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The exclusive single bi fem.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Do they really exist ? Is there any genuine single bi females on this site now that actually meet couples for ffm fun. We would love to hear from any genuine single bi who meet couples x |
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There are loads, just not many that meet couples, and generally those that do, tend to prefer full not soft swap.
I prefer to meet couples socially after chatting for a while first, not many couples respect that, but I have certain experiences I have no wish to replicate. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are loads, just not many that meet couples, and generally those that do, tend to prefer full not soft swap.
I prefer to meet couples socially after chatting for a while first, not many couples respect that, but I have certain experiences I have no wish to replicate."
Why on earth would a couple not... Expect a social? I can't get my head round this? Don't wonder couples have a bad name... I could never envisage meeting someone without chatting/ socialising first.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are some of us around but you have to bear in mind that most of us (well me anyway!) have to fancy both male and female to play.....this means there are a very small proportion of couples that I would be interested in! It is hard enough finding a single male that you find attractive etc without adding having to fancy the female too in to the mix!
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By *ussypussWoman
over a year ago
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"There are loads, just not many that meet couples, and generally those that do, tend to prefer full not soft swap.
I prefer to meet couples socially after chatting for a while first, not many couples respect that, but I have certain experiences I have no wish to replicate."
Ditto, although there are a few couples I've met before and love return visits to  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im on here as a single and I'm deffo bisexual my trouble is i find it difficult to find i couple where I'm sexually attracted to both of them
The hunt goes on....... |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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"There are some of us around but you have to bear in mind that most of us (well me anyway!) have to fancy both male and female to play.....this means there are a very small proportion of couples that I would be interested in! It is hard enough finding a single male that you find attractive etc without adding having to fancy the female too in to the mix!
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This x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wonder if the couples who search fruitlessly for single bi females understand the problem from the single girls perspective ?
Firstly what's in it for her ?
Secondly she is often expected to meet them on her own , which is daunting to say the least .
Thirdly , many couples seek the ffm as their first experience so what if it all goes wrong ?
So it's gotta be better to get out there to clubs and socialise , chat and get to know the girls first , and then it will happen .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't want to travel somewhere just to have a little play with a woman. I like full on with both man and woman and I've not seen any here I would do that with |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are loads, just not many that meet couples, and generally those that do, tend to prefer full not soft swap.
I prefer to meet couples socially after chatting for a while first, not many couples respect that, but I have certain experiences I have no wish to replicate.
Why on earth would a couple not... Expect a social? I can't get my head round this? Don't wonder couples have a bad name... I could never envisage meeting someone without chatting/ socialising first. "
I had a couple once message me about coming to theirs for some fun, given they were a good 2 hrs from me I would have arrived at ........ 7am |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we found that patience, perseverance, politeness, respect go along way we tweeked our profile, posted in forums and went in chatrooms its about getting people to notice you. like others have said its more daunting for a single fem so they need to be comfortable with all of it. there are so many people looking for the same thing it is very hard to find. just keep trying |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"we found that patience, perseverance, politeness, respect go along way we tweeked our profile, posted in forums and went in chatrooms its about getting people to notice you. like others have said its more daunting for a single fem so they need to be comfortable with all of it. there are so many people looking for the same thing it is very hard to find. just keep trying"
Fully agree. Took us a while to get what we wanted but we eventually got there.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You are pretty much looking for the holy grail but they do exist. I'd love to find a couple that I felt comfortable with from here, however I need to built a rapport with them, understand the dynamics of the relationship and of course the physical attraction all round. That's a big ask for a website. More likely to happen at clubs ir socials. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm a single bI fem. A few couples I like on Fab. My main problem is having time and babysitters to meet them. Being a single parent and babysitters are usually limited to when I work sucks a bit. Advance planning is the way to go. But not like next month-too far away and too much a tease lol! But I agree with some of the girls, most of the time I only like one part of the couple. I'm not picky but attraction is kinda key and obviously personality too! Happy swinging and keep looking xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As you can see from the other bi fems that have answered and the couples that have met them yes we do exist but like it has already been said for me to play I have to fancy both parties and I am defo not for soft swap couples which limits the pool for me really as many couples are looking for just the girls to play or soft swap I am bi-sexual not gay so if I am meeting a couple the whole point for me is so I get the best of both worlds. It is not easy as we are all looking for our own adventurous and to find people who match what your looking for sexually and socially is extremely difficult |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its called a three some for a reason, three should be equally involved, not two and one watching  I can sort of understand couples that soft swap, I think??
We on the other hand .. Don't do soft swap... There has too be a mutual attraction, and respect for all parties involved..... But that's just how we roll....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You are pretty much looking for the holy grail but they do exist. I'd love to find a couple that I felt comfortable with from here, however I need to built a rapport with them, understand the dynamics of the relationship and of course the physical attraction all round. That's a big ask for a website. More likely to happen at clubs ir socials."
I totally agree re the dymanics of their relationship....as a single female I need to be sure that both parties are 100% in to a FFM and one is not just doing it for the sake of the other. If they have veris from single females then that would satisfy me on that point, but, once again, you still have to fancy both! Also, I agree with someone else's post that I would rarely go with a soft swing couple as the point of going with a couple is to have cock and pussy...otherwise I would look for FF only!! Please remember that single bi fems are not here just to satisfy your fantasies but also need to get something from it themselves!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I so agree - finding a couple where I fancy both equally and both want to play is hugely difficult. Many couples have restrictions on what they want from play - no kissing, no penetration, ff play only... and that's absolutely fine but it makes my search a bit more difficult. I like a happy heap of bodies all playing together |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some do. The rest probably got bored of couples just looking for a plaything. Or men pretending to be couples.  "
It's this for me, lots of chat but no action once they've sorted each other out. Or the other trick is to ask to meet but then only at midnight after they've been for a meal & a drink, yeah right I'm always say here dressed to please & ready to go 24/7  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Some do. The rest probably got bored of couples just looking for a plaything. Or men pretending to be couples.
