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"Is anal sex allways painfull?" Not if the person giving it to you is skillful enough... | |||
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"it also helps if the guys has a tiny cock lol"  | |||
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"About 8inc spit only no lube :/" No, no, no, no, no.....you'll do yourself an injury, lube is a must!! | |||
"About 8inc spit only no lube :/" In this instance, yup will probably always hurt! With anal there is no such thing as too much lube and a slow entry is essential. Something that helps me is using a toy/plug before hand to release the muscles a bit. | |||
"it also helps if the guys has a tiny cock lol" Nice one! I knew it'd come in handy somewhere!  R
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"About 8inc spit only no lube :/" Then yes...that's always going to be painful... | |||
"About 8inc spit only no lube :/ In this instance, yup will probably always hurt! With anal there is no such thing as too much lube and a slow entry is essential. Something that helps me is using a toy/plug before hand to release the muscles a bit." Doc Johnson medium for a while beforehand, good preparation. | |||
"it also helps if the guys has a tiny cock lol" | |||
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"Is anal sex allways painfull?" No, not painful at all. My cock slides in quite easily 
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"Speaking from experience. The thing for me is to stretch the sphincter slowly. The more you do it the less chance of it hurting. A fatter cock will hurt more without sufficient stretching. Loads of lube doesn't make a difference to me if I'm not suitably stretched. A slim long cock cab slip in with no pain at all. If you can,get him to use fingers first" i love my slim cock, lol | |||
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"About 8inc spit only no lube :/ No, no, no, no, no.....you'll do yourself an injury, lube is a must!!" Av never used lube lol | |||
"And I've had anal with spit and no lube or spit. Just my own natural lubricant from my vagina" Thats the only way ive done it too | |||
"And I've had anal with spit and no lube or spit. Just my own natural lubricant from my vagina Thats the only way ive done it too "But the OP doesn't have a vagina to supply natural lube. | |||
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"Anal is very special and very wonderful. But needs a skilful lover! It is about TRUST, LUBE, and MAXIMUM ENJOYMENT FOR THE GIRL!The girl needs to be very turned on, horny, and up for it. Loads of foreplay, lots of attention, and warm her up properly.......slowly! Have loads of lube handy, I reccomend Astroglide gel, ideal for anal play. Apply some lube to your fingertips, and play round her whole pussy and ring, gently teasing her and pleasing her, unhurried, and keep on applying lube. After a while, try pressing your fingertip very gently round her ring, and it should hopefully just pop in.... STOP! keep still! Keep it there till your girl moves on your fingertip a little........gently does it Then withdraw your fingertip, reapply lube, and play some more around her ring........ Then wait for her to relax, and it will pop back in again....... Dont move! Your girl will rock her hips, move herself, and draw your finger gently inside..... Do not push, or try to thrust in and out! Let the girl dictate the pace........ Patience is the key! You are waiting for her muscles to relax, and if she clenches down, the game is over! Stay still, let her enjoy the full sensations, get used to the feeling, and get to know that she trusts you........ Pull out again, pleasure here some more, reapply more lube. Dont be in any hurry! Wait for her to want your fingers back in there, and reinsert your finger, and again let her rock and move herself.... When you feel her relax some more, very gently try two fingertips, very very very gently and S L O W L Y , and listen to her breathing, her body, and go at her pace, be prepared for a long wait.... After a while she will relax some more, and two fingers are drawn in, and all is going well....... Draw out and reapply lube, and repeat the above when she wants your fingers back....... She will know when she is ready for anal as both fingers are in there, relaxed, and her body is highly reponsive..... Boys, you need to be REALLY hard! Lube up your cock really well..... Get into position, with your cock just touching her ring. Don't try to go in yet, play round her clit, up and down her slit, in and out of her pussy a little, and then back to her ring. Now stop! Dont move! Just leave it there! Let your girl move back against your cock, and adjust herself..... Keep a gentle pressure, and resist