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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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evening all =)
just a quick one....i've been chatting to a few folk about recieving oral as a bloke....apparently i'm in a minority as far as a can gather because i dont particularly like it....i'd rather open a good book to be honest and i'm just throwing the question out there to see what you guys think? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Don't think I could play of I couldn't suck his willy lol
Would not feel right to me "
wow, almost mandatory for you then.....
it's not that i dislike it particularly....it just does zero for me....it feels like a lull in the excitement...like 'oh, we gotta have this bit now...lets get it out the way then do something fun' |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Guy on guy??
sorry, no....badly written title...i wanted opinions from guys....i meant from women =) thats just bad penmanship from me there"
Thought I best clarify lol
Well we are often told wish my ... Sucked like her lol
No I am not a dyson!!
It is something I enjoy and not had any experience of a guy not cunming from it...
Horses for courses I guess  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't think I could play of I couldn't suck his willy lol
Would not feel right to me
Aww for fecks sake! First the hold ups, now this! "
One turn deserves another |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Guy on guy??
sorry, no....badly written title...i wanted opinions from guys....i meant from women =) thats just bad penmanship from me there
Thought I best clarify lol
Well we are often told wish my ... Sucked like her lol
No I am not a dyson!!
It is something I enjoy and not had any experience of a guy not cunming from it...
Horses for courses I guess "
i get the 'you haven't tried one from me' line from ladies sometimes...i hate when they do that because it's invariably a crashing dissapointment when guess what? ...yup...it feels like a blowjob....yawn =(
like you say.....horses for courses i guess and they just aint my course.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't think I could play of I couldn't suck his willy lol
Would not feel right to me
Aww for fecks sake! First the hold ups, now this!
One turn deserves another"
It ain't helping, having the pics you got either! Mine are hidden by the way, available on request, face on cam if you felt the need to be put off yer dinner some evening |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"i wanted opinions from guys....i meant from women
A mouth is a mouth "
wow, your prepared to take a bj from anything with a mouth? poen season for you on all species then lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"i wanted opinions from guys....i meant from women
A mouth is a mouth
wow, your prepared to take a bj from anything with a mouth? poen season for you on all species then lol"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Guy on guy??
sorry, no....badly written title...i wanted opinions from guys....i meant from women =) thats just bad penmanship from me there
Thought I best clarify lol
Well we are often told wish my ... Sucked like her lol
No I am not a dyson!!
It is something I enjoy and not had any experience of a guy not cunming from it...
Horses for courses I guess
i get the 'you haven't tried one from me' line from ladies sometimes...i hate when they do that because it's invariably a crashing dissapointment when guess what? ...yup...it feels like a blowjob....yawn =(
like you say.....horses for courses i guess and they just aint my course...."
I do what's said on the tin as it were and yep with such a negative yawn attitude not surprised you don't enjoy it  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Guy on guy??
sorry, no....badly written title...i wanted opinions from guys....i meant from women =) thats just bad penmanship from me there
Thought I best clarify lol
Well we are often told wish my ... Sucked like her lol
No I am not a dyson!!
It is something I enjoy and not had any experience of a guy not cunming from it...
Horses for courses I guess
i get the 'you haven't tried one from me' line from ladies sometimes...i hate when they do that because it's invariably a crashing dissapointment when guess what? ...yup...it feels like a blowjob....yawn =(
like you say.....horses for courses i guess and they just aint my course....
I do what's said on the tin as it were and yep with such a negative yawn attitude not surprised you don't enjoy it "
sorry, that wasnt aimed at you....was just a general sweeping statement....something i've come across over the years is all
and maybe your right....i've tried and tried to enjoy them over the years but just never have so maybe it has become a negative now....interesting. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"i wanted opinions from guys....i meant from women
A mouth is a mouth
wow, your prepared to take a bj from anything with a mouth? poen season for you on all species then lol
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A BJ's a BJ "
fair do's mate =) leaves you open to more opportunities i guess so go for it  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ive heard men say they arent bothered.....then i suck them and they change their mind lol"
fair play....maybe ive just had a shitload of bad ones....i try and avoid them now if poss...my old fb gave up after a while...she was adamant she never failed to make a guy cum with one....she quit trying after couple weeks
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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago
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"Ive heard men say they arent bothered.....then i suck them and they change their mind lol
fair play....maybe ive just had a shitload of bad ones....i try and avoid them now if poss...my old fb gave up after a while...she was adamant she never failed to make a guy cum with one....she quit trying after couple weeks
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gosh why give up to u dislike them or indifferent? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Ive heard men say they arent bothered.....then i suck them and they change their mind lol
fair play....maybe ive just had a shitload of bad ones....i try and avoid them now if poss...my old fb gave up after a while...she was adamant she never failed to make a guy cum with one....she quit trying after couple weeks
gosh why give up to u dislike them or indifferent?"
