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out of interest cos we don't play on a first meet.,
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We have code words/phrases that we use between us, if we haven't already guessed~if we are interested in who we are meeting.A first social meet does make this easier.out of interest if you're meeting with intention to play, does someone come right out and ask 'we all up for this?' Or what? |
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with my ex wife many years ago
if she was sat with stocking tops on show she was happy to play, if very unhappy or want to leave, she would come back from bathroom and whisper 'time of month come early ' but whisper in way other couple could hear. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We go out for a quiet smoke together and discuss. Surely each couple must have a conversation to see if it is a yes or a no."
I'm sure they do, in a conversation or code. I just visions of someone standing up and saying "we doing this then?" and the awkward moment when one couple don't want to  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We usually have a few code words, mainly for J to ask me to get her out of a situation in clubs, she is not so good at saying F Off to pests 
But there would always be a trip to the bar or something that will enable us to have a conversation about escalate or extract  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just got up and walked out of a coffee shop.
After reading this, I'm kind of hoping that answers this question for him!!! "
That would be an unclear code word, do you wish to leave alone or be followed  |
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"I just got up and walked out of a coffee shop.
After reading this, I'm kind of hoping that answers this question for him!!!
That would be an unclear code word, do you wish to leave alone or be followed "
I'm really tempted to walk past again, see if he is still there!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A friend of mine and I were meeting another couple and before we had the chance to say anything, the f of the couple sat on my (f) friends knee, kissed her and said. "So, shall we get this party started or what?"!
Bit more direct than us but it worked  . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We go out for a quiet smoke together and discuss. Surely each couple must have a conversation to see if it is a yes or a no.
I'm sure they do, in a conversation or code. I just visions of someone standing up and saying "we doing this then?" and the awkward moment when one couple don't want to "
Ummm I won't be saying that again lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we usually chat at the bar getting drinks
we never meet to play anyway, but meet to have a nice evening with nice company.
if it goes further and all are happy with it then thats fine |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"we usually chat at the bar getting drinks
we never meet to play anyway, but meet to have a nice evening with nice company.
if it goes further and all are happy with it then thats fine"
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