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when lying isnt lying ?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just had a message from a guy . His profile age states 39, in his profile he says 42 and in the message he says he's 53. When I politely declined because of the lies (and wondering what else he was lying about ) he said he wasn't lying !
So when does lying not become lying ?  |
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loads of people lie about their age on here and think nothing of it. I don't understand why because its usually immediately obvious and they give themselves away in conversation, our favourite was the man who would have been about 9 when he went on his first lads holiday to Ibiza if his claimed age was correct  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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How many of the 'single' can accomodate turn into married can't accomodate. I met a guy who.s profile said he was 42 he turned out to be 55 and his photo must have been 20 years out of date. no second meet for him. and what about the couples who are really single guys. need i say more |
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I'm 43 but I can have meaningful conversations with people loads older cos I'm fond of social history, am extensively read and have watched lots of television for years so know a fair bit about things that happened donkeys years ago. See? I can even talk older  I'd give ten bob to someone who thought I was younger though!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just had a message from a guy . His profile age states 39, in his profile he says 42 and in the message he says he's 53."
Wow, that's weird. I guess technically, he's not lying...he is currently 53, but at one point he was 42, and before that, he was 39.
Seriously though, that's a horrible first impression. |
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Everyone lies everyday, even to themselves, it is a human trait. Where it is wrong is where someone is being abusive. If someone skirts round an issue to prevent hurt, then that is a sensitive move. It is all about someone's objectives. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Best one I heard was a lady friend of mine agreed to meet a guy, when he turned up he wasn't even the same race as his picture. His response was that he couldn't get any meets if he put his actual face picture up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Everyone lies everyday, even to themselves, it is a human trait. Where it is wrong is where someone is being abusive. If someone skirts round an issue to prevent hurt, then that is a sensitive move. It is all about someone's objectives. "
Lying about age on profile is probably due trying to get around age range filters. Ot is still an act of deception... Hate it! |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"Everybody lies. Even the holier than though "I never lie" brigade.
Fact of life.  "
this line always makes me laugh
slight difference between "oh i haven't had a chocolate biscuit"... and "oh I am 15 years older than I said"..... or the one you always mention....
unless they all count the same now? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Everybody lies. Even the holier than though "I never lie" brigade.
Fact of life.
this line always makes me laugh
slight difference between "oh i haven't had a chocolate biscuit"... and "oh I am 15 years older than I said"..... or the one you always mention....
unless they all count the same now?"
There is not a cut off point for when an untruth is not a lie. But yes, there are degrees of lying. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When he says it doesn't hurt, when he sticks his willy up your bum, because it doesn't hurt........ him !!!
Does it hurt then lol"
Stick a cucumber up you bum and you tell me  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just had a message from a guy . His profile age states 39, in his profile he says 42 and in the message he says he's 53. When I politely declined because of the lies (and wondering what else he was lying about ) he said he wasn't lying !
So when does lying not become lying ?
as a 39 yr old bloke.... its not my profile!!!! "
I wasn't saying it was you .... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Just had a message from a guy . His profile age states 39, in his profile he says 42 and in the message he says he's 53.
Wow, that's weird. I guess technically, he's not lying...he is currently 53, but at one point he was 42, and before that, he was 39.
Seriously though, that's a horrible first impression. "
And got peeved when I wouldn't meet ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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lying about your age, is one thing but some people on here lie about everything. pretending they have met me before, contacting me on another profile because i have blocked them.
and lots of other things, they must think i was born yesterday.
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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There's some really amazing ones, when someone tells the same lie to themselves and sometimes others about some situation or something they did that they end up believing their own lies and thinking that's the truth.
Like a denial thing or way to justify themselves.
In the end they are convinced that they are speaking the truth.
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"lying about your age, is one thing but some people on here lie about everything. pretending they have met me before, contacting me on another profile because i have blocked them.
and lots of other things, they must think i was born yesterday.
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When were you born then? And don't lie! I liked Dora Bryan in a taste of honey. Good film. |
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