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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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i know this married couple who have bin married for 30 odd years and have bin swinging for 10 of those years...
but sadly one of the partners of the couple passed away 5 months ago last week i got text from the window husband to say hes back on the swinging after taken a break after her death....
so im asking is it right to be going back into swinging after all those years with a partner advice please as he asking me what should he do an i really cant tell him what to do |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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Only he knows the answer. Would his late wife want him to reform friendships made within the swinging community after her passing, he will have a feel for that.
It is his choice and his choice only.
Maybe socialise for a while, then play.
Good luck to him  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Everyone has different ways of coping with loss. If he were on a dating website id say yeah its far too soon but most people on this site aren't after emotional attachment so I wouldn't say its too soon at all. The man has probably gone from sex on tap, to nothing for 5 months... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Good for him....I am sure most partners would not want the one they leave behind to be miserable and it was something they enjoyed together anyway. Lots of love to him.xxx |
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