just sort of indifferent really....i've tried but just can't get 'into' them for some reason..i genuinely just don't know why....
i'm not so bothered to be honest as there's so much other stuff to be getting into but was just wondering how much of a minority i was really |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I love bjs. I always cum from them. Then I move onto the sex. It's a massive turn on for me watching a lady go down on me. "
i feel like it should be....but it isn't for me....it's that point when i notice the lampshade needs dusting lol
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"I love bjs. I always cum from them. Then I move onto the sex. It's a massive turn on for me watching a lady go down on me.
i feel like it should be....but it isn't for me....it's that point when i notice the lampshade needs dusting lol
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I feel bad that you don't. Awkward question are you circumcised? I have a mate who is and feels same way |
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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago
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"Ive heard men say they arent bothered.....then i suck them and they change their mind lol
fair play....maybe ive just had a shitload of bad ones....i try and avoid them now if poss...my old fb gave up after a while...she was adamant she never failed to make a guy cum with one....she quit trying after couple weeks
gosh why give up to u dislike them or indifferent?
just sort of indifferent really....i've tried but just can't get 'into' them for some reason..i genuinely just don't know why....
i'm not so bothered to be honest as there's so much other stuff to be getting into but was just wondering how much of a minority i was really"
Pity ur not nearer u sound like a challenge lol x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I love bjs. I always cum from them. Then I move onto the sex. It's a massive turn on for me watching a lady go down on me.
i feel like it should be....but it isn't for me....it's that point when i notice the lampshade needs dusting lol
I feel bad that you don't. Awkward question are you circumcised? I have a mate who is and feels same way "
lol don't feel bad, i'm not actually complaining...the point of this post really was just to guage whow other people felt about them and just see how small a minority i was in is all =)
and no, iots a fine question to ask...the answer is no, i'm intact |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Ive heard men say they arent bothered.....then i suck them and they change their mind lol
fair play....maybe ive just had a shitload of bad ones....i try and avoid them now if poss...my old fb gave up after a while...she was adamant she never failed to make a guy cum with one....she quit trying after couple weeks
gosh why give up to u dislike them or indifferent?
just sort of indifferent really....i've tried but just can't get 'into' them for some reason..i genuinely just don't know why....
i'm not so bothered to be honest as there's so much other stuff to be getting into but was just wondering how much of a minority i was really
Pity ur not nearer u sound like a challenge lol x"
hehehe =) i tell ya if you could get me to like them them you'd be a star....i just think it's one of those things though is all.....ah well |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Can't help with the original question for obvious reasons ... But I've never met a man that did not like them so I'm guessing you are in the minority.... But I will say Some women would love not to feel like they have to do it !! I for one would rather be told... Coz I would hate for him not to enjoy it! And I'm a bit of a selfish cow and would be more than happy for him to spend more time on me maybe 69 is your best option then you can enjoy your end of the deal that is as long as you don't hate it so much you lose your hardon |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Can't help with the original question for obvious reasons ... But I've never met a man that did not like them so I'm guessing you are in the minority.... But I will say Some women would love not to feel like they have to do it !! I for one would rather be told... Coz I would hate for him not to enjoy it! And I'm a bit of a selfish cow and would be more than happy for him to spend more time on me maybe 69 is your best option then you can enjoy your end of the deal that is as long as you don't hate it so much you lose your hardon "
yeah i figured i'd be in the minority, was just wondering how much of one.....a fairly small minority i'd say
and yeah i get that, and do tell people....some women are quite happy to go ahead and not bother doing it and some find it a challange, everyone is different i guess =)
and 69 is sort of ok, but i much prefer to get comfortable when giving oral to a lady as i like to take my time. 69 is kinda like giving oral with the drawback of not being entirely comfortable for the duration.
