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Rejection

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Rejection is never nice, but I think I have found a way to make it less painfull. Sometimes when I get chatting to someone and then we exchange photos, I am not attracted to them. So instead of being blunt or ignoring them I start making outlandish demands or stating weird preference that soon puts them . It seems to work and everyone is relatively happy, any other good methods out there???

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

For someone called "genuine guy", doesn't sound too genuine tbh.

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Risky. One day you might get chatting to someone who will agree to do it all.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Risky. One day you might get chatting to someone who will agree to do it all."

I tried that once, they wanted to do everything I said

and it was getting pretty hard core.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Emigration?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"For someone called "genuine guy", doesn't sound too genuine tbh. "

Are yiu suggesting I just tell then the truth, which would you prefer ?

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I say 'you're not my type' and move on, block the profile and not contact them again. Sounds a trifle harsh but it's better than wasting people's valuable time.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

just direct them to the forum, once they've read a selection of your posts......

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Risky. One day you might get chatting to someone who will agree to do it all."

Maybe, they would have to be very open minded though

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"just direct them to the forum, once they've read a selection of your posts......

It's an option, most of the people I message or meet are not interested in the forums though

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just take it as a man and move on

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By *riendly foeWoman over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

"For someone called "genuine guy", doesn't sound too genuine tbh.

Are yiu suggesting I just tell then the truth, which would you prefer ?"

Yes!! Tell the truth

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Just take it as a man and move on

What??

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"For someone called "genuine guy", doesn't sound too genuine tbh.

Are yiu suggesting I just tell then the truth, which would you prefer ?

Yes!! Tell the truth

Nah, I will stick to my method

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Your way is an option , but a simple block is easier .

If the pics are not attractive to you , why not just block them ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"just direct them to the forum, once they've read a selection of your posts......

It's an option, most of the people I message or meet are not interested in the forums though "

This is so true .

I wonder what % of fab members use the forums ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Your way is an option , but a simple block is easier .

If the pics are not attractive to you , why not just block them ?"

Because I think that's a bit harsh, especially if we have started a conversation, it's just plain rude

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"just direct them to the forum, once they've read a selection of your posts......

It's an option, most of the people I message or meet are not interested in the forums though

This is so true .

I wonder what % of fab members use the forums ?"

Very low, maybe 2%

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just be honest as you would expect others to be with you.

Not everyone is for one another & we all have diff preferences.

I think being honest but polite as in ..soz Not for me but good luck & happy fab'ing. Is a nicer way to let someone down.

I get many good luck too and thank you replies from that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Your way is an option , but a simple block is easier .

If the pics are not attractive to you , why not just block them ?

Because I think that's a bit harsh, especially if we have started a conversation, it's just plain rude "

Man up ffs.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I say 'you're not my type' and move on, block the profile and not contact them again. Sounds a trifle harsh but it's better than wasting people's valuable time."

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By *ucky1Man over a year ago

a straightjacket

"just direct them to the forum, once they've read a selection of your posts......

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Just be honest as you would expect others to be with you.

Not everyone is for one another & we all have diff preferences.

I think being honest but polite as in ..soz Not for me but good luck & happy fab'ing. Is a nicer way to let someone down.

I get many good luck too and thank you replies from that. "

Maybe, however (here we go) 'some ' women are more sensitive and are not used to rejection on here, I did try that approach and got nothing but abuse and threats

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Your way is an option , but a simple block is easier .

If the pics are not attractive to you , why not just block them ?

Because I think that's a bit harsh, especially if we have started a conversation, it's just plain rude

Man up ffs.

I guess you don't 'reject' to many messages judging by your '2 eyes and 1 nose' statement on your profile

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Your way is an option , but a simple block is easier .

If the pics are not attractive to you , why not just block them ?

Because I think that's a bit harsh, especially if we have started a conversation, it's just plain rude

Man up ffs.

I guess you don't 'reject' to many messages judging by your '2 eyes and 1 nose' statement on your profile

Its a joke

More to the point learn to deal with you getting rejected

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"just direct them to the forum, once they've read a selection of your posts......

It's an option, most of the people I message or meet are not interested in the forums though "

That makes you very fortunate

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Your way is an option , but a simple block is easier .

If the pics are not attractive to you , why not just block them ?

Because I think that's a bit harsh, especially if we have started a conversation, it's just plain rude

Man up ffs.

I guess you don't 'reject' to many messages judging by your '2 eyes and 1 nose' statement on your profile

Its a joke

More to the point learn to deal with you getting rejected

Hilarious, have you actually read the post, it's about me rejected others not the other way round

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If I get a knock back and they block me I don't take offence it's just easier so I don't waste time messaging again women have so many to choose from what can you do

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"just direct them to the forum, once they've read a selection of your posts......

It's an option, most of the people I message or meet are not interested in the forums though

That makes you very fortunate

Does it, the fact that about 98% of people in here don't use them sort of stacks the odds in my favour

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"just direct them to the forum, once they've read a selection of your posts......

