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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi fun friendly couple here south east , both in our 40s genuine couple into swinging and naturism, we now interested in polyamory although we don't really know alot about it. We would love to hear from any other people interested in this in a vue to maybe starting a small social group . Love to hear from women especially
Tell us your thoughts please x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are a few polyamory socials on meetup dot com. I would like to go, but my closest is London. Would be interesting meeting other like minded people on a social basis.  |
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Polyamory is where a person is capable and activly loving more than one person. It isn't like swinging or have anything to do with it. There was a very interesting documentry on it last year with Louis Theroux. Looked into the world of 4 people living together. 2 girls 2 guys. Girs were together and each girl with each guy. They only had one on one intimacy and didn't all come together sexually. So 5 relationships all going on amongst them. Was rather complex. It isn't a lifestyle to just go into out of curiosity. Sex can be just sex but emotions with multiple partners can be damaging. I can be with someone in this world but I would want their love to myself.
Was an interesting programe.i find it hard to love one person let alone more. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sex can be just sex but emotions with multiple partners can be damaging. I can be with someone in this world but I would want their love to myself."
Polyamory is not for everybody, and its often misunderstood. It's more than just having multiple partners. Its about seeing the person that you love happy. Compersion. If I love someone, it would make me happy seeing them with someone else, either sexually or emotionally. Seeing them happy makes me happy.
But like I said, its not for everybody. |
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By *bossMan
over a year ago
LONDON |
Poly is the way forward in my opinion. I have practised this for about a decade, but only come to self define in this way for about a year (I hadn't heard of the concept before then).
It takes time and brings up some difficult emotions sometime, but doesn't life in general??
Poly pride!!!!! |
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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago
Up North |
"Was on TV the other night about a village in USA where the men have more than one wife and loAds of kids and they all live together "
I saw that one. Not fair that the women can only have one though. Also neither sex got to choose their partners did they? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Try reading Sex at Dawn by Christopher Ryan and Polyamory in the 21st century by Deborah Anapol.
It is something we're eager to do again having had a relationship with another man that lasted for a year in Japan, its just finding the right person or people |
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