i think it's just not one of my things to be honest and would much prefer to be allowed to do the work.
and nah, at no point have i 'hated' them....i'm just completely neytral about them if that makes sense.....i could be getting one and not be distracted from say, reading, or watching t.v. its not a bad experience, just not a good one either
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"Can't help with the original question for obvious reasons ... But I've never met a man that did not like them so I'm guessing you are in the minority.... But I will say Some women would love not to feel like they have to do it !! I for one would rather be told... Coz I would hate for him not to enjoy it! And I'm a bit of a selfish cow and would be more than happy for him to spend more time on me maybe 69 is your best option then you can enjoy your end of the deal that is as long as you don't hate it so much you lose your hardon
yeah i figured i'd be in the minority, was just wondering how much of one.....a fairly small minority i'd say
and yeah i get that, and do tell people....some women are quite happy to go ahead and not bother doing it and some find it a challange, everyone is different i guess =)
and 69 is sort of ok, but i much prefer to get comfortable when giving oral to a lady as i like to take my time. 69 is kinda like giving oral with the drawback of not being entirely comfortable for the duration.
i think it's just not one of my things to be honest and would much prefer to be allowed to do the work.
and nah, at no point have i 'hated' them....i'm just completely neytral about them if that makes sense.....i could be getting one and not be distracted from say, reading, or watching t.v. its not a bad experience, just not a good one either
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Get her to go on top ! Then you can be comfy |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Can't help with the original question for obvious reasons ... But I've never met a man that did not like them so I'm guessing you are in the minority.... But I will say Some women would love not to feel like they have to do it !! I for one would rather be told... Coz I would hate for him not to enjoy it! And I'm a bit of a selfish cow and would be more than happy for him to spend more time on me maybe 69 is your best option then you can enjoy your end of the deal that is as long as you don't hate it so much you lose your hardon
yeah i figured i'd be in the minority, was just wondering how much of one.....a fairly small minority i'd say
and yeah i get that, and do tell people....some women are quite happy to go ahead and not bother doing it and some find it a challange, everyone is different i guess =)
and 69 is sort of ok, but i much prefer to get comfortable when giving oral to a lady as i like to take my time. 69 is kinda like giving oral with the drawback of not being entirely comfortable for the duration.
i think it's just not one of my things to be honest and would much prefer to be allowed to do the work.
and nah, at no point have i 'hated' them....i'm just completely neytral about them if that makes sense.....i could be getting one and not be distracted from say, reading, or watching t.v. its not a bad experience, just not a good one either
Get her to go on top ! Then you can be comfy "
its not so cozy either way up lol. i do like it for what it is, i love a lass to be over me so intimately but it definately isnt a tool for improving a bj for me really.
i've just come to the conclusion that they're not for me really. i really don't mind though....its like not liking apples say. you wouldnt mourn the fact you didn't like them, you'd just go about your business whilst not eating them is all |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can take it or leave it. Not really fussed by it and as I've never cum from it I'd probably be more sided to the leave it part."
same here like "what ever" if i get it happy days but id never ask for it
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By (user no longer on site)
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'do the work'...'challenge'...no wonder you're not fussed. I do not believe for one second that you don't enjoy the feeling of a mouth around your penis. From what I gather you're one of those men who cannot get an orgasm that way. Well, you're not the only one. Why not just enjoy the sensation? And avoid women who make it their life's mission to 'cure you' - they should only do it because they love to do it (almost whether you like it or not) Any other reason only piles on the pressure. You're worth more than only being another notch for her.
It's not a list to tick off, nor a quid pro quo thing. You should both enjoy each other, without pressure. Just play with each other, have some time out, and pay attention to the sensation she gives you; perhaps tell her what really works for you (you should know, as you know your cock best).
It ain't called 'playing' for nothing.
