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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What's the best way for a single male to approach fab?
I've tried the nice/pleasant approach which so far has lead me to gain broad shoulders & learn how to accept rejection without being given a chance.
Is the history of single males on fab that disastrous that others on here won't give them a chance?
Any help and advice much appreciated |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Divorce? Largest demographic here: single men. You're up against a huge volume. Your marriage status is a huge complication for many. If you have your wife's permission then that may help. Cheaters aren't swingers per se.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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honesty is the best policy and people can make an informed decision for themselve. What I do find a bit confusing is that you state you have been here before and know how it works. So surely your OP is not needed. x  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"honesty is the best policy and people can make an informed decision for themselve. What I do find a bit confusing is that you state you have been here before and know how it works. So surely your OP is not needed. x "
OP? Sorry for being thick lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"honesty is the best policy and people can make an informed decision for themselve. What I do find a bit confusing is that you state you have been here before and know how it works. So surely your OP is not needed. x
OP? Sorry for being thick lol"
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"What's the best way for a single male to approach fab?
I've tried the nice/pleasant approach which so far has lead me to gain broad shoulders & learn how to accept rejection without being given a chance.
Is the history of single males on fab that disastrous that others on here won't give them a chance?
Any help and advice much appreciated"
a) open mind, no expectations....
b) you're not actually single.. and by saying so isn't going to help |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"honesty is the best policy and people can make an informed decision for themselve. What I do find a bit confusing is that you state you have been here before and know how it works. So surely your OP is not needed. x "
perish the thought its an attention seeking post  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Honesty only works so far, as already been said being married is a huge complication for many so that will count you out. Think about it why would they risk meeting an attached person when there are a couple of thousand genuinely single chaps out there. A cheater is still a cheater to many.
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"Honesty only works so far, as already been said being married is a huge complication for many so that will count you out. Think about it why would they risk meeting an attached person when there are a couple of thousand genuinely single chaps out there. A cheater is still a cheater to many.
Sorry "
Yeah this has been discussed before and the conclusion was that even though you are being honest about your sexuality to the people on fab, you aren't being honest with the person in your life who really counts and needs to know. |
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"Honesty only works so far, as already been said being married is a huge complication for many so that will count you out. Think about it why would they risk meeting an attached person when there are a couple of thousand genuinely single chaps out there. A cheater is still a cheater to many.
Sorry
Yeah this has been discussed before and the conclusion was that even though you are being honest about your sexuality to the people on fab, you aren't being honest with the person in your life who really counts and needs to know."
We're on here because we are looking for sexuality slightly different from the vanilla world. Even having multiple partners in a relationship is frowned upon in the vanilla world. Your particular sexuality could be that you seek other partners, like a person with bi urges seeks men. It may not mean there is anything wrong with your relationship with your partner. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I put that I am married as I want to be as honest and open as possible. I thought that better than not declaring the fact??
Thanks for your reply"
Continue the (selective) honesty because many of us aren't stupid and we'd soon work it out, so why waste our time AND yours in "hope". So again I say stick with your "honesty". |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Honesty only works so far, as already been said being married is a huge complication for many so that will count you out. Think about it why would they risk meeting an attached person when there are a couple of thousand genuinely single chaps out there. A cheater is still a cheater to many.
Sorry
Yeah this has been discussed before and the conclusion was that even though you are being honest about your sexuality to the people on fab, you aren't being honest with the person in your life who really counts and needs to know.
We're on here because we are looking for sexuality slightly different from the vanilla world. Even having multiple partners in a relationship is frowned upon in the vanilla world. Your particular sexuality could be that you seek other partners, like a person with bi urges seeks men. It may not mean there is anything wrong with your relationship with your partner."
so that justifies cheating??
We've had long periods of no sex whats so ever within our relationship and it didn't kill me  we were honest with each other.. that saved us.
If there is nothing wrong with your relationship, sit and talk to her and tell her you are unfulfilled sexually and have already looked elsewhere...
Because whether you actually have sex or not with others, the fact you hid this from her says a lot about the sort of person you are, and your loyalty to someone you are supposed to love. |
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