It's an option, most of the people I message or meet are not interested in the forums though

That makes you very fortunate

Does it, the fact that about 98% of people in here don't use them sort of stacks the odds in my favour"

That is my point!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"If I get a knock back and they block me I don't take offence it's just easier so I don't waste time messaging again women have so many to choose from what can you do

True, but like I said previously women tend to be more sensitive about rejection

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Your way is an option , but a simple block is easier .

If the pics are not attractive to you , why not just block them ?

Because I think that's a bit harsh, especially if we have started a conversation, it's just plain rude

Man up ffs.

I guess you don't 'reject' to many messages judging by your '2 eyes and 1 nose' statement on your profile

Its a joke

More to the point learn to deal with you getting rejected

Hilarious, have you actually read the post, it's about me rejected others not the other way round

You reject women? So that must mean you get ladys messagging you 1st? Well my hat goes off to you. You clearly must be a good catch

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"just direct them to the forum, once they've read a selection of your posts......

It's an option, most of the people I message or meet are not interested in the forums though

That makes you very fortunate

Does it, the fact that about 98% of people in here don't use them sort of stacks the odds in my favour

That is my point!"

Is it? Well it's a crap point to make

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Your way is an option , but a simple block is easier .

If the pics are not attractive to you , why not just block them ?

Because I think that's a bit harsh, especially if we have started a conversation, it's just plain rude

Man up ffs.

I guess you don't 'reject' to many messages judging by your '2 eyes and 1 nose' statement on your profile

Its a joke

More to the point learn to deal with you getting rejected

Hilarious, have you actually read the post, it's about me rejected others not the other way round

You reject women? So that must mean you get ladys messagging you 1st? Well my hat goes off to you. You clearly must be a good catch

I am, have you ever messages a profile without seeing there photos, some don't have then displayed

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"just direct them to the forum, once they've read a selection of your posts......

It's an option, most of the people I message or meet are not interested in the forums though

That makes you very fortunate

Does it, the fact that about 98% of people in here don't use them sort of stacks the odds in my favour

That is my point!

Is it? Well it's a crap point to make "

It tickled my fancy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Your way is an option , but a simple block is easier .

If the pics are not attractive to you , why not just block them ?

Because I think that's a bit harsh, especially if we have started a conversation, it's just plain rude

Man up ffs.

I guess you don't 'reject' to many messages judging by your '2 eyes and 1 nose' statement on your profile

Its a joke

More to the point learn to deal with you getting rejected

Hilarious, have you actually read the post, it's about me rejected others not the other way round

You reject women? So that must mean you get ladys messagging you 1st? Well my hat goes off to you. You clearly must be a good catch

I am, have you ever messages a profile without seeing there photos, some don't have then displayed "

Tbh judging by the rants from various guys on here about getting no messages your clearly a minority that you get messages from ladys off here that you have never chatted to. Any tips would be welcomed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Your way is an option , but a simple block is easier .

If the pics are not attractive to you , why not just block them ?

Because I think that's a bit harsh, especially if we have started a conversation, it's just plain rude

Man up ffs.

I guess you don't 'reject' to many messages judging by your '2 eyes and 1 nose' statement on your profile

Its a joke

More to the point learn to deal with you getting rejected

Hilarious, have you actually read the post, it's about me rejected others not the other way round

You reject women? So that must mean you get ladys messagging you 1st? Well my hat goes off to you. You clearly must be a good catch

I am, have you ever messages a profile without seeing there photos, some don't have then displayed

It's just a gift, but seriously it's not from messages of women, I tend to send the first message get chatting then exchange pics

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"just direct them to the forum, once they've read a selection of your posts......

It's an option, most of the people I message or meet are not interested in the forums though

That makes you very fortunate

Does it, the fact that about 98% of people in here don't use them sort of stacks the odds in my favour

That is my point!

Is it? Well it's a crap point to make

It tickled my fancy

Hilarious

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Your way is an option , but a simple block is easier .

If the pics are not attractive to you , why not just block them ?

Because I think that's a bit harsh, especially if we have started a conversation, it's just plain rude

Man up ffs.

I guess you don't 'reject' to many messages judging by your '2 eyes and 1 nose' statement on your profile

Its a joke

More to the point learn to deal with you getting rejected

Hilarious, have you actually read the post, it's about me rejected others not the other way round

You reject women? So that must mean you get ladys messagging you 1st? Well my hat goes off to you. You clearly must be a good catch

I am, have you ever messages a profile without seeing there photos, some don't have then displayed

It's just a gift, but seriously it's not from messages of women, I tend to send the first message get chatting then exchange pics"

I think your way of using fab is the way forward. Watch this space

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Your way is an option , but a simple block is easier .

If the pics are not attractive to you , why not just block them ?

Because I think that's a bit harsh, especially if we have started a conversation, it's just plain rude

Man up ffs.

I guess you don't 'reject' to many messages judging by your '2 eyes and 1 nose' statement on your profile

Its a joke

More to the point learn to deal with you getting rejected

Hilarious, have you actually read the post, it's about me rejected others not the other way round

You reject women? So that must mean you get ladys messagging you 1st? Well my hat goes off to you. You clearly must be a good catch

I am, have you ever messages a profile without seeing there photos, some don't have then displayed

It's just a gift, but seriously it's not from messages of women, I tend to send the first message get chatting then exchange pics

I think your way of using fab is the way forward. Watch this space

Works for me

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By *RYBBWCouple over a year ago

Leeds.

