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Rant: Why can't people read my profile?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm quite clear on my profile that if your profile says straight then don't message me...
Yet my delete and block list is quite long...
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Because unfortunately a lot of guys on here don't bother reading profiles and just send a copy and pasted message to any female within a 50 mile radius. And yes, that makes every others guys attempts that little bit harder |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm quite clear on my profile that if your profile says straight then don't message me...
Yet my delete and block list is quite long...
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Same for us. Wish admin would put full bi filters in place to stop straight guys pestering us.  |
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By *ebsCoupleCouple
over a year ago
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"I'm quite clear on my profile that if your profile says straight then don't message me...
Yet my delete and block list is quite long...
Because unfortunately a lot of guys on here don't bother reading profiles and just send a copy and pasted message to any female within a 50 mile radius. And yes, that makes every others guys attempts that little bit harder"
Not just guys, couples do it as well.
Just block and move on.
They're wasting their own time. |
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Same for us. Wish admin would put full bi filters in place to stop straight guys pestering us. "
I would kill for that.
Also some sort of feature that shows you if they changed their sexuality from straight to bi 5 mins before messaging you...
"I'm bi, but never been with a guy"... don't waste my bloody time  (can't you tell I'm in a fowl mood?  ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Same for us. Wish admin would put full bi filters in place to stop straight guys pestering us.
I would kill for that.
Also some sort of feature that shows you if they changed their sexuality from straight to bi 5 mins before messaging you...
"I'm bi, but never been with a guy"... don't waste my bloody time (can't you tell I'm in a fowl mood? )"
Please don't leave the house today  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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so, are you not after straight men at all, even as part of a couple?
why would the male half of a couple need to be bi if they are meeting a single bi female? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Same for us. Wish admin would put full bi filters in place to stop straight guys pestering us.
I would kill for that.
Also some sort of feature that shows you if they changed their sexuality from straight to bi 5 mins before messaging you...
"I'm bi, but never been with a guy"... don't waste my bloody time (can't you tell I'm in a fowl mood? )"
please yes a bi filter  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"so, are you not after straight men at all, even as part of a couple?
why would the male half of a couple need to be bi if they are meeting a single bi female?"
excuse me, miss (waves hand in the air, to ask a question) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"so, are you not after straight men at all, even as part of a couple?
why would the male half of a couple need to be bi if they are meeting a single bi female?
excuse me, miss (waves hand in the air, to ask a question)"
I like bi guys so i want bi guys... I don't meet halfs of couples. |
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"I'm quite clear on my profile that if your profile says straight then don't message me...
Yet my delete and block list is quite long...
Same for us. Wish admin would put full bi filters in place to stop straight guys pestering us. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"so, are you not after straight men at all, even as part of a couple?
why would the male half of a couple need to be bi if they are meeting a single bi female?"
She wants bi guys because she has a bi FB who she would like to call to join in for fun on occasions. Not going to happen with a straight guy.
I read the profile. 
But then why not invite said friend to join you here as a couple? You might enjoy more success. |
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By *ingjayMan
over a year ago
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"so, are you not after straight men at all, even as part of a couple?
why would the male half of a couple need to be bi if they are meeting a single bi female?
She wants bi guys because she has a bi FB who she would like to call to join in for fun on occasions. Not going to happen with a straight guy.
It is that whole thing of I'm a single female ..... But I have a friend you have to play with ,I haven't read the profile, but if a guy is messaging a single female to meet a single female what difference would it make if he was bi or not....
I read the profile.
But then why not invite said friend to join you here as a couple? You might enjoy more success."
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By *ingjayMan
over a year ago
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"so, are you not after straight men at all, even as part of a couple?
why would the male half of a couple need to be bi if they are meeting a single bi female?
She wants bi guys because she has a bi FB who she would like to call to join in for fun on occasions. Not going to happen with a straight guy.
It is that whole thing of I'm a single female ..... But I have a friend you have to play with ,I haven't read the profile, but if a guy is messaging a single female to meet a single female what difference would it make if he was bi or not....
