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Yes we all know that there is no such thing as perfection. Plus you can always trust real life to get in the way lol
But just say you could click your fingers. What would be the perfect Bull or Cuckold Couple for you? |
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"Yes we all know that there is no such thing as perfection. Plus you can always trust real life to get in the way lol
But just say you could click your fingers. What would be the perfect Bull or Cuckold Couple for you?"
As the couple, we've met some pretty terrific guys in the last few years. So for us, the ones we've enjoyed the most have been great in bed but more important to us was that they understood that all three people in the scenario have a role and their understanding of that was vital to everyone's enjoyment. |
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"Yes we all know that there is no such thing as perfection. Plus you can always trust real life to get in the way lol
But just say you could click your fingers. What would be the perfect Bull or Cuckold Couple for you?
As the couple, we've met some pretty terrific guys in the last few years. So for us, the ones we've enjoyed the most have been great in bed but more important to us was that they understood that all three people in the scenario have a role and their understanding of that was vital to everyone's enjoyment. "
I'm very much in agreement with you Jo and Lola. For me the husbands role is is crucial to the delicious pleasure I get from meeting cuckold couples |
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Oooooh the perfect bull i would say ive met a few,last october going to a party which had a huge ammount of bulls, which was the start of my new swinging life,it totally changed my perception of the dominent male,im not a sub but have dabbled a bit to see what i like,,i like black bulls definitely
I now go to partys for that reason to meet blackmen and alot are bulls which i find an amazing turn on, they are really good in bed and take control and tease me like mad lol |
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Still to meet the perfect Bull! all we seem to have met so far are BULL shitters who talk the talk but when it comes to it can't or won't walk the walk
unfortunately 
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It's an exciting moment when you meet someone who is totally on the same wavelength as you both - speaking from a couples point of view. So many tend to forget about the hubby or aren't keen to communicate with him. In my mind they are not bulls at all. Just wannabes. |
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"Oooooh the perfect bull i would say ive met a few,last october going to a party which had a huge ammount of bulls, which was the start of my new swinging life,it totally changed my perception of the dominent male,im not a sub but have dabbled a bit to see what i like,,i like black bulls definitely
I now go to partys for that reason to meet blackmen and alot are bulls which i find an amazing turn on, they are really good in bed and take control and tease me like mad lol "
Ahh hello there. I remember chatting with youon a cosy sofa at one of these parties x |
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"Still to meet the perfect Bull! all we seem to have met so far are BULL shitters who talk the talk but when it comes to it can't or won't walk the walk
unfortunately
Sammi "
Thats a shame, what were the missing qualities Sammi? |
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"Oooooh the perfect bull i would say ive met a few,last october going to a party which had a huge ammount of bulls, which was the start of my new swinging life,it totally changed my perception of the dominent male,im not a sub but have dabbled a bit to see what i like,,i like black bulls definitely
I now go to partys for that reason to meet blackmen and alot are bulls which i find an amazing turn on, they are really good in bed and take control and tease me like mad lol
Ahh hello there. I remember chatting with youon a cosy sofa at one of these parties x"
Oh yes im not easily forgotten,hope to see you about soon  |
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"Oooooh the perfect bull i would say ive met a few,last october going to a party which had a huge ammount of bulls, which was the start of my new swinging life,it totally changed my perception of the dominent male,im not a sub but have dabbled a bit to see what i like,,i like black bulls definitely
I now go to partys for that reason to meet blackmen and alot are bulls which i find an amazing turn on, they are really good in bed and take control and tease me like mad lol "
Can I ask, when you met these bulls at parties do you continue with a bull/cuckold type relationship afterwards or are they purely one offs? |
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"Still to meet the perfect Bull! all we seem to have met so far are BULL shitters who talk the talk but when it comes to it can't or won't walk the walk
unfortunately
Sammi
Thats a shame, what were the missing qualities Sammi?"
Have PM'ed you |
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Interesting points here .
We have mat many bulls , some very good , and others not so good .
However , we are not a typical cuck couple so our opinions may not be as relevant .
There are times we love the dominance of a good bull , who takes control and gives the wife a proper seeing to . He is fully aware of my presence , and gets the fact that I am enjoying his power and prowess . He will even be sure I get to see every detail .
This is great to a point , and only really gets spoilt by the fact that he may think he needs to pound her for too long . This is an unfortunate common occurrence , and perhaps why we don't do it as often as we might if this wasn't the case .
Early in our swinging life we met a very experienced bull a few times at his place . This was fine until he became a bit possessive , coming out with such things as she is mine now , bring her over to her bull , you know she wants me etc...... Which for us was off putting and he felt some kind of ownership .
