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Pregnant!! To Swing or not to Swing ???
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I personally wouldn't but it's up to you guys. | |||
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"There has been a number of threads about this topic Congratulations xx "thanks, will have a look  | |||
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"I like to shag pregnant women mm x." And that would be a total complete put off for me, a complete lack of respect | |||
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"No I wouldn't as STI's can still be passed on even with condoms and can have serious consequences for the baby. Not something I would risk. Couldnt live with myself if something happened just because i couldn't stop having sex with others for 9 months. It's not like it's a long time in the grand scheme of things. " 9 months is no time at all. Especially for something that could affect the child for their lifetime. | |||
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"Recently found out that my hubby and I are now expecting. I would like to know peoples opinions on whether to still go on meets. And just to make it clear, I do only mean for the next couple of months." Congratulations!  xxx
In my personal opinion I would say no, as its such a special time for you both | |||
"Just have oral sex in teh mean time lol." oral sex has almost the same risk factors as unprotected sex ... and it would be a definite no from me a healthy baby is much more important than a shag  | |||
"Just have oral sex in teh mean time lol. oral sex has almost the same risk factors as unprotected sex ... and it would be a definite no from me a healthy baby is much more important than a shag "YEs your right there but at least you wouldt "hit" the baby with your penis as you perform it, gues oral with condom is fine to. | |||
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"Just have oral sex in teh mean time lol. oral sex has almost the same risk factors as unprotected sex ... and it would be a definite no from me a healthy baby is much more important than a shag YEs your right there but at least you wouldt "hit" the baby with your penis as you perform it, gues oral with condom is fine to."I don't think any woman in their right mind would have unprotected sex with someone unless it's they're husband/partner!  a baby's health is much more important than a shag | |||
"Just have oral sex in teh mean time lol. oral sex has almost the same risk factors as unprotected sex ... and it would be a definite no from me a healthy baby is much more important than a shag YEs your right there but at least you wouldt "hit" the baby with your penis as you perform it, gues oral with condom is fine to.
I don't think any woman in their right mind would have unprotected sex with someone unless it's they're husband/partner! a baby's health is much more important than a shag"YEs ur right there but still I guess with condom it should be ok x. | |||
"Just have oral sex in teh mean time lol. oral sex has almost the same risk factors as unprotected sex ... and it would be a definite no from me a healthy baby is much more important than a shag YEs your right there but at least you wouldt "hit" the baby with your penis as you perform it, gues oral with condom is fine to."Hit the baby with a penis???? You are joking? | |||
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"Just have oral sex in teh mean time lol. oral sex has almost the same risk factors as unprotected sex ... and it would be a definite no from me a healthy baby is much more important than a shag YEs your right there but at least you wouldt "hit" the baby with your penis as you perform it, gues oral with condom is fine to.
Hit the baby with a penis???? You are joking? "YEs I am joking lol but how do you know if your not?. | |||
"Just have oral sex in teh mean time lol. oral sex has almost the same risk factors as unprotected sex ... and it would be a definite no from me a healthy baby is much more important than a shag YEs your right there but at least you wouldt "hit" the baby with your penis as you perform it, gues oral with condom is fine to.
I don't think any woman in their right mind would have unprotected sex with someone unless it's they're husband/partner! a baby's health is much more important than a shag YEs ur right there but still I guess with condom it should be ok x."Maybe you should have a read up on condoms, efficiency and risk of stds that can still be passed on even when using them. No sex is safe sex. Using condoms reduces risk. Doesn't eliminate altogether! | |||
"Just have oral sex in teh mean time lol. oral sex has almost the same risk factors as unprotected sex ... and it would be a definite no from me a healthy baby is much more important than a shag YEs your right there but at least you wouldt "hit" the baby with your penis as you perform it, gues oral with condom is fine to.
Hit the baby with a penis???? You are joking? YEs I am joking lol but how do you know if your not?."Because unless your penis can penetrate a closed cervix it's impossible! | |||
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"Just have oral sex in teh mean time lol. oral sex has almost the same risk factors as unprotected sex ... and it would be a definite no from me a healthy baby is much more important than a shag YEs your right there but at least you wouldt "hit" the baby with your penis as you perform it, gues oral with condom is fine to.
Hit the baby with a penis???? You are joking? YEs I am joking lol but how do you know if your not?.
