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"Swinging is not about finding life partners. This is a swingers site. My thoughts are that it is completely inappropriate." | |||
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"Swinging is not about finding life partners. This is a swingers site. My thoughts are that it is completely inappropriate." The site is full of married couples. Try telling them the site isn't for life partners. | |||
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"Swinging is not about finding life partners. This is a swingers site. My thoughts are that it is completely inappropriate." I don't agree. Swinging is the sexual element but that doesn't exclude the possibility of people doing that within a relationship that is mutually consenting and with someone who enjoys that too. | |||
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"Swinging is not about finding life partners. This is a swingers site. My thoughts are that it is completely inappropriate. I don't agree. Swinging is the sexual element but that doesn't exclude the possibility of people doing that within a relationship that is mutually consenting and with someone who enjoys that too. " | |||
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"I did actually say it is not about FINDING a life partner, not having a life partner." So where does someone who is a swinger, and wants to remain a swinger, go to find a life partner if they haven't got one? Is swinging as a couple only ok for people who were already a couple and were lucky enough to find out they had the same desires? | |||
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"Ok, so after discussion with a number of other FAB friends it has been brought to my attention that many people on FAB are looking for a partner, as in a proper relationship and not FBs) who would like to carry on their FAB adventures with them rather than stay as a single and have the dilemma of trying to introduce new 'vanilla' partners to the FAB world or to have to give it up instead. Does anyone think there is room for another forum room on fab just for those interested in dating to meet and chat!? " You go girl! I utilise the site as a dating site. | |||
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"What would stop people who were not seeking dating or looking for a long term partner posting there? You'd still get the people looking for one off meets reading and posting there, so can't see that it would work really? " Well yes, but then we through those fakes or those profiles we aren't interested in everyday on here anyway. But at least in that space those who are looking for a committed relationship where swinging can be a lifestyle for them they can post and say that that is what they want and they can then start the chatting process, with those they are interested in, from a different angle. Obviously some will be found out to be fakes etc, but tyou get that on Match.com! | |||
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"I did actually say it is not about FINDING a life partner, not having a life partner. So where does someone who is a swinger, and wants to remain a swinger, go to find a life partner if they haven't got one? Is swinging as a couple only ok for people who were already a couple and were lucky enough to find out they had the same desires? " Er life!! I introduced my ex husband to swinging. I met my ex at chams. | |||
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"I did actually say it is not about FINDING a life partner, not having a life partner. So where does someone who is a swinger, and wants to remain a swinger, go to find a life partner if they haven't got one? Is swinging as a couple only ok for people who were already a couple and were lucky enough to find out they had the same desires? " | |||
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"It will be a niche and not for everyone, but it will defo be the case for some. Simple case of you avoid what you don't like" Absolutely! I think its a good idea for those who like the idea and from recent forum threads , there does appear to be quite a few...both men AND women....who say they are looking for this. Also quite a lot tell me they don't state it on their profile as they fear it will scare people away. But people use this to chat too....it might prove popular. Only one way to find out! Those who want NSA only, don’t need to chat on that forum. Simple! Something and someone for everyone! | |||
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"I did actually say it is not about FINDING a life partner, not having a life partner. So where does someone who is a swinger, and wants to remain a swinger, go to find a life partner if they haven't got one? Is swinging as a couple only ok for people who were already a couple and were lucky enough to find out they had the same desires? Er life!! I introduced my ex husband to swinging. I met my ex at chams. " On that logic of 'life' why use the website to swing when there's 'life' | |||
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"It will be a niche and not for everyone, but it will defo be the case for some. Simple case of you avoid what you don't like Absolutely! I think its a good idea for those who like the idea and from recent forum threads , there does appear to be quite a few...both men AND women....who say they are looking for this. Also quite a lot tell me they don't state it on their profile as they fear it will scare people away. But people use this to chat too....it might prove popular. Only one way to find out! Those who want NSA only, don’t need to chat on that forum. Simple! Something and someone for everyone! " I totally agree with the thing that people thing it will scare meets away - I know someone who said this to me just today. In fact I totally agree with all you said! | |||
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"It will be a niche and not for everyone, but it will defo be the case for some. Simple case of you avoid what you don't like Absolutely! I think its a good idea for those who like the idea and from recent forum threads , there does appear to be quite a few...both men AND women....who say they are looking for this. Also quite a lot tell me they don't state it on their profile as they fear it will scare people away. But people use this to chat too....it might prove popular. Only one way to find out! Those who want NSA only, don’t need to chat on that forum. Simple! Something and someone for everyone! I totally agree with the thing that people thing it will scare meets away - I know someone who said this to me just today. In fact I totally agree with all you said! " We have a Womance starting already | |||
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"It will be a niche and not for everyone, but it will defo be the case for some. Simple case of you avoid what you don't like Absolutely! I think its a good idea for those who like the idea and from recent forum threads , there does appear to be quite a few...both men AND women....who say they are looking for this. Also quite a lot tell me they don't state it on their profile as they fear it will scare people away. But people use this to chat too....it might prove popular. Only one way to find out! Those who want NSA only, don’t need to chat on that forum. Simple! Something and someone for everyone! I totally agree with the thing that people thing it will scare meets away - I know someone who said this to me just today. In fact I totally agree with all you said! " Xx | |||
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"It will be a niche and not for everyone, but it will defo be the case for some. Simple case of you avoid what you don't like Absolutely! I think its a good idea for those who like the idea and from recent forum threads , there does appear to be quite a few...both men AND women....who say they are looking for this. Also quite a lot tell me they don't state it on their profile as they fear it will scare people away. But people use this to chat too....it might prove popular. Only one way to find out! Those who want NSA only, don’t need to chat on that forum. Simple! Something and someone for everyone! I totally agree with the thing that people thing it will scare meets away - I know someone who said this to me just today. In fact I totally agree with all you said! We have a Womance starting already " pmsl! | |||
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"It will be a niche and not for everyone, but it will defo be the case for some. Simple case of you avoid what you don't like Absolutely! I think its a good idea for those who like the idea and from recent forum threads , there does appear to be quite a few...both men AND women....who say they are looking for this. Also quite a lot tell me they don't state it on their profile as they fear it will scare people away. But people use this to chat too....it might prove popular. Only one way to find out! Those who want NSA only, don’t need to chat on that forum. Simple! Something and someone for everyone! I totally agree with the thing that people thing it will scare meets away - I know someone who said this to me just today. In fact I totally agree with all you said! We have a Womance starting already " Let's just sit in a dark corner and watch this develop! | |||
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"It will be a niche and not for everyone, but it will defo be the case for some. Simple case of you avoid what you don't like Absolutely! I think its a good idea for those who like the idea and from recent forum threads , there does appear to be quite a few...both men AND women....who say they are looking for this. Also quite a lot tell me they don't state it on their profile as they fear it will scare people away. But people use this to chat too....it might prove popular. Only one way to find out! Those who want NSA only, don’t need to chat on that forum. Simple! Something and someone for everyone! I totally agree with the thing that people thing it will scare meets away - I know someone who said this to me just today. In fact I totally agree with all you said! We have a Womance starting already " Awww...one slight problem ....I am as straight as an arrow! Lol | |||