I read the profile.
But then why not invite said friend to join you here as a couple? You might enjoy more success."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"so, are you not after straight men at all, even as part of a couple?
why would the male half of a couple need to be bi if they are meeting a single bi female?
She wants bi guys because she has a bi FB who she would like to call to join in for fun on occasions. Not going to happen with a straight guy.
I read the profile.
But then why not invite said friend to join you here as a couple? You might enjoy more success."
well, you see, i read the same profile as you, and took it the same way, however, i cant understand why, if its a single woman, why she would stipulate that the male that is interested in her has to be bi, when it probably wouldnt make a difference to the way he would play with her, if that makes sense
and if the OP is only interested in meeting with her bi FB, then surely, its a couples profile and should be as such, not trading as a single to get meets then insist on this phantom partner joining in.
i wasnt asking if OP would meet half a couple, i was asking if the male half of a couple interested in meeting her, as a single female, would have to be bi.
(last bit aimed back at the OP, not you CL) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would never message anyone, or even wink at them, without reading their profile first. We all have preferences, and they should be respected.
Ignoring a profile is a bit like randomly shouting amidst a crowd of people "who will have sex with me?". That's not something I've ever tried, so I can't categorically say it wouldn't work, but I think there are smarter ways of attracting the right people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would never message anyone, or even wink at them, without reading their profile first. We all have preferences, and they should be respected.
Ignoring a profile is a bit like randomly shouting amidst a crowd of people "who will have sex with me?". That's not something I've ever tried, so I can't categorically say it wouldn't work, but I think there are smarter ways of attracting the right people. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Same for us!! Yet because people dont read our profile we get called timewasters!!! 
your not asking for bi men instead of straight are you?"
no but we do have very specific want on ours, i just share the frustration of the op |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"so, are you not after straight men at all, even as part of a couple?
why would the male half of a couple need to be bi if they are meeting a single bi female?
She wants bi guys because she has a bi FB who she would like to call to join in for fun on occasions. Not going to happen with a straight guy.
I read the profile.
But then why not invite said friend to join you here as a couple? You might enjoy more success.
well, you see, i read the same profile as you, and took it the same way, however, i cant understand why, if its a single woman, why she would stipulate that the male that is interested in her has to be bi, when it probably wouldnt make a difference to the way he would play with her, if that makes sense
and if the OP is only interested in meeting with her bi FB, then surely, its a couples profile and should be as such, not trading as a single to get meets then insist on this phantom partner joining in.
i wasnt asking if OP would meet half a couple, i was asking if the male half of a couple interested in meeting her, as a single female, would have to be bi.
(last bit aimed back at the OP, not you CL)"
It wouldn't make any difference whether he's straight or not. Unless sex with a dildo was the desire.
I'm thinking about this too much! 
Maybe that's what the OP meant by "kinky." I think a little more detail about what you want is required, OP. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've had some classics over the last few days ~ I just delete & move on whilst trying to maintain a 'it is what it is' attitude."
we should post some |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm quite clear on my profile that if your profile says straight then don't message me...
Yet my delete and block list is quite long...
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As a single female profile what difference does it make if single men who contact you are bi? is is it because you are really a couple?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You don't really make it clear in the post but if your reason for meeting men that must be bi is so that your male bi friend can join in then in my _iew you should have a couples profile with him. Just a bugbear of ours when you see profiles, mainly women, who add near the end, I also have a FB who may/will join in. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I only put that i have a bi fb on there for any bi guy who my be tempted in a 3 sum. Its not mandatory that it happens or indeed as some assume because we are a couple.
