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Dirty talk - specifically 'cunt' :)
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Now, when it comes to the old dirty talk during sex as far as i am concerned the muckier the better. Now i know some people are not into it and some are. However, there is one word that always seems to cause a stir...yep..it's the word 'cunt'
Now i have had meets in the past which have not gone to plan due to the fact i like to use it during sex (hence why my profile mentions it quite a lot so the expectations are set correctly). How does everyone else feel about it. guys/gals...does it turn you on or off? Does it really get you going because it is a hard and nasty word? Or does it make you wanna get out of there as quickly as possible  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I don't mean calling someone it. I mean using it to refer to the female genetalia...
Although i don't mind being called it in the sack. has to be tagged onto the word 'dirty' though haha
Pussy seems a bit tame for me. It's ok sometimes but it just seems a bit, well, flowery and wet. |
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I don't mind the word being used to describe pussy, but again being called a cunt wouldn't turn me on, it's one of those things where I think oh he just called me a cunt I'm not sure how I feel about that and I would spend time thinking about it whilst fucking and not enjoying the sex lol |
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I would not use it first - as I know it causes offence for some. It's like a lot of things.....you need a sign that someone wants your cock there....they they want you to use that word. Otherwise no.
But I guess swinging often being about breaking taboos, when it is used, I do find it a turn on cos it is truly unromantic....a bit like I don't meet people on here to make love to them; we fuck. |
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It is a very old English and Scottish word (see Rabbie Burns' poetry). There's no reason to stop using it just because it's used by some foul-mouthed morons. (What sort of scummy and ignorant man uses a part of a woman's body as an insult, anyway?)
Reclaim the word ladies. You have a CUNT not a pussy, front bottom or whatever you wish to euphemise it as! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm in the middle of a great sexy text exchange at the moment with a woman where she (and I) use the word freely to describe her (really rather lovely) intimate parts.
However, when we play for real we tend not to use it. Something about the word spoken during sex seems wrong, too strong somehow. Yet in sex chat we both seem to find it okay.
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"It is a very old English and Scottish word (see Rabbie Burns' poetry). There's no reason to stop using it just because it's used by some foul-mouthed morons. (What sort of scummy and ignorant man uses a part of a woman's body as an insult, anyway?)
Reclaim the word ladies. You have a CUNT not a pussy, front bottom or whatever you wish to euphemise it as!"
I don't get this "reclaiming" thinking. Some black people use that same kind of rationale by using the "n" word: I don't like that word either and have absolutely no desire to "reclaim" vulgar/offensive words and apply them to myself.
What kind of cocamammy thinking is that?!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dont like the word but in the moment I know that telling him to fill my cunt blows his mind... guess its the submitting to doing something I dont like so much which gives it added punch  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like the word.. I swear like a sailor anyway and i believe thats just another word.... Dont get me wrong say it to me in a disrespectful way and im likely to punch you but in the middle of sex who cares?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I was sat in an office and one of lads was to use it around me then I would give them a ticking off.
I use it all the time when it comes to sex I love the word it sort of rolls of my tongue particularly when it ends the sentence "please sir can you fist your cunt!" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It is a very old English and Scottish word (see Rabbie Burns' poetry). There's no reason to stop using it just because it's used by some foul-mouthed morons. (What sort of scummy and ignorant man uses a part of a woman's body as an insult, anyway?)
Reclaim the word ladies. You have a CUNT not a pussy, front bottom or whatever you wish to euphemise it as!"
Agree completely with you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It is a very old English and Scottish word (see Rabbie Burns' poetry). There's no reason to stop using it just because it's used by some foul-mouthed morons. (What sort of scummy and ignorant man uses a part of a woman's body as an insult, anyway?)
Reclaim the word ladies. You have a CUNT not a pussy, front bottom or whatever you wish to euphemise it as!
Agree completely with you "
Many years ago I went to see vagina monologues and they spent a good 10 mins saying the word cunt some ladies faces were just sheet horror I like many others saw the word in a different context! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That is definitely a no no word when it comes to using it with 99.9% of women. I would never use it. But do like dirty talk hehe "
I'm one of the 0.1% but only in the throes of rampant sex, when I'm feeling particularly porn-like. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I swear a lot. I have to control myself in the forum posts just to try and look normal.
...but yeah, if i'm really pissed of i do tend to say cunt. Not sure why that's a word that is so frowned upon.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends on who is saying it. I love the word. In the right situation.
Words are just words. People make them offensive. If society decided the word 'tree' was offensive... it would be offensive. Weird. |
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"Depends on who is saying it. I love the word. In the right situation.
