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Anyone that prefer inexperience shy deaf male?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi, I been on here a while and haven't had any luck. So trying my luck on forum. Just looking if anyone interested in inexperience polite deaf male? I know most people would be put off but looking for those few that would be interested.
Just message me and I will reply, thanks.
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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago
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Hi OP.
Have you maybe thought that it could be that you do not have any photos whatsoever?
Unless you have your name and address tattooed all over your body, I don't see why you can't have one or two headless pics? But it is your choice.
I sure there will be someone for you on here, but I have no idea how or where you'd find them.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi OP.
Have you maybe thought that it could be that you do not have any photos whatsoever?
Unless you have your name and address tattooed all over your body, I don't see why you can't have one or two headless pics? But it is your choice.
I sure there will be someone for you on here, but I have no idea how or where you'd find them.
Good luck "
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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago
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"As I've said in your previous post. Did you not find out before as you've posted this exact same one about 12 times?"
Maybe he is after some fresh ideas?
If you've answered before and you can't give him or his current thread any new ideas, why post?
He's not breaking rules or making you reply. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hi M,
Just read your profile, I doubt very much if deafness is something that will prevent you getting interest, however a profile is an advertisement, so you have to attract people using your strengths, not your weaknesses.
One good quality photo tells a thousand words, it is a visual aid, just think of a supermarket shelf, the best sellers are in visually appealing packaging, not plain packets.
It takes someone 5 seconds to look at a profile, and you have to grab their attention in five seconds, words cant do that.
You say that you have had no luck in the real world, meeting or kissing someone, it will be much harder in cyberspace to sell yourself as there is so much competition.
Maybe your profile should concentrate on what you can offer, rather than what you can't.
Anyway good luck and have fun.
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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago
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"I dont sign as I never learnt it. Some people find that unusual as most people expect me to know sign language as I am deaf lol!"
I wouldn't expect you to sign. It can be tricky to learn. I only learned the alphabet and how to sign 'bullshit' and 'fuck off' lol
Maybe you can say (only if you can btw) that you lip read or explain however you communicate |
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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago
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"Hi M,
Just read your profile, I doubt very much if deafness is something that will prevent you getting interest, however a profile is an advertisement, so you have to attract people using your strengths, not your weaknesses.
One good quality photo tells a thousand words, it is a visual aid, just think of a supermarket shelf, the best sellers are in visually appealing packaging, not plain packets.
It takes someone 5 seconds to look at a profile, and you have to grab their attention in five seconds, words cant do that.
You say that you have had no luck in the real world, meeting or kissing someone, it will be much harder in cyberspace to sell yourself as there is so much competition.
Maybe your profile should concentrate on what you can offer, rather than what you can't.
Anyway good luck and have fun.
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excellent advice x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I dont sign as I never learnt it. Some people find that unusual as most people expect me to know sign language as I am deaf lol!
I wouldn't expect you to sign. It can be tricky to learn. I only learned the alphabet and how to sign 'bullshit' and 'fuck off' lol
Maybe you can say (only if you can btw) that you lip read or explain however you communicate "
i lipread. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi M,
Just read your profile, I doubt very much if deafness is something that will prevent you getting interest, however a profile is an advertisement, so you have to attract people using your strengths, not your weaknesses.
One good quality photo tells a thousand words, it is a visual aid, just think of a supermarket shelf, the best sellers are in visually appealing packaging, not plain packets.
It takes someone 5 seconds to look at a profile, and you have to grab their attention in five seconds, words cant do that.
You say that you have had no luck in the real world, meeting or kissing someone, it will be much harder in cyberspace to sell yourself as there is so much competition.
Maybe your profile should concentrate on what you can offer, rather than what you can't.
Anyway good luck and have fun.
excellent advice x"
I second that
There is a deaf woman's profile at a reasonable distance from me and she states it in her profile. She also states that she is shy and thats honesty. However she has a nice profile pic that shows she is sexy for my taste and I am sure for the taste of many. She has short text profile but well spoken. anf her profiles criterias are clear about what she is after. that makes her for me more than interesting enough to initiate a conversation and see what happens. Her deafness doesn't put me off in any way. I know you'd say its different cause she is a female and she has a 200 times better chances than a guy but she didnt count on the fact that she is a female and she wouldnt have any problem meeting but her aspirations are higher than that in she gas put a some effort in her profile and showed something to offer. I say take her as an example and di at least as she did or more coz you a better luck and a harder effort as a guy.
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If the op would like to message me privately, I am willing to help give you some tips, based on what manrider and others have added and my own take on things. This is purely for support and not a flirt. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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FriendlyShyGuy, I have the greatest admiration for people like you, who are open about things like that, and I wish you all the best of luck in your meets here. You deserve it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"FriendlyShyGuy, I have the greatest admiration for people like you, who are open about things like that, and I wish you all the best of luck in your meets here. You deserve it. "
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