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"It will be a niche and not for everyone, but it will defo be the case for some. Simple case of you avoid what you don't like Absolutely! I think its a good idea for those who like the idea and from recent forum threads , there does appear to be quite a few...both men AND women....who say they are looking for this. Also quite a lot tell me they don't state it on their profile as they fear it will scare people away. But people use this to chat too....it might prove popular. Only one way to find out! Those who want NSA only, don’t need to chat on that forum. Simple! Something and someone for everyone! I totally agree with the thing that people thing it will scare meets away - I know someone who said this to me just today. In fact I totally agree with all you said! We have a Womance starting already Let's just sit in a dark corner and watch this develop! " Join me, I have popcorn | |||
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"It will be a niche and not for everyone, but it will defo be the case for some. Simple case of you avoid what you don't like Absolutely! I think its a good idea for those who like the idea and from recent forum threads , there does appear to be quite a few...both men AND women....who say they are looking for this. Also quite a lot tell me they don't state it on their profile as they fear it will scare people away. But people use this to chat too....it might prove popular. Only one way to find out! Those who want NSA only, don’t need to chat on that forum. Simple! Something and someone for everyone! I totally agree with the thing that people thing it will scare meets away - I know someone who said this to me just today. In fact I totally agree with all you said! We have a Womance starting already Let's just sit in a dark corner and watch this develop! Join me, I have popcorn" Hi 5! I'll bring the beer and 3D specs. | |||
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"But flattered all the same lol x" I could turn lesbian for you both | |||
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"It will be a niche and not for everyone, but it will defo be the case for some. Simple case of you avoid what you don't like Absolutely! I think its a good idea for those who like the idea and from recent forum threads , there does appear to be quite a few...both men AND women....who say they are looking for this. Also quite a lot tell me they don't state it on their profile as they fear it will scare people away. But people use this to chat too....it might prove popular. Only one way to find out! Those who want NSA only, don’t need to chat on that forum. Simple! Something and someone for everyone! I totally agree with the thing that people thing it will scare meets away - I know someone who said this to me just today. In fact I totally agree with all you said! We have a Womance starting already Let's just sit in a dark corner and watch this develop! Join me, I have popcorn Hi 5! I'll bring the beer and 3D specs." Looks like you'll have to find me another lady to watch guys! | |||
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"If folk looking for partners they in wrong place leave fab as it is plenty dating sites." That's ridiculous... if you don't like it, don't enter the forum... It's not like its taking anything away from fabs in any way or form.. If anything it's going to add to the experience.. very narrow minded!! | |||
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"It will be a niche and not for everyone, but it will defo be the case for some. Simple case of you avoid what you don't like Absolutely! I think its a good idea for those who like the idea and from recent forum threads , there does appear to be quite a few...both men AND women....who say they are looking for this. Also quite a lot tell me they don't state it on their profile as they fear it will scare people away. But people use this to chat too....it might prove popular. Only one way to find out! Those who want NSA only, don’t need to chat on that forum. Simple! Something and someone for everyone! I totally agree with the thing that people thing it will scare meets away - I know someone who said this to me just today. In fact I totally agree with all you said! We have a Womance starting already Let's just sit in a dark corner and watch this develop! Join me, I have popcorn Hi 5! I'll bring the beer and 3D specs. Looks like you'll have to find me another lady to watch guys! " I'll take that challenge | |||
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"If folk looking for partners they in wrong place leave fab as it is plenty dating sites." You sound like you are afraid it will ruin things for YOU!'LOL!!! | |||
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"It will be a niche and not for everyone, but it will defo be the case for some. Simple case of you avoid what you don't like Absolutely! I think its a good idea for those who like the idea and from recent forum threads , there does appear to be quite a few...both men AND women....who say they are looking for this. Also quite a lot tell me they don't state it on their profile as they fear it will scare people away. But people use this to chat too....it might prove popular. Only one way to find out! Those who want NSA only, don’t need to chat on that forum. Simple! Something and someone for everyone! I totally agree with the thing that people thing it will scare meets away - I know someone who said this to me just today. In fact I totally agree with all you said! We have a Womance starting already Let's just sit in a dark corner and watch this develop! Join me, I have popcorn Hi 5! I'll bring the beer and 3D specs. Looks like you'll have to find me another lady to watch guys! " Awww sorry!!! | |||
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"I have utilised fab as a dating site. Positive responses. " | |||
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"It will be a niche and not for everyone, but it will defo be the case for some. Simple case of you avoid what you don't like Absolutely! I think its a good idea for those who like the idea and from recent forum threads , there does appear to be quite a few...both men AND women....who say they are looking for this. Also quite a lot tell me they don't state it on their profile as they fear it will scare people away. But people use this to chat too....it might prove popular. Only one way to find out! Those who want NSA only, don’t need to chat on that forum. Simple! Something and someone for everyone! I totally agree with the thing that people thing it will scare meets away - I know someone who said this to me just today. In fact I totally agree with all you said! We have a Womance starting already Let's just sit in a dark corner and watch this develop! Join me, I have popcorn Hi 5! I'll bring the beer and 3D specs. Looks like you'll have to find me another lady to watch guys! I'll take that challenge" Let's do this. | |||
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"It will be a niche and not for everyone, but it will defo be the case for some. Simple case of you avoid what you don't like Absolutely! I think its a good idea for those who like the idea and from recent forum threads , there does appear to be quite a few...both men AND women....who say they are looking for this. Also quite a lot tell me they don't state it on their profile as they fear it will scare people away. But people use this to chat too....it might prove popular. Only one way to find out! Those who want NSA only, don’t need to chat on that forum. Simple! Something and someone for everyone! I totally agree with the thing that people thing it will scare meets away - I know someone who said this to me just today. In fact I totally agree with all you said! We have a Womance starting already Let's just sit in a dark corner and watch this develop! Join me, I have popcorn Hi 5! I'll bring the beer and 3D specs. Looks like you'll have to find me another lady to watch guys! I'll take that challenge Let's do this." | |||
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"If folk looking for partners they in wrong place leave fab as it is plenty dating sites. You sound like you are afraid it will ruin things for YOU!'LOL!!! " | |||
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"personally I cant be bothered having one person to 'team' up with..thats the problem I see with many new fb cpls...one half wont normally like the other half having fun elsewhere without them. my theory? shagemall" So do that! I dont think the OP is suggesting making this into a dating site! She is only suggesting a separate forum for goodness sake. Its optional to join in!!! | |||
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"If folk looking for partners they in wrong place leave fab as it is plenty dating sites." If people can use conventional dating sites to seek sex, then people can do the reverse here! | |||
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"It would just be another ranty posts of let downs.." Id have to send Ruggers in to check on that one then - would be frightened that I might catch something whilst I was in there. This romance mallarkey IS catching isnt it?? | |||
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"Ok, so after discussion with a number of other FAB friends it has been brought to my attention that many people on FAB are looking for a partner, as in a proper relationship and not FBs) who would like to carry on their FAB adventures with them rather than stay as a single and have the dilemma of trying to introduce new 'vanilla' partners to the FAB world or to have to give it up instead. Does anyone think there is room for another forum room on fab just for those interested in dating to meet and chat!? " We would avoid and block anyone looking for love,were sure there are about 50 per cent of people on here unsure of what swinging is | |||
