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over a year ago
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We've chatted about inviting a single guy in, sure it will happen, but what's the etiquette?
If and when it happens we want a guy who is good looking/well groomed/well endowed/articulate/respectful/willing to travel/willing to leave at the end.
We don't think we are above anyone or in anyway condescending ,but this would be a big deal to us, and need to be in the driving seat from the start.
Advise ,suggestions please |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd advise just being honest about what you're looking for. What you're wanting isn't unusual and to be honest fairly the norm. Remember you're always in charge if Inviting someone to join you. Just he honest and discuss rules before hand.
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I always give a time when I will be there and, (and I thought this was just me being a bit odd) I like to give a time I will leave too. I don't want to outstay my welcome and couples might want to do their own thing after I've gone. |
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We enjoy inviting single guys to our place. We have to say they have proved to be far more reliable than couples or single ladies.
We get them to ring us prior to meeting and we find this s out a lot of the time wasters.
Then we meet them for a drink and a chat on neutral ground, but tell them to keep their diary clear for the rest of the day 'just in case'.
By. This time we are fairly sure whether we intend to play or not. |
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So far I've been lucky enough to have only travelled up to 20 miles for a Meet but I have a potential one later this month of nearly 50 miles. It will be worth it though besides, it is a very comfy car |
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as long as the meet is a definite i dont really have a mileage limit , i like the social side of things as well so meets further away can involve a little more of the social aspect rather than just turning up for sex and leaving so meets further away can be better in my experience |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We've chatted about inviting a single guy in, sure it will happen, but what's the etiquette?
If and when it happens we want a guy who is good looking/well groomed/well endowed/articulate/respectful/willing to travel/willing to leave at the end.
We don't think we are above anyone or in anyway condescending ,but this would be a big deal to us, and need to be in the driving seat from the start.
Advise ,suggestions please"
Make it clear its a social meet if you are asking people to travel then no wires are crossed and if you don't click then nothing lost. Be aware many will travel hundreds of miles but many expect to play no matter what you say. |
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