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advice for a new couple having meets
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By *spot50 OP Man
over a year ago
rochester |
So been on a while and have met a fantastic rampant lady who is looking for us to meet others as a couple, be it a single lady or a couple, just asking for advice on best approach on this as its all new for me to meet as a couple |
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By *spot50 OP Man
over a year ago
rochester |
"If a male I'd female with singles profile asked me to meet them with someone else I wouldn't do it unless I knew them well hope this helps "
I know her very well and its her idea to try a ffm meet, as you can guess I'm not going to resist to much lol |
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over a year ago
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You'd think for a single women a Feb couple would be better as it's more Likley to be an even group meet than her ending up the couples play thing for their fantasy |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You'd think for a single women a Feb couple would be better as it's more Likley to be an even group meet than her ending up the couples play thing for their fantasy"
you would think, but say, for arguments sake, its actually the guys idea to join forces and have an mff, and he pays more attention to the other female, is his fb going to accept that as one of those things, or kick off?
who knows |
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By *spot50 OP Man
over a year ago
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"You'd think for a single women a Feb couple would be better as it's more Likley to be an even group meet than her ending up the couples play thing for their fantasy
you would think, but say, for arguments sake, its actually the guys idea to join forces and have an mff, and he pays more attention to the other female, is his fb going to accept that as one of those things, or kick off?
who knows"
But she would get the same attention isn't that what swinging is about |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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new toy syndrome.
in a couple dynamic, you are fully aware of each other and concsious that you HAVE to give your time equally to your new plaything, as well as the one you already have.
however, when you havent got that connection, the whole caring about the feeling of the other person can, not will, get lost in the moment, and lead to one being left out |
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By *spot50 OP Man
over a year ago
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"new toy syndrome.
in a couple dynamic, you are fully aware of each other and concsious that you HAVE to give your time equally to your new plaything, as well as the one you already have.
however, when you havent got that connection, the whole caring about the feeling of the other person can, not will, get lost in the moment, and lead to one being left
out"
But then don't all relationships get based on trust and knowing what a partner wants and allowing them to find what they like, your observations can happen in a lo g term relationship too, and be more damaging, just asking |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"new toy syndrome.
in a couple dynamic, you are fully aware of each other and concsious that you HAVE to give your time equally to your new plaything, as well as the one you already have.
however, when you havent got that connection, the whole caring about the feeling of the other person can, not will, get lost in the moment, and lead to one being left
out
But then don't all relationships get based on trust and knowing what a partner wants and allowing them to find what they like, your observations can happen in a lo g term relationship too, and be more damaging, just asking"
absolutely can do, im not saying it cant, and never said it would happen in your instance.
what i am saying is, long term couples generally think of each other on a par of thinking of themselves, so when they get involved with another play person, they would generally remember they are there with someone else.
much the same as going out drinking with friends.
i have found myself almost ignoring the person i came out with, whilst chatting with someone else.
its the same thing |
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