"For someone called "genuine guy", doesn't sound too genuine tbh.

Are yiu suggesting I just tell then the truth, which would you prefer ?"

So you're openly admitting to being a liar then ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"For someone called "genuine guy", doesn't sound too genuine tbh.

Are yiu suggesting I just tell then the truth, which would you prefer ?

So you're openly admitting to being a liar then ?"

Yep, let me guess you have never ever told a lie???

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just say your not my type and block ffs. Grow up! Us fragile women can take it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Just say your not my type and block ffs. Grow up! Us fragile women can take it."

What?? Are you speaking for every woman on here, get a grip

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just say your not my type and block ffs. Grow up! Us fragile women can take it.

What?? Are you speaking for every woman on here, get a grip "

obviously I'm not speaking for those women that are so desperate to meet you that they will be devastated at rejection....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just say your not my type and block ffs. Grow up! Us fragile women can take it.

What?? Are you speaking for every woman on here, get a grip "

obviously I'm not speaking for those women that are so desperate to meet you that they will be devastated at rejection....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Have you offered someone something inappropriate and this is your excuse? " I only offered that to put you off me, I wasn't being serious"?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm sure if you just block them they will not be up all night crying . So don't be to

Sensitive mate

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"just direct them to the forum, once they've read a selection of your posts......

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Just say your not my type and block ffs. Grow up! Us fragile women can take it.

What?? Are you speaking for every woman on here, get a grip

obviously I'm not speaking for those women that are so desperate to meet you that they will be devastated at rejection...."

Lol, fair enough I will be more blunt in future, here goes, sorry I don't fancy you, your now blocked, better

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Have you offered someone something inappropriate and this is your excuse? " I only offered that to put you off me, I wasn't being serious"?"

Dam my ruse has been exposed

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I'm sure if you just block them they will not be up all night crying . So don't be to

Sensitive mate "

I don't think they can cope with that sort of news tbh, it will crush them, I just have to many options though

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes

End of discussion.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just say your not my type and block ffs. Grow up! Us fragile women can take it.

What?? Are you speaking for every woman on here, get a grip

obviously I'm not speaking for those women that are so desperate to meet you that they will be devastated at rejection....

Lol, fair enough I will be more blunt in future, here goes, sorry I don't fancy you, your now blocked, better "

thank you. Fabulous result.

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By *uited staffs guyMan over a year ago

staffordshire

Tell you you only meet after eating marmite, that'll get rid of most on here!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just say your not my type and block ffs. Grow up! Us fragile women can take it.

What?? Are you speaking for every woman on here, get a grip

obviously I'm not speaking for those women that are so desperate to meet you that they will be devastated at rejection....

Lol, fair enough I will be more blunt in future, here goes, sorry I don't fancy you, your now blocked, better

thank you. Fabulous result. "

Loooool much better

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Tell you you only meet after eating marmite, that'll get rid of most on here!"

My mate

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Errrr no we are not . we are all adults. Sweeping statements and assumptions -especially the 2%

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What's wrong with just being honest l but being sensitive at the same time . Treat people like you would like to be treated and you will never go wrong .

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"For someone called "genuine guy", doesn't sound too genuine tbh.

Are yiu suggesting I just tell then the truth, which would you prefer ?"

if you are adult enough to be on here... then surely you are adult enough to say "no thank you" and leave it there.....

just the fact that you don't want to play with them should be enough, they dont need a reason why.....

I think the approach you are suggesting is "weaseley".... sorry... someone has to say it

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"For someone called "genuine guy", doesn't sound too genuine tbh.

Are yiu suggesting I just tell then the truth, which would you prefer ?

if you are adult enough to be on here... then surely you are adult enough to say "no thank you" and leave it there.....

just the fact that you don't want to play with them should be enough, they dont need a reason why.....

I think the approach you are suggesting is "weaseley".... sorry... someone has to say it"

Like the twins of Harry Potter,?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Errrr no we are not . we are all adults. Sweeping statements and assumptions -especially the 2%

Sweeping statements? Do yiu have the facts then??

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Just say your not my type and block ffs. Grow up! Us fragile women can take it.

What?? Are you speaking for every woman on here, get a grip

obviously I'm not speaking for those women that are so desperate to meet you that they will be devastated at rejection....

Lol, fair enough I will be more blunt in future, here goes, sorry I don't fancy you, your now blocked, better

thank you. Fabulous result. "

My pleasure, blocking and being rude is the way forward

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Errrr no we are not . we are all adults. Sweeping statements and assumptions -especially the 2%

That's good to hear, I don't find you attractive either your blocked, I am beginning to get used to this

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

That's good to hear, I don't find you attractive either your blocked, I am beginning to get used to this

see... I think most people are saying it doesn't have to be one extreme or the other....

people can block if they want... its an option given to people by the site owners....

people can say no thank you... they can cut off contact....

so you out of your way to not be "the bad guy".... but you have just told people you deliberately go out to put some you dont fancy off...

