and do the things you mention as well! | |||
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"Youth isn't a crime and there's no need to be patronising and rude because young person is doing exactly the same as older people. It's tough for single men, it's even tougher for young single men, stick it out, grow a thick skin and get involved, good luck. " +1 | |||
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"I not giving you a hard time mate just trying to put a grown up view on it. Ten years come back and enjoy..... You are 21 darling....please go out and have fun. As I said pre drinks, pub, club, fun fun. Time for this when you are older. Please enjoy your life. You are just starting out.......hey have a meal and do a runner be wicked be wild and have fun with your mates. You might not be giving him a hard time but you're being incredibly patronising. u butting in again lol Yep! I can't help myself, us old uns always got something to say not to old for me lol oh and ur teeth still not arrived lol " Well I caught the postman using them to bite the dog back so I've rinsed them round with a drop of bleach and popped them in a jiffy bag for you, if you haven't got them by Wednesday that bugger in the sorting office will be out the back giving himslef a pretend blow job with them again | |||
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