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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Do any women find indian men attractive on here. So many profiles state no asian/indian men. Why have we got a bad reputation? (I know some of this is down to preference so i won't argue with that) just seems a lot of people won't meet me because I'm brown/indian. Don't want to cause arguments here. Would just like to see what people have to say and if anyone would meet me? Nice toned gentleman xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Firstly I love your update status

Nothing untoward, just some people are not attracted to your look. The only thing I can refer to personally is I can't think of many Chinese or Japanese guys I find attractive.

Glad that you identify as Indian though and not just an Asian guy. There are people that will be attracted to you so concentrate on them.

I would also make your ethnic background known on your profile or made obvious in photos, to avoid communicating with people who then might say later that they're not into you. Good luck.

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By *rummiePartyManMan over a year ago

birmingham

Once upon a time everyone who confessed to being a football fan was viewed upon as being a hooligan...because that's how the media made them out to be.

Nowadays, the media has it's focus on stuff like arranged and forced marriages, female genital mutilation, gang rapes in Indian cities, the grooming of vulnerable girls by gangs of Asian men, the subjugation of women in Asian families, the issues of the burkah/hijab and all these practices and customs, which demonstrate a lack of respect towards women by Asian men, which will come back to haunt people like you.

You are probably one of the nice guys and be innocent of all charges, and there may be bad white people out there as well, but it's part of human self defense mechanism to do running risk assessments, and obviously a lot of people simply don't want to take a risk with Asians. Just as football fans years ago had to shoulder that burden of being viewed as hooligans, until the public perception of Asian men changes, you are pretty much stuck with the situation on sites like this.

Your best bet if you want to meet women to "bounce on your cock" (and I'd really get rid of THAT status update if I were you) is to meet them in places like swingers clubs where the real you can get to be met by other real people and you can be seen for who you are an not just a virtual profile that isn't given a second glance by people with "shields up".

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By *ragon n julesCouple over a year ago

nr swadlincote

Status ... bounce on your cock . Like the poster above says get rid .. makes you sound selfish only after your own pleasure .. etc

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Status ... bounce on your cock . Like the poster above says get rid .. makes you sound selfish only after your own pleasure .. etc "

Agreed and in my experience (and this is why i no longer meet indian men) all the ones I have met have been very selfish in the bedroom, not by any means saying this is you but that status certainly implies your no different

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By *uckandbunnyCouple over a year ago

In your bed

I can't speak for the wife, but in terms of me.

I certainly have a preference for certain body types and skin types.

Whilst an indian lady would be more than attractive to me there are certain looks that don't do it for me. I won't list them though as I find this to be not polite.

I'm not sure why some people list them as I would just reply thank you but no thanks. No need to give a reason.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I can't speak for the wife, but in terms of me.

I certainly have a preference for certain body types and skin types.

Whilst an indian lady would be more than attractive to me there are certain looks that don't do it for me. I won't list them though as I find this to be not polite.

I'm not sure why some people list them as I would just reply thank you but no thanks. No need to give a reason.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've met Indian men. I liked them but they worked long hours so weren't available as much as I liked

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think indian women are very attractive ,shame theres not many on here

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By *lay2018Couple over a year ago

westmeath & roscommon.

Is it true indian men all have small cocks. Maybe thats why you aint getting meets.

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By *r Mahogany70Man over a year ago

Leicester

"I've met Indian men. I liked them but they worked long hours so weren't available as much as I liked "

Random

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is it true indian men all have small cocks. Maybe thats why you aint getting meets. "

I thought that was Chinese men

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've met Indian men. I liked them but they worked long hours so weren't available as much as I liked

Random"

Lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is it true indian men all have small cocks. Maybe thats why you aint getting meets. "
pause this while I put the kettle on lol

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By *habsMan over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

"Once upon a time everyone who confessed to being a football fan was viewed upon as being a hooligan...because that's how the media made them out to be.

This!

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By *hinaManMan over a year ago

Twickenham

"Is it true indian men all have small cocks. Maybe thats why you aint getting meets.

I thought that was Chinese men

Love the stereotyping and ignorance here. Yes all Chinese men have small cocks and they are all good at maths

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is it true indian men all have small cocks. Maybe thats why you aint getting meets.