I think that is a lot... lot worse than just saying no thanks, or blocking... because at least the message is received straight away

weaseley... snidey... take your pick of words...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just for the record blocking someone you don't wish to have contact with is not rude. It's a site tool specifically for that purpose.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

That's good to hear, I don't find you attractive either your blocked, I am beginning to get used to this

see... I think most people are saying it doesn't have to be one extreme or the other....

people can block if they want... its an option given to people by the site owners....

people can say no thank you... they can cut off contact....

so you out of your way to not be "the bad guy".... but you have just told people you deliberately go out to put some you dont fancy off...

I think that is a lot... lot worse than just saying no thanks, or blocking... because at least the message is received straight away

weaseley... snidey... take your pick of words..."

Wesley Snider, is he the Dutch footballer ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Errrr no we are not . we are all adults. Sweeping statements and assumptions -especially the 2%

That's good to hear, I don't find you attractive either your blocked, I am beginning to get used to this

I thought you were well used to it. You don't seem to have a problem with being rude about people on Forums and blocking them!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Errrr no we are not . we are all adults. Sweeping statements and assumptions -especially the 2%

That's good to hear, I don't find you attractive either your blocked, I am beginning to get used to this

I thought you were well used to it. You don't seem to have a problem with being rude about people on Forums and blocking them!!

people can block if they want... its an option given to people by the site owners....

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"Rejection is never nice, but I think I have found a way to make it less painfull. Sometimes when I get chatting to someone and then we exchange photos, I am not attracted to them. So instead of being blunt or ignoring them I start making outlandish demands or stating weird preference that soon puts them . It seems to work and everyone is relatively happy, any other good methods out there???"

English is my first language and at 53 I'm skilled at saying "no thanks" without belittling or insulting anyone. Never had a nasty response back!

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

To straight men who are really bi men asking to suck my cock, I say 'fuck off' and block. Easy.

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"What's wrong with just being honest l but being sensitive at the same time . Treat people like you would like to be treated and you will never go wrong . "

Yes, exactly so. A rejection does not have to be bluntly stated, it can be kind too!! 'I'm so sorry, you're not what I am looking for after all, but thanks for chatting, and good luck!'

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Errrr no we are not . we are all adults. Sweeping statements and assumptions -especially the 2%

That's good to hear, I don't find you attractive either your blocked, I am beginning to get used to this

I thought you were well used to it. You don't seem to have a problem with being rude about people on Forums and blocking them!!

Hence my original post of directing them to the forums

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Errrr no we are not . we are all adults. Sweeping statements and assumptions -especially the 2%

That's good to hear, I don't find you attractive either your blocked, I am beginning to get used to this

I thought you were well used to it. You don't seem to have a problem with being rude about people on Forums and blocking them!!

Hence my original post of directing them to the forums

I read it the first time, what exactly are you trying to say?Instead of getting personal why don't you stick to the topic,

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Errrr no we are not . we are all adults. Sweeping statements and assumptions -especially the 2%

That's good to hear, I don't find you attractive either your blocked, I am beginning to get used to this

I thought you were well used to it. You don't seem to have a problem with being rude about people on Forums and blocking them!!

Hence my original post of directing them to the forums

I read it the first time, what exactly are you trying to say?Instead of getting personal why don't you stick to the topic,

I cannot believe that you want to come across as sensitive to those you reject, when you're often on here being disagreeable about those larger ladies or ones you consider should be grateful for attention.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Errrr no we are not . we are all adults. Sweeping statements and assumptions -especially the 2%

That's good to hear, I don't find you attractive either your blocked, I am beginning to get used to this

I thought you were well used to it. You don't seem to have a problem with being rude about people on Forums and blocking them!!

Hence my original post of directing them to the forums

I read it the first time, what exactly are you trying to say?Instead of getting personal why don't you stick to the topic,

Oh the irony! Pot, kettle black with regard to getting personal OP or is it only ok when you do it to others!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Errrr no we are not . we are all adults. Sweeping statements and assumptions -especially the 2%

That's good to hear, I don't find you attractive either your blocked, I am beginning to get used to this

I thought you were well used to it. You don't seem to have a problem with being rude about people on Forums and blocking them!!

Hence my original post of directing them to the forums

I read it the first time, what exactly are you trying to say?Instead of getting personal why don't you stick to the topic,

I don't want to come across as sensitive, why are you bringing past forum posts into this debate why are they relevant , try sticking to facts and the topic

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Errrr no we are not . we are all adults. Sweeping statements and assumptions -especially the 2%

That's good to hear, I don't find you attractive either your blocked, I am beginning to get used to this

I thought you were well used to it. You don't seem to have a problem with being rude about people on Forums and blocking them!!

Hence my original post of directing them to the forums

I read it the first time, what exactly are you trying to say?Instead of getting personal why don't you stick to the topic,

Oh the irony! Pot, kettle black with regard to getting personal OP or is it only ok when you do it to others!

