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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just curious but why do so many guys say this to women.? Now I'm okay with people saying something was good... But statements like your the best at .....insert sexual act here....
Well why say it....
So would you tell someone they weren't good.... I must admit I'd never Okay rarely tell someone they are useless..... But I wouldn't tell them it was great either unless it really was good. And I think if it was good enough for comment they would realise it.
But I am curious as to what others do... And how do you take the compliments like this..
Cali x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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With a pinch of salt Cali .
Often it's said to get a reaction back , like they expect you reciprocate with a similar statement .
Perhaps to boost their confidence ?
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I never tell anyone that. It's disrespectful to anyone else I've been with. Besides everyone is different and brilliant in their own way. I have only ever had 2 experiences that weren't so good and it could be argued that both times I was partly to blame for rushing in rather than getting to know them a bit first. Comparisons are not for me really. |
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It just amuses me... Even more so when I've heard them say it to someone else already. Myself and a good friend have been known to pull a guy up on the fact that he's said it to us both... And who is the best.... The guys face was great... Cruel but fun.
I have also replied before that you can't know whose the best ever till you have tried everyone  |
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Look what happened in Liar Liar when Jim said "I've had better!" probably they are trying to avoid being beaten into a pulp.
It's a hard thing to know what to say - do you say "How was it for you dear?" or "did the Earth move for you?"
Would you take it as an insult if someone told you that you were satisfactory? It's hard to know what to say? I don't say wow that was the best unless it was, but it's nice to hear that it was good or that you hit all the right buttons surely? |
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"It just amuses me... Even more so when I've heard them say it to someone else already. Myself and a good friend have been known to pull a guy up on the fact that he's said it to us both... And who is the best.... The guys face was great... Cruel but fun.
I have also replied before that you can't know whose the best ever till you have tried everyone "
If he had thought on his feet he could have said you were still both 'the best' like different winners on X Factor and then he could have asked for another go at whatever he said you, and your friend, were the best at, to see who was the Ultimate Best at Whatever x |
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well they dont say it to me  i would say, it was nice or ok. have met men who said they had a great time then never heard from then again anyway.
usually its good in some ways not so good in other ways. when you havnt been getting much sex you are grateful for anything sometimes.  |
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