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"It would just be another ranty posts of let downs.. Id have to send Ruggers in to check on that one then - would be frightened that I might catch something whilst I was in there. This romance mallarkey IS catching isnt it?? " Lol...its coming up to Valentines fever! We must be getting in the mood! | |||
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"Ok, so after discussion with a number of other FAB friends it has been brought to my attention that many people on FAB are looking for a partner, as in a proper relationship and not FBs) who would like to carry on their FAB adventures with them rather than stay as a single and have the dilemma of trying to introduce new 'vanilla' partners to the FAB world or to have to give it up instead. Does anyone think there is room for another forum room on fab just for those interested in dating to meet and chat!? We would avoid and block anyone looking for love,were sure there are about 50 per cent of people on here unsure of what swinging is " If they are looking for love or a partner specifically I doubt they would contact a couple. | |||
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"I think it's a great idea. I will know who I don't want to meet then and there won't be so many dating/love related threads in other sections of the forum. " Good point, it could clear up other forums | |||
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"Ok, so after discussion with a number of other FAB friends it has been brought to my attention that many people on FAB are looking for a partner, as in a proper relationship and not FBs) who would like to carry on their FAB adventures with them rather than stay as a single and have the dilemma of trying to introduce new 'vanilla' partners to the FAB world or to have to give it up instead. Does anyone think there is room for another forum room on fab just for those interested in dating to meet and chat!? We would avoid and block anyone looking for love,were sure there are about 50 per cent of people on here unsure of what swinging is " but you're a couple.. they/we wouldn't be looking for a relationship with you two... It's not like life stops because people are looking for something more.. the fact that we are all here means we are all looking for a similar thing.. And if people do find love and carry on swinging.. it's more for you guys to choose from.. I don't see why there is such negativity!! | |||
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"If folk looking for partners they in wrong place leave fab as it is plenty dating sites. That's ridiculous... if you don't like it, don't enter the forum... It's not like its taking anything away from fabs in any way or form.. If anything it's going to add to the experience.. very narrow minded!!" not narrow minded end of day this is ultimately a sex site where if lucky you may find someone that develops into more i am all for that but to have someone say they here to find partner its wrong place as far as i am concerned whether you agree or not is not important really. | |||
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"It would just be another ranty posts of let downs.. Id have to send Ruggers in to check on that one then - would be frightened that I might catch something whilst I was in there. This romance mallarkey IS catching isnt it?? Lol...its coming up to Valentines fever! We must be getting in the mood!" I think there are a lot on this site who are missing romantic involvement. My _iew is, NSA sex on its own, no matter how good it is, cannot fill that void. | |||
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"Ok, so after discussion with a number of other FAB friends it has been brought to my attention that many people on FAB are looking for a partner, as in a proper relationship and not FBs) who would like to carry on their FAB adventures with them rather than stay as a single and have the dilemma of trying to introduce new 'vanilla' partners to the FAB world or to have to give it up instead. Does anyone think there is room for another forum room on fab just for those interested in dating to meet and chat!? We would avoid and block anyone looking for love,were sure there are about 50 per cent of people on here unsure of what swinging is " Seems a bit harsh to block. However that is your perogative. In any case..she is suggesting a forum thread so people who are single and looking for a relationship with a swinging person then they are unlikely to PM a couple!.... The point is that people are free to choose of course! I don't agree that means people are unsure what swinging is about. On the contrary. ..I think that it is often the opposite as they usually understand the scene...and their own sexuality better than many others non scene. Being a swinger doesn't have to mean swinging without love! You are a couple so I am sure you must understand that? | |||
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"I think it's a great idea. I will know who I don't want to meet then and there won't be so many dating/love related threads in other sections of the forum. Good point, it could clear up other forums" Wanna bet.. You will still get running commentaries from one side of the bed to the next And god forbid they fall out......... | |||
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"If folk looking for partners they in wrong place leave fab as it is plenty dating sites. That's ridiculous... if you don't like it, don't enter the forum... It's not like its taking anything away from fabs in any way or form.. If anything it's going to add to the experience.. very narrow minded!! not narrow minded end of day this is ultimately a sex site where if lucky you may find someone that develops into more i am all for that but to have someone say they here to find partner its wrong place as far as i am concerned whether you agree or not is not important really." There was a time when I would have agreed with you...until I realised how many couples met on this scene...and on this site! Plus how many WERE looking. So we are not talking just a small number....Therefore where there are many mouths to feed...... | |||
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"people are entitled to use the site, and clubs as how they wish, whether it's to find a fb/fwb or a relationship, we should never judge how someone uses the relationship, whether they are meeting or not" | |||
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"I think it's a great idea. I will know who I don't want to meet then and there won't be so many dating/love related threads in other sections of the forum. Good point, it could clear up other forums Wanna bet.. You will still get running commentaries from one side of the bed to the next And god forbid they fall out........." Do you seriously believe people from this site arent already dating??? Too late to worry about online spats! If they wanted to do that, they would have done so already on one of the other forums anyway! | |||
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"I think it's a great idea. I will know who I don't want to meet then and there won't be so many dating/love related threads in other sections of the forum. Good point, it could clear up other forums Wanna bet.. You will still get running commentaries from one side of the bed to the next And god forbid they fall out........." If that happens the moderators should direct them back to their corner of fab | |||
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"If folk looking for partners they in wrong place leave fab as it is plenty dating sites. That's ridiculous... if you don't like it, don't enter the forum... It's not like its taking anything away from fabs in any way or form.. If anything it's going to add to the experience.. very narrow minded!! not narrow minded end of day this is ultimately a sex site where if lucky you may find someone that develops into more i am all for that but to have someone say they here to find partner its wrong place as far as i am concerned whether you agree or not is not important really." does it say anywhere that this is a sex site? No, because it's a swinging site! at the end of the day, who are you to judge how someone wants to use this site?? If they want to find a partner then let them, we don't have the right to judge anybody!! So yes you are being narrow minded and very judgemental! | |||
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"I think it's a great idea. I will know who I don't want to meet then and there won't be so many dating/love related threads in other sections of the forum. Good point, it could clear up other forums Wanna bet.. You will still get running commentaries from one side of the bed to the next And god forbid they fall out......... If that happens the moderators should direct them back to their corner of fab " | |||
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"people are entitled to use the site, and clubs as how they wish, whether it's to find a fb/fwb or a relationship, we should never judge how someone uses the relationship, whether they are meeting or not" Absolutely. ..and personally I would much rather hear of two people being happy together on this scene than some of the unpleasantness that goes on! | |||
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"people are entitled to use the site, and clubs as how they wish, whether it's to find a fb/fwb or a relationship, we should never judge how someone uses the relationship, whether they are meeting or not " sorry was mean't to say site not relationship, I think I should go to bed! | |||