Personal, at what point have I been personal on this thread, as mentioned before stick to the facts and this topic otherwise you come across as bitter and vindictive

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well mate I don't think you have to worry about how to treat the messages off this lot lol . Don't think many of them will be asking you for a meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Well mate I don't think you have to worry about how to treat the messages off this lot lol . Don't think many of them will be asking you for a meet

I think I can cope with that, let's just say they are not really on my radar, maybe that's why they are getting so upset

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Errrr no we are not . we are all adults. Sweeping statements and assumptions -especially the 2%

That's good to hear, I don't find you attractive either your blocked, I am beginning to get used to this

I thought you were well used to it. You don't seem to have a problem with being rude about people on Forums and blocking them!!

Hence my original post of directing them to the forums

I read it the first time, what exactly are you trying to say?Instead of getting personal why don't you stick to the topic,

I don't want to come across as sensitive, why are you bringing past forum posts into this debate why are they relevant , try sticking to facts and the topic"

I saw a relevance, that is all that matters.

I help moderate a forum and we had one member who used to get extremely upset when threads would go off on a tangent. We had to intercede and explain that threads are not the property of the initial poster and that often (when the subject is not contentious) threads are more fun when they go off on a tangent and don't stick to the topic.

The point I am making here is that you can get all huffy but as long as forum rules are not broken then posts are allowed to go off topic. Quite often they have only gone off topic in the mind of the OP because it hasn't gone the way the poster planned.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If I get a knock back and they block me I don't take offence it's just easier so I don't waste time messaging again women have so many to choose from what can you do

True, but like I said previously women tend to be more sensitive about rejection "

Oh please don't reject us poor women. FFS get real!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"If I get a knock back and they block me I don't take offence it's just easier so I don't waste time messaging again women have so many to choose from what can you do

True, but like I said previously women tend to be more sensitive about rejection

Oh please don't reject us poor women. FFS get real!!!"

Sorry I don't find you attractive , your blocked

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well mate I don't think you have to worry about how to treat the messages off this lot lol . Don't think many of them will be asking you for a meet

I think I can cope with that, let's just say they are not really on my radar, maybe that's why they are getting so upset

Bless.

Mirror needed?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Errrr no we are not . we are all adults. Sweeping statements and assumptions -especially the 2%

That's good to hear, I don't find you attractive either your blocked, I am beginning to get used to this

I thought you were well used to it. You don't seem to have a problem with being rude about people on Forums and blocking them!!

Hence my original post of directing them to the forums

I read it the first time, what exactly are you trying to say?Instead of getting personal why don't you stick to the topic,

I don't want to come across as sensitive, why are you bringing past forum posts into this debate why are they relevant , try sticking to facts and the topic

I saw a relevance, that is all that matters.

Ok that deals with the off topic comments, how about the personal comments? Are they allowed

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Well mate I don't think you have to worry about how to treat the messages off this lot lol . Don't think many of them will be asking you for a meet

I think I can cope with that, let's just say they are not really on my radar, maybe that's why they are getting so upset

Bless.

Mirror needed?

I am only being honest, which is what I have been told to do, sorry I just don't find yiu attractive, don't take it personal

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Errrr no we are not . we are all adults. Sweeping statements and assumptions -especially the 2%

That's good to hear, I don't find you attractive either your blocked, I am beginning to get used to this

I thought you were well used to it. You don't seem to have a problem with being rude about people on Forums and blocking them!!

Hence my original post of directing them to the forums

I read it the first time, what exactly are you trying to say?Instead of getting personal why don't you stick to the topic,

I don't want to come across as sensitive, why are you bringing past forum posts into this debate why are they relevant , try sticking to facts and the topic

I saw a relevance, that is all that matters.

Ok that deals with the off topic comments, how about the personal comments? Are they allowed "

Someone called you rude and I called you disagreeable... obviously you can choose to take that personally but (a) it's subjective and (b) it's the internet, surely you are man enough to brush that off?

Abuse is disallowed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Errrr no we are not . we are all adults. Sweeping statements and assumptions -especially the 2%

That's good to hear, I don't find you attractive either your blocked, I am beginning to get used to this

I thought you were well used to it. You don't seem to have a problem with being rude about people on Forums and blocking them!!

Hence my original post of directing them to the forums

I read it the first time, what exactly are you trying to say?Instead of getting personal why don't you stick to the topic,

I don't want to come across as sensitive, why are you bringing past forum posts into this debate why are they relevant , try sticking to facts and the topic

I saw a relevance, that is all that matters.

Ok that deals with the off topic comments, how about the personal comments? Are they allowed

Abuse is disallowed."

I can deal with that, I find you vindictive and judgemental, I am sure you can deal with that as well

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If I get a knock back and they block me I don't take offence it's just easier so I don't waste time messaging again women have so many to choose from what can you do

True, but like I said previously women tend to be more sensitive about rejection

Oh please don't reject us poor women. FFS get real!!!

Sorry I don't find you attractive , your blocked "

You couldn't block me. I think you will find that I blocked you after one of your previous forum posts, so I am not devastated and as an attractive single bi fem I don't think I will be crying into my coffee as well.

