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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have noticed on few profiles that the man writes for the woman, it sounds so 3rd person when they say she enjoys this and that, it would be fun to see the woman write abit as well onit, dont you to?. |
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By *tmmCouple
over a year ago
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I (R) wrote the profile and update it, add photos and the like but P answers nearly all the messages... Just the way it works for us.
I think it's perfectly fine for the guy to write the profile if that's what works for them. He should know the Mrs. well enough to know what she likes and is capable of  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I (R) wrote the profile and update it, add photos and the like but P answers nearly all the messages... Just the way it works for us.
I think it's perfectly fine for the guy to write the profile if that's what works for them. He should know the Mrs. well enough to know what she likes and is capable of "
lol forgot the quote....... Yes your right there as she knows what she likes more I think so to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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do you really think that the male half of a couple just writes the profile then lets the female know what she now likes?
i wrote our profile.
i know what she likes because, guess what, we talk about everything, especially everything we do on here
if she wants to try something new she lets me know and i figure out how to fit it in, same as if she wants something removed cuz she is no longer interested.
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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago
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"do you really think that the male half of a couple just writes the profile then lets the female know what she now likes?
i wrote our profile.
i know what she likes because, guess what, we talk about everything, especially everything we do on here
if she wants to try something new she lets me know and i figure out how to fit it in, same as if she wants something removed cuz she is no longer interested.
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I think our profile is written in a fashion that it sounds like both of us have written it for each other. But that is just a style.
Mark wrote it and then Liz edited it. It's been chopped and changed a few times, since it was written. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I bet you wouldn't have any problem if the female wrote the whole profile about herself and him.  Its not a problem, just an observation x"
Ok. I bet you wouldn't of observed it if it was wrote from her point of view then |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I bet you wouldn't have any problem if the female wrote the whole profile about herself and him. Its not a problem, just an observation x
Ok. I bet you wouldn't of observed it if it was wrote from her point of view then "
Yes I think you are right there lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I bet you wouldn't have any problem if the female wrote the whole profile about herself and him. Its not a problem, just an observation x
Ok. I bet you wouldn't of observed it if it was wrote from her point of view then Yes I think you are right there lol."
I'm always right.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Many people are in a relationship based on love and or need.
No two people are the same, some have a low sex drive, some have a high sex drive, some like cake, some like fruit, some are fit, some are fat, remember opposites attract, so it follows that one person in a relationship may want to swing, have more sex, try new things, Many people are not sure of their sexuality, they marry to fit in with family or society expectations,
To keep a marriage or relationship going some will agree to let their partner have sex with strangers,
Love isn't about sex, but sex is one part of love.
Many people on a sex or swingers site are here because their partner is afraid of losing them and being alone, and let them play.
Many people see random sex, as a way of keeping a boring marriage going, and cheat on their partner,
Nothing is written in stone, but by reading profiles you can get an idea of who wants to be here and their reasons. |
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My better half has little interest in looking on this site , but every evening she asks me if ive found her a new admirer
But this does not mean its a one sided show as I feel I know her better than most , and she loves it when we get a meet or a evening out to a club |
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Our profile was written be me (mrs) and I arrange all the meets and answer most of our messages. The hubby always checks what Ive written and reads all the messages we get unless they are abusive and he then replies before blocking. It just works better for us this way. I am naturally more out going and find conversation easier but all our decisions are made as a couple. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Many people are in a relationship based on love and or need.
No two people are the same, some have a low sex drive, some have a high sex drive, some like cake, some like fruit, some are fit, some are fat, remember opposites attract, so it follows that one person in a relationship may want to swing, have more sex, try new things, Many people are not sure of their sexuality, they marry to fit in with family or society expectations,
To keep a marriage or relationship going some will agree to let their partner have sex with strangers,
Love isn't about sex, but sex is one part of love.
Many people on a sex or swingers site are here because their partner is afraid of losing them and being alone, and let them play.
Many people see random sex, as a way of keeping a boring marriage going, and cheat on their partner,
Nothing is written in stone, but by reading profiles you can get an idea of who wants to be here and their reasons."
agree with a lot of that, have seen plenty of evidence to support it |
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"My better half has little interest in looking on this site , but every evening she asks me if ive found her a new admirer
But this does not mean its a one sided show as I feel I know her better than most , and she loves it when we get a meet or a evening out to a club"
I ought to say that the reason why better half doesnt want to get involved on here is that she sits in front a computer screen all day and she says the last thing she intends to do when she gets home is to do the same |
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