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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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just been chatting to a couple and I have sent face pics and asked for theirs and was refused, saying they are not ugly
I said that if we were going to meet we would need to see face pics before hand!
Am I wrong to ask this of them?  |
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"just been chatting to a couple and I have sent face pics and asked for theirs and was refused, saying they are not ugly
I said that if we were going to meet we would need to see face pics before hand!
Am I wrong to ask this of them? "
Nope you're not wrong to ask....some couples do refuse to send them though so we would decline to meet them! unless they will go on cam to show they're genuine. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's a chance you have to take sometimes.
If we make first contact, we will always send our pics first.
If someone contacts us, we expect to see them first.
You can never guarantee that they'll send their pics once they've seen you though.
Anyway, blind dates do work out sometimes   |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"just been chatting to a couple and I have sent face pics and asked for theirs and was refused, saying they are not ugly
I said that if we were going to meet we would need to see face pics before hand!
Am I wrong to ask this of them? "
No you are not wrong to ask but equally they are not wrong in refusing!
Some people choose not to send/show face pics which is their right....would we meet them, no.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"just been chatting to a couple and I have sent face pics and asked for theirs and was refused, saying they are not ugly
I said that if we were going to meet we would need to see face pics before hand!
Am I wrong to ask this of them? "
Nope I agree 100% |
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There are a fair few verified profiles of forum users that state they won't show any nor exchange pics 
I don't personally understand how someone could just fuck anyone; which is what the blind date option leaves but it must work for them |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"There are a fair few verified profiles of forum users that state they won't show any nor exchange pics
I don't personally understand how someone could just fuck anyone; which is what the blind date option leaves but it must work for them "
Some of them might meet for a social only meeting to see if there is an attraction. They might only meet at club nights so if there is no attraction they can go their seperate ways.
Doesn't mean they all fuck anyone.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If we make first contact, we will always send our pics first.
If someone contacts us, we expect to see them first.
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We were just having this conversation about swinging photo exchange etiquette and completely agree with the above.
Nothing more irritating than someone making contact and then asking whether you have face pictures but not including their own with the message!!
Even worse when it is a short profile with scant public photos and no veris. Does make you wonder as people have said in the thread whether they are just single men. |
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"There are a fair few verified profiles of forum users that state they won't show any nor exchange pics
I don't personally understand how someone could just fuck anyone; which is what the blind date option leaves but it must work for them
Some of them might meet for a social only meeting to see if there is an attraction. They might only meet at club nights so if there is no attraction they can go their seperate ways.
Doesn't mean they all fuck anyone...."
That's not what the profile states though.
It states they won't send/exchange pics.
They accom only & i can't remember exactly how its worded it does say 'guaranteed sex' in their own words.
Which is their choice, i just couldn't do it |
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I've had a meet before now in these circumstances.
We met first for a drink in a hotel bar, just a few miles from me, so it wouldn't have been a great loss to me if they didn't live up to expectations.
I wouldn't have travelled to the other end of the country for a meet like this, but chats before and their offer of a mobile number all stacked up.
The only downside was spotting them, though the lady came in first and without being dressed obviously, I just knew.
I did however spend a few minutes earlier wondering if the very attractive young Asian woman and her boyfriend who were busy on a mobile, might be players.
But then perhaps that's cos I see swinging people. I see them everywhere. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"just been chatting to a couple and I have sent face pics and asked for theirs and was refused, saying they are not ugly
I said that if we were going to meet we would need to see face pics before hand!
Am I wrong to ask this of them? "
if i was talkinh to someone and they wouldnt give me face pics i wouldnt bother no more  |
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No harm in asking but don't always expect a positive response. We don't have face pics on here nor do we ever send any for all the usual reasons (good jobs, privacy, you don't know how the receiver is going to use them etc.). We judge a meet request by how the requestor approaches it, open about what they want, clearly have read our profile etc etc. As we say, personality matters more and we don't need to see your face to judge that! Having said all the above if we see face pics that is great too. We use 'throw away' mobile and cam to confirm who we are before a meet xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i will not send pics, reason being apart from obvious t/wasters and pic collectors, but i have a very very sensitive job, and before u all say a innocent face pic is ok, it is not because of the idiots who fake them |
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By *eerobCouple
over a year ago
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We dont send face pics. Its not stopped people meeting us. Wealways wsnt a social meet before tjings go any furthet anyway. We have had our pics misused, you have no guarantee that the pic you rrecieve is guaranteed, we dp lome to see some form of body pic, does give and indication asto what they feel 'fabulous' etc is. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We wouldn't meet anyone without seeing face pics even a social why waste time on a social if their is no chance of play, we have our own tastes and have to be attracted to people so unless you don't care what people look like I don't see how this can work |
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