Because unless your penis can penetrate a closed cervix it's impossible! "Good point and ur right no penis can go thru that, so yes its msotly ok  | |||
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"Just have oral sex in teh mean time lol. oral sex has almost the same risk factors as unprotected sex ... and it would be a definite no from me a healthy baby is much more important than a shag YEs your right there but at least you wouldt "hit" the baby with your penis as you perform it, gues oral with condom is fine to.
I don't think any woman in their right mind would have unprotected sex with someone unless it's they're husband/partner! a baby's health is much more important than a shag YEs ur right there but still I guess with condom it should be ok x.
Maybe you should have a read up on condoms, efficiency and risk of stds that can still be passed on even when using them. No sex is safe sex. Using condoms reduces risk. Doesn't eliminate altogether! "I did actually have sex ed classes in school! I'm just saying that it wouldn't be wise to keep having sex with strangers or friends throughout a pregnancy regardless of contraception | |||
"Just have oral sex in teh mean time lol. oral sex has almost the same risk factors as unprotected sex ... and it would be a definite no from me a healthy baby is much more important than a shag YEs your right there but at least you wouldt "hit" the baby with your penis as you perform it, gues oral with condom is fine to.
Hit the baby with a penis???? You are joking? YEs I am joking lol but how do you know if your not?.
Because unless your penis can penetrate a closed cervix it's impossible! Good point and ur right no penis can go thru that, so yes its msotly ok "keep going son, all this turning and backtracking, you will be screwing yourself into the floor lol | |||
"Just have oral sex in teh mean time lol. oral sex has almost the same risk factors as unprotected sex ... and it would be a definite no from me a healthy baby is much more important than a shag YEs your right there but at least you wouldt "hit" the baby with your penis as you perform it, gues oral with condom is fine to.
Hit the baby with a penis???? You are joking? "This reminds me of when sex whilst pregnant came up as a topic at work when my (now ex) wife was quite big with our second child. I'd said we'd had sex only days before the first was born and would carry on as long as possible with this one. A colleague then said I'd be "banging the baby's head" every time we had intercourse. Of course the next time we had sex the thought came into my head and I lost my erection. She asked why so I told her. She wasn't best pleased and had a right go at the colleague when she saw him
You'll be pleased to know it was a one-off occurrence | |||
"Pregnant sex is a highly divisive subject, but for me its something beautiful and affectionate that I'm determined to eventually find and enjoy." Between the mother and the father | |||
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"Just have oral sex in teh mean time lol. oral sex has almost the same risk factors as unprotected sex ... and it would be a definite no from me a healthy baby is much more important than a shag YEs your right there but at least you wouldt "hit" the baby with your penis as you perform it, gues oral with condom is fine to.
I don't think any woman in their right mind would have unprotected sex with someone unless it's they're husband/partner! a baby's health is much more important than a shag YEs ur right there but still I guess with condom it should be ok x.
Maybe you should have a read up on condoms, efficiency and risk of stds that can still be passed on even when using them. No sex is safe sex. Using condoms reduces risk. Doesn't eliminate altogether!
I did actually have sex ed classes in school! I'm just saying that it wouldn't be wise to keep having sex with strangers or friends throughout a pregnancy regardless of contraception"I didn't actually quote you, if you read it and the rest of my comments you'll see I agree with you! | |||
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"Next time Nik is pregnant we will still meet.there is no risk to an unborn having sex " That's a bit naive | |||
"Just have oral sex in teh mean time lol. oral sex has almost the same risk factors as unprotected sex ... and it would be a definite no from me a healthy baby is much more important than a shag YEs your right there but at least you wouldt "hit" the baby with your penis as you perform it, gues oral with condom is fine to.
I don't think any woman in their right mind would have unprotected sex with someone unless it's they're husband/partner! a baby's health is much more important than a shag YEs ur right there but still I guess with condom it should be ok x.
Maybe you should have a read up on condoms, efficiency and risk of stds that can still be passed on even when using them. No sex is safe sex. Using condoms reduces risk. Doesn't eliminate altogether!
