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What have you learnt about yourself since you joined Fab?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Was thinking about this last night how many new things I have discovered and experienced since I joined nearly 4 yrs ago. Watersports,Fisting,Shibari,Dom/sub,CBT, Toys,Gushing,Pleasure pain,Clamps.To name a few. So share with us yours?   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That just because I'm meeting a man I do not have to pack my handbag with lube, condoms and toys. Some men actually just want to have coffee
That the scottish education system is rubbish, men seem to think that everywhere in scotland can be classed as local to me
That I use the word fab way to often
That it's all about me and it's my body to do as I wish with
That when it's not fun to walk away |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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that straight sex is good enough for me,
that some men are good at foreplay and giving oral mostly older ones.
that mmf or group sex can be fun.
that being good looking doesnt make sex better.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I don't check our messages on fab when I'm supposed to be working, I don't then look at the forums and find the end of the day is approaching and I've hardly got anything done! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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that being good looking doesnt make sex better.
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 Yes and this too.
So many ripped Adonis that either could not get it up or lasted little more than 30 seconds...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've learnt to pick and choose more carefully!!
I'm not as tough as I like to think I am. I sometimes wonder if I'm too soft for Fab but I'm too old to change now  |
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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago
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"That just because I'm meeting a man I do not have to pack my handbag with lube, condoms and toys. Some men actually just want to have coffee
That the scottish education system is rubbish, men seem to think that everywhere in scotland can be classed as local to me
That I use the word fab way to often
That it's all about me and it's my body to do as I wish with
That when it's not fun to walk away"
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"After 5/6 years.
That there is an endless amount of knobs on here pretending to be people there not and the doughnuts that mess others about, clearly here for a quick wank."
Which still pisses me off. ( I forgot to add this bit)
Lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"After 5/6 years.
That there is an endless amount of knobs on here pretending to be people there not and the doughnuts that mess others about, clearly here for a quick wank.
Which still pisses me off. ( I forgot to add this bit)
Lol
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so you have actually learned nothing about YOURSELF in 5/6 years?
have found im not a jealous person and infact embrace someone else sexuality (V's)
being 'involved' with others doesnt HAVE to diminish the feelings for each other |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've learned that many people say they're open-minded and but still get catty, petty, or show signs of jealousy (no, not just women). Have also learned that everyone's your best friend till you say no, many just fade into the darkness like Flo in that Progressive ad. Lastly, on the negative aspects, I've pretty much accepted that I have pretty much ruined my chances at finding a real relationship as I have discovered so many kind, loving men are actually cheaters.
Enough negative. I've also found that while I have submissive fantasies, they're just fantasies. I find that I like to rim rather than be rimmed. I also love a woman's body as much as a man's and prefer-just a little-meat on the bones over a hardbody.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have learnt there is a lot of manipulators, catty people and a lot less tolerance than we expected. On the positive side there are some very chilled out people who are lots of fun to be around. To sum up swingers are very much chalk and cheese. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i have learnt that not everyone is as broad minded as i thought they would be.
that there are quite a few judgemental people on here and that you have to be careful because some men expect to do things they like all the time and dont care if they hurt you, so you have to tell them straight what you will and wont do. There are a few men who wont use condoms and dont know what safe sex means. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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This has been really interesting reading and I will add this site is also addictive. There are some truly wonderful people on here in amongst the chaff, but I have also learned to go with my instinct. I had a relationship as a result of meeting a man on here. Neither of us were looking. But I ended it.I try to see the good in people but as in life,you get let down, but learn from it and move on. Keep it coming. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i have learnt that i dont fancy women as much as men, that i do fancy quite a few of cross dressers on here.
some men have cheesy cocks and smelly bums. oh and i must remember not to believe everything men put on their profiles, its not always true. |
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