the urge to push or thrust. All of a sudden your cock head will pop inside. S T O P ! Do not move! Let her relax, gasp a breath or two, and get used to the fullness feeling..... Then hopefully she will gently rock herself, and you will be gently drawn in, with no thrusting on your part. Remember, the moment she clenches down or contracts, it is game over, so relaxation and trust is the key. Just stay coupled together this way for what seems like an age....... Then, hopefully, she will start to rock and roll, and this is the signal for you to VERY gently thrust a little, and remember to take it at HER pace. Hopefully you will be rewarded by her having the most mind-blowing orgasm she has ever experienced. So gently withdraw. Cuddle her, kiss her, and tell her how wonderful she is. Then hopefully you will be enjoying anal again with her many times thereafter. "very good advice | |||
"Anal is very special and very wonderful. But needs a skilful lover! It is about TRUST, LUBE, and MAXIMUM ENJOYMENT FOR THE GIRL!The girl needs to be very turned on, horny, and up for it. Loads of foreplay, lots of attention, and warm her up properly.......slowly! Have loads of lube handy, I reccomend Astroglide gel, ideal for anal play. Apply some lube to your fingertips, and play round her whole pussy and ring, gently teasing her and pleasing her, unhurried, and keep on applying lube. After a while, try pressing your fingertip very gently round her ring, and it should hopefully just pop in.... STOP! keep still! Keep it there till your girl moves on your fingertip a little........gently does it Then withdraw your fingertip, reapply lube, and play some more around her ring........ Then wait for her to relax, and it will pop back in again....... Dont move! Your girl will rock her hips, move herself, and draw your finger gently inside..... Do not push, or try to thrust in and out! Let the girl dictate the pace........ Patience is the key! You are waiting for her muscles to relax, and if she clenches down, the game is over! Stay still, let her enjoy the full sensations, get used to the feeling, and get to know that she trusts you........ Pull out again, pleasure here some more, reapply more lube. Dont be in any hurry! Wait for her to want your fingers back in there, and reinsert your finger, and again let her rock and move herself.... When you feel her relax some more, very gently try two fingertips, very very very gently and S L O W L Y , and listen to her breathing, her body, and go at her pace, be prepared for a long wait.... After a while she will relax some more, and two fingers are drawn in, and all is going well....... Draw out and reapply lube, and repeat the above when she wants your fingers back....... She will know when she is ready for anal as both fingers are in there, relaxed, and her body is highly reponsive..... Boys, you need to be REALLY hard! Lube up your cock really well..... Get into position, with your cock just touching her ring. Don't try to go in yet, play round her clit, up and down her slit, in and out of her pussy a little, and then back to her ring. Now stop! Dont move! Just leave it there! Let your girl move back against your cock, and adjust herself..... Keep a gentle pressure, and resist the urge to push or thrust. All of a sudden your cock head will pop inside. S T O P ! Do not move! Let her relax, gasp a breath or two, and get used to the fullness feeling..... Then hopefully she will gently rock herself, and you will be gently drawn in, with no thrusting on your part. Remember, the moment she clenches down or contracts, it is game over, so relaxation and trust is the key. Just stay coupled together this way for what seems like an age....... Then, hopefully, she will start to rock and roll, and this is the signal for you to VERY gently thrust a little, and remember to take it at HER pace. Hopefully you will be rewarded by her having the most mind-blowing orgasm she has ever experienced. So gently withdraw. Cuddle her, kiss her, and tell her how wonderful she is. Then hopefully you will be enjoying anal again with her many times thereafter. "oh yes indeedy!! | |||
"And I've had anal with spit and no lube or spit. Just my own natural lubricant from my vagina Thats the only way ive done it too
But the OP doesn't have a vagina to supply natural lube. "just adding that it doesn't have to hurt. I've had no lube first thing in the morning with no pain. The OP can find out how much is needed | |||
"Failing all that, give her a stick to bite on "lol  | |||
"No pain no gain " oh whatever floats ya boat!  | |||
"Failing all that, give her a stick to bite on " | |||
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"it also helps if the guys has a tiny cock lol "It is true. Life's a bitch, then you die.  | |||
