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By *xxjam OP Couple
over a year ago
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is this just me or not
we go in fab chat rooms now and then for a few reasons
1st- to chat to fellow local swingers, we find this an easy way to get rid of the fakes as we only chat to people on cam!
2nd- to show other swingers that we are still a couple and we haven't split up and there only one half pretending to be a couple
3rd- to get more verifications so that people that dont cam can see were are genuine
now the 1st reason we cant do cause we find everyone in the chat room know each other and are there for a chinwag
3rd reason no one seems to leave verifications unless to give them action
is this just us or an all round thing ?? |
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over a year ago
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I don't bother now. You don't get veris like you say. They do seem friendly with each other. I tried to be friendly as well for ages but too hard. Seems every cam you put on has a headless lady (me included) or a guy with a cock in his hand.
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By *xxjam OP Couple
over a year ago
Wakefield |
"I don't bother now. You don't get veris like you say. They do seem friendly with each other. I tried to be friendly as well for ages but too hard. Seems every cam you put on has a headless lady (me included) or a guy with a cock in his hand.
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Yeah it's like trying to win the lottery gettin into a convo has it moves to fast with all the best buds on there and all the private messages were men and we don't want a single male so was pointless  |
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I've tried on and off to join in on chat, like you say, it moves so fast it's not easy to keep up with what's going on and they all seem to know each other and they don't appear to be very inclusive. I thought if was me being a middle aged git. I only chat know to people I know, like from the forum  |
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over a year ago
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Very clique in some chat rooms like you walk in room and folk ignore you.
As for veris for me only ones i take note of are meets in person cams do not show you turn up or are nice or not nice person. Thats just my opinion but hey ho |
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"Very clique in some chat rooms like you walk in room and folk ignore you.
As for veris for me only ones i take note of are meets in person cams do not show you turn up or are nice or not nice person. Thats just my opinion but hey ho "
Not sure about your last comment. I have had some excellent private conversations in chat that enabled me to learn alot. Of course it cannot replace a social meet to get to know someone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I go into chat room, (usually General),if I am on cam it will show my face and quite happy to chat to anyone who is polite and can hold a decent conversation. I just don't wish to see cock cam only a face for me.Nor will I do cam veris as it doesn't prove you are going to turn up for a meet, which is what most are looking for on someone's feedback. |
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By *xxjam OP Couple
over a year ago
Wakefield |
"I've tried on and off to join in on chat, like you say, it moves so fast it's not easy to keep up with what's going on and they all seem to know each other and they don't appear to be very inclusive. I thought if was me being a middle aged git. I only chat know to people I know, like from the forum "
Think this is what we're going to start doing maybe |
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By *xxjam OP Couple
over a year ago
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"I find the same - impossible to get a real chat unless you are known by the others online.
This is a problem on many chat sites however - not just here on Fab"
Not tried other chat room thanks for the heads up |
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By *xxjam OP Couple
over a year ago
Wakefield |
"Maybe an add private chatrooms option would be good so you can invite friends in for a chat?
However that doesn't help with getting to know new people.  "
It's a tricky one I ya ask me it's more the people who go in them for a chat with there friends should have like an instant chat instead of just emails then you can meet new people |
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"I've tried on and off to join in on chat, like you say, it moves so fast it's not easy to keep up with what's going on and they all seem to know each other and they don't appear to be very inclusive. I thought if was me being a middle aged git. I only chat know to people I know, like from the forum
Think this is what we're going to start
doing maybe "
Sometimes it gets announced on here that we are gonna use the chatroom and set a time and room. It easier. Bit tough on the existing chatters who then wonder what the hell is going on!  |
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By *xxjam OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Very clique in some chat rooms like you walk in room and folk ignore you.
As for veris for me only ones i take note of are meets in person cams do not show you turn up or are nice or not nice person. Thats just my opinion but hey ho "
I see what ya mean with veris but like us we can't meet sometimes or a couple of months due to shifts ect so it's more alto show we r still a couple rather then showing up and I can say every meet we have planed we have stuck to and not bailed out at last min |
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"Maybe an add private chatrooms option would be good so you can invite friends in for a chat?
However that doesn't help with getting to know new people.
It's a tricky one I ya ask me it's more the people who go in them for a chat with there friends should have like an instant chat instead of just emails then you can meet new people "
Yep group instant chat would work |
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By *xxjam OP Couple
over a year ago
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"We were ignored for the most part beyond a hi in response. Any attempt to engage people was met with blank. "
That's what we had most the weekend most were chatting about there plans for the evening ect tried joining in was like speaking to my self |
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"We were ignored for the most part beyond a hi in response. Any attempt to engage people was met with blank.
That's what we had most the weekend most were chatting about there plans for the evening ect tried joining in was like speaking to my self "
And we thought it was just us |
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By *xxjam OP Couple
over a year ago
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"We were ignored for the most part beyond a hi in response. Any attempt to engage people was met with blank.
That's what we had most the weekend most were chatting about there plans for the evening ect tried joining in was like speaking to my self
And we thought it was just us "
Not at think by the looks of things it's more then first thought |
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