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Sorry ran out of messages!!!!!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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This really gets on my goat!!! If you want to be serious then f*****g pay your subscription!! Surely those who aren't willing to pay the dose are just on here to boost their egos by being inundated with messages hence making themselves feel popular. Really gets me annoyed! Anyone wish to pass comment?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes there is no actual FAQ with a set number as to message limit, but rumoured to be 100, if a single lady replied to all her inbox eg only a 100 show before dropping off the screen I can well imagine that to be true.
And hey chill out, who cares move on and their loss as the saying goes |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks Julie, perhaps I just need to chill out! I just don't want p**s takers to ruin it for everyone else!! Although i dare say most single female profiles on here no doubt get hammered with testosterone fueled messages one after the other! But if there is no picture or verification on the receivers profile, are they genuine?? |
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Erm....
I pay to be a site supporter, it runs out tonight, I won't be paying again as I've come to the conclusion that it doesn't actually benefit me in anyway, I do go in chat often let alone need to view more than one cam, I don't intend on changing my name, I don't reply to all the messages I get and once I've established a good base with someone I move onto other means of communication etc thus I don't send many messages etc.
Does this mean I shouldn't be here? Should I not be a member of a swingers site because I'm choosing not to waste more money?
I think you need to step away for a minute, consider that rejection happens and pop back in when you feel you're better able to deal with it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks Julie, perhaps I just need to chill out! I just don't want p**s takers to ruin it for everyone else!! Although i dare say most single female profiles on here no doubt get hammered with testosterone fueled messages one after the other! But if there is no picture or verification on the receivers profile, are they genuine??"
Even with photo verified or in person veri you have to trust your own instincts as that can be faked too.
Just tighten up your procedures, eg phone call early on and establish a rapor.
If there isn't then move on, after nearly 2 years on here as in all walks of life you can suss out the bullshitters. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No one agree?
I don't. Its a personal choice whether someone pays to support this site."
Agreed after paying prior and photo verified on my old account and veri in person, after a break and never bothering with photo veri on this account and site supporter now elapsed, I could indeed be fake lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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And not everyone can afford the subscription, when I first joined all my money was spent paying bills and debts; this was a luxury I couldn't afford, did that make me any less serious? Nope |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Erm....
I pay to be a site supporter, it runs out tonight, I won't be paying again as I've come to the conclusion that it doesn't actually benefit me in anyway, I do go in chat often let alone need to view more than one cam, I don't intend on changing my name, I don't reply to all the messages I get and once I've established a good base with someone I move onto other means of communication etc thus I don't send many messages etc.
Does this mean I shouldn't be here? Should I not be a member of a swingers site because I'm choosing not to waste more money?
I think you need to step away for a minute, consider that rejection happens and pop back in when you feel you're better able to deal with it."
Rejection? I think you have completely misinterpreted my post here. I'm not at all feeling 'rejected' do you think I've posted this thread due to someone not responding to a message I've sent them? Day after day I see new profiles on fab, 'newbies' as the majority call them where, they have not subscribed at all, unlike yourself, yet claim they have run out of messages. If you have subscribed before and decide to remain on site unsubscribed I have no problem, but I feel it's being inundated with a******s to put it bluntly. Call me one if you like, it's no skin of my nose. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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I think what the OP needs to remember is that, when we join, we are not told we have limited messages (although I am sure its somewhere on the FAQs!) When I joined I ran out of messages nightly because I was chatting to several people. It wasn't a lie - I really did run out. So saying people new to the site 'claim' to run out of messages is disingenuous. They probably have actually run out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think what the OP needs to remember is that, when we join, we are not told we have limited messages (although I am sure its somewhere on the FAQs!) When I joined I ran out of messages nightly because I was chatting to several people. It wasn't a lie - I really did run out. So saying people new to the site 'claim' to run out of money is disingenuous. They probably have actually run out."
Yeh it happens to me for them same reasons |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"does it notify you that you've reached your limit then, don't think I've ever come across this yet?"
Not until you reach it and try to send a message. Then you get an admin message saying no more messages. So if you were happily chatting to someone the only way you can let them know is to put it on your status. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"does it notify you that you've reached your limit then, don't think I've ever come across this yet?
Not until you reach it and try to send a message. Then you get an admin message saying no more messages. So if you were happily chatting to someone the only way you can let them know is to put it on your status."
Ah I see okay thanks! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"[Removed by poster at 21/02/14 23:34:55]"
I, as gracefully as I can, accept this statement! I stand down and corrected! My final statement before I am deemed to hell, if you want to chat, join a chatting club, not a swingers site! Pembsvoyeur OUT!! *hope no one has been offended in the making of this thread, enjoy and happy swinging! P.s. Something to do on a Friday night wasn't it!! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"[Removed by poster at 21/02/14 23:34:55]
I, as gracefully as I can, accept this statement! I stand down and corrected! My final statement before I am deemed to hell, if you want to chat, join a chatting club, not a swingers site! Pembsvoyeur OUT!! *hope no one has been offended in the making of this thread, enjoy and happy swinging! P.s. Something to do on a Friday night wasn't it!! X"
It's been quite informative actually ~ I never knew there was limit!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think what the OP needs to remember is that, when we join, we are not told we have limited messages (although I am sure its somewhere on the FAQs!) When I joined I ran out of messages nightly because I was chatting to several people. It wasn't a lie - I really did run out. So saying people new to the site 'claim' to run out of messages is disingenuous. They probably have actually run out."
