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So what do you say in that first message?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Be creative, be interesting, Stand out!"
So what do we mean? Ok, examples please. Go!
Note to the C and P collective:
This won't help you and you're only cheating yourselves! This is for inspiration, not imitation.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tough one but at the same time so easy. Anything at all that shows a bit of personality or insight into who is sending the message and i don't mean a list of stats.
Often i would prefer a short paragraph about the lump of fluff he just saw on his desk than the lifeless, meaningless dribble some people send.
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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Well, I find it hard to engage with men who do not show me respect and 'a newbie' contacted me about a week ago'
Made reference to my profile, that proved he had actually read it (it helped that he complimented my writing!), he had even bothered with a short profile about himself and what he was looking for, that is what made me respond to his first message.
Since then, he has kept all messages polite, non-crude, yes we have discussed some likes and dislikes 
A normal conversation has proved to show a few common interests and like for like traits, and guess what? we're meeting next week! I can't say better than that
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well, I find it hard to engage with men who do not show me respect and 'a newbie' contacted me about a week ago'
Made reference to my profile, that proved he had actually read it (it helped that he complimented my writing!), he had even bothered with a short profile about himself and what he was looking for, that is what made me respond to his first message.
Since then, he has kept all messages polite, non-crude, yes we have discussed some likes and dislikes
A normal conversation has proved to show a few common interests and like for like traits, and guess what? we're meeting next week! I can't say better than that
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I love to hear positive stories like that - shows there is a glimmer of hope for decent guys. |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria |
"Hiya Hun, I'm Jack and I've got a cock like a torpedo  "
I used to love those licorice torpedoes, but they're a bit on the teensy side...that's what you were referring to wasn't it Jack?  |
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