I did actually have sex ed classes in school! I'm just saying that it wouldn't be wise to keep having sex with strangers or friends throughout a pregnancy regardless of contraception
I didn't actually quote you, if you read it and the rest of my comments you'll see I agree with you! "Sorry my bad! lol | |||
"Next time Nik is pregnant we will still meet.there is no risk to an unborn having sex That's a bit naive" its what they believe, and as i have posted above, as adults, we all make decisions that have repercussions that we have to live with. | |||
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"The moral and judgemental police jump all over this. If ya actually look on there profiles, I bet 9 times out of ten then do something well riskae too. Even being on the site! End of the day even if ya not pregnant your supposed to look after your body. Bringing a new baby into the world obviously has it's own realisations. Those whose say ya can catch this that n other n that it's wrong have no right. Do what you feel is safe and comfortable. What feels good for You and Your Partner. You asked for opinions not someone's judge to rights. Don't be put off by some people vindictive words. " Are we reading the same thread I don't see any judgement, moral superiority or vindictiveness here, mostly support even if opinions differ. | |||
"Next time Nik is pregnant we will still meet.there is no risk to an unborn having sex That's a bit naive its what they believe, and as i have posted above, as adults, we all make decisions that have repercussions that we have to live with." Repercussions indeed Sad times Imo | |||
There is no right or wrong answer - only you know what is right for you as a couple/ future parents. Whatever it is, enjoy it and I hope you have a happy and healthy pregnancy | |||
"Just have oral sex in teh mean time lol. oral sex has almost the same risk factors as unprotected sex ... and it would be a definite no from me a healthy baby is much more important than a shag YEs your right there but at least you wouldt "hit" the baby with your penis as you perform it, gues oral with condom is fine to."Good lord you are a completely disrespectful k**b My utmost congratulations op | |||
"The no's may end up as judgemental and staid. The yes's liberated and freethinking. Your decision what you and that may be right for you both, I hope also for all three Again, congratulations " | |||
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"Just have oral sex in teh mean time lol. oral sex has almost the same risk factors as unprotected sex ... and it would be a definite no from me a healthy baby is much more important than a shag YEs your right there but at least you wouldt "hit" the baby with your penis as you perform it, gues oral with condom is fine to.
Hit the baby with a penis???? You are joking? YEs I am joking lol but how do you know if your not?.
Because unless your penis can penetrate a closed cervix it's impossible! Good point and ur right no penis can go thru that, so yes its msotly ok "It amazes me just how uninformed some men are when it comes to the female body. I should say disgusts actually. | |||
"Following my post to this thread we received emails from a number of members who a/ hadn't read our my post properly ( possibly educational needs) otherwise they'd have understood that we are soft swap -which for those that don't know generally means no penetrative sex with others - and that we'd been talking about POSSIBLY me returning to full swap if I fell pregnant - and all of them were judgemental of me/us. Firstly - I/we fail to see how anyone has the right to judge us. Secondly , when we are all members of a section of society who are "unconventional " in respect that within our relationships we have sex with other people , and where those same people in this "lifestyle" would no doubt decry would people from mainstream society judging them, how hypocritical is it for them to then judge us! As others have commented - this is about individual choice - and IF we decide to do it then its OUR choice. I think the saying is " if you can't say something nice don't say anything at all" - so for those of us who feel they are entitled to judge us ( and who ironically enough have never met us ) please afford us the courtesy of not contacting us." your initial posts asks for people's opinions. Were you hoping only those opinions you liked would e posted? You can't ask for opinions then slate the people who say things you don't want to hear. And for the record, my opinion is no shag is worth risking your child. Just meeting a stranger while pregnant is a risk. | |||