I thought that was Chinese men

Love the stereotyping and ignorance here. Yes all Chinese men have small cocks and they are all good at maths

Lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I can't speak for the wife, but in terms of me.

I certainly have a preference for certain body types and skin types.

Whilst an indian lady would be more than attractive to me there are certain looks that don't do it for me. I won't list them though as I find this to be not polite.

I'm not sure why some people list them as I would just reply thank you but no thanks. No need to give a reason.

Wish there were just 20% people like you on fab.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is it true indian men all have small cocks. Maybe thats why you aint getting meets.

I thought that was Chinese men

Love the stereotyping and ignorance here. Yes all Chinese men have small cocks and they are all good at maths

thats why they all have small dicks.

they can read the numbers on the tape measure properly lol

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By *eddonistikMan over a year ago

Manchester

"Do any women find indian men attractive on here. So many profiles state no asian/indian men. Why have we got a bad reputation? (I know some of this is down to preference so i won't argue with that) just seems a lot of people won't meet me because I'm brown/indian. Don't want to cause arguments here. Would just like to see what people have to say and if anyone would meet me? Nice toned gentleman xx"

I hope I'm not insulting you here, it isn't intended. I host quite a few GBs. The questions I ask when it comes to who will the lady see include race and body type.

I often get no Asians as part of the reply, in conversation you this usually means Pakistani, Bangla Deshi and Indian Muslims. Indian Hindus there doesn't seem to be a problem with, . It seems like the Pakistani etc Muslims are often seen as being disrespectful of women who enjoy fun in our lifestyle. White non Muslim women are seen as unworthy of respect, women also speak of behaviour in clubs when such men just push through and feel they can do what they want. It's sad and a great shame that so many men should be tarred with the same brush. However take attitudes like the above, the abuse of of young, (mainly) white girls by groups of Asian, (mainly Muslem) men, that's what'll happen.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I am a british asian male. I was born and raised in the uk. So i see myself as british. I have the same british values as the rest of you. And ultimate respect towards women. the new generation of asians like meself, have the same values and mindset as british lads

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is it true indian men all have small cocks. Maybe thats why you aint getting meets. "

words fail me!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've met Indian men. I liked them but they worked long hours so weren't available as much as I liked

Random"

let me rephrase. I find some Indian men attractive. Unfortunately for me the ones I fucked didn't have the time for me so I couldn't keep seeing them. Less random?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have an Asian friend who is looking for a good buddy

Her (he is male)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

To OP, ignore the ignorant, stereotyping BS...

Don't spend too much time and energy imploring people to change their minds about deep rooted opinions - you know not how they grew to be so...

Be more than the sum of your phenotypical traits...

Express yourself with eloquence...

Treat all with care...even those you feel slighted by....

Visit clubs and attend socials, always groomed from head to toe

Be optimistic and hopeful but never expectant or entitled...

Follow this guidance and you'll share in life's pleasure with many wonderful people....

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

No i have an average size cock. Plus size isn't everything

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

And for the record I'm hindu indian if that helps. I got a message from a user privately saying all indian men are married and unlcean. Totally disrespectful imo!

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I have no problem meeting men of any ethnic background and have done so. Unfortunately York isn't known for its large amount of non-whites so I struggle to meet Asian men. The ones I have met (and the word 'Asian' is a huge catch-all for people of incredibly disparate nationalities) have all been delightful, great fun, and interesting to chat with.

PS The Indian men I've met did NOT have small cocks. Or the Chinese person. And they could teach certain others a thing or two when it comes to manners.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I like Indian men, just as much and white and black men, but I don't fancy everyone, it's down to everyone's individual preferences. And please ignore the rude comment about penis size in Asian men, what a disgusting disrespectful comment x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thank you Julia

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Focussing on those profiles that include rather than exclude you and doing everything you can to maximise your appeal to them will make fab a much more rewarding experience than getting frustrated by people who have no interest in you anyway.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've met Indian men. I liked them but they worked long hours so weren't available as much as I liked "
Do you want one?

Her

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've met Indian men. I liked them but they worked long hours so weren't available as much as I liked Do you want one?

Her"

Sounds more like the freebies section of gumtree.

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By *ezebelWoman over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Ive removed posts and Im closing this now sorry

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