It's this for me, lots of chat but no action once they've sorted each other out. Or the other trick is to ask to meet but then only at midnight after they've been for a meal & a drink, yeah right I'm always say here dressed to please & ready to go 24/7 "
yeah ..i hate that one ..chat for ages then they say we'll meet saturday night but after 12 when we've been out , and usually the lady has had her fill of dutch courage !!...try inviting us for the drink and the night out ..better chance of getting to know each other |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Let's face it the odds are stacked against people looking for single girls and when I find a couple I like I see them quite a lot so I don't need to meet anymore else guessing lots of single girls do the same |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What a ridiculous statement.
Couldn't be further from the truth, well speaking for us anyway.
The mind boggles  "
Agreed! For us meeting a single fem it is certainly not just so C can get some variety! In fact when things start off he often barely gets a look in (not that he complains!) Also agree with other posts where single fems say they want to play with the make too. Just shows the importance of conversing and setting clear ground rules before meeting! |
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We do exist! I'm a single bi female and met more couples than singles since being on fab although I only joined to find like minded single women! One of the main reasons being they are bloody hard to find and too far away, would love to have regular meets with just bi or gay women but there aren't many on here that are close enough...I only meet couples if there is attraction with the woman mostly as I'm not really here for men but if there's an attraction with both then that's a bonus and the funs even better for all of us...about women being a plaything for couples though I'm not sure I agree with that point, it's usually the man being a plaything on my meets...I meet couples primarily for the female half but if there's an attraction with the male then I have fun with both although it's hard to find I have found a few couples where I've liked both, if they like it then we're good to go, if not then good luck finding what you're looking for! For me personally it's all about attraction, connection, communication and location...also getting what I want from a meet as well as taking into consideration what the couple wants...I tend to go back regularly to previous meets which is easier than finding new couples as the rapport etc is already there...I think some people don't realise though that the sheer volume of messages single bi women get on here is unbelievable and it's bloody hard to reply to all of them, some of you vanish amongst them which is crap but keep trying and you'll find what you're after...hope, perseverance and a hot partner is all you need! Haha! Good luck! |
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
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"Im a single bi-fem and I play with couples ....dont get asked that often tho x "
Well, in your profile it clearly states 'single men only please', and it also says that you are just looking for men in the profile caption. That will reduce the number of couples asking you quite a bit.
If they've read the profile, of course  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm a single bI fem. A few couples I like on Fab. My main problem is having time and babysitters to meet them. Being a single parent and babysitters are usually limited to when I work sucks a bit. Advance planning is the way to go. But not like next month-too far away and too much a tease lol! But I agree with some of the girls, most of the time I only like one part of the couple. I'm not picky but attraction is kinda key and obviously personality too! Happy swinging and keep looking xxx"
the whole babysitter thing is just as hard for couples as well
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"Some do. The rest probably got bored of couples just looking for a plaything. Or men pretending to be couples.
I'm not a man honest
An FF couple!!! Yay just what I want he he
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Is there no man in your MF couple? That's how I understood your post |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There are some of us around but you have to bear in mind that most of us (well me anyway!) have to fancy both male and female to play.....this means there are a very small proportion of couples that I would be interested in! It is hard enough finding a single male that you find attractive etc without adding having to fancy the female too in to the mix!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think for a bi girl to meet a couple it's usually the guy just wanting to shag her
Based on what?"
Sometimes this is true, not always. From past experience. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Some do. The rest probably got bored of couples just looking for a plaything. Or men pretending to be couples.
I'm not a man honest
An FF couple!!! Yay just what I want he he
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Is there no man in your MF couple? That's how I understood your post "
Ahh no I said I'm female, I was the one posting hence I am female, well I was the last time I looked. My other half dose not post. As it states in our profile. |
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"Some do. The rest probably got bored of couples just looking for a plaything. Or men pretending to be couples.
I'm not a man honest
An FF couple!!! Yay just what I want he he
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Is there no man in your MF couple? That's how I understood your post
Ahh no I said I'm female, I was the one posting hence I am female, well I was the last time I looked. My other half dose not post. As it states in our profile. "
Serves me right...not read your profile  Shame on me. Thanks for putting me straight. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think for a bi girl to meet a couple it's usually the guy just wanting to shag her"
mmmm ok you do understand what bi is right cause while as a threesome he is definitely involved (don't really get soft play) I like girls Ilike the feel, the taste and many things about them. Just at moment wish I lived in midlands as seems to be quite a few there xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can be exclusive but by no means elusive.
Another single bi female here who exists and meets MF couples
I do need to fancy both the male and female and want kissing, oral all ways and full swap at least. It's the point of a THREEsome to me but I appreciate everyone wants different things .
I find that a lot of the couples I fancy (real ones, not men pretending to be an MF couple):
Want soft swap only
Want bareback sex only
Don't want kissing between me and them
Don't want a social meet to see how we get on and establish whether there's any connection
Message me only at stupid o clock inviting me to theirs. (AKA, M has gotten F d*unk and thinks I will turn up in the middle of the night/morning to help him take advantage of her)
live too far away
Want me to be their slave
Are only looking for under 35s ( every says I look much younger but I respect people"s criteria)
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