Happy swinging

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well mate I don't think you have to worry about how to treat the messages off this lot lol . Don't think many of them will be asking you for a meet

I think I can cope with that, let's just say they are not really on my radar, maybe that's why they are getting so upset

Bless.

Mirror needed?

I am only being honest, which is what I have been told to do, sorry I just don't find yiu attractive, don't take it personal "

The mirror is for you to see that you're the only person getting upset here.

I truly have no regard for your opinion of me. I'll sleep easy

. Besides I am a great advocate that someone can only insult me if I choose to own it, likewise I would only take something personally by choice. It's very liberating controlling one's ego. Do try it sometime

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"If I get a knock back and they block me I don't take offence it's just easier so I don't waste time messaging again women have so many to choose from what can you do

True, but like I said previously women tend to be more sensitive about rejection

Oh please don't reject us poor women. FFS get real!!!

Sorry I don't find you attractive , your blocked

Happy swinging

Lets not get petty, I did block you, and your attractiveness is subjective, let's say I am not short of offers either

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If ever a thread needed pulling off this is it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Errrr no we are not . we are all adults. Sweeping statements and assumptions -especially the 2%

That's good to hear, I don't find you attractive either your blocked, I am beginning to get used to this

I thought you were well used to it. You don't seem to have a problem with being rude about people on Forums and blocking them!!

Hence my original post of directing them to the forums

I read it the first time, what exactly are you trying to say?Instead of getting personal why don't you stick to the topic,

I don't want to come across as sensitive, why are you bringing past forum posts into this debate why are they relevant , try sticking to facts and the topic

I saw a relevance, that is all that matters.

Ok that deals with the off topic comments, how about the personal comments? Are they allowed

Abuse is disallowed.

I can deal with that, I find you vindictive and judgemental, I am sure you can deal with that as well "

Yep I can lol.

I'm vindictive/judgemental because I had the gall to explain my original post after you requested that of me?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If I get a knock back and they block me I don't take offence it's just easier so I don't waste time messaging again women have so many to choose from what can you do

True, but like I said previously women tend to be more sensitive about rejection

Oh please don't reject us poor women. FFS get real!!!

Sorry I don't find you attractive , your blocked

Happy swinging

Lets not get petty, I did block you, and your attractiveness is subjective, let's say I am not short of offers either "

With charm like this I am sure you have many many offers. Subjective it maybe but I'd rather trust my own self worth and the opinions of those who know me over a keyboard warrior anyday.

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By *iewMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Angus & Findhorn

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Well mate I don't think you have to worry about how to treat the messages off this lot lol . Don't think many of them will be asking you for a meet

I think I can cope with that, let's just say they are not really on my radar, maybe that's why they are getting so upset

Bless.

Mirror needed?

I am only being honest, which is what I have been told to do, sorry I just don't find yiu attractive, don't take it personal

The mirror is for you to see that you're the only person getting upset here.

I truly have no regard for your opinion of me. I'll sleep easy

Likewise, Ihave no regard for your opinion of me. I'll sleep easy. Besides I am a great advocate that someone can only insult me if I choose to own it, likewise I would only take something personally by choice. You fall into a certain category of person on here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

View, you normally have pearls of wisdom

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well mate I don't think you have to worry about how to treat the messages off this lot lol . Don't think many of them will be asking you for a meet

I think I can cope with that, let's just say they are not really on my radar, maybe that's why they are getting so upset

Bless.

Mirror needed?

I am only being honest, which is what I have been told to do, sorry I just don't find yiu attractive, don't take it personal

The mirror is for you to see that you're the only person getting upset here.

I truly have no regard for your opinion of me. I'll sleep easy

Single female

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By *iewMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Angus & Findhorn

View, you normally have pearls of wisdom

I am at a loss....

maybe agree to disagree

it's the weekend

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"If I get a knock back and they block me I don't take offence it's just easier so I don't waste time messaging again women have so many to choose from what can you do

True, but like I said previously women tend to be more sensitive about rejection

Oh please don't reject us poor women. FFS get real!!!

Sorry I don't find you attractive , your blocked

Happy swinging

Lets not get petty, I did block you, and your attractiveness is subjective, let's say I am not short of offers either

With charm like this I am sure you have many many offers. Subjective it maybe but I'd rather trust my own self worth and the opinions of those who know me over a keyboard warrior anyday."

Likewise,

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

View, you normally have pearls of wisdom

I am at a loss....

maybe agree to disagree

it's the weekend

See, there you go, wisdom

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Well mate I don't think you have to worry about how to treat the messages off this lot lol . Don't think many of them will be asking you for a meet

I think I can cope with that, let's just say they are not really on my radar, maybe that's why they are getting so upset

Bless.

Mirror needed?

I am only being honest, which is what I have been told to do, sorry I just don't find yiu attractive, don't take it personal

The mirror is for you to see that you're the only person getting upset here.

I truly have no regard for your opinion of me. I'll sleep easy

Single female

Nope, i won't get personal but you display all the traits, both physical and from what I can judge from here your personality

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"For someone called "genuine guy", doesn't sound too genuine tbh.