"Following my post to this thread we received emails from a number of members who a/ hadn't read our my post properly ( possibly educational needs) otherwise they'd have understood that we are soft swap -which for those that don't know generally means no penetrative sex with others - and that we'd been talking about POSSIBLY me returning to full swap if I fell pregnant - and all of them were judgemental of me/us. Firstly - I/we fail to see how anyone has the right to judge us. Secondly , when we are all members of a section of society who are "unconventional " in respect that within our relationships we have sex with other people , and where those same people in this "lifestyle" would no doubt decry would people from mainstream society judging them, how hypocritical is it for them to then judge us! As others have commented - this is about individual choice - and IF we decide to do it then its OUR choice. I think the saying is " if you can't say something nice don't say anything at all" - so for those of us who feel they are entitled to judge us ( and who ironically enough have never met us ) please afford us the courtesy of not contacting us." I would not stress about it. We went to La Chambre when the Mrs was about 6-7 months pregnant and some of the ladies (who we were not playing with) would think nothing of being critical. I'm not going to say whether we were soft swap or not at the time as it's some what irrelevant. People talk about risk, as though talking from a point of knowledge. However I find that the scientific knowledge is lacking and when people talk about risk, there is little actual knowledge to back this up. Ask what are the risks and I doubt anyone could come up with some decent robust figures. All's that you get are people spouting words. But ask for say the numbers of babies born with a sexually transmitted disease, due to infection from swinging and watch the silence fall. Ask how many babies have been born with a sexually transmitted disease from soft swinging and you will have to wait till the end of the universe for an answer. | |||
"Next time Nik is pregnant we will still meet.there is no risk to an unborn having sex That's a bit naive" go on then dr tell me what it will do? sex does not hurt unborns oh wont somebody think of the children  | |||
"Recently found out that my hubby and I are now expecting. I would like to know peoples opinions on whether to still go on meets. And just to make it clear, I do only mean for the next couple of months." hell yea if you want to its your sexy body if ppl say anything tell them where to go | |||
"Next time Nik is pregnant we will still meet.there is no risk to an unborn having sex That's a bit naive go on then dr tell me what it will do? sex does not hurt unborns oh wont somebody think of the children "Sex doesn't Sexual contact with soneone knowingly or unknowingly carrying an std can If I are happy with that then good for you | |||
"Next time Nik is pregnant we will still meet.there is no risk to an unborn having sex That's a bit naive go on then dr tell me what it will do? sex does not hurt unborns oh wont somebody think of the children
Sex doesn't
Sexual contact with soneone knowingly or unknowingly carrying an std can
If I are happy with that then good for you
"Do you know the risks though? Also Condoms are useful. | |||
"Just have oral sex in teh mean time lol. oral sex has almost the same risk factors as unprotected sex ... and it would be a definite no from me a healthy baby is much more important than a shag YEs your right there but at least you wouldt "hit" the baby with your penis as you perform it, gues oral with condom is fine to.
Hit the baby with a penis???? You are joking? YEs I am joking lol but how do you know if your not?.
Because unless your penis can penetrate a closed cervix it's impossible! Good point and ur right no penis can go thru that, so yes its msotly ok
It amazes me just how uninformed some men are when it comes to the female body. I should say disgusts actually."I think someone needs a trip back to school for sex ed! | |||
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"I carried on playing whilst I was pregnant, but that was with usual guys. Funny enough a lot of men find it a turn on being pregnant " True some men find it a tremendous turn on. But that is probably to do with the taboo, or the rarity as I like to see it. Fucking another persons married partner is rare and taboo. Fucking a bride or groom on their wedding day. Fucking someone who is pregnant by someone else. It's all a matter of it being naughty as it's rare and unusual. | |||
"As a mum myself, personally I wouldn't meet whilst pregnant. But its only yourselves who can decide if to do so or not." ..this many congratulations! ..xx | |||
"Just have oral sex in teh mean time lol. oral sex has almost the same risk factors as unprotected sex ... and it would be a definite no from me a healthy baby is much more important than a shag YEs your right there but at least you wouldt "hit" the baby with your penis as you perform it, gues oral with condom is fine to.
Hit the baby with a penis???? You are joking? YEs I am joking lol but how do you know if your not?.
Because unless your penis can penetrate a closed cervix it's impossible! Good point and ur right no penis can go thru that, so yes its msotly ok
It amazes me just how uninformed some men are when it comes to the female body. I should say disgusts actually.