Good luck and above all - allow yourself to enjoy it.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Similarly I really find cunnilingus a bit boring. I can come that way but only if the perpetrator is very skilled. Much prefer fingers, much more precise and targeted. Like the OP I groan inwardly (and not in a good way) when they start to head down in that direction  |
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"evening all =)
just a quick one....i've been chatting to a few folk about recieving oral as a bloke....apparently i'm in a minority as far as a can gather because i dont particularly like it....i'd rather open a good book to be honest and i'm just throwing the question out there to see what you guys think? "
As a woman who isn't keen on receiving oral I absolutely understand. We can't all like the same things and why should we. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ive heard men say they arent bothered.....then i suck them and they change their mind lol
fair play....maybe ive just had a shitload of bad ones....i try and avoid them now if poss...my old fb gave up after a while...she was adamant she never failed to make a guy cum with one....she quit trying after couple weeks
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Not all men cum from bj...not everyone enjoys oral and plenty of women admit they don't on here.
For me as I love to do it I'd lose interest quite quickly x |
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It seems replies vary from accepting this guy doesn't like it to he really should try and get to like it.
Is a woman posted that she didn't like a particular sexual act and it was implied that she tried to get to like it I wonder if the response would be the same. He isn't asking for help to enjoy it he's wondering if other people feel the same way as him. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Its a nice feeling and has been known to get me hard again after orgasm, but it is a rare occasion for me to cum that way... Usually the lady complains of an aching jaw from the width or a numb mouth due to width and heavy precum .... But perhaps I have just not found the right mouth yet |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"'do the work'...'challenge'...no wonder you're not fussed. I do not believe for one second that you don't enjoy the feeling of a mouth around your penis. From what I gather you're one of those men who cannot get an orgasm that way. Well, you're not the only one. Why not just enjoy the sensation? And avoid women who make it their life's mission to 'cure you' - they should only do it because they love to do it (almost whether you like it or not) Any other reason only piles on the pressure. You're worth more than only being another notch for her.
It's not a list to tick off, nor a quid pro quo thing. You should both enjoy each other, without pressure. Just play with each other, have some time out, and pay attention to the sensation she gives you; perhaps tell her what really works for you (you should know, as you know your cock best).
It ain't called 'playing' for nothing.
Good luck and above all - allow yourself to enjoy it.
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perhaps the term do the work is the wrong one....i wasn't on here trying to find ways to start enjoying it or to find out why in particular it does nothing for me, i'm just seeing what others though of it really =)
and i know what you mean about trying to enjoy the sensation but in all honesty, there isn't much of a sensation to enjoy...i just find it well....bland really and wanted to know if anyone else felt the same is all =)
i dunno if its coming across as an issue because it's not at all and i'm not looking to change how i feel about it because it's who i am and that's that really
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Its a nice feeling and has been known to get me hard again after orgasm, but it is a rare occasion for me to cum that way... Usually the lady complains of an aching jaw from the width or a numb mouth due to width and heavy precum .... But perhaps I have just not found the right mouth yet "
well your clearly bigger than me....congrats =) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It seems replies vary from accepting this guy doesn't like it to he really should try and get to like it.
Is a woman posted that she didn't like a particular sexual act and it was implied that she tried to get to like it I wonder if the response would be the same. He isn't asking for help to enjoy it he's wondering if other people feel the same way as him."
thats pretty much right =)...i wasn't looking for some kind of 'cure' or answer...i was just wondering how many other men felt the same...thank you very much |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Similarly I really find cunnilingus a bit boring. I can come that way but only if the perpetrator is very skilled. Much prefer fingers, much more precise and targeted. Like the OP I groan inwardly (and not in a good way) when they start to head down in that direction "
i've known the odd lady who's the same...it just doesen't do it for them. we're all a little different and it's perfectly reasonable that there are people out there that don't enjoy certain things as much as others.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I enjoy the feeling of doing it to a man. It's not about making them orgasm. That's for wives who don't want proper sex to do. See it as a kiss in a different place |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"evening all =)
just a quick one....i've been chatting to a few folk about recieving oral as a bloke....apparently i'm in a minority as far as a can gather because i dont particularly like it....i'd rather open a good book to be honest and i'm just throwing the question out there to see what you guys think?
