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over a year ago
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Hi y'all time for another...I'm curious..I've NEVER played with a couple..the idea REALLY turns me on..however..I wouldn't know what to expect ..is there etiquette eg: just watch until invited..who initiates the fun...
anyone share any experiences good and bad..
And couples how do you like it to go..turn ons and offs... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If meeting a guy we always have a coffee/chat meet first, occasionally something has happened on the first meet. Main turn off would be the guy trying to be pushy or being disrespectful. There's a time and place for "dirty talk" but that has to be judged properly. As far as starting to actually play there's never been a guy who has tried to start without being invited to and that's the way we prefer it. |
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Communication. Very simple.
When invited ask what they like in messages before going to see them. After that when you actually meet ask what they like and do not like. There is a world of difference between meeting a couple with a cuckold man and one who want a full on mfm.
Agree a safe word so if she, or he , is unhappy the play can be stopped immediately.
But most if all - communicate!  |
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generally the female part of a couple will instigate any further advancement of the situation. also engaging both parties in conversation, not just focussing on the woman is a good way to start.
its probably not the done thing to reach fr a grope or push yourself onto someone.
that said, you arent here for the social side of things, so probably walking through the door with your dick already out would probably be the way for you to go |
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"generally the female part of a couple will instigate any further advancement of the situation. also engaging both parties in conversation, not just focussing on the woman is a good way to start.
its probably not the done thing to reach fr a grope or push yourself onto someone.
that said, you arent here for the social side of things, so probably walking through the door with your dick already out would probably be the way for you to go"
Had to chuckle at the thought of striding in jock at full attention..hands on hips..I do have some tact.. I'd leave the socks on..!! |
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I would say that the route to a successful meet with a couple is to realise that they don't conform to a set of rules any more than you do. All three of you need to discuss what you do and don't want and take it from there. As a single bloke you need to realise that you are as important as they are too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"generally the female part of a couple will instigate any further advancement of the situation. also engaging both parties in conversation, not just focussing on the woman is a good way to start.
its probably not the done thing to reach fr a grope or push yourself onto someone.
that said, you arent here for the social side of things, so probably walking through the door with your dick already out would probably be the way for you to go
Had to chuckle at the thought of striding in jock at full attention..hands on hips..I do have some tact.. I'd leave the socks on..!!"
Il lend your socks as a lot of men on here seem to think I'm one!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Fox and I have met many a single guy.
What happens on meets varies but invariably there is mutual respect between both us as a couple and anyone we're meeting. There are no set 'rules' as to how things start, who does what and how the evening pans out - so long as boundaries are discussed and respected (usually in advance of the meet) it's all good! The key is finding company you'll get along with - which brings me to the more important question of getting a couple to agree to meet, as opposed to what happens when you do!
When responding to messages or browsing for potential company the first thing we look at is the profile.
And certain things will have us hitting the delete (and often the block button) in seconds.
The single guys that catch our eye (and more than likely others too) have an element of fun, a way with words, a sense of realism and normality rather than ego - and a good selection of images to catch our eye.
They also don't shout down their peers in an attempt to make themselves stand out from the crowd (which they achieve - but not in the way they desire!) or display any sense of superiority over others.
Before someone worries about what to do on a meet with couples - it's pretty damn important to worry about getting as far as a meet first.
Without one - the other means you're worrying over nothing!
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"I would say that the route to a successful meet with a couple is to realise that they don't conform to a set of rules any more than you do. All three of you need to discuss what you do and don't want and take it from there. As a single bloke you need to realise that you are as important as they are too."
I like that...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Fox and I have met many a single guy.
What happens on meets varies but invariably there is mutual respect between both us as a couple and anyone we're meeting. There are no set 'rules' as to how things start, who does what and how the evening pans out - so long as boundaries are discussed and respected (usually in advance of the meet) it's all good! The key is finding company you'll get along with - which brings me to the more important question of getting a couple to agree to meet, as opposed to what happens when you do!
When responding to messages or browsing for potential company the first thing we look at is the profile.
And certain things will have us hitting the delete (and often the block button) in seconds.
The single guys that catch our eye (and more than likely others too) have an element of fun, a way with words, a sense of realism and normality rather than ego - and a good selection of images to catch our eye.
They also don't shout down their peers in an attempt to make themselves stand out from the crowd (which they achieve - but not in the way they desire!) or display any sense of superiority over others.
Before someone worries about what to do on a meet with couples - it's pretty damn important to worry about getting as far as a meet first.
Without one - the other means you're worrying over nothing!
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I think you've summed the question up very well here  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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From a male point of view...I'd like to know before hand that I wasn't meeting a couple that looked like the krankies...so I think its important you see each other first... |
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"From a male point of view...I'd like to know before hand that I wasn't meeting a couple that looked like the krankies...so I think its important you see each other first..."
Oh shit, that's us out the running then  |
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"From a male point of view...I'd like to know before hand that I wasn't meeting a couple that looked like the krankies...so I think its important you see each other first...
Oh shit, that's us out the running then "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"From a male point of view...I'd like to know before hand that I wasn't meeting a couple that looked like the krankies...so I think its important you see each other first...
Oh shit, that's us out the running then
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If you block us it will remind you that we aren't your type
But I think all the other couples in thread are gorgeous non krankie look alikes   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"From a male point of view...I'd like to know before hand that I wasn't meeting a couple that looked like the krankies...so I think its important you see each other first...
Oh shit, that's us out the running then
If you block us it will remind you that we aren't your type
But I think all the other couples in thread are gorgeous non krankie look alikes "
how dare you!
we are the opitome of krankiness ol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi y'all time for another...I'm curious..I've NEVER played with a couple..the idea REALLY turns me on..however..I wouldn't know what to expect ..is there etiquette eg: just watch until invited..who initiates the fun...
anyone share any experiences good and bad..
We have had great mmf and we set boundaries and like confident guys so any guys interested give us a shout
And couples how do you like it to go..turn ons and offs..."
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