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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I always thought I would keep this lifestyle a secret, but last night I 'came out' to some very good friends of mine. I was expecting them to be shocked but no, they were so supportive and understanding. We now have an arrangement where I let them know I have a meet and that all is ok, they also have a set of keys to my flat just in case. Has anyone else had any similar experiences? |
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By *W69Couple
over a year ago
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"I always thought I would keep this lifestyle a secret, but last night I 'came out' to some very good friends of mine. I was expecting them to be shocked but no, they were so supportive and understanding. We now have an arrangement where I let them know I have a meet and that all is ok, they also have a set of keys to my flat just in case. Has anyone else had any similar experiences? "
Glad that they were supportive and understanding for you. We confided in some very good friends, felt so much better being able to tell them what we doing/planning as opposed to making something up.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Most people I talk to are cool and intrigued. Half the girls want to go to a club to see what it's like. I honestly don't know why people think it's something to be ashamed of? I'm. It doing anything that any other single man isn't doing. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I always thought I would keep this lifestyle a secret, but last night I 'came out' to some very good friends of mine. I was expecting them to be shocked but no, they were so supportive and understanding. We now have an arrangement where I let them know I have a meet and that all is ok, they also have a set of keys to my flat just in case. Has anyone else had any similar experiences?
Glad that they were supportive and understanding for you. We confided in some very good friends, felt so much better being able to tell them what we doing/planning as opposed to making something up.
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I have to agree, I hate telling fibs to people about my plans and thinking of new excuses as to what I'm doing can be difficult sometimes. I am so blessed to have such good friends and I'm pleased you have had a similar experience  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Most people I talk to are cool and intrigued. Half the girls want to go to a club to see what it's like. I honestly don't know why people think it's something to be ashamed of? I'm. It doing anything that any other single man isn't doing. "
I have never felt ashamed of what I do, I just thought they might not understand or would judge. How wrong was I!!!  |
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By *W69Couple
over a year ago
Bournemouth |
"Most people I talk to are cool and intrigued. Half the girls want to go to a club to see what it's like. I honestly don't know why people think it's something to be ashamed of? I'm. It doing anything that any other single man isn't doing.
I have never felt ashamed of what I do, I just thought they might not understand or would judge. How wrong was I!!! "
How true  |
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By *ngelbiTVTV/TS
over a year ago
Dyserth, North Wales |
"I always thought I would keep this lifestyle a secret, but last night I 'came out' to some very good friends of mine. I was expecting them to be shocked but no, they were so supportive and understanding. We now have an arrangement where I let them know I have a meet and that all is ok, they also have a set of keys to my flat just in case. Has anyone else had any similar experiences? "
It's very liberating coming out to friends or family. My partner's family know all about us and me. The good thing is now they take the piss. Which is the ultimate good sign. Really happy for you  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I always thought I would keep this lifestyle a secret, but last night I 'came out' to some very good friends of mine. I was expecting them to be shocked but no, they were so supportive and understanding. We now have an arrangement where I let them know I have a meet and that all is ok, they also have a set of keys to my flat just in case. Has anyone else had any similar experiences?
It's very liberating coming out to friends or family. My partner's family know all about us and me. The good thing is now they take the piss. Which is the ultimate good sign. Really happy for you "
Really glad you have had a positive experience too. I must say we did have a few giggles and it was great to be able to talk openly with them and I feel a lot safer knowing they are there if needed |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I always thought I would keep this lifestyle a secret, but last night I 'came out' to some very good friends of mine. I was expecting them to be shocked but no, they were so supportive and understanding. We now have an arrangement where I let them know I have a meet and that all is ok, they also have a set of keys to my flat just in case. Has anyone else had any similar experiences?
It's very liberating coming out to friends or family. My partner's family know all about us and me. The good thing is now they take the piss. Which is the ultimate good sign. Really happy for you
Really glad you have had a positive experience too. I must say we did have a few giggles and it was great to be able to talk openly with them and I feel a lot safer knowing they are there if needed "
I too confide in a friend about my meets
It makes me feel safe knowing someone knows where I am and why.
Also she doesn't judge me and we do have a giggle about it.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I always thought I would keep this lifestyle a secret, but last night I 'came out' to some very good friends of mine. I was expecting them to be shocked but no, they were so supportive and understanding. We now have an arrangement where I let them know I have a meet and that all is ok, they also have a set of keys to my flat just in case. Has anyone else had any similar experiences?
It's very liberating coming out to friends or family. My partner's family know all about us and me. The good thing is now they take the piss. Which is the ultimate good sign. Really happy for you
Really glad you have had a positive experience too. I must say we did have a few giggles and it was great to be able to talk openly with them and I feel a lot safer knowing they are there if needed
I too confide in a friend about my meets
It makes me feel safe knowing someone knows where I am and why.
Also she doesn't judge me and we do have a giggle about it.
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I always say that being a single female my safety is paramount and it will remain that way, but knowing they are there at the end of the phone and literally minutes away is such a relief.
We shared some giggles last night and I know we will share many more |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My best friend and my sister knows, and my sister is now my safety bud. Not really mentioned it to anyone else 
Good for you for being so open with your friends x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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My best friend and her bf knows I swing as she likes to hear about my meets (kept nameless). If my family knew they'd call me all sorts and disown me. Theyre very very old fashioned. Im not ashamed of it, I have mentioned it to fbs out of fab and they joined up |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"My best friend and her bf knows I swing as she likes to hear about my meets (kept nameless). If my family knew they'd call me all sorts and disown me. Theyre very very old fashioned. Im not ashamed of it, I have mentioned it to fbs out of fab and they joined up"
I wouldn't tell my family either for the same reasons as you...but I am so glad I have someone there just in case now and also someone to talk to about my experiences... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"My best friend and my sister knows, and my sister is now my safety bud. Not really mentioned it to anyone else
Good for you for being so open with your friends x "
Thanks very much I'm glad you have a safety bud too, I must say I feel safer now knowing they are there, but I will still remain cautious about who I meet...   |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"All my friends know and they even follow us on Twitter and Vine. Sharing is caring after all. Doesn't bother me one bit. "
I am glad you can be so open...wish I could do the same |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My best friend and my sister knows, and my sister is now my safety bud. Not really mentioned it to anyone else
Good for you for being so open with your friends x
Thanks very much I'm glad you have a safety bud too, I must say I feel safer now knowing they are there, but I will still remain cautious about who I meet... "
Of course you should, as all us single ladies do. Trust your gut instincts and hopefully all will be good x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"My best friend and my sister knows, and my sister is now my safety bud. Not really mentioned it to anyone else
Good for you for being so open with your friends x
Thanks very much I'm glad you have a safety bud too, I must say I feel safer now knowing they are there, but I will still remain cautious about who I meet...
Of course you should, as all us single ladies do. Trust your gut instincts and hopefully all will be good x "
I will..gut instincts are usually right and I always ask for face pics and telephone numbers before meeting anyone..socially or otherwise |
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