As a woman who isn't keen on receiving oral I absolutely understand. We can't all like the same things and why should we."
indeed, sex is a massively wide spectrum and we al like different things within that spectrum. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I enjoy the feeling of doing it to a man. It's not about making them orgasm. That's for wives who don't want proper sex to do. See it as a kiss in a different place "
lol, a trouser friendly kiss =) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I enjoy the feeling of doing it to a man. It's not about making them orgasm. That's for wives who don't want proper sex to do. See it as a kiss in a different place
lol, a trouser friendly kiss =)"
yes. You enjoy kissing don't you? |
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"I enjoy the feeling of doing it to a man. It's not about making them orgasm. That's for wives who don't want proper sex to do. See it as a kiss in a different place
lol, a trouser friendly kiss =)
yes. You enjoy kissing don't you? "
love kissing!! it's high up on my list of likes =) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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fully understand your position, i hate receiving oral. What i hate even more is the people that then turn round and say stupid things like 'you havent tried me', 'im the best in world' etc.
Would love it if they werent into anal and someone just said to them, it doesnt matter if you dont like this, we're doing it cause i enjoy giving it |
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"I enjoy the feeling of doing it to a man. It's not about making them orgasm. That's for wives who don't want proper sex to do. See it as a kiss in a different place "
Loves kissing  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"fully understand your position, i hate receiving oral. What i hate even more is the people that then turn round and say stupid things like 'you havent tried me', 'im the best in world' etc.
Would love it if they werent into anal and someone just said to them, it doesnt matter if you dont like this, we're doing it cause i enjoy giving it"
this is it....you can't be made to enjoy something if you don't......take flying for instance...scares the pants off me...i don't care who the pilot is, i still don't like it.
must say i don't 'hate' it..i'm just indifferent to it... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I must admit, I LOVE taking a nice cock in my mouth and throat mmm 
I have been told my technique is great too so... Win win  "
cool if ya do =) i absolutely love performing oral on a lady so i know where your coming from but if they don't enjoy it it's doubtfull they suddenly will with me...i'm not under the illusion that i have some kind of oral skill above and beyond the rest of the human race...for ladies that enjoy it i've had nothing but good times but trying to force something that isn't for them isn't going to improve the time we have together so we just find lots of other things we do both like....=) |
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
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I absolutely love receiving oral. I just love the feeling of a tongue being flicked our my cock. It certainly does wonders for me. And the feel of just letting go and squirting in the persons mouth is just heaven.
I do have a mate who just cannot cum from a blowjob. I feel sorry for him as the feeling of shooting in someone mouth is electric.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i can take it or leave it, sometimes it does nothing then other times ill blow my load from it. The best head iv had is from another fella. Woman in my opinion tend to be a bit scared of sucking cock |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not many girls are good at bj or will make you cum. If they do it to please you, it wont be half as good as a girl that realy loves ta suck. I never orgasm ed through havin my dick sucked, til i met an older woman, wasnt very experienced, but fuck me could she give a bj. She was very attractive tho, that does help. Lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I adore oral and have never met a man that didn't enjoy it.... But each to their own "
Love giving with a passion....just indifferent to recieving is all.....who knows, it may change as tastes and likes do as we develop and change ourselves but that's kinda where I'm at at the moment
Must say that early in my sex life I prefered it more than I do now but I can't can't say I loved it as even then it wouldn't take me all the way but back then I was more limited in my experience.....now I've tried a lot more its been overtaken by a huge list of likes and sits quite low in my list of desires. Hmm.....life has a way of changing so who knows this tíme next year it might be all i want lol.....who knows? |
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Refreshing post to hear from a male who admits he's not a bloody robot.
We don't all respond to the sane and life would be boring if we did!
We've had the odd meet where a guy had felt put out or his ego dented because I haven't cum when he's expected me to but hey, it won't kill them to learn that we're all made differently.
Also. I find female reactions of 'you haven't had one from me yet' totally wrong and egotistic.
If they'd made clear that there was something they didn't enjoy and you insisted on it to boost your own ego they'd soon complain and rightly so!
