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By *lle adie 2 OP Woman
over a year ago
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Is it me or not, but when I look at some pictures I cant believe that some men actually turn up in track suit bottoms!!!
It horrifies me and a complete turn off, unless going to gym etc.
If I make an effort for a meet id expect the potential man to also make an effort. Or im I just picky and choosy? Luckily every man ive ever met has been very well dressed, looks and smells good
I don't think so...  |
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"Is it me or not, but when I look at some pictures I cant believe that some men actually turn up in track suit bottoms!!!
It horrifies me and a complete turn off, unless going to gym etc.
If I make an effort for a meet id expect the potential man to also make an effort. Or im I just picky and choosy? Luckily every man ive ever met has been very well dressed, looks and smells good
I don't think so... "
Couldnt agree more......nothing beats a man thats made the effort  |
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over a year ago
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"Is it me or not, but when I look at some pictures I cant believe that some men actually turn up in track suit bottoms!!!
It horrifies me and a complete turn off, unless going to gym etc.
If I make an effort for a meet id expect the potential man to also make an effort. Or im I just picky and choosy? Luckily every man ive ever met has been very well dressed, looks and smells good
I don't think so...
Couldnt agree more......nothing beats a man thats made the effort "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I spent an hour getting ready for a meet last week and he turned up in an old scruffy sweatshirt and scruffy faded jeans, he had not shaved for about a week, needless to say the meet lasted less than ten minutes and he had the audacity to ask me to varify him...  |
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For a meet I wear a beautifully tailored suit, a crisp white shirt, a silk tie, shiny classic brogue shoes, freshly showered and shaved, and smelling faintly of cologne........
Why would I turn up in anything less?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would wear what I was comfortable in."
And while I personally wouldn't wear a tracksuit, if someone didn't like my clothes it wouldn't bother me - I certainly wouldn't dress to meet someone else's expectations in the hope of getting a shag. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is it me or not, but when I look at some pictures I cant believe that some men actually turn up in track suit bottoms!!!
It horrifies me and a complete turn off, unless going to gym etc.
If I make an effort for a meet id expect the potential man to also make an effort. Or im I just picky and choosy? Luckily every man ive ever met has been very well dressed, looks and smells good
I don't think so... "
We have never had someone turn up in track suit bottoms and if they did we would probably laugh ourselves silly and ask what they thought was right about them for a meet.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes I wouldn't wear my leggings, and Gary would promise not to wear his grey Y fronts.
Clean and presentable is enough
It's about a good meet , having a laugh |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I spent an hour getting ready for a meet last week and he turned up in an old scruffy sweatshirt and scruffy faded jeans, he had not shaved for about a week, needless to say the meet lasted less than ten minutes and he had the audacity to ask me to varify him... "
At least he turned up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes I wouldn't wear my leggings, and Gary would promise not to wear his grey Y fronts.
Clean and presentable is enough
It's about a good meet , having a laugh"
Leggings can be very Hot though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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just remembered a young chap i met once, not very tall, he wore track suit and he was cute.
he said he wore it because he had told the people he worked for he was going to the gym. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes I wouldn't wear my leggings, and Gary would promise not to wear his grey Y fronts.
Clean and presentable is enough
It's about a good meet , having a laugh
Leggings can be very Hot though"
well indoors, much prefer a skirt and blouse though |
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By *eerobCouple
over a year ago
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We've been disappointed when people have turned up not having made an effort. We always try to look smart and if appropriate sexy. It says a lot when a woman turns up with a sweatshirt and jeans and put no effort in, would she put effort into taking things further.... We think probably not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We've been disappointed when people have turned up not having made an effort. We always try to look smart and if appropriate sexy. It says a lot when a woman turns up with a sweatshirt and jeans and put no effort in, would she put effort into taking things further.... We think probably not. "
i like a woman to smell nice, look clean. some women are lucky enough to look good even wearing a sweatshirt and jeans though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I really only wear jeans, ever. Except at a function where formal is requested.
I have nice dark ones, faded blues, slightly worn round the heels and my favourite washedathousandtimesandrippedtoshredstraightoutta1987 ones and many more.
Though I'm happy to dress up with a shirt and sometimes a waistcoat and boots or black patent shoes. Stopped wearing aftershave at 18 as I apparently have a manly natural smell apparently?
Dunno what that's supposed to mean but it's saved me a fortune over the years |
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I always dress nicely to meet people even if its for a drink first, and of course with nice undies just in case. I don't think people dress up like they did when I was younger, the weekends were for your glad rags and not your jeans or tracksuit bottoms  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes I wouldn't wear my leggings, and Gary would promise not to wear his grey Y fronts.
Clean and presentable is enough
It's about a good meet , having a laugh
Leggings can be very Hot though well indoors, much prefer a skirt and blouse though "
It depends on the look they were going for really, shiny leggings with boots and abit of a Domme look would be very enticing |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is it me or not, but when I look at some pictures I cant believe that some men actually turn up in track suit bottoms!!!
It horrifies me and a complete turn off, unless going to gym etc.
If I make an effort for a meet id expect the potential man to also make an effort. Or im I just picky and choosy? Luckily every man ive ever met has been very well dressed, looks and smells good
I don't think so... "
I turned up to a guy's flat and well, unmade bed and trackie bottoms  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well from the replies I've seen from the gents I've had a rethink. No more sexy basque and stockings. Oh no no no no no 
Pjs all the way with matching bunny face slippers. Comfort is the new name of the game. Watch out for my veri's |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well from the replies I've seen from the gents I've had a rethink. No more sexy basque and stockings. Oh no no no no no
Pjs all the way with matching bunny face slippers. Comfort is the new name of the game. Watch out for my veri's "
Onesie all the way |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Jeans and a shirt or nice t-shirt on a guy is good with me. A guy I met recently, first social meet, he apologised as he was going to be in his work stuff, was smart looking. I dress up for a meet, but often wonder if you have a second meet, do you need to dress up again or would jeans or trousers and a nice top be acceptable? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Jeans and a shirt or nice t-shirt on a guy is good with me. A guy I met recently, first social meet, he apologised as he was going to be in his work stuff, was smart looking. I dress up for a meet, but often wonder if you have a second meet, do you need to dress up again or would jeans or trousers and a nice top be acceptable? "
A second meet just after the first one! Waw, my second meet could be weeks after lol  |
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"Must say I don't get too dressed up for a meet but my scruffiest is jeans & a jumper.....
Wouldn't dream of wearing joggers"
Same here. I don't get too dressed up coz it's not staying on all that long anyway |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would wear what I was comfortable in.
And while I personally wouldn't wear a tracksuit, if someone didn't like my clothes it wouldn't bother me - I certainly wouldn't dress to meet someone else's expectations in the hope of getting a shag."
but a nice kilt certainly won't do any harm in getting a shag. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would wear what I was comfortable in.
And while I personally wouldn't wear a tracksuit, if someone didn't like my clothes it wouldn't bother me - I certainly wouldn't dress to meet someone else's expectations in the hope of getting a shag.
but a nice kilt certainly won't do any harm in getting a shag. "
 Could never wear it other than to a club, christ it's scary enough in the station wearing it on the way to London never mind to a local pub!
But yeah it doesn't do any harm in getting attention... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Jeans and a shirt or nice t-shirt on a guy is good with me. A guy I met recently, first social meet, he apologised as he was going to be in his work stuff, was smart looking. I dress up for a meet, but often wonder if you have a second meet, do you need to dress up again or would jeans or trousers and a nice top be acceptable?
A second meet just after the first one! Waw, my second meet could be weeks after lol "
I said if I get a second meet and mine don't follow straight away, if at all |
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