So although we like the bull type play now and again , we are not the typical couple in this kink , but this is our observation .
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"Oooooh the perfect bull i would say ive met a few,last october going to a party which had a huge ammount of bulls, which was the start of my new swinging life,it totally changed my perception of the dominent male,im not a sub but have dabbled a bit to see what i like,,i like black bulls definitely
I now go to partys for that reason to meet blackmen and alot are bulls which i find an amazing turn on, they are really good in bed and take control and tease me like mad lol
Can I ask, when you met these bulls at parties do you continue with a bull/cuckold type relationship afterwards or are they purely one offs?"
I as a single lady i dont do the cuckhold thing,yes i Do continue the bull relationship,sometimes there One offs,but alot of time i play with the same bulls as like me they can be regulars at the partys and we have connected ?n a social level andplay,they are bulls in the bedroom but also great company to accompany to other partys or socials |
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"Interesting points here .
We have mat many bulls , some very good , and others not so good .
However , we are not a typical cuck couple so our opinions may not be as relevant .
There are times we love the dominance of a good bull , who takes control and gives the wife a proper seeing to . He is fully aware of my presence , and gets the fact that I am enjoying his power and prowess . He will even be sure I get to see every detail .
This is great to a point , and only really gets spoilt by the fact that he may think he needs to pound her for too long . This is an unfortunate common occurrence , and perhaps why we don't do it as often as we might if this wasn't the case .
Early in our swinging life we met a very experienced bull a few times at his place . This was fine until he became a bit possessive , coming out with such things as she is mine now , bring her over to her bull , you know she wants me etc...... Which for us was off putting and he felt some kind of ownership .
So although we like the bull type play now and again , we are not the typical couple in this kink , but this is our observation .
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I think this illustrates the point beautifully. ... What makes the perfect Bull/ cuckold couple?? Communication. |
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"Oooooh the perfect bull i would say ive met a few,last october going to a party which had a huge ammount of bulls, which was the start of my new swinging life,it totally changed my perception of the dominent male,im not a sub but have dabbled a bit to see what i like,,i like black bulls definitely
I now go to partys for that reason to meet blackmen and alot are bulls which i find an amazing turn on, they are really good in bed and take control and tease me like mad lol
Can I ask, when you met these bulls at parties do you continue with a bull/cuckold type relationship afterwards or are they purely one offs?
I as a single lady i dont do the cuckhold thing,yes i Do continue the bull relationship,sometimes there One offs,but alot of time i play with the same bulls as like me they can be regulars at the partys and we have connected ?n a social level andplay,they are bulls in the bedroom but also great company to accompany to other partys or socials"
please forgive my ignorance then as I thought that bulls were by definition part of a cuckold relationship. I don't get how they translate to a single female/male relationship. Surely what you are describing is a dominant male?
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"Oooooh the perfect bull i would say ive met a few,last october going to a party which had a huge ammount of bulls, which was the start of my new swinging life,it totally changed my perception of the dominent male,im not a sub but have dabbled a bit to see what i like,,i like black bulls definitely
I now go to partys for that reason to meet blackmen and alot are bulls which i find an amazing turn on, they are really good in bed and take control and tease me like mad lol
Can I ask, when you met these bulls at parties do you continue with a bull/cuckold type relationship afterwards or are they purely one offs?
I as a single lady i dont do the cuckhold thing,yes i Do continue the bull relationship,sometimes there One offs,but alot of time i play with the same bulls as like me they can be regulars at the partys and we have connected ?n a social level andplay,they are bulls in the bedroom but also great company to accompany to other partys or socials please forgive my ignorance then as I thought that bulls were by definition part of a cuckold relationship. I don't get how they translate to a single female/male relationship. Surely what you are describing is a dominant male?