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"people are entitled to use the site, and clubs as how they wish, whether it's to find a fb/fwb or a relationship, we should never judge how someone uses the relationship, whether they are meeting or not Absolutely. ..and personally I would much rather hear of two people being happy together on this scene than some of the unpleasantness that goes on!" Here, here! | |||
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"people are entitled to use the site, and clubs as how they wish, whether it's to find a fb/fwb or a relationship, we should never judge how someone uses the relationship, whether they are meeting or not Absolutely. ..and personally I would much rather hear of two people being happy together on this scene than some of the unpleasantness that goes on!" Definitely! relationships aren't for me personally but if anyone wishes to use the site to find a partner then all the luck in the world to them! I have married relatives (married to each other) on here who have been swinging and been married for nearly 17 years and if I'm half as happy as them if I eventually settle down then I'll count myself as the luckiest person in the world! | |||
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"It would just be another ranty posts of let downs.. Id have to send Ruggers in to check on that one then - would be frightened that I might catch something whilst I was in there. This romance mallarkey IS catching isnt it?? Lol...its coming up to Valentines fever! We must be getting in the mood! I think there are a lot on this site who are missing romantic involvement. My _iew is, NSA sex on its own, no matter how good it is, cannot fill that void. " | |||
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"hmmmm...maybe I'll start up my own "swing-date" website........" I just bought fabdating.co.uk | |||
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"hmmmm...maybe I'll start up my own "swing-date" website........ I just bought fabdating.co.uk" | |||
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"If folk looking for partners they in wrong place leave fab as it is plenty dating sites. That's ridiculous... if you don't like it, don't enter the forum... It's not like its taking anything away from fabs in any way or form.. If anything it's going to add to the experience.. very narrow minded!! not narrow minded end of day this is ultimately a sex site where if lucky you may find someone that develops into more i am all for that but to have someone say they here to find partner its wrong place as far as i am concerned whether you agree or not is not important really. does it say anywhere that this is a sex site? No, because it's a swinging site! at the end of the day, who are you to judge how someone wants to use this site?? If they want to find a partner then let them, we don't have the right to judge anybody!! So yes you are being narrow minded and very judgemental!" well said | |||
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"It would just be another ranty posts of let downs.. Id have to send Ruggers in to check on that one then - would be frightened that I might catch something whilst I was in there. This romance mallarkey IS catching isnt it?? Lol...its coming up to Valentines fever! We must be getting in the mood! I think there are a lot on this site who are missing romantic involvement. My _iew is, NSA sex on its own, no matter how good it is, cannot fill that void. " I would be worried if I was using swinging to fill a void..... | |||
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"hmmmm...maybe I'll start up my own "swing-date" website........ I just bought fabdating.co.uk" Damn you!!!!! Me and my big mouth!! | |||
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"WOMANCE again" This is a BIG fantasy for you .right??? Lol! !!! | |||
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"hmmmm...maybe I'll start up my own "swing-date" website........ I just bought fabdating.co.uk" Are you serious?????????? Lol | |||
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"It would just be another ranty posts of let downs.. Id have to send Ruggers in to check on that one then - would be frightened that I might catch something whilst I was in there. This romance mallarkey IS catching isnt it?? Lol...its coming up to Valentines fever! We must be getting in the mood! I think there are a lot on this site who are missing romantic involvement. My _iew is, NSA sex on its own, no matter how good it is, cannot fill that void. I would be worried if I was using swinging to fill a void....." No I agree. What I mean is if someone wants romance then swinging won't fill that void. | |||
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"Thing is... Only a small number of site users actually use the forum and it has been stated before that the forums are already almost 'incestuous'. Not really sure how well it would work." I'll do some research if we split it 50/50!! | |||
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"hmmmm...maybe I'll start up my own "swing-date" website........ I just bought fabdating.co.uk" | |||
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"WOMANCE again This is a BIG fantasy for you .right??? Lol! !!! " It's becoming one lol | |||
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"It would just be another ranty posts of let downs.. Id have to send Ruggers in to check on that one then - would be frightened that I might catch something whilst I was in there. This romance mallarkey IS catching isnt it?? Lol...its coming up to Valentines fever! We must be getting in the mood! I think there are a lot on this site who are missing romantic involvement. My _iew is, NSA sex on its own, no matter how good it is, cannot fill that void. I would be worried if I was using swinging to fill a void....." Oh I agree with you there. But then I think sometimes people use vanilla dating sites in the same way sometimes. Its always a mistake to go looking for someone else to 'complete your life'. Makes no difference where you meet....you have to be happy with yourself first. | |||
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"Swinging is not about finding life partners. This is a swingers site. My thoughts are that it is completely inappropriate." My partner and I met on dogging.co.uk over 3 years ago. | |||
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" I think there are a lot on this site who are missing romantic involvement. My _iew is, NSA sex on its own, no matter how good it is, cannot fill that void. I would be worried if I was using swinging to fill a void..... Oh I agree with you there. But then I think sometimes people use vanilla dating sites in the same way sometimes. Its always a mistake to go looking for someone else to 'complete your life'. Makes no difference where you meet....you have to be happy with yourself first. " | |||
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"No this is called fabswingers not fabdate and the two shouldn't be mixed. If your looking for love or a partner use a dating site there are lots to choose from. " And feel like a complete freak when you tell a guy about your sex life if you can find one that actually wants a relation and not just sex , yep dating sites are fan dabby dozy | |||
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"WOMANCE again This is a BIG fantasy for you .right??? Lol! !!! It's becoming one lol" You will be suggesting FABlesbian dating next!!!! Just so you can fulfill your dirty filthy dreams! | |||
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"WOMANCE again This is a BIG fantasy for you .right??? Lol! !!! It's becoming one lol You will be suggesting FABlesbian dating next!!!! Just so you can fulfill your dirty filthy dreams! " With an audience.... | |||
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"WOMANCE again This is a BIG fantasy for you .right??? Lol! !!! It's becoming one lol You will be suggesting FABlesbian dating next!!!! Just so you can fulfill your dirty filthy dreams! " NOT that I am suggesting lesbians are dirty or filthy....just YOU! | |||
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"It would just be another ranty posts of let downs.. Id have to send Ruggers in to check on that one then - would be frightened that I might catch something whilst I was in there. This romance mallarkey IS catching isnt it?? Lol...its coming up to Valentines fever! We must be getting in the mood! I think there are a lot on this site who are missing romantic involvement. My _iew is, NSA sex on its own, no matter how good it is, cannot fill that void. I would be worried if I was using swinging to fill a void..... Oh I agree with you there. But then I think sometimes people use vanilla dating sites in the same way sometimes. Its always a mistake to go looking for someone else to 'complete your life'. Makes no difference where you meet....you have to be happy with yourself first. " I agree with that too. However I think fulfilment as a human being is really only possible in relation to others or something other than yourself. So happiness may only be possible in relationship with others ??? | |||
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"Ok, so after discussion with a number of other FAB friends it has been brought to my attention that many people on FAB are looking for a partner, as in a proper relationship and not FBs) who would like to carry on their FAB adventures with them rather than stay as a single and have the dilemma of trying to introduce new 'vanilla' partners to the FAB world or to have to give it up instead. Does anyone think there is room for another forum room on fab just for those interested in dating to meet and chat!? We would avoid and block anyone looking for love,were sure there are about 50 per cent of people on here unsure of what swinging is " If they were looking for love they wouldn't be wanting a couple! | |||