Words are just words. People make them offensive. If society decided the word 'tree' was offensive... it would be offensive. Weird. "
This has to be one of the most singularly vulgar posts I have ever had the displeasure of bearing witness to....
'Tree!' she says. 'Tree!!!' I have never heard such outlandish obscenity ever before....
I am tempted to report you to the relevant authority - The Temperance Society Of Verbal and Arboreal Correctness.
Tree indeed..... |
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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago
Hereford |
Is this going to be another one of those threads (like the numerous 'cock' threads) where we learn that different people like different things and as long as nobody is getting hurt then each to their own, man?
Maybe, after we come to this realisation we could all hold hands and dance a happy dance and revel in the joy that comes from our mutual understanding and tolerance.
Or, alternatively we could bicker about it incessantly.......  |
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By *nigmatic1Woman
over a year ago
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"Is this going to be another one of those threads (like the numerous 'cock' threads) where we learn that different people like different things and as long as nobody is getting hurt then each to their own, man?
Maybe, after we come to this realisation we could all hold hands and dance a happy dance and revel in the joy that comes from our mutual understanding and tolerance.
Or, alternatively we could bicker about it incessantly....... "
Bicker all ye like chuck...I still hate the word heheh  |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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I am aware it is JUST a word... and it is not the word but the general connotations and contexts that I like or dislike. Arguably, a sequence of sounds could mean anything today and that word could undergo a change in meaning and connotation overnight or with time, in fact many words do change their meaning with time.
It is just what I specifically associate with this word...to me it is simply vulgar and I would walk away. But I do accept that other people feel different about it.  |
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By *nigmatic1Woman
over a year ago
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"I am aware it is JUST a word... and it is not the word but the general connotations and contexts that I like or dislike. Arguably, a sequence of sounds could mean anything today and that word could undergo a change in meaning and connotation overnight or with time, in fact many words do change their meaning with time.
It is just what I specifically associate with this word...to me it is simply vulgar and I would walk away. But I do accept that other people feel different about it. "  |
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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago
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"Is this going to be another one of those threads (like the numerous 'cock' threads) where we learn that different people like different things and as long as nobody is getting hurt then each to their own, man?
Maybe, after we come to this realisation we could all hold hands and dance a happy dance and revel in the joy that comes from our mutual understanding and tolerance.
Or, alternatively we could bicker about it incessantly.......
Bicker all ye like chuck...I still hate the word heheh "
Awww, nobody has called me 'chuck' since my gran died.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is this going to be another one of those threads (like the numerous 'cock' threads) where we learn that different people like different things and as long as nobody is getting hurt then each to their own, man?
Maybe, after we come to this realisation we could all hold hands and dance a happy dance and revel in the joy that comes from our mutual understanding and tolerance.
Or, alternatively we could bicker about it incessantly....... "
We'll, I may not agree with what you say, but you're entitled to your opinion as it's a free world and each to their ,,,,,,, thingy etc etc |
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Here is a word that really pisses me off.... onomatopoeia. Now, part of the reason that the cunt haters dislike that word is because it sounds harsh, hard, and unfeminine. That of course, is part of the reason that the cunt likers enjoy that word. As for me.... Onomatopoeia. A banging word...... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been known to talk dirty when I'm d*unk. However it would seem you can't take the poshness out of a dirty boy! "
I not even if you take his bow tie off ???
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I adore the word, cunt, cunt, cunt. Love being called it, love using it with guys and they love hearing me say it. It's such a gorgeously plosive word, it's insulting, demeaning and filthy.
Understand individual women find it offensive but like everything, that's their business and therefore they should never have to accept it.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's gotta be better than 'tender wetness' anyway (no shit..one woman once asked me to lick her tender wetness)"
Arggghhh! Bit like 'foof'. Instant turn off. 'willy' is another. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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its a word thats used throughout the cuntry, i think its cuntageous like yawns, one does it and everyones doing it, Everyone seems to use the word. I much prefare the word Twat! Clunge, Clout, I only use the word in the derrogative. |
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The only time we ever use the words cunt or cock is during sex. She will often ask me to 'put something up my cunt' or 'can I suck your cock'. We both find it a real turn-on. Incidentally did you know that 'berk' is short for Berkshire Hunt, which rhymes with ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The only time we ever use the words cunt or cock is during sex. She will often ask me to 'put something up my cunt' or 'can I suck your cock'. We both find it a real turn-on. Incidentally did you know that 'berk' is short for Berkshire Hunt, which rhymes with ..." James Hunt lol
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R has always used the word 'cunt' for her vagina. My ex was exactly the same. Better than the twee American 'pussy' and much better than 'front bottom.'
It's only ignorant, sexist men that use the word as an insult. Shows you what they really think of women, doesn't it? |
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