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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Can single women have a 'healthy' long term 'relationship' with this site? Or does it deteriorate overtime and 'do' they become disillusioned and to a certain extent bitter about being in here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would say yes some can,i was here a year as couple,now a year as a single and will stay that for forseeable future,i like the social and n.s.a sex and until i think otherwise i be sticking around  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I did meet a woman at a club once,who been swinging few years,made a few judgements,as i told her,im enjoying myself at the moment,i live for today,i value peoples advice sometimes,she gave impression she was bitter though,everybody is different |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I did meet a woman at a club once,who been swinging few years,made a few judgements,as i told her,im enjoying myself at the moment,i live for today,i value peoples advice sometimes,she gave impression she was bitter though,everybody is different"
I think the secret is to stop doing it once it becomes a chore or makes you unhappy, I just get the impression some people aren't very happy to be on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I did meet a woman at a club once,who been swinging few years,made a few judgements,as i told her,im enjoying myself at the moment,i live for today,i value peoples advice sometimes,she gave impression she was bitter though,everybody is different
I think the secret is to stop doing it once it becomes a chore or makes you unhappy, I just get the impression some people aren't very happy to be on here "
Not me at mo i still got L-plates,im luvving it,not loving as dont do that kind of thing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I did meet a woman at a club once,who been swinging few years,made a few judgements,as i told her,im enjoying myself at the moment,i live for today,i value peoples advice sometimes,she gave impression she was bitter though,everybody is different
I think the secret is to stop doing it once it becomes a chore or makes you unhappy, I just get the impression some people aren't very happy to be on here "
I get that impression too sometimes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Dont think that was what the poster meant!!
It wasn't, but I get the gist of what she ment "
i know that's not what you asked, but is looking at things on the other end too. Unhealthy relationship with fab prob mean unhealthy relationship out of fab |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ive only been here six months and now think it impossible for me to have a vanilla relationship...
so yes.
Is that ultimately a good or bad thing "
ive no idea.... I guess it restricts the ease of finding a suitable match for a relationship if they need to be a swinger....  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Far more men get bitter than women in my experience.
It's the men who often don't get what they want whereas women just contend with too much attention. "
And how many women have you chatted to?? I suppose men do get bitter as well but that's not what the post is about |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Far more men get bitter than women in my experience.
It's the men who often don't get what they want whereas women just contend with too much attention. "
i dont get too much attention. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Far more men get bitter than women in my experience.
It's the men who often don't get what they want whereas women just contend with too much attention.
i dont get too much attention."
I think it's a myth that all women get loads of attention and messages in here, profiles that are well written and have good filters tend to get less messages than over the top whining profiles with crap filters |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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I have been here a few years, loved the site and the community.
I have used the site in a few different ways and changed that to suit my needs at the time.
I am happy here, maybe I post in the forums and an a little attached to fab but it serves me how I like and suits me at this point.
If I feel it's not working out we will split up but for now we are living happily together......
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had a few really crap meets and that put me off meeting. Not bitter at all, very happy to not waste my time meeting anyone on my own. I meet on my other profile instead and have loads of fun.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Things like ' meet today ' draw ridiculous attention...
normally i would get 20-30 messages a day. Quite normal/average i think.
with meet today on it goes up to 100+ therefore pointless |
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I think it's a myth that all women get loads of attention and messages in here, profiles that are well written and have good filters tend to get less messages than over the top whining profiles with crap filters "
I changed mine today to add that I'm not meeting and my usual influx of message has disappeared and been replaced with just one guy that has stated that he knows I'm not meeting but is local so would like to be a friendship leading to a social when I do start meeting again. Should have done this sooner. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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I think it's a myth that all women get loads of attention and messages in here, profiles that are well written and have good filters tend to get less messages than over the top whining profiles with crap filters
I changed mine today to add that I'm not meeting and my usual influx of message has disappeared and been replaced with just one guy that has stated that he knows I'm not meeting but is local so would like to be a friendship leading to a social when I do start meeting again. Should have done this sooner. "
Nice one, I think if more people followed your example there would be no need for these aggressive profiles  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have been on the site for about three years now and believe I have a very healthy relationship with it. I love the social side to swinging and have had some fantastic meets and plan to socialise and have fun a lot more in the future so no not disillusioned or bitter in any way |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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Certainly not disillusioned or bitter, but I do feel frustrated at times, not in the sexual sense (has been known though....) Mainly by people who have clearly not read my profile or just admit to chancing their arm, just in case I will make an exception just for them!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've enjoyed Fab more, since joining the forum  . My filters prevent much unwarranted and unwanted attention. As for the remainder - I can sort out the chaff from the wheat |
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