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finding it hard to meet mature ladies
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"hi all i am looking to to meet mature ladies but finding it hard can any one help"
I don't understand how ANY mature woman couldn't find that pic of you - half cut with a beer bottle in your hand anything other than a tremendous attraction..... Sommat up with them surely xx
Or the fact that your profile doesn't mention ANYTHING about liking mature women ... how could that not help ? Odd .... you've pulled out all the stops and it's still not happening.
Good luck xxx |
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
North of The Wall - youll need your vest |
"I would suggest NOT messaging them saying that you love older ladies... certainly gets my back up when younger guys say that, makes me feel about 90!"
Especially the ones who are only 2 years younger than you are  .
Ive had a few of those. |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"just taken one picture off and chaned message on profile"
well done... changed it for one line to two..... very impressed...
look at it like this.... there are thousand of people out there looking for meet
hand on heart.... you would you answer your own ad???? seriously???? |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"can u send me private message if u can help me write any one "
no can do..... only you can do that, and that is personal to you... no short cuts with this one I am afraid.....I gave up helping people, went in one ear and out of the other so we all have to learn and so do you...
I will give you two words.... sell yourself.... do with those words what you will.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"can u send me private message if u can help me write any one "
People can offer suggestions on how to improve your profile, but we don't know you so can't write it for you!
You are hoping to meet "mature" women. If you can't write a simple profile highlighting YOU how are you going to be able to please a mature woman without instuctions?!!
I don't mean to be unkind but I think you're punching above your weight!
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By *ickedWWoman
over a year ago
Chester |
"can u send me private message if u can help me write any one
no can do..... only you can do that, and that is personal to you... no short cuts with this one I am afraid.....I gave up helping people, went in one ear and out of the other so we all have to learn and so do you...
I will give you two words.... sell yourself.... do with those words what you will...."
Another couple of words come to mind
POST OFFICE
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"if u help me i will listen not just in one ear and out other "
You're still not getting it!
Your profile has got to come from you so people know what YOU'RE looking for, what YOU like!
If you write a profile and ask for help in improving it that's one thing, asking someone else to write it? That's something else altogether!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ok Ill be serious
I think you need to have a good think about how you're going to sell yourself on here,you are among 100s of other guys some of whom have fabulous profiles that show a lot of thought about what they are looking for and what they have to offer
If you can't keep up with the competition or even struggle to write more than 2 lines about yourself then you hav'nt given much thought to anything
People will wonder if you put the same amount of imagination into your meets...........and then run a mile  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"ok waat else should i put on profile then
Tell 'em you've just had a new stairlift and a GT mobility scooter. Fook....they'll come in droves "
A drove is a Russian car innit ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would suggest NOT messaging them saying that you love older ladies... certainly gets my back up when younger guys say that, makes me feel about 90!"
Me too as its smacks of youngsters my kids age then and i dont want to know  even 30 aint mature enough for me now  |
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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago
near kings lynn |
If you need help to write your profile and sell yourself then it sounds like it you ever got to meet these older ladies they will be expecting you to step up to the mark in relation to sex too. If you need help with your profile as you dont know how to do it then it sounds like you will need help with satisfing the mature lady. Are you hoping someone will come help you with that too.
I suggest you try meet people ounger than you or your same age and also go for ones with a profile which is not well written. You need to be honest about your limits.
If one of the established guys on here with a well written profile helps you with your profile then when a lady meets you it will be quite possibly a big let down. She may expect a confident man who has the ability to say what he wants and express it well, if you cant do that in words then its very likely you wont do that in meeting.
Sorry but you need to really think and be honest. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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kev,
if you were applying for a job would you pester your prospective employer to help you write your C.V?
(just my tuppence worth as am wanting this thread to continue lol) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"kev,
if you were applying for a job would you pester your prospective employer to help you write your C.V?
(just my tuppence worth as am wanting this thread to continue lol) "
Tsk...tsk!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"kev,
if you were applying for a job would you pester your prospective employer to help you write your C.V?
(just my tuppence worth as am wanting this thread to continue lol)
Tsk...tsk!! "
lol well I'm at work on a Saturday morning, so need a bit of fun  |
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