I think someone needs a trip back to school for sex ed! "i never got sex at school. with Ed or anyone else lol | |||
"I carried on playing whilst I was pregnant, but that was with usual guys. Funny enough a lot of men find it a turn on being pregnant True some men find it a tremendous turn on. But that is probably to do with the taboo, or the rarity as I like to see it. Fucking another persons married partner is rare and taboo. Fucking a bride or groom on their wedding day. Fucking someone who is pregnant by someone else. It's all a matter of it being naughty as it's rare and unusual." No, it's not. I can't claim to speak for others, but my personal attraction to a pregnant woman isn't because it's 'taboo/naughty/dominant over her partner' or whatever negatives you perceive in the act, but rather because I would be honoured to feel trusted, wanted and accepted enough for a woman to allow me to engage in sex with her, knowing that I'm not going to harm either her or her unborn child. | |||
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"I think its fine and loved fucking my ex all the time while she was pregnant. The first three months are the dangerous times and we didnt risk it. As long as you dont get pounded and ruined and after 3 months then yeh. Congrats "can imagine someone stood there, marking the days off a calendar lol. ah babe, tomorrow your gettin ruined! lol | |||
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"Following my post to this thread we received emails from a number of members who a/ hadn't read our my post properly ( possibly educational needs) otherwise they'd have understood that we are soft swap -which for those that don't know generally means no penetrative sex with others - and that we'd been talking about POSSIBLY me returning to full swap if I fell pregnant - and all of them were judgemental of me/us. Firstly - I/we fail to see how anyone has the right to judge us. Secondly , when we are all members of a section of society who are "unconventional " in respect that within our relationships we have sex with other people , and where those same people in this "lifestyle" would no doubt decry would people from mainstream society judging them, how hypocritical is it for them to then judge us! As others have commented - this is about individual choice - and IF we decide to do it then its OUR choice. I think the saying is " if you can't say something nice don't say anything at all" - so for those of us who feel they are entitled to judge us ( and who ironically enough have never met us ) please afford us the courtesy of not contacting us. your initial posts asks for people's opinions. Were you hoping only those opinions you liked would e posted? You can't ask for opinions then slate the people who say things you don't want to hear. And for the record, my opinion is no shag is worth risking your child. Just meeting a stranger while pregnant is a risk." No - our initial post did NOT ask for opinion - we were not the original poster - we added our comment in response to the original post. Care to retract ? | |||
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"The way I see anything to do with my future child when it happens is this. Is there more than a 0 .0 percent chance something could go wrong? THEN DONT. Simple. My child's life and health are far more important than getting a shag. Just wait a year....... C xx" This | |||
"Recently found out that my hubby and I are now expecting. I would like to know peoples opinions on whether to still go on meets. And just to make it clear, I do only mean for the next couple of months." Its up to you as a couple. Enjoy it what ever you do x | |||
"dont worry, i read your intention so as long as your happy doing what you are, its not a hassle. lifes a series of calculated risks" | |||
"Just have oral sex in teh mean time lol. oral sex has almost the same risk factors as unprotected sex ... and it would be a definite no from me a healthy baby is much more important than a shag YEs your right there but at least you wouldt "hit" the baby with your penis as you perform it, gues oral with condom is fine to.
Hit the baby with a penis???? You are joking? YEs I am joking lol but how do you know if your not?.
Because unless your penis can penetrate a closed cervix it's impossible! Good point and ur right no penis can go thru that, so yes its msotly ok
It amazes me just how uninformed some men are when it comes to the female body. I should say disgusts actually.
I think someone needs a trip back to school for sex ed!
i never got sex at school.
with Ed or anyone else lol"Lmfao me neither  | |||
"Just have oral sex in teh mean time lol. oral sex has almost the same risk factors as unprotected sex ... and it would be a definite no from me a healthy baby is much more important than a shag YEs your right there but at least you wouldt "hit" the baby with your penis as you perform it, gues oral with condom is fine to.
Hit the baby with a penis???? You are joking? YEs I am joking lol but how do you know if your not?.
Because unless your penis can penetrate a closed cervix it's impossible! Good point and ur right no penis can go thru that, so yes its msotly ok
It amazes me just how uninformed some men are when it comes to the female body. I should say disgusts actually.
I think someone needs a trip back to school for sex ed!
i never got sex at school.
with Ed or anyone else lol
Lmfao me neither"thought i recognised you. we were sat at the back, sharing the packet of crisps, remember? lol | |||
"Next time Nik is pregnant we will still meet.there is no risk to an unborn having sex That's a bit naive go on then dr tell me what it will do? sex does not hurt unborns oh wont somebody think of the children
Sex doesn't
Sexual contact with soneone knowingly or unknowingly carrying an std can
If I are happy with that then good for you
Do you know the risks though?
Also Condoms are useful."I would wait and see what happens in your pregnancy as when I was pregnant I had to even be careful with my oh as if we got over excited and I bleed Evan just a little bit I had to get checked at hospital so would at least wait till after the 20weeks scan just so you no everything it ok | |||
"Next time Nik is pregnant we will still meet.there is no risk to an unborn having sex That's a bit naive go on then dr tell me what it will do? sex does not hurt unborns oh wont somebody think of the children "Sex doesn't hurt an unborn child obviously but having sex with multiple partners puts you at higher risk of catching an STD which could. HPV virus for example is hard to detect & protect against even with condoms and if left untreated can cause genital warts amongst other things which could inhibit a natural birth. Know the facts and make an informed decision. | |||
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"No I wouldn't as STI's can still be passed on even with condoms and can have serious consequences for the baby. Not something I would risk. Couldnt live with myself if something happened just because i couldn't stop having sex with others for 9 months. It's not like it's a long time in the grand scheme of things. " | |||
