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Why men faces are hidden on some couples profiles
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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because some people like discretion and prefer not having their faces on show to all and sundry, but would rather send them to people they are actually going to meet.
sure your wife would be happy to get a call off a friend of hers saying she has seen your face on the internet.
i have been recognised from my tattoos by a friend of my brother on here, so why would i want to be even more easily recognised by some others that dont know the meaning of the word discreet |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"because some people like discretion and prefer not having their faces on show to all and sundry, but would rather send them to people they are actually going to meet.
sure your wife would be happy to get a call off a friend of hers saying she has seen your face on the internet.
i have been recognised from my tattoos by a friend of my brother on here, so why would i want to be even more easily recognised by some others that dont know the meaning of the word discreet"
if you read my profile Clearly yuo would
know that my wife knows i am on a swinging site and i just seen a profile where ladies face was showing and man you paintbrushed so thats why i asked i am not sure why some people have be personal if some one ask a question can people not be adults and give a view on the subject  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"because some people like discretion and prefer not having their faces on show to all and sundry, but would rather send them to people they are actually going to meet.
sure your wife would be happy to get a call off a friend of hers saying she has seen your face on the internet.
i have been recognised from my tattoos by a friend of my brother on here, so why would i want to be even more easily recognised by some others that dont know the meaning of the word discreet
if you read my profile Clearly yuo would
know that my wife knows i am on a swinging site and i just seen a profile where ladies face was showing and man you paintbrushed so thats why i asked i am not sure why some people have be personal if some one ask a question can people not be adults and give a view on the subject "
i appreciate your good lady knows you are on whatever sites you are, i mean it wouldnt be good for her friends to know and vicariously possibly your extended family then find out.
it aint all about the 2 people involved in the situation |
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I have no idea why one half of a couple would show their face and not the other. The discretion argument doesn't hold water since recognising one would lead to recognising the other unless they are fbs that no one else knows about...so that might be your answer.
We did come across a situation once where the guy would only send a blurred shot of himself that could have been anybody yet his partner was happy to provide clear facial pictures. When we met them it was clear he had no interest in joining in at all and we guessed that the blurred shot was his attempt to get us to turn them down.....lesson learned there. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"because some people like discretion and prefer not having their faces on show to all and sundry, but would rather send them to people they are actually going to meet.
sure your wife would be happy to get a call off a friend of hers saying she has seen your face on the internet.
i have been recognised from my tattoos by a friend of my brother on here, so why would i want to be even more easily recognised by some others that dont know the meaning of the word discreet
if you read my profile Clearly yuo would
know that my wife knows i am on a swinging site and i just seen a profile where ladies face was showing and man you paintbrushed so thats why i asked i am not sure why some people have be personal if some one ask a question can people not be adults and give a view on the subject
i appreciate your good lady knows you are on whatever sites you are, i mean it wouldnt be good for her friends to know and vicariously possibly your extended family then find out.
it aint all about the 2 people involved in the situation"
As an adult self supporting person i really don't care who knows and who dont as i believe one of the foundation of western democracies are that you should be not be ashamed of what you are or what you do
i understand discretion is needed but why only hide one face not the other |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"because some people like discretion and prefer not having their faces on show to all and sundry, but would rather send them to people they are actually going to meet.
sure your wife would be happy to get a call off a friend of hers saying she has seen your face on the internet.
i have been recognised from my tattoos by a friend of my brother on here, so why would i want to be even more easily recognised by some others that dont know the meaning of the word discreet
if you read my profile Clearly yuo would
know that my wife knows i am on a swinging site and i just seen a profile where ladies face was showing and man you paintbrushed so thats why i asked i am not sure why some people have be personal if some one ask a question can people not be adults and give a view on the subject
i appreciate your good lady knows you are on whatever sites you are, i mean it wouldnt be good for her friends to know and vicariously possibly your extended family then find out.
it aint all about the 2 people involved in the situation"
As an adult self supporting person i really don't care who knows and who dont as i believe one of the foundation of western democracies are that you should be not be ashamed of what you are or what you do
i understand discretion is needed but why only hide one face not the other |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"how about they just dont want to show them,if thats not for you,move on to the next profile.simples."
In fact that goes for all the criticisms about people , if you don't like it move to the next profile
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The simple answer to the question is that the profile owner has chosen to display their profile in that way.
You may not like it, you may feel so affronted that you start threads about it, but theres nothing you can do about it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"how about they just dont want to show them,if thats not for you,move on to the next profile.simples.
In fact that goes for all the criticisms about people , if you don't like it move to the next profile
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it was a question not a criticism as i never judge people  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"how about they just dont want to show them,if thats not for you,move on to the next profile.simples.
In fact that goes for all the criticisms about people , if you don't like it move to the next profile
it was a question not a criticism as i never judge people "
I forgot to put 50p in "my mindreader of people I don't know on the internet" meter today...if you're that bothered why not ask them? |
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"i believe one of the foundation of western democracies are that you should be not be ashamed of what you are or what you do"
You have a pretty weird conception of democracy! On that argument murder would be legal... |
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By *ingjayMan
over a year ago
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Does it matter? It doesn't matter one little bit what the guy looks like....... No one is interested in anything but the female, I had it on one of my couples profiles on here, I had contacted a couple with this my single profile who were looking for single guys, I sent face pic but recieved a 'not what we're looking for' fair do's but then they contact me on one of my couples profile that shows same face pic, they seemed keen but I asked em you didn't think my face fit as a single so how have I suddenly become your type just because I have a female..... If I had met them why would I be there I wasn't their type, but they wanted to meet me with a female.....would they just be taking one for the team just to have my female friend, that sucks!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Are you looking to shag men then?