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"No this is called fabswingers not fabdate and the two shouldn't be mixed. If your looking for love or a partner use a dating site there are lots to choose from. " I wonder if you were single and wanted a relationship but still enjoyed the swinging lifestyle. ...would you still say that? No disrespect to you but it is easy to say 'go to a dating site' when you are already in a relationship. | |||
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"Ok, so after discussion with a number of other FAB friends it has been brought to my attention that many people on FAB are looking for a partner, as in a proper relationship and not FBs) who would like to carry on their FAB adventures with them rather than stay as a single and have the dilemma of trying to introduce new 'vanilla' partners to the FAB world or to have to give it up instead. Does anyone think there is room for another forum room on fab just for those interested in dating to meet and chat!? We would avoid and block anyone looking for love,were sure there are about 50 per cent of people on here unsure of what swinging is If they were looking for love they wouldn't be wanting a couple! " Agreed...made the same point earlier. | |||
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"If they were looking for love they wouldn't be wanting a couple! " I don't know, I'd be quite happy with a bi fem couple. | |||
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"No this is called fabswingers not fabdate and the two shouldn't be mixed. If your looking for love or a partner use a dating site there are lots to choose from. I wonder if you were single and wanted a relationship but still enjoyed the swinging lifestyle. ...would you still say that? No disrespect to you but it is easy to say 'go to a dating site' when you are already in a relationship. " | |||
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"If they were looking for love they wouldn't be wanting a couple! I don't know, I'd be quite happy with a bi fem couple." Or a couple of bi fem couples | |||
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"If they were looking for love they wouldn't be wanting a couple! I don't know, I'd be quite happy with a bi fem couple. Or a couple of bi fem couples" Oh yes bring them on. Maybe a Fabifem site would create more FF couples looking men Certainly not enough of them on here | |||
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"It would just be another ranty posts of let downs.. Id have to send Ruggers in to check on that one then - would be frightened that I might catch something whilst I was in there. This romance mallarkey IS catching isnt it?? Lol...its coming up to Valentines fever! We must be getting in the mood! I think there are a lot on this site who are missing romantic involvement. My _iew is, NSA sex on its own, no matter how good it is, cannot fill that void. I would be worried if I was using swinging to fill a void..... Oh I agree with you there. But then I think sometimes people use vanilla dating sites in the same way sometimes. Its always a mistake to go looking for someone else to 'complete your life'. Makes no difference where you meet....you have to be happy with yourself first. I agree with that too. However I think fulfilment as a human being is really only possible in relation to others or something other than yourself. So happiness may only be possible in relationship with others ???" Yes and no. I think people sometimes cling to others for security because of fear of being alone....and as a consequence end up with unsuitable partners or stay in unhealthy and unhappy relationships. I think there is a difference between needing and wanting. But being with someone who is RIGHT for you and vice versa....enhancing your life....making it brighter.....etc. But when someone seeks another to fix their unhappy selves....its a recipe for disaster because only WE can do that. | |||
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"If they were looking for love they wouldn't be wanting a couple! I don't know, I'd be quite happy with a bi fem couple. Or a couple of bi fem couples Oh yes bring them on. Maybe a Fabifem site would create more FF couples looking men Certainly not enough of them on here " Fabifem????? That sounds more like a contraceptive device!!!! | |||
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"Swinging is not about finding life partners. This is a swingers site. My thoughts are that it is completely inappropriate. The site is full of married couples. Try telling them the site isn't for life partners." Lol...so single's can't be swingers without a partner (according to other threads) and also now aren't allowed to have/find relationships with fellow swingers and finally be accepted into the club. Gets better and better on here doesn't it! | |||
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"It would just be another ranty posts of let downs.. Id have to send Ruggers in to check on that one then - would be frightened that I might catch something whilst I was in there. This romance mallarkey IS catching isnt it?? Lol...its coming up to Valentines fever! We must be getting in the mood! I think there are a lot on this site who are missing romantic involvement. My _iew is, NSA sex on its own, no matter how good it is, cannot fill that void. I would be worried if I was using swinging to fill a void..... Oh I agree with you there. But then I think sometimes people use vanilla dating sites in the same way sometimes. Its always a mistake to go looking for someone else to 'complete your life'. Makes no difference where you meet....you have to be happy with yourself first. I agree with that too. However I think fulfilment as a human being is really only possible in relation to others or something other than yourself. So happiness may only be possible in relationship with others ??? Yes and no. I think people sometimes cling to others for security because of fear of being alone....and as a consequence end up with unsuitable partners or stay in unhealthy and unhappy relationships. I think there is a difference between needing and wanting. But being with someone who is RIGHT for you and vice versa....enhancing your life....making it brighter.....etc. But when someone seeks another to fix their unhappy selves....its a recipe for disaster because only WE can do that. " You just saved me from having to type all that out! In a very unwomance way - i promise - you said it perfectly. It's so important to find what you want in your own life and then maybe you will meet someone who compliments that. Like on FAB! | |||
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"Swinging is not about finding life partners. This is a swingers site. My thoughts are that it is completely inappropriate. The site is full of married couples. Try telling them the site isn't for life partners. Lol...so single's can't be swingers without a partner (according to other threads) and also now aren't allowed to have/find relationships with fellow swingers and finally be accepted into the club. Gets better and better on here doesn't it!" Snap!! | |||
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"I have not yet but if i came across a member saying they are looking for love whilst hoping they find it bunny boiler springs to mind " Dear god.....I can only wonder at the women you must have met, to believe that women looking for love on a swinging site must be bunny boilers! !!!!! | |||
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"If they were looking for love they wouldn't be wanting a couple! I don't know, I'd be quite happy with a bi fem couple. Or a couple of bi fem couples Oh yes bring them on. Maybe a Fabifem site would create more FF couples looking men Certainly not enough of them on here Fabifem????? That sounds more like a contraceptive device!!!!" Yeah it does. Mind due a Femidom sounds like a S&M mistress | |||
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"No this is called fabswingers not fabdate and the two shouldn't be mixed. If your looking for love or a partner use a dating site there are lots to choose from. And feel like a complete freak when you tell a guy about your sex life if you can find one that actually wants a relation and not just sex , yep dating sites are fan dabby dozy " if he gets freaked out by your sex life then he isn't for you. Your more likely going to find some one a dating site looking for a relationship than on a swinging site. | |||
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"If they were looking for love they wouldn't be wanting a couple! I don't know, I'd be quite happy with a bi fem couple. Or a couple of bi fem couples Oh yes bring them on. Maybe a Fabifem site would create more FF couples looking men Certainly not enough of them on here Fabifem????? That sounds more like a contraceptive device!!!!" Definitely a ladies product of sorts | |||
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"It will be a niche and not for everyone, but it will defo be the case for some. Simple case of you avoid what you don't like Absolutely! I think its a good idea for those who like the idea and from recent forum threads , there does appear to be quite a few...both men AND women....who say they are looking for this. Also quite a lot tell me they don't state it on their profile as they fear it will scare people away. But people use this to chat too....it might prove popular. Only one way to find out! Those who want NSA only, don’t need to chat on that forum. Simple! Something and someone for everyone! I totally agree with the thing that people thing it will scare meets away - I know someone who said this to me just today. In fact I totally agree with all you said! Xx" totally agree!! | |||
