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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Home play
You have to clean your house as if your relatives were coming.
You are likely to provide the refreshments.
They want a shower after (towels and clean the bathroom)
They might want to stay (towels, food, bedding).
They know where you live and could be "passing" at any time.
You have to clear up after.
Risk of a No shows.
Parking and neighbours
unexpected visitors whilst playing
Club
Fixed price.
They clean up.
You can go when you want.
They provide the showers and towels.
There are other people you can play with as well.
- cost of transport there |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Clubs are often safer to meet but i prefer home as its more relaxing. I don't as a rule entertain but with the right guy i is so much more fun in your own surroundings. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Home play
You have to clean your house as if your relatives were coming.
You are likely to provide the refreshments.
They want a shower after (towels and clean the bathroom)
They might want to stay (towels, food, bedding).
They know where you live and could be "passing" at any time.
You have to clear up after.
Risk of a No shows.
Parking and neighbours
unexpected visitors whilst playing
Club
Fixed price.
They clean up.
You can go when you want.
They provide the showers and towels.
There are other people you can play with as well.
- cost of transport there"
Put that way it has to be a club, but as with anything, positives and negatives can be used to favour one side, and they can be pretty much switched around.
Personally for us a club has never appealed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally I find the thought of attending a club sleazy.
At home, I've already met the person on several ocassions so know who to expect. My house is always stocked with food and drink so sharing isn't a problem and I have a dishwasher.
I have more than one set of towels so that'a not a problem, and I have a branch of Boots in my bathroom! 
Besides, my toy and dressing up box are all to hand!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Home play
You have to clean your house as if your relatives were coming.
You are likely to provide the refreshments.
They want a shower after (towels and clean the bathroom)
They might want to stay (towels, food, bedding).
They know where you live and could be "passing" at any time.
You have to clear up after.
Risk of a No shows.
Parking and neighbours
unexpected visitors whilst playing
Club
Fixed price.
They clean up.
You can go when you want.
They provide the showers and towels.
There are other people you can play with as well.
- cost of transport there
Put that way it has to be a club, but as with anything, positives and negatives can be used to favour one side, and they can be pretty much switched around.
Personally for us a club has never appealed. "
oh, and Home Play points here only come into force when it's your own home, if we go to another's home similarly like going to another's club then Home Play wins. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Besides, my toy and dressing up box are all to hand!! "
That is one good thing about home or hotels,I have to pack all that with me and it gets more and more each time  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Besides, my toy and dressing up box are all to hand!!
That is one good thing about home or hotels,I have to pack all that with me and it gets more and more each time "
Then make sure you come home with them all. lol |
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Besides, my toy and dressing up box are all to hand!!
That is one good thing about home or hotels,I have to pack all that with me and it gets more and more each time
Then make sure you come home with them all. lol"
Ive only ever left one pair of shoes at a hotel in the past.......oh and a mobile charger so thats not too bad |
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By *onyMad123Couple
over a year ago
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Only ever done club play and only ever done it 5 times now, comfy as away from home but with regular peeps and organisers, feel safe, discreet and having children etc at home not that anything would happen with them at home, its a way of keeping our funlifes away from our home lifes.
And we normally have a fab time at the club only ever felt worried aout a situaion once which was quickly resolved 
And only ever been to one club dont feel the need to go further afield etc, so maybe im not qualified to judge in this instance   |
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Although i enjoy club play im very "vanilla" at the club. At home i feel better cause im on my own territory, but i do vet guys extremely well before there invited over. Plus when ive been shagged senseless i dont have to get up and go home |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Club play, as you dont feel obliged to start and end the night with inane small talk. Generally people we have met have not got the same interests as us apart from swinging, so a club makes it easier to just act out the shared interest! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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bit hypocritical of me as I cant accom' but I think I would prefer Home play. Hotels just seem seedy  I would be far more relaxed in someones home.
Mind you I am new so lets see what I think once I have got the nerve up to go to a club eh?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Home play - Our house is always clean as though the relatives were coming, there are always clean towels in the bathroom, we never have overnight stays and we don't mind providing a drink and snacks - after all, people have gone out of their way to come to us.
Club play - never tried it, but never had any fancy for it either, in fact the very thought of using facilities which have potentially been used by dozens of other people during the same session repulses us, but each to their own as they say |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Home play - Our house is always clean as though the relatives were coming, there are always clean towels in the bathroom, we never have overnight stays and we don't mind providing a drink and snacks - after all, people have gone out of their way to come to us.
Club play - never tried it, but never had any fancy for it either, in fact the very thought of using facilities which have potentially been used by dozens of other people during the same session repulses us, but each to their own as they say"
My sentiments exactly! |
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club play - great for one-offs and things you wouldn't usually do at home like GBs, large group play, fun in the jacuzzi/sauna/swing, and of course being exhibitionists!
home play - great for long, intense sessions with friends in an environment where you've got all the comforts and conveniences of home, plus the fun of sleep-overs occasionally.
we started off doing most of our play in clubs but now do most at home. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I certainly prefer home than club play as i can meet whoever i want at home in my own time as i dont drive it can be hard for me to get to a club on my own xxx Lois xxx |
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i also do much prefer home play,if/when it suits the other people im meeting.Im very comfy in my own surrondings and i know from past experience,people are respectful of the fact im v trusting and discreet.I also dont mind travelling to meet up with somebody initially,if thats what they prefer.So if theres anybody still awake,im a home player  |
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