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Would more verifications help me ?
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By *axlf079 OP Man
over a year ago
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Some friends of mine said I should ask the people I have met on this site for verifications, would this help me get more meets (kinda like a character reference) ?
Never been interested in getting loads of verifications but my friends say it may help me get more meets and put people at ease about meeting me first time. ;o) x |
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"Some friends of mine said I should ask the people I have met on this site for verifications, would this help me get more meets (kinda like a character reference) ?
Never been interested in getting loads of verifications but my friends say it may help me get more meets and put people at ease about meeting me first time. ;o) x "
Maybe having a veri by a man won't help |
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"Some friends of mine said I should ask the people I have met on this site for verifications, would this help me get more meets (kinda like a character reference) ?
Never been interested in getting loads of verifications but my friends say it may help me get more meets and put people at ease about meeting me first time. ;o) x
Maybe having a veri by a man won't help"
I don't think that matters at all
I will verify you if you want as I did see you at the club |
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"Some friends of mine said I should ask the people I have met on this site for verifications, would this help me get more meets (kinda like a character reference) ?
Never been interested in getting loads of verifications but my friends say it may help me get more meets and put people at ease about meeting me first time. ;o) x
Maybe having a veri by a man won't help
I don't think that matters at all
I will verify you if you want as I did see you at the club "
may not matter but there are a lot of "straight" men on here with veri's from men |
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"Some friends of mine said I should ask the people I have met on this site for verifications, would this help me get more meets (kinda like a character reference) ?
Never been interested in getting loads of verifications but my friends say it may help me get more meets and put people at ease about meeting me first time. ;o) x
Maybe having a veri by a man won't help
I don't think that matters at all
I will verify you if you want as I did see you at the club
may not matter but there are a lot of "straight" men on here with veri's from men"
It doesn't say anythibg to insinuate he is gay or bi
I have verifications from women
I am straight
It shows he is who he says he is and performs well in group fun |
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By *axlf079 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Some friends of mine said I should ask the people I have met on this site for verifications, would this help me get more meets (kinda like a character reference) ?
Never been interested in getting loads of verifications but my friends say it may help me get more meets and put people at ease about meeting me first time. ;o) x
Maybe having a veri by a man won't help
I don't think that matters at all
I will verify you if you want as I did see you at the club
may not matter but there are a lot of "straight" men on here with veri's from men
It doesn't say anythibg to insinuate he is gay or bi
I have verifications from women
I am straight
It shows he is who he says he is and performs well in group fun "
Yeah could you do me a verification I will appreciate that hopefully it will help me with meets maybe make some more friends thanks ;o) x |
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By *axlf079 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Honestly?
Don't think the pics with the socks on help, regardless of ANY veris!!
To be fair yes the pics are really not good
Less is more "
Thanks for the verification gorgeous yeah my pics are rubbish aye all natural pics tho from good times hehe my profile is well overdue a update ;o) x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've got veris from men but I just talked to them at a social so don't be put off if a man veris another man. "
Yep! I've got one from Paddy! 
Had to hide it though due to the content going on and on about how gorgeous I am (not really!!  )
And a couple from other blokes (all straight).
And one from a sizeably chested TV too!
None of whom I've ever got jiggy with, crossed swords or even participated in group fun with. They're just veri's saying we've met, chatted, had a beer - and been to the same party/club.
If people don't bother reading the content (yes, mine are hidden but since I don't meet off this profile that's hardly an issue!) and assume that all veri's are play related - then they need to wise up and smell the coffee!  |
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"Some friends of mine said I should ask the people I have met on this site for verifications, would this help me get more meets (kinda like a character reference) ?
Never been interested in getting loads of verifications but my friends say it may help me get more meets and put people at ease about meeting me first time. ;o) x
Maybe having a veri by a man won't help
I don't think that matters at all
I will verify you if you want as I did see you at the club
may not matter but there are a lot of "straight" men on here with veri's from men"
I have a veri from a man I can confirm I am "Straight" as you put it . I have also verified men from a group session point of view ( doesn't mean I have played or been played with ) . Any one that has an issue with that is small minded and in my opinion does not matter .. 
