"I have a physical disability but appear normal to look at, i live in the North West but find it hard to find women to meet me once i mention it. Any advice appreciated."
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"mention it on your profile, anyone you chat to will know about it from the start then. "
And I'd probably be specific about it too because if you generalise it as a disability, it could leave people wondering. A specific disability may be an issue for one person, but not a problem for another. Good luck x |
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"don't mention it  "
I guess that was a generalisation - if it affects your ability to play fully then mention it but don't go into detail. Chances are if anyone has to ask they don't deserve to meet you anyway. |
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"don't mention it
I guess that was a generalisation - if it affects your ability to play fully then mention it but don't go into detail. Chances are if anyone has to ask they don't deserve to meet you anyway."
Well put |
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"don't mention it
I guess that was a generalisation - if it affects your ability to play fully then mention it but don't go into detail. Chances are if anyone has to ask they don't deserve to meet you anyway.
Well put "
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"don't mention it
I guess that was a generalisation - if it affects your ability to play fully then mention it but don't go into detail. Chances are if anyone has to ask they don't deserve to meet you anyway.
Well put "
During the 2012 Olympic games I got talking to someone on here from London who was in a wheelchair, paralysed from the waist down, he mentioned it from the outset, and as I was in London for the games I met him. Had a great time, went back to his, etc etc
Last year I was talking to someone who didn't mention a disability at all, when I met him for a social drink, he didn't have any legs.
Now, that doesn't bother me, the blatant withholding of information did. |
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