Why should it be different for a man???
Keep on enjoying what works for you!
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"Not many girls are good at bj or will make you cum. If they do it to please you, it wont be half as good as a girl that realy loves ta suck. I never orgasm ed through havin my dick sucked, til i met an older woman, wasnt very experienced, but fuck me could she give a bj. She was very attractive tho, that does help. Lol"
I see where your coming from....i must say that even me, no officionado of the subject has noticed there's a difference in people....you can deffinately tell the difference between somone with a real gusto for doing it and someone just going through the motions but either way its just what it is for me..... |
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"Guy on guy??
sorry, no....badly written title...i wanted opinions from guys....i meant from women =) thats just bad penmanship from me there
Thought I best clarify lol
Well we are often told wish my ... Sucked like her lol
No I am not a dyson!!
It is something I enjoy and not had any experience of a guy not cunming from it...
Horses for courses I guess
i get the 'you haven't tried one from me' line from ladies sometimes...i hate when they do that because it's invariably a crashing dissapointment when guess what? ...yup...it feels like a blowjob....yawn =(
like you say.....horses for courses i guess and they just aint my course....
I do what's said on the tin as it were and yep with such a negative yawn attitude not surprised you don't enjoy it
sorry, that wasnt aimed at you....was just a general sweeping statement....something i've come across over the years is all
and maybe your right....i've tried and tried to enjoy them over the years but just never have so maybe it has become a negative now....interesting. "
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"i dunno if its coming across as an issue because it's not at all and i'm not looking to change how i feel about it because it's who i am and that's that really
cheers though =)"
No, it doesn't come across as 'an issue' at all, at least not for you. And there are obviously others of whatever gender who feel the same.
Everybody should just enjoy the aspects they DO like. And it seems you're doing that anyway |
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"Guy on guy??
sorry, no....badly written title...i wanted opinions from guys....i meant from women =) thats just bad penmanship from me there
Thought I best clarify lol
Well we are often told wish my ... Sucked like her lol
No I am not a dyson!!
It is something I enjoy and not had any experience of a guy not cunming from it...
Horses for courses I guess
i get the 'you haven't tried one from me' line from ladies sometimes...i hate when they do that because it's invariably a crashing dissapointment when guess what? ...yup...it feels like a blowjob....yawn =(
like you say.....horses for courses i guess and they just aint my course....
I do what's said on the tin as it were and yep with such a negative yawn attitude not surprised you don't enjoy it
sorry, that wasnt aimed at you....was just a general sweeping statement....something i've come across over the years is all
and maybe your right....i've tried and tried to enjoy them over the years but just never have so maybe it has become a negative now....interesting.
Generalisations are never good my friend "
yet we all do it when we see things repeated often enough....human trait =( |
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"I enjoy the feeling of doing it to a man. It's not about making them orgasm. That's for wives who don't want proper sex to do. See it as a kiss in a different place "
That's for wives who don't want proper sex to do!!!! Really? Am I the only person who finds this statement a bit odd?
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"I enjoy the feeling of doing it to a man. It's not about making them orgasm. That's for wives who don't want proper sex to do. See it as a kiss in a different place
That's for wives who don't want proper sex to do!!!! Really? Am I the only person who finds this statement a bit odd?
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My lady gives deepthroat to perfection and adores doing it and also receiving too also yes I cum like that and love every minute of cumming deep in her throat we both adore it |
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"i wanted opinions from guys....i meant from women
A mouth is a mouth
wow, your prepared to take a bj from anything with a mouth? poen season for you on all species then lol
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A BJ's a BJ
fair do's mate =) leaves you open to more opportunities i guess so go for it "
To be honest and no criticism of the lovely ladies I've met from here and elsewhere TGirls seem to be very good at giving blow jobs. Perhaps because they know what a man really likes done to his cock? |
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"I enjoy the feeling of doing it to a man. It's not about making them orgasm. That's for wives who don't want proper sex to do. See it as a kiss in a different place
That's for wives who don't want proper sex to do!!!! Really? Am I the only person who finds this statement a bit odd?
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Entirely weird, quite Apart from The adulterous overtones!
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