I can't see a reason it would put people off .. |
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"Some friends of mine said I should ask the people I have met on this site for verifications, would this help me get more meets (kinda like a character reference) ?
Never been interested in getting loads of verifications but my friends say it may help me get more meets and put people at ease about meeting me first time. ;o) x
Maybe having a veri by a man won't help
I don't think that matters at all
I will verify you if you want as I did see you at the club
may not matter but there are a lot of "straight" men on here with veri's from men
It doesn't say anythibg to insinuate he is gay or bi
I have verifications from women
I am straight
It shows he is who he says he is and performs well in group fun "
That's how I read it.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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why not get these 'friends' to meet with you?
having veri's helps, of course they do, but its a fine balancing act between too many and none.
that said, words on a screen from someone else wont help you if you cant help yourself by being attractive to others, whether that be from pics, profile or just being a hunka burnin love (and not criticizing any of the above as i havent looked at your profile, merely a general observation |
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By *axlf079 OP Man
over a year ago
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"why not get these 'friends' to meet with you?
having veri's helps, of course they do, but its a fine balancing act between too many and none.
that said, words on a screen from someone else wont help you if you cant help yourself by being attractive to others, whether that be from pics, profile or just being a hunka burnin love (and not criticizing any of the above as i havent looked at your profile, merely a general observation"
I have met loads of people but hate asking for stuff my friends said stop being silly and just ask people what do you think ? ;o) x |
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By *axlf079 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Honestly?
Don't think the pics with the socks on help, regardless of ANY veris!!
You noticed too...is that us just being picky.."
Hehe went on a meet and got told no sexy time until I take my socks off lol ;o) x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Honestly?
Don't think the pics with the socks on help, regardless of ANY veris!!
You noticed too...is that us just being picky..
Hehe went on a meet and got told no sexy time until I take my socks off lol ;o) x "
I hope women can see how genuine you are mate...I think its great when us blokes can laugh at ourselves..especially on a site like this...good on ya.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"why not get these 'friends' to meet with you?
having veri's helps, of course they do, but its a fine balancing act between too many and none.
that said, words on a screen from someone else wont help you if you cant help yourself by being attractive to others, whether that be from pics, profile or just being a hunka burnin love (and not criticizing any of the above as i havent looked at your profile, merely a general observation
I have met loads of people but hate asking for stuff my friends said stop being silly and just ask people what do you think ? ;o) x"
i think, and being brutally truthful here, if a veri wasnt offered, i would take it that they didnt actually enjoy their time with you as much as you think.
did you leave a veri?
if so then maybe this is doubly true.
who knows |
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By *axlf079 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Honestly?
Don't think the pics with the socks on help, regardless of ANY veris!!
You noticed too...is that us just being picky..
Hehe went on a meet and got told no sexy time until I take my socks off lol ;o) x
I hope women can see how genuine you are mate...I think its great when us blokes can laugh at ourselves..especially on a site like this...good on ya.."
I try and be positive about everything in life laughter is a good thing even if you laugh at yourself ;o) thanks for your comments matey ;o) x |
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By *axlf079 OP Man
over a year ago
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"why not get these 'friends' to meet with you?
having veri's helps, of course they do, but its a fine balancing act between too many and none.
that said, words on a screen from someone else wont help you if you cant help yourself by being attractive to others, whether that be from pics, profile or just being a hunka burnin love (and not criticizing any of the above as i havent looked at your profile, merely a general observation
I have met loads of people but hate asking for stuff my friends said stop being silly and just ask people what do you think ? ;o) x
i think, and being brutally truthful here, if a veri wasnt offered, i would take it that they didnt actually enjoy their time with you as much as you think.
did you leave a veri?
if so then maybe this is doubly true.
who knows"
I have only left 2 verifications ever both gave me a verification back.
I'm not the best looking bloke in the world but in not the worst looking but appreciate some people want verifications from good looking people on there profiles makes a good impression I guess ;o) x |
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