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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was once told " soft play is no penetration or oral. No penetration with toys either and no kissing" So I was led to believe I would be playing with her tits as he fucked her. Not worth getting out of bed for |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"it means different things to everyone so the best thing is to ask and don't assume that one persons definition applies to everyone."
This.
We met a soft swap couple. Before we met we asked what we could and couldn't do. So no awkwardness or misunderstanding in person. Worked fine. |
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"I was once told " soft play is no penetration or oral. No penetration with toys either and no kissing" So I was led to believe I would be playing with her tits as he fucked her. Not worth getting out of bed for "
Or in bed for lol |
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"it means different things to everyone so the best thing is to ask and don't assume that one persons definition applies to everyone.
This.
We met a soft swap couple. Before we met we asked what we could and couldn't do. So no awkwardness or misunderstanding in person. Worked fine. "
I think this should apply on any meet at all really (always assuming that people are true to what they really want). |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was once told " soft play is no penetration or oral. No penetration with toys either and no kissing" So I was led to believe I would be playing with her tits as he fucked her. Not worth getting out of bed for
Or in bed for lol"
lol I don't think I would have been allowed on their bed |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It can also mean no kissing with some couples ... 'that's just for us ' is getting more common on here ."
no offence, but no kissing happens with full swap couples too.
soft swap starts at being in a room with someone else, watching, and encompasses everything up to and just before, full penetration with someone elses partner.
it is best to ask the person/couple involved to find out their interpretation of it, and see if it matches your desires.
for us, we do everything other than full sex with others.
as i have said before, we are too hard for some softies, and too soft for hardies.
sometimes you just cant win. |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"What does this mean to you? It appears to mean different things and I thought it just meant no penetration.  "
To some it means girl/girl only play, some it might be everything but penetration. Some couples only one half will do full sex.
Why discussing any rules or boundaries is important..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For us it means that we have a great time with our friends, everything except for actual fucking is all good, and you can do so many things to make someone cum without actually fucking them, try it................ |
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Agree with most here, for us it means doing anything/everything with others apart from fucking. Have seen somewhere that in America it means two or more couples having sex on the same bed but not swapping partners for anything, just sticking with your own throughout. Makes you wonder what the point of that is! |
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It's the same for us I (jewel) have no boundaries but scratches only boundaries is he doesn't have penetrative sex but can kiss lick suck lol. We always make it clear when we start chatting to anyone so they know from the start and it is stated in our profile. |
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