Are yiu suggesting I just tell then the truth, which would you prefer ?

if you are adult enough to be on here... then surely you are adult enough to say "no thank you" and leave it there.....

just the fact that you don't want to play with them should be enough, they dont need a reason why.....

I think the approach you are suggesting is "weaseley".... sorry... someone has to say it"

I second this. Don't waste precious time messaging rubbish. You don't even have to block unless it gets silly. Just let it fizzle out. Believe me it'll be easy for woman to move on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

View, you normally have pearls of wisdom

I am at a loss....

maybe agree to disagree

it's the weekend

Fair comment but all I will say is that just read back at my comments, for some reason people attack the author of the OP rather than debating the post. Which I am afraid makes then vindictive ,

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well mate I don't think you have to worry about how to treat the messages off this lot lol . Don't think many of them will be asking you for a meet

I think I can cope with that, let's just say they are not really on my radar, maybe that's why they are getting so upset

Bless.

Mirror needed?

I am only being honest, which is what I have been told to do, sorry I just don't find yiu attractive, don't take it personal

The mirror is for you to see that you're the only person getting upset here.

I truly have no regard for your opinion of me. I'll sleep easy

Single female

Nope, i won't get personal but you display all the traits, both physical and from what I can judge from here your personality "

hahahaha bless you.

BTW Chelle is beautiful

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By *stwoCouple over a year ago

anywhere

Thanks but no thanks works for us

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By *stwoCouple over a year ago

anywhere

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Well mate I don't think you have to worry about how to treat the messages off this lot lol . Don't think many of them will be asking you for a meet

I think I can cope with that, let's just say they are not really on my radar, maybe that's why they are getting so upset

Bless.

Mirror needed?

I am only being honest, which is what I have been told to do, sorry I just don't find yiu attractive, don't take it personal

The mirror is for you to see that you're the only person getting upset here.

I truly have no regard for your opinion of me. I'll sleep easy

Single female

Nope, i won't get personal but you display all the traits, both physical and from what I can judge from here your personality

hahahaha bless you.

BTW Chelle is beautiful

Is she, let's just agree to disagree

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

is it just me... or is anyone else seeing the irony in someone calling themselves "genuineguy" but not being genuine about the reason he doesn't want to see someone who has been corresponding with him....

okay... just me then....

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"If ever a thread needed pulling off this is it"

I wouldn't remove it....

I would lock it... but certainly not remove it... the little green arrow will be a lasting reminder of the true face of some people......

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"If ever a thread needed pulling off this is it

I wouldn't remove it....

I would lock it... but certainly not remove it... the little green arrow will be a lasting reminder of the true face of some people......

Do yiu ever say anything interesting or original, it's all so moribund,

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"is it just me... or is anyone else seeing the irony in someone calling themselves "genuineguy" but not being genuine about the reason he doesn't want to see someone who has been corresponding with him....

okay... just me then....

It's been mentioned before, try to be original

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"If ever a thread needed pulling off this is it

I wouldn't remove it....

I would lock it... but certainly not remove it... the little green arrow will be a lasting reminder of the true face of some people......

Do yiu ever say anything interesting or original, it's all so moribund, "

now now, you'll have to remind me of that thing you said about personal attacks again.... care to remind us all????

(something about "practicing what you preach" to be placed here).....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Is this thread what forum suicide looks like?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"If ever a thread needed pulling off this is it

I wouldn't remove it....

I would lock it... but certainly not remove it... the little green arrow will be a lasting reminder of the true face of some people......

Do yiu ever say anything interesting or original, it's all so moribund,

now now, you'll have to remind me of that thing you said about personal attacks again.... care to remind us all????

(something about "practicing what you preach" to be placed here)....."

I was just being honest which is less 'weasely and snidely?? regards 'personal attacks' and using previous posts , it seems that it's acceptable on here, your obviously an intelligent guy but you seem to sit on the fence all the time, you comment on threads but never start one .

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Is this thread what forum suicide looks like? "

Another moribund poster, can you explain what you mean??

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By *anny PepperoniMan over a year ago

Matlock

I don't have any problems getting rejected. It happens all the time without me even trying.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is this thread what forum suicide looks like?

Another moribund poster, can you explain what you mean??"

Is it not obviouus? It's quite clear that every post on this thread is designed to provoke a reaction.

Can you explain what you mean by "moribund poster"?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Is this thread what forum suicide looks like?

Another moribund poster, can you explain what you mean??

Is it not obviouus? It's quite clear that every post on this thread is designed to provoke a reaction.

Can you explain what you mean by "moribund poster"?"

Sure, moribund , boring, lacks originality, try starting a thread instead of making the same comments all the time. Provoking a reaction?? that's what debate is about, wound you prefer a 'moribund' thread

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By *1ckeyMan over a year ago

Camberley

"Is this thread what forum suicide looks like?

Another moribund poster, can you explain what you mean??"

I thought it was clear enough

I hope you don't reject me, I don't know what I'd do - it would be the end of my life as I know it

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Is this thread what forum suicide looks like?

Another moribund poster, can you explain what you mean??

