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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Has anyone lost the buzz for swinging been on here 2 years and had an amazing ride and met some wonderful people and friends for life but lately I've lost that spark .... anyone else had this happen ???  |
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I think there are probably loads that have, most probably having left. We have felt like that two or three times over the years, gone away, then come back after a break. It's usual been that we were not finding what we were looking for. Look inside yourself  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, definitely. I've been on and off a few times in the last three years. Take a break, get on with real life and come back if that's how you feel. Ive just changed my profile back to say I'm thinking of meeting again but it's a half hearted feeling so I'm in no rush. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Has anyone lost the buzz for swinging been on here 2 years and had an amazing ride and met some wonderful people and friends for life but lately I've lost that spark .... anyone else had this happen ??? "
We lose the spark all the time.
Mainly down to too much lifestyle BS, timewasters and dreamers.
If we could lose that, we have a much better time.
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"Has anyone lost the buzz for swinging been on here 2 years and had an amazing ride and met some wonderful people and friends for life but lately I've lost that spark .... anyone else had this happen ??? "
hide your profile for a while go off and do other things. You may find that after a while your buzz comez back and your profile will still be here. X |
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"Has anyone lost the buzz for swinging been on here 2 years and had an amazing ride and met some wonderful people and friends for life but lately I've lost that spark .... anyone else had this happen ??? hide your profile for a while go off and do other things. You may find that after a while your buzz comez back and your profile will still be here. X"
Great advice that |
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Yes, I have recently.
A spate of bad messages, and a fucked up social meet have left me taking a step back.
I still enjoy the forums, and in all honesty will never delete my profile, because I always come back. I've been doing this for 7 years now I think, so I'll always be a swinger, just in different guises as my life progresses. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We've got no intention of leaving the site. I like the forums and we still get the occaisional message or two.
Thought about hiding our profile but don't suppose it gets read too often anyway so what's the point?
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"Has anyone lost the buzz for swinging been on here 2 years and had an amazing ride and met some wonderful people and friends for life but lately I've lost that spark .... anyone else had this happen ??? hide your profile for a while go off and do other things. You may find that after a while your buzz comez back and your profile will still be here. X
Great advice that "
Thank you I think it's better than deleting your profile and then starting afresh as all your veris etc will still be there. Plus your friends. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have been swinging for about 5 years in all, we always lose the buzz in winter and tend to do social meets, come spring the buzz comes back and we are away again, we must be seasonal swingers if there's such a thing  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Has anyone lost the buzz for swinging been on here 2 years and had an amazing ride and met some wonderful people and friends for life but lately I've lost that spark .... anyone else had this happen ??? "
yup |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"Has anyone lost the buzz for swinging been on here 2 years and had an amazing ride and met some wonderful people and friends for life but lately I've lost that spark .... anyone else had this happen ??? "
Yes quite a few times, when it happens we tend to take an extended break. |
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"Has anyone lost the buzz for swinging been on here 2 years and had an amazing ride and met some wonderful people and friends for life but lately I've lost that spark .... anyone else had this happen ??? "
Take up building, mate  |
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