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"No this is called fabswingers not fabdate and the two shouldn't be mixed. If your looking for love or a partner use a dating site there are lots to choose from. " In addition | |||
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"No this is called fabswingers not fabdate and the two shouldn't be mixed. If your looking for love or a partner use a dating site there are lots to choose from. And feel like a complete freak when you tell a guy about your sex life if you can find one that actually wants a relation and not just sex , yep dating sites are fan dabby dozy if he gets freaked out by your sex life then he isn't for you. Your more likely going to find some one a dating site looking for a relationship than on a swinging site. " What if the other person is your exact match but sharing is something they can't comprehend, I wouldn't say that person isn't for them, it'll just be another compromise | |||
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"It would just be another ranty posts of let downs.. Id have to send Ruggers in to check on that one then - would be frightened that I might catch something whilst I was in there. This romance mallarkey IS catching isnt it?? Lol...its coming up to Valentines fever! We must be getting in the mood! I think there are a lot on this site who are missing romantic involvement. My _iew is, NSA sex on its own, no matter how good it is, cannot fill that void. I would be worried if I was using swinging to fill a void..... Oh I agree with you there. But then I think sometimes people use vanilla dating sites in the same way sometimes. Its always a mistake to go looking for someone else to 'complete your life'. Makes no difference where you meet....you have to be happy with yourself first. I agree with that too. However I think fulfilment as a human being is really only possible in relation to others or something other than yourself. So happiness may only be possible in relationship with others ??? Yes and no. I think people sometimes cling to others for security because of fear of being alone....and as a consequence end up with unsuitable partners or stay in unhealthy and unhappy relationships. I think there is a difference between needing and wanting. But being with someone who is RIGHT for you and vice versa....enhancing your life....making it brighter.....etc. But when someone seeks another to fix their unhappy selves....its a recipe for disaster because only WE can do that. You just saved me from having to type all that out! In a very unwomance way - i promise - you said it perfectly. It's so important to find what you want in your own life and then maybe you will meet someone who compliments that. Like on FAB! " Yep!!! Its 'law of attraction' stuff! You attract what you are! I now await the cheeky comments! !! | |||
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"It would just be another ranty posts of let downs.. Id have to send Ruggers in to check on that one then - would be frightened that I might catch something whilst I was in there. This romance mallarkey IS catching isnt it?? Lol...its coming up to Valentines fever! We must be getting in the mood! I think there are a lot on this site who are missing romantic involvement. My _iew is, NSA sex on its own, no matter how good it is, cannot fill that void. I would be worried if I was using swinging to fill a void..... Oh I agree with you there. But then I think sometimes people use vanilla dating sites in the same way sometimes. Its always a mistake to go looking for someone else to 'complete your life'. Makes no difference where you meet....you have to be happy with yourself first. I agree with that too. However I think fulfilment as a human being is really only possible in relation to others or something other than yourself. So happiness may only be possible in relationship with others ??? Yes and no. I think people sometimes cling to others for security because of fear of being alone....and as a consequence end up with unsuitable partners or stay in unhealthy and unhappy relationships. I think there is a difference between needing and wanting. But being with someone who is RIGHT for you and vice versa....enhancing your life....making it brighter.....etc. But when someone seeks another to fix their unhappy selves....its a recipe for disaster because only WE can do that. You just saved me from having to type all that out! In a very unwomance way - i promise - you said it perfectly. It's so important to find what you want in your own life and then maybe you will meet someone who compliments that. Like on FAB! " I am totally in agreement with that | |||
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"No this is called fabswingers not fabdate and the two shouldn't be mixed. If your looking for love or a partner use a dating site there are lots to choose from. And feel like a complete freak when you tell a guy about your sex life if you can find one that actually wants a relation and not just sex , yep dating sites are fan dabby dozy if he gets freaked out by your sex life then he isn't for you. Your more likely going to find some one a dating site looking for a relationship than on a swinging site. " Think we will have to agree to disagree. I know I won't touch a dating site with a shitty stick as I've found them full of guys that should just be on here. At least on here there is no reason to lie or keep stum about anything. | |||
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"It would just be another ranty posts of let downs.. Id have to send Ruggers in to check on that one then - would be frightened that I might catch something whilst I was in there. This romance mallarkey IS catching isnt it?? Lol...its coming up to Valentines fever! We must be getting in the mood! I think there are a lot on this site who are missing romantic involvement. My _iew is, NSA sex on its own, no matter how good it is, cannot fill that void. I would be worried if I was using swinging to fill a void..... Oh I agree with you there. But then I think sometimes people use vanilla dating sites in the same way sometimes. Its always a mistake to go looking for someone else to 'complete your life'. Makes no difference where you meet....you have to be happy with yourself first. I agree with that too. However I think fulfilment as a human being is really only possible in relation to others or something other than yourself. So happiness may only be possible in relationship with others ??? Yes and no. I think people sometimes cling to others for security because of fear of being alone....and as a consequence end up with unsuitable partners or stay in unhealthy and unhappy relationships. I think there is a difference between needing and wanting. But being with someone who is RIGHT for you and vice versa....enhancing your life....making it brighter.....etc. But when someone seeks another to fix their unhappy selves....its a recipe for disaster because only WE can do that. " | |||
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"It would just be another ranty posts of let downs.. Id have to send Ruggers in to check on that one then - would be frightened that I might catch something whilst I was in there. This romance mallarkey IS catching isnt it?? Lol...its coming up to Valentines fever! We must be getting in the mood! I think there are a lot on this site who are missing romantic involvement. My _iew is, NSA sex on its own, no matter how good it is, cannot fill that void. I would be worried if I was using swinging to fill a void..... Oh I agree with you there. But then I think sometimes people use vanilla dating sites in the same way sometimes. Its always a mistake to go looking for someone else to 'complete your life'. Makes no difference where you meet....you have to be happy with yourself first. I agree with that too. However I think fulfilment as a human being is really only possible in relation to others or something other than yourself. So happiness may only be possible in relationship with others ??? Yes and no. I think people sometimes cling to others for security because of fear of being alone....and as a consequence end up with unsuitable partners or stay in unhealthy and unhappy relationships. I think there is a difference between needing and wanting. But being with someone who is RIGHT for you and vice versa....enhancing your life....making it brighter.....etc. But when someone seeks another to fix their unhappy selves....its a recipe for disaster because only WE can do that. You just saved me from having to type all that out! In a very unwomance way - i promise - you said it perfectly. It's so important to find what you want in your own life and then maybe you will meet someone who compliments that. Like on FAB! Yep!!! Its 'law of attraction' stuff! You attract what you are! I now await the cheeky comments! !! " | |||
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"No this is called fabswingers not fabdate and the two shouldn't be mixed. If your looking for love or a partner use a dating site there are lots to choose from. And feel like a complete freak when you tell a guy about your sex life if you can find one that actually wants a relation and not just sex , yep dating sites are fan dabby dozy if he gets freaked out by your sex life then he isn't for you. Your more likely going to find some one a dating site looking for a relationship than on a swinging site. Think we will have to agree to disagree. I know I won't touch a dating site with a shitty stick as I've found them full of guys that should just be on here. At least on here there is no reason to lie or keep stum about anything. " | |||