95percent of the site are after women and thats including the other women,the ladies here are always the focal point
Why would you want to study the blokes fizzog |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does it matter? It doesn't matter one little bit what the guy looks like....... No one is interested in anything but the female, I had it on one of my couples profiles on here, I had contacted a couple with this my single profile who were looking for single guys, I sent face pic but recieved a 'not what we're looking for' fair do's but then they contact me on one of my couples profile that shows same face pic, they seemed keen but I asked em you didn't think my face fit as a single so how have I suddenly become your type just because I have a female..... If I had met them why would I be there I wasn't their type, but they wanted to meet me with a female.....would they just be taking one for the team just to have my female friend, that sucks!!
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Unfortunately thats the game  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would assume they are looking for single women and don't want to scare them off. Reasonable forum question if you ask me. You see something on a profile, think hmmm wonder why that is, and ask a question to a group of people who may be able to shed some light. If you asked each couple individually you may find you are already filtered out because you aren't a single woman or you get blocked for daring to ask. I myself think its unusual to only show one half of the couple. Every couples pics I've looked at has one or two pics of the man if you're lucky and numerous ones of the woman with not much left to the imagination. When I meet a couple I'm not doing it to meet only the woman |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"how about they just dont want to show them,if thats not for you,move on to the next profile.simples.
In fact that goes for all the criticisms about people , if you don't like it move to the next profile
it was a question not a criticism as i never judge people "
yes i know it was a question,and i really didnt mean to sound harsh,but there are too may posts in my opinion that seem to want to queston or criticise the profiles of others,so to go back to my original answer,if someones profile doesnt appeal,for whatever reason,go on to the next one,and the next and the next untill you find one that does |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"Does it matter? It doesn't matter one little bit what the guy looks like....... No one is interested in anything but the female, I had it on one of my couples profiles on here, I had contacted a couple with this my single profile who were looking for single guys, I sent face pic but recieved a 'not what we're looking for' fair do's but then they contact me on one of my couples profile that shows same face pic, they seemed keen but I asked em you didn't think my face fit as a single so how have I suddenly become your type just because I have a female..... If I had met them why would I be there I wasn't their type, but they wanted to meet me with a female.....would they just be taking one for the team just to have my female friend, that sucks!!
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I am interested in more than just the female! When we meet a couple its because we like the look and sound of both. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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A lot of the replies on these type of threads always remind us of that thing our parents used to say.
When asked certain questions that they didn't or wouldn't want to give an answer to they'd say "Just because!" or "Because I say so!".
No rhyme or reason, can you remember how annoying and frustrating that was?
You'd think adults would be able to reply to other adults legitimate questions in a more enlightening way wouldn't you?  
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"A lot of the replies on these type of threads always remind us of that thing our parents used to say.
When asked certain questions that they didn't or wouldn't want to give an answer to they'd say "Just because!" or "Because I say so!".
No rhyme or reason, can you remember how annoying and frustrating that was?
You'd think adults would be able to reply to other adults legitimate questions in a more enlightening way wouldn't you?
XXXX"
sometimes 'because' is all the answer you can give though, especially to a generic question like this. maybe if the OP had asked it directly to a cuple with the males face blocked out he would get a more specific answer |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A lot of the replies on these type of threads always remind us of that thing our parents used to say.
When asked certain questions that they didn't or wouldn't want to give an answer to they'd say "Just because!" or "Because I say so!".
No rhyme or reason, can you remember how annoying and frustrating that was?
You'd think adults would be able to reply to other adults legitimate questions in a more enlightening way wouldn't you?
XXXX
sometimes 'because' is all the answer you can give though, especially to a generic question like this. maybe if the OP had asked it directly to a cuple with the males face blocked out he would get a more specific answer"
But surely the owners of such profiles who read this thread could give a 'positive' answer.
"Because" should only be the first word in the answer, not the bottom line.
It's as annoying as "Whatever!". 
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A lot of the replies on these type of threads always remind us of that thing our parents used to say.
When asked certain questions that they didn't or wouldn't want to give an answer to they'd say "Just because!" or "Because I say so!".
No rhyme or reason, can you remember how annoying and frustrating that was?
You'd think adults would be able to reply to other adults legitimate questions in a more enlightening way wouldn't you?
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No ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We like to see both parties in a couple as we don't really like "blind dates" we do have a pic of us both and like to at least see what the pair look like as mostly see the girl only pics as "bait" (sorry if that sounds crass) .
It is nice to have an inkling of what the other couple look like before meeting for a drink and chat too.
No reason not to show a nice pic and follow up with something a little more sensual.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A lot of the replies on these type of threads always remind us of that thing our parents used to say.
When asked certain questions that they didn't or wouldn't want to give an answer to they'd say "Just because!" or "Because I say so!".
No rhyme or reason, can you remember how annoying and frustrating that was?
You'd think adults would be able to reply to other adults legitimate questions in a more enlightening way wouldn't you?
XXXX"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We like to see both parties in a couple as we don't really like "blind dates" we do have a pic of us both and like to at least see what the pair look like as mostly see the girl only pics as "bait" (sorry if that sounds crass) .
It is nice to have an inkling of what the other couple look like before meeting for a drink and chat too.
No reason not to show a nice pic and follow up with something a little more sensual.
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