I thought it was clear enough

I hope you don't reject me, I don't know what I'd do - it would be the end of my life as I know it

That's good, glad your not sensitive, your not my type, your blocked

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By *D40Couple over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"I say 'you're not my type' and move on, block the profile and not contact them again. Sounds a trifle harsh but it's better than wasting people's valuable time."

I think were all grown up & your not my type is fair & kind.

However why block someone if you have a nice chat & a laugh?

Julie x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If a man said I wasn't his type I wouldn't know he has blocked me as I would delete his messages. It is difficult for some of us to see a face photo and then have to say no thanks after chatting for a while. Talk is great but if there is no physical attraction to go with it then there's no point carrying on

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By *1ckeyMan over a year ago

Camberley

"Is this thread what forum suicide looks like?

Another moribund poster, can you explain what you mean??

I thought it was clear enough

I hope you don't reject me, I don't know what I'd do - it would be the end of my life as I know it

That's good, glad your not sensitive, your not my type, your blocked

It's ok - I think I'm only my type - seem to have trouble conforming to other peoples ideals of me.

Couldn't help but wonder why you don't just tell people like you've just done with me - so much easier

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"If a man said I wasn't his type I wouldn't know he has blocked me as I would delete his messages. It is difficult for some of us to see a face photo and then have to say no thanks after chatting for a while. Talk is great but if there is no physical attraction to go with it then there's no point carrying on "

I agree, there is no easy way to do it, I suggested a different approach, which I think has gone down really well in here

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Is this thread what forum suicide looks like?

Another moribund poster, can you explain what you mean??

I thought it was clear enough

I hope you don't reject me, I don't know what I'd do - it would be the end of my life as I know it

That's good, glad your not sensitive, your not my type, your blocked

It's ok - I think I'm only my type - seem to have trouble conforming to other peoples ideals of me.

Couldn't help but wonder why you don't just tell people like you've just done with me - so much easier

I have changed my ways, I am converted, being honest and blocking is the way forward from now on

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is this thread what forum suicide looks like?

Another moribund poster, can you explain what you mean??

I thought it was clear enough

I hope you don't reject me, I don't know what I'd do - it would be the end of my life as I know it

That's good, glad your not sensitive, your not my type, your blocked

"
Even thought you are Rude . Cocky . Arrogant . Abusive . Got to admit mate you are funny and reply to every post . Even if is to block em .. Don't tell me !! I'm blocked

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Is this thread what forum suicide looks like?

Another moribund poster, can you explain what you mean??

I thought it was clear enough

I hope you don't reject me, I don't know what I'd do - it would be the end of my life as I know it

That's good, glad your not sensitive, your not my type, your blocked

Even thought you are Rude . Cocky . Arrogant . Abusive . Got to admit mate you are funny and reply to every post . Even if is to block em .. Don't tell me !! I'm blocked

Nah, your not blocked,

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

who's your mate

seriously op i won't address incase you take it personally but as studley and irresistable as you may well be your probably not the ladies only option either so it won't take them long to recover from the devastation

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is this thread what forum suicide looks like?

Another moribund poster, can you explain what you mean??

I thought it was clear enough

I hope you don't reject me, I don't know what I'd do - it would be the end of my life as I know it

That's good, glad your not sensitive, your not my type, your blocked

Even thought you are Rude . Cocky . Arrogant . Abusive . Got to admit mate you are funny and reply to every post . Even if is to block em .. Don't tell me !! I'm blocked

Nah, your not blocked,

"
Why ? First you say your a sensitive guy now you can hurt my feelings and say I'm not good enough to be blocked

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"who's your mate

Studley, good word, might change my profile name to that. Joking apart I was only suggesting something different, however they would struggle to get over it, people have left the site after being blocked by me, it can be devastating

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Is this thread what forum suicide looks like?

Another moribund poster, can you explain what you mean??

I thought it was clear enough

I hope you don't reject me, I don't know what I'd do - it would be the end of my life as I know it

That's good, glad your not sensitive, your not my type, your blocked

Even thought you are Rude . Cocky . Arrogant . Abusive . Got to admit mate you are funny and reply to every post . Even if is to block em .. Don't tell me !! I'm blocked

Nah, your not blocked,

Why ? First you say your a sensitive guy now you can hurt my feelings and say I'm not good enough to be blocked

I never said I was sensitive, far from it, I might block you later, I just have to many to block right now

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By *Ryan-Man over a year ago

In Your Bush

Hmmm not sure that method would work for me. My pics attract the weird and outlandish anyway

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By *renchbambi xWoman over a year ago

Need to know basis

"I say 'you're not my type' and move on, block the profile and not contact them again. Sounds a trifle harsh but it's better than wasting people's valuable time."

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By *renchbambi xWoman over a year ago

Need to know basis

"For someone called "genuine guy", doesn't sound too genuine tbh.

Are yiu suggesting I just tell then the truth, which would you prefer ?"

Just say it straight. What's the point of wasting their time? You don't have to be nasty...just simply say 'you're not what I'm looking for' which is in essence...the truth.

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

O o O oo

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