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"I have not yet but if i came across a member saying they are looking for love whilst hoping they find it bunny boiler springs to mind Dear god.....I can only wonder at the women you must have met, to believe that women looking for love on a swinging site must be bunny boilers! !!!!! " Just because someone on here MAY be looking for a relationshi, doesn't mean that they will immediately want to 'cling' (which is not actally part of a relationship incase you didn't know!) to other people that they MAY meet on here in the meantime! Just because someone is looking for a relationship doesn't mean that they will take the first bit of love interest that comes along! Nor does it mean that they will try to trap or force those who do not want relationships into one! They may just enjoy having sex in the meantime! | |||
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"Swinging is not about finding life partners. This is a swingers site. My thoughts are that it is completely inappropriate. The site is full of married couples. Try telling them the site isn't for life partners. Lol...so single's can't be swingers without a partner (according to other threads) and also now aren't allowed to have/find relationships with fellow swingers and finally be accepted into the club. Gets better and better on here doesn't it!" I think you may have got the wrong end of the stick as to what I meant there. | |||
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"No this is called fabswingers not fabdate and the two shouldn't be mixed. If your looking for love or a partner use a dating site there are lots to choose from. And feel like a complete freak when you tell a guy about your sex life if you can find one that actually wants a relation and not just sex , yep dating sites are fan dabby dozy if he gets freaked out by your sex life then he isn't for you. Your more likely going to find some one a dating site looking for a relationship than on a swinging site. Think we will have to agree to disagree. I know I won't touch a dating site with a shitty stick as I've found them full of guys that should just be on here. At least on here there is no reason to lie or keep stum about anything. " Ah there you go you have discovered a gap in the online dating/swinging world how about singlesswinganddate lol | |||
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"Swinging is not about finding life partners. This is a swingers site. My thoughts are that it is completely inappropriate. The site is full of married couples. Try telling them the site isn't for life partners. Lol...so single's can't be swingers without a partner (according to other threads) and also now aren't allowed to have/find relationships with fellow swingers and finally be accepted into the club. Gets better and better on here doesn't it! I think you may have got the wrong end of the stick as to what I meant there." I think it was aimed at the 1st statement and just back up your point, in a way | |||
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"If folk looking for partners they in wrong place leave fab as it is plenty dating sites." Shall I pack my bags now then? Or are we not allowed to continue enjoying this lifestyle? People should be free to use the site as they wish - and the day I'm told otherwise will be the day I DO pack my bags! | |||
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"No this is called fabswingers not fabdate and the two shouldn't be mixed. If your looking for love or a partner use a dating site there are lots to choose from. And feel like a complete freak when you tell a guy about your sex life if you can find one that actually wants a relation and not just sex , yep dating sites are fan dabby dozy if he gets freaked out by your sex life then he isn't for you. Your more likely going to find some one a dating site looking for a relationship than on a swinging site. Think we will have to agree to disagree. I know I won't touch a dating site with a shitty stick as I've found them full of guys that should just be on here. At least on here there is no reason to lie or keep stum about anything. Ah there you go you have discovered a gap in the online dating/swinging world how about singlesswinganddate lol " Or just a forum room where we can do exactly that | |||
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"Swinging is not about finding life partners. This is a swingers site. My thoughts are that it is completely inappropriate. The site is full of married couples. Try telling them the site isn't for life partners. Lol...so single's can't be swingers without a partner (according to other threads) and also now aren't allowed to have/find relationships with fellow swingers and finally be accepted into the club. Gets better and better on here doesn't it! I think you may have got the wrong end of the stick as to what I meant there. I think it was aimed at the 1st statement and just back up your point, in a way" Well that's ok then | |||
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"No this is called fabswingers not fabdate and the two shouldn't be mixed. If your looking for love or a partner use a dating site there are lots to choose from. And feel like a complete freak when you tell a guy about your sex life if you can find one that actually wants a relation and not just sex , yep dating sites are fan dabby dozy if he gets freaked out by your sex life then he isn't for you. Your more likely going to find some one a dating site looking for a relationship than on a swinging site. What if the other person is your exact match but sharing is something they can't comprehend, I wouldn't say that person isn't for them, it'll just be another compromise" Your assuming she would want to swing once in a relationship. | |||
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"No this is called fabswingers not fabdate and the two shouldn't be mixed. If your looking for love or a partner use a dating site there are lots to choose from. And feel like a complete freak when you tell a guy about your sex life if you can find one that actually wants a relation and not just sex , yep dating sites are fan dabby dozy if he gets freaked out by your sex life then he isn't for you. Your more likely going to find some one a dating site looking for a relationship than on a swinging site. Think we will have to agree to disagree. I know I won't touch a dating site with a shitty stick as I've found them full of guys that should just be on here. At least on here there is no reason to lie or keep stum about anything. Ah there you go you have discovered a gap in the online dating/swinging world how about singlesswinganddate lol " But that would exclude couples wanting singles | |||
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"No this is called fabswingers not fabdate and the two shouldn't be mixed. If your looking for love or a partner use a dating site there are lots to choose from. And feel like a complete freak when you tell a guy about your sex life if you can find one that actually wants a relation and not just sex , yep dating sites are fan dabby dozy if he gets freaked out by your sex life then he isn't for you. Your more likely going to find some one a dating site looking for a relationship than on a swinging site. Think we will have to agree to disagree. I know I won't touch a dating site with a shitty stick as I've found them full of guys that should just be on here. At least on here there is no reason to lie or keep stum about anything. Ah there you go you have discovered a gap in the online dating/swinging world how about singlesswinganddate lol " I think you'll find that we already have that covered with fabdating....well it was my idea and the libertine registered the site....so technically I have no claim over it now......damn.... | |||
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"No this is called fabswingers not fabdate and the two shouldn't be mixed. If your looking for love or a partner use a dating site there are lots to choose from. And feel like a complete freak when you tell a guy about your sex life if you can find one that actually wants a relation and not just sex , yep dating sites are fan dabby dozy if he gets freaked out by your sex life then he isn't for you. Your more likely going to find some one a dating site looking for a relationship than on a swinging site. Think we will have to agree to disagree. I know I won't touch a dating site with a shitty stick as I've found them full of guys that should just be on here. At least on here there is no reason to lie or keep stum about anything. Ah there you go you have discovered a gap in the online dating/swinging world how about singlesswinganddate lol Or just a forum room where we can do exactly that " PMSL | |||
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"No this is called fabswingers not fabdate and the two shouldn't be mixed. If your looking for love or a partner use a dating site there are lots to choose from. And feel like a complete freak when you tell a guy about your sex life if you can find one that actually wants a relation and not just sex , yep dating sites are fan dabby dozy if he gets freaked out by your sex life then he isn't for you. Your more likely going to find some one a dating site looking for a relationship than on a swinging site. Think we will have to agree to disagree. I know I won't touch a dating site with a shitty stick as I've found them full of guys that should just be on here. At least on here there is no reason to lie or keep stum about anything. Ah there you go you have discovered a gap in the online dating/swinging world how about singlesswinganddate lol I think you'll find that we already have that covered with fabdating....well it was my idea and the libertine registered the site....so technically I have no claim over it now......damn...." I'll support your intellectual claims.... For a fee | |||