Nope nothing on FAQ's but forum searches say 100 per day... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"[Removed by poster at 21/02/14 23:34:55]
I, as gracefully as I can, accept this statement! I stand down and corrected! My final statement before I am deemed to hell, if you want to chat, join a chatting club, not a swingers site! Pembsvoyeur OUT!! *hope no one has been offended in the making of this thread, enjoy and happy swinging! P.s. Something to do on a Friday night wasn't it!! X
It's been quite informative actually ~ I never knew there was limit! "
Thank you very much classy laydee, I try to post topics which bring up some useful info for those in the dark, next Friday it's 'why do you keep looking at my profile but do/say nothing!' Let the week commence!! Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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nothing saying people on this site HAVE to meet for sex, though, tbh, so if people just want to be here to chat, as long as they arent leading anyone on, then whats the issue?
to say they should go and join a chat site instead is a little shitty to say the least.
i really dont get why people have to be bothered about how others use the site. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Erm....
I pay to be a site supporter, it runs out tonight, I won't be paying again as I've come to the conclusion that it doesn't actually benefit me in anyway, I do go in chat often let alone need to view more than one cam, I don't intend on changing my name, I don't reply to all the messages I get and once I've established a good base with someone I move onto other means of communication etc thus I don't send many messages etc.
Does this mean I shouldn't be here? Should I not be a member of a swingers site because I'm choosing not to waste more money?
I think you need to step away for a minute, consider that rejection happens and pop back in when you feel you're better able to deal with it."
How fantastically written and here here xxxx |
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"Erm....
I pay to be a site supporter, it runs out tonight, I won't be paying again as I've come to the conclusion that it doesn't actually benefit me in anyway, I do go in chat often let alone need to view more than one cam, I don't intend on changing my name, I don't reply to all the messages I get and once I've established a good base with someone I move onto other means of communication etc thus I don't send many messages etc.
Does this mean I shouldn't be here? Should I not be a member of a swingers site because I'm choosing not to waste more money?
I think you need to step away for a minute, consider that rejection happens and pop back in when you feel you're better able to deal with it.
Rejection? I think you have completely misinterpreted my post here. I'm not at all feeling 'rejected' do you think I've posted this thread due to someone not responding to a message I've sent them? Day after day I see new profiles on fab, 'newbies' as the majority call them where, they have not subscribed at all, unlike yourself, yet claim they have run out of messages. If you have subscribed before and decide to remain on site unsubscribed I have no problem, but I feel it's being inundated with a******s to put it bluntly. Call me one if you like, it's no skin of my nose. "
I have not called you and arsehole nor have I implied that you are. I think that you read too much into my comment, it was not intended as a dig, merely an eye opener and pointing out that you need to take a few breaths and chill. I did not misinterpret your OP, that is the way it came across then and it still does now.
My SS has now run out, without my previous comment and you already seeing my badge you would have assumed that I am arsehole for not paying an optional payment, we have no way of telling if someone has previously paid but decided not to again or is just waiting for payday etc so assuming all non SS are arseholes is a bit off.
I understand your point about the people on here just for the ego boost but you're attacking the wrong people and also I just can't get myself worked up about it, I receive loads of messages, I converse with those that interest me and out the fakes/timewasters/ego junkies, it's as simple as that, I don't particularly care how others use the site and I don't allow them to effect how I use the site. I certainly wouldn't rage because people run out of messages.
You are letting people who have no significance to you control your emotions.
Just chill out man  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Erm....
I pay to be a site supporter, it runs out tonight, I won't be paying again as I've come to the conclusion that it doesn't actually benefit me in anyway, I do go in chat often let alone need to view more than one cam, I don't intend on changing my name, I don't reply to all the messages I get and once I've established a good base with someone I move onto other means of communication etc thus I don't send many messages etc.
Does this mean I shouldn't be here? Should I not be a member of a swingers site because I'm choosing not to waste more money?
I think you need to step away for a minute, consider that rejection happens and pop back in when you feel you're better able to deal with it.
Rejection? I think you have completely misinterpreted my post here. I'm not at all feeling 'rejected' do you think I've posted this thread due to someone not responding to a message I've sent them? Day after day I see new profiles on fab, 'newbies' as the majority call them where, they have not subscribed at all, unlike yourself, yet claim they have run out of messages. If you have subscribed before and decide to remain on site unsubscribed I have no problem, but I feel it's being inundated with a******s to put it bluntly. Call me one if you like, it's no skin of my nose.
I have not called you and arsehole nor have I implied that you are. I think that you read too much into my comment, it was not intended as a dig, merely an eye opener and pointing out that you need to take a few breaths and chill. I did not misinterpret your OP, that is the way it came across then and it still does now.
My SS has now run out, without my previous comment and you already seeing my badge you would have assumed that I am arsehole for not paying an optional payment, we have no way of telling if someone has previously paid but decided not to again or is just waiting for payday etc so assuming all non SS are arseholes is a bit off.
I understand your point about the people on here just for the ego boost but you're attacking the wrong people and also I just can't get myself worked up about it, I receive loads of messages, I converse with those that interest me and out the fakes/timewasters/ego junkies, it's as simple as that, I don't particularly care how others use the site and I don't allow them to effect how I use the site. I certainly wouldn't rage because people run out of messages.
You are letting people who have no significance to you control your emotions.
Just chill out man "
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