Why do i want a bi guy? Simple i find them more confident, relaxed etc... They have less inhebitions and are willing to try a lot more fun things. Its my preffrence at the end of the day and I am going to stick with it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You don't really make it clear in the post but if your reason for meeting men that must be bi is so that your male bi friend can join in then in my _iew you should have a couples profile with him. Just a bugbear of ours when you see profiles, mainly women, who add near the end, I also have a FB who may/will join in."
nope it becaues I perfer them... if in the future a guy wants a 3 sum then I can help it happen. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I only put that i have a bi fb on there for any bi guy who my be tempted in a 3 sum. Its not mandatory that it happens or indeed as some assume because we are a couple.
Why do i want a bi guy? Simple i find them more confident, relaxed etc... They have less inhebitions and are willing to try a lot more fun things. Its my preffrence at the end of the day and I am going to stick with it"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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yes its hard work on here. i put my likes and dislikes on here, but still i get people saying. Do you do bareback, anal, dp, what time etc etc. zzzz yawn. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some people must have a 'god' complex - as if to say 'why wouldn't you want me?'.
How would they like it if - they ordered steak in a restaurant and got brought a burger?.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It always saddens me that straight single guys get battered in the forums. But simply, it cuts all ways. My profile states I'm strictly women only - no guys, TV/TS or couples but the only 'looked at you....' Are - yep all of those! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It always saddens me that straight single guys get battered in the forums. But simply, it cuts all ways. My profile states I'm strictly women only - no guys, TV/TS or couples but the only 'looked at you....' Are - yep all of those! "
They don't know that you're only looking for women until they look at your profile. |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"It always saddens me that straight single guys get battered in the forums. But simply, it cuts all ways. My profile states I'm strictly women only - no guys, TV/TS or couples but the only 'looked at you....' Are - yep all of those! "
if you have them blocked, they don't appear |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"It always saddens me that straight single guys get battered in the forums. But simply, it cuts all ways. My profile states I'm strictly women only - no guys, TV/TS or couples but the only 'looked at you....' Are - yep all of those!
if you have them blocked, they don't appear"
so that will leave the couples TV's, not sure if blocking TV's will strip them off your looked at me list... it does guys |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It always saddens me that straight single guys get battered in the forums. But simply, it cuts all ways. My profile states I'm strictly women only - no guys, TV/TS or couples but the only 'looked at you....' Are - yep all of those!
They don't know that you're only looking for women until they look at your profile."
It's clearly written on my status. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It always saddens me that straight single guys get battered in the forums. But simply, it cuts all ways. My profile states I'm strictly women only - no guys, TV/TS or couples but the only 'looked at you....' Are - yep all of those! "
Yep you might catch the bi or gay if they look at your profile |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would never message anyone, or even wink at them, without reading their profile first. We all have preferences, and they should be respected.
Ignoring a profile is a bit like randomly shouting amidst a crowd of people "who will have sex with me?". That's not something I've ever tried, so I can't categorically say it wouldn't work, but I think there are smarter ways of attracting the right people. "
Same here. I always read before I instigate anything whatsoever.
Next time I'm in a crowd, I may start laughing to myself as I recall your post |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get men attatching pics of their nobs ob a daily basis saying hi fancy this ???
And i'm gay!!!!
I have male mates on here so refuse to filter men out altogether.
Just stop replying to ones who do not read. Laugh, shrugg it off and move on x |
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"I'm quite clear on my profile that if your profile says straight then don't message me...
Yet my delete and block list is quite long...
Because unfortunately a lot of guys on here don't bother reading profiles and just send a copy and pasted message to any female within a 50 mile radius. And yes, that makes every others guys attempts that little bit harder"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm quite clear on my profile that if your profile says straight then don't message me...
Yet my delete and block list is quite long...
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Everyone gets messages they don't want. Everyone!
Moaning about it on the forum has never changed anything and never will.
Keep calm and press delete. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm quite clear on my profile that if your profile says straight then don't message me...
Yet my delete and block list is quite long...
Everyone gets messages they don't want. Everyone!
Moaning about it on the forum has never changed anything and never will.
Keep calm and press delete. "
nice. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Gotta love some of the messages I've had being told to 'get over myself' and 'was just teasing you I would't have tuned up anyway' Just as a responce to this thead |
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