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"No this is called fabswingers not fabdate and the two shouldn't be mixed. If your looking for love or a partner use a dating site there are lots to choose from. And feel like a complete freak when you tell a guy about your sex life if you can find one that actually wants a relation and not just sex , yep dating sites are fan dabby dozy if he gets freaked out by your sex life then he isn't for you. Your more likely going to find some one a dating site looking for a relationship than on a swinging site. What if the other person is your exact match but sharing is something they can't comprehend, I wouldn't say that person isn't for them, it'll just be another compromise Your assuming she would want to swing once in a relationship. " Are you assuming I won't then ? | |||
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"I think you'll find that we already have that covered with fabdating....well it was my idea and the libertine registered the site....so technically I have no claim over it now......damn...." What's this 'we'? | |||
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"I think you'll find that we already have that covered with fabdating....well it was my idea and the libertine registered the site....so technically I have no claim over it now......damn.... What's this 'we'? " A match made on Fab dashed on the rocks already | |||
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"I have not yet but if i came across a member saying they are looking for love whilst hoping they find it bunny boiler springs to mind Dear god.....I can only wonder at the women you must have met, to believe that women looking for love on a swinging site must be bunny boilers! !!!!! Just because someone on here MAY be looking for a relationshi, doesn't mean that they will immediately want to 'cling' (which is not actally part of a relationship incase you didn't know!) to other people that they MAY meet on here in the meantime! Just because someone is looking for a relationship doesn't mean that they will take the first bit of love interest that comes along! Nor does it mean that they will try to trap or force those who do not want relationships into one! They may just enjoy having sex in the meantime! " Good lord yes. There are definitely some guys on here worth fucking, but dating is a whole new ball game | |||
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"Swinging is not about finding life partners. This is a swingers site. My thoughts are that it is completely inappropriate. The site is full of married couples. Try telling them the site isn't for life partners. Lol...so single's can't be swingers without a partner (according to other threads) and also now aren't allowed to have/find relationships with fellow swingers and finally be accepted into the club. Gets better and better on here doesn't it! I think you may have got the wrong end of the stick as to what I meant there. I think it was aimed at the 1st statement and just back up your point, in a way Well that's ok then " Yep...that's what I was doing. Sorry, wasn't meant to cause offence, but agree in a way! | |||
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"No this is called fabswingers not fabdate and the two shouldn't be mixed. If your looking for love or a partner use a dating site there are lots to choose from. And feel like a complete freak when you tell a guy about your sex life if you can find one that actually wants a relation and not just sex , yep dating sites are fan dabby dozy if he gets freaked out by your sex life then he isn't for you. Your more likely going to find some one a dating site looking for a relationship than on a swinging site. What if the other person is your exact match but sharing is something they can't comprehend, I wouldn't say that person isn't for them, it'll just be another compromise" Well noone said finding your "Mr / Miss perfect' was easy!! Its always about communication, negotiation etc! I think you have to start by knowing yourself well.. and knowing what you want. What is really REALLY important to you and what are you willing to let go of. Only YOU know that. For some people, swinging isnt their top priority if the rest of the relationship was great! For me, I know that a healthy, happy, fulfilling and HONEST sex life is very important for a healthy, happy, fulfilling and HONEST relationship. ..BECAUSE it is when you are your most intimate with someone....however if I fell deeply in love and 'our' sex life was amazing but he didnt want to swing....personally. ...if the relationship was that good...I would probably be ok with that....but who knows? I might meet someone tomorrow that is sooooo amazing that none of you will ever hear from me again! Lol! But it is a personal thing.... | |||
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" I think you'll find that we already have that covered with fabdating....well it was my idea and the libertine registered the site....so technically I have no claim over it now......damn.... I'll support your intellectual claims.... For a fee" oh there's always a fee......can't I make a claim on Forum insurance??? surely there must be some sort of cover for this???? | |||
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"No this is called fabswingers not fabdate and the two shouldn't be mixed. If your looking for love or a partner use a dating site there are lots to choose from. And feel like a complete freak when you tell a guy about your sex life if you can find one that actually wants a relation and not just sex , yep dating sites are fan dabby dozy if he gets freaked out by your sex life then he isn't for you. Your more likely going to find some one a dating site looking for a relationship than on a swinging site. What if the other person is your exact match but sharing is something they can't comprehend, I wouldn't say that person isn't for them, it'll just be another compromise Well noone said finding your "Mr / Miss perfect' was easy!! Its always about communication, negotiation etc! I think you have to start by knowing yourself well.. and knowing what you want. What is really REALLY important to you and what are you willing to let go of. Only YOU know that. For some people, swinging isnt their top priority if the rest of the relationship was great! For me, I know that a healthy, happy, fulfilling and HONEST sex life is very important for a healthy, happy, fulfilling and HONEST relationship. ..BECAUSE it is when you are your most intimate with someone....however if I fell deeply in love and 'our' sex life was amazing but he didnt want to swing....personally. ...if the relationship was that good...I would probably be ok with that....but who knows? I might meet someone tomorrow that is sooooo amazing that none of you will ever hear from me again! Lol! But it is a personal thing...." I think you'd stay for the forums | |||
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"No this is called fabswingers not fabdate and the two shouldn't be mixed. If your looking for love or a partner use a dating site there are lots to choose from. And feel like a complete freak when you tell a guy about your sex life if you can find one that actually wants a relation and not just sex , yep dating sites are fan dabby dozy if he gets freaked out by your sex life then he isn't for you. Your more likely going to find some one a dating site looking for a relationship than on a swinging site. What if the other person is your exact match but sharing is something they can't comprehend, I wouldn't say that person isn't for them, it'll just be another compromise Your assuming she would want to swing once in a relationship. Are you assuming I won't then ? " Lol I hadn't assumed either I just thought you meant once you had told them your sexual history if you like. as once in a relationship sex habits can change and so do your wants and desires x | |||
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"I think you'll find that we already have that covered with fabdating....well it was my idea and the libertine registered the site....so technically I have no claim over it now......damn.... What's this 'we'? A match made on Fab dashed on the rocks already " and I thought we had something special too | |||
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"No this is called fabswingers not fabdate and the two shouldn't be mixed. If your looking for love or a partner use a dating site there are lots to choose from. And feel like a complete freak when you tell a guy about your sex life if you can find one that actually wants a relation and not just sex , yep dating sites are fan dabby dozy if he gets freaked out by your sex life then he isn't for you. Your more likely going to find some one a dating site looking for a relationship than on a swinging site. " That's kind of the point...I would assume most people on traditional dating site are looking for a monogamous relationship and so it probably isn't an ideal place to find someone a bit more sexually liberated. I'm not looking for a relationship, but if I were to try to find one I would still like to swing in some way...most likely with other couples than single guys as I do now, but still enjoying the lifestyle. Surely I'd be more likely to find someone else who enjoyed swinging on a swinging site than the like of eharmony? And as for those worrying about those seeking a relationship being bunny boilers...who's to say they'd be remotely interested in your particular bunny?! There are several guys on here I've enjoyed sex with but wouldn't dream of dating as we're just not compatible in that way. Plus, there are many that aren't actively seeking but have fallen upon it..just because I'm not looking for 'the one' it doesn't mean I'd turn him away if he knocked on my door! | |||
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"If someone likes swinging... and they would like to find a partner to share their swinging fun with.... surely a swinging site is the best place to look??!!! It always seems a bit elitist when couples say that singles can't be swingers. Now the couples say that singles can't become couples either?!! " does everyone have to be fabulous too?? | |||
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