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Im not an expert as u are right a bull is a dominant malethat have been given the name of 'bull' so woman and couples are aware of there dominating ways,,its just different to a dominant white male from my experience.ive seen cuckholds couples at play with a bull,the only difference is i havent got a cuckhold partner standing nearby,i still get the same domination,but yes i Do see your point of discussion
Being a single woman it may be seen diferent,just like being excepted in swinging itself it was innitialy a couples thing to do |
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Im not an expert as u are right a bull is a dominant malethat have been given the name of 'bull' so woman and couples are aware of there dominating ways,,its just different to a dominant white male from my experience.ive seen cuckholds couples at play with a bull,the only difference is i havent got a cuckhold partner standing nearby,i still get the same domination,but yes i Do see your point of discussion
Being a single woman it may be seen diferent,just like being excepted in swinging itself it was innitialy a couples thing to do"
I think this is why many cuckold couples struggle to find a bull. Many think it's just about being a dominant male. It is so much more than that. |
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Im not an expert as u are right a bull is a dominant malethat have been given the name of 'bull' so woman and couples are aware of there dominating ways,,its just different to a dominant white male from my experience.ive seen cuckholds couples at play with a bull,the only difference is i havent got a cuckhold partner standing nearby,i still get the same domination,but yes i Do see your point of discussion
Being a single woman it may be seen diferent,just like being excepted in swinging itself it was innitialy a couples thing to do
I think this is why many cuckold couples struggle to find a bull. Many think it's just about being a dominant male. It is so much more than that."
yes i understand that,i would like to know though am i just playing with dominent men,where does the single woman come into it,you have made me think about that,is a bull just for cuckhold couples,im confused now |
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Im not an expert as u are right a bull is a dominant malethat have been given the name of 'bull' so woman and couples are aware of there dominating ways,,its just different to a dominant white male from my experience.ive seen cuckholds couples at play with a bull,the only difference is i havent got a cuckhold partner standing nearby,i still get the same domination,but yes i Do see your point of discussion
Being a single woman it may be seen diferent,just like being excepted in swinging itself it was innitialy a couples thing to do
I think this is why many cuckold couples struggle to find a bull. Many think it's just about being a dominant male. It is so much more than that.
yes i understand that,i would like to know though am i just playing with dominent men,where does the single woman come into it,you have made me think about that,is a bull just for cuckhold couples,im confused now "
Lables can be tricky especially as a word can mean different things to different people. To my mind many couples also don't fully understand what cuckoldry is. Hense why communication is so very important. Not every Dominant male is a Bull. Although in my opinion you have to be a Dom to be a Bull.
In terms of couples the pure definition of a lifestyle cuckold couple in my mind has the desire to find a single exclusive Bull. A couple that desires lots of Bulls is what I would call a roleplay cuckold couple. |
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Interesting points about true cuckold couples and the role players. I hired that is what these parties are that claim to have bulls in attendance. many are just playing the part for the evening....couples and bulls. The desire of any cuckold couple is to find that one perfect bull where everything is in synch. It's a relationship between 3 people. |
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Depends what party though,the partys i go have alot blackmen sum bulls
The party i originally stated has taken this on board,there first party had alot of single woman.of course the bulls enjoyed
However there 3rd party they have just invited 5 of there favourite woman,as they know its about couples,mainly cuckhold couples as that what its all about |
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"Depends what party though,the partys i go have alot blackmen sum bulls
The party i originally stated has taken this on board,there first party had alot of single woman.of course the bulls enjoyed
However there 3rd party they have just invited 5 of there favourite woman,as they know its about couples,mainly cuckhold couples as that what its all about"
Would that be Taboo Noir? |
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Yep lol x the launch was brill opened alot doors for me lol met another party organiser for example and another saw me in veri and alot other people ive seen in the scene since.the changes since launch are not for me now
But it was the start of my journey as said previous posts |
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Speaking as a cuckold male, communication is key, the bull had to be respected, and this had to be earned. We get so many men who think they know what I/we want in or relationship. But in reality they have no clue. To go to an evening where supposed bulls will be on the prowl with no previous knowledge of our wants and desires wouldn't work for us. And for an unknown guy to wonder over and try and dominate me would just make my inner bull come out to. The bulls power is given to him by the couple. Not taken. |
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"Speaking as a cuckold male, communication is key, the bull had to be respected, and this had to be earned. We get so many men who think they know what I/we want in or relationship. But in reality they have no clue. To go to an evening where supposed bulls will be on the prowl with no previous knowledge of our wants and desires wouldn't work for us. And for an unknown guy to wonder over and try and dominate me would just make my inner bull come out to. The bulls power is given to him by the couple. Not taken."
Very well said. This is why when I go to parties now the aim isn't to fuck but to network. I think my past experience of having a sub for three years has been an asset to me. When you have a sub you draw up a contract which requires total honesty regarding boundaries and desires.
Although to the best of my knowledge there isnt usually a contract between a couple and a bull I like to approach a couple in a similar fashion. |
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"Sound like a good attitude."
Sounds like a fucking awesome attitude. Using a party or evening or whatever you want to call it as a networking tool - pardon the pun - is maybe the way to go. Eases the pressure on all sides, one would imagine. |
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