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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Now before anyone starts this is the fem half of a genuine couple, we have kids so can't accommodate and I have no problem in sharing my man and letting him play out, what I don't get is why we don't get many replies to messages what difference is he to a single guy he is playing with full permission and has met in the past it just seems lately that either he has turned into the ugliest guy on the planet which I know isn't true or, well you tell me
Cheers all small rant done with xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Its just a bit of a strange situation. Your verifications are fine but there are not too many people looking for that scenario."
Yeah I know we have found one or two happy with it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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because people on here are generally mistrusting so how is anyone to know he is not playing away?
or even there is a wife thats happy to let him play with others.
most are used to single men trying everything to get ahead so im afraid with your input on the profile, it comes across very confusing. |
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From experience most of the messages we get from supposed couples where the guy plays alone are fake profiles where a single guy is pretending to be a couple! We're not suggesting that this is true in your case.....but it might be why some people are put off.
If it's just the guy playing and you're not playing as a couple then why have a couples profile?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Sorry just realised that you do have a single male profile!  "
Haha no need to worry but thanks for the advice maybe a profile rewording is needed, thanks xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"because people on here are generally mistrusting so how is anyone to know he is not playing away?
or even there is a wife thats happy to let him play with others.
most are used to single men trying everything to get ahead so im afraid with your input on the profile, it comes across very confusing."
 This. It may well be true but it just sounds like a ploy to try and get more meets. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"because people on here are generally mistrusting so how is anyone to know he is not playing away?
or even there is a wife thats happy to let him play with others.
most are used to single men trying everything to get ahead so im afraid with your input on the profile, it comes across very confusing.
This. It may well be true but it just sounds like a ploy to try and get more meets. "
Thumbs down to that I'm affraid with every meet the female discuses things before hand so it's all above board, if it's not for you then fine but everyone is different that's all were trying to say |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"because people on here are generally mistrusting so how is anyone to know he is not playing away?
or even there is a wife thats happy to let him play with others.
most are used to single men trying everything to get ahead so im afraid with your input on the profile, it comes across very confusing.
This. It may well be true but it just sounds like a ploy to try and get more meets.
Thumbs down to that I'm affraid with every meet the female discuses things before hand so it's all above board, if it's not for you then fine but everyone is different that's all were trying to say"
you asked why it aint working, we gave an opinion.
didnt say you had to like it or believe it. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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See, I have been meeting the male half of a couple for nearly three years now, we first started speaking in chat, then he contacted me from their couple profile, because they both had verifications from other singles, I wasn't worried in the slightest that he was lying to me! So wasn't an issue, just a suggestion  |
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"See, I have been meeting the male half of a couple for nearly three years now, we first started speaking in chat, then he contacted me from their couple profile, because they both had verifications from other singles, I wasn't worried in the slightest that he was lying to me! So wasn't an issue, just a suggestion "
wow I thought you had permed your hair for a minute then   |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"See, I have been meeting the male half of a couple for nearly three years now, we first started speaking in chat, then he contacted me from their couple profile, because they both had verifications from other singles, I wasn't worried in the slightest that he was lying to me! So wasn't an issue, just a suggestion "
Thank you Hun x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If it was a single bloke I'd say he's doing fine, by the number of veri's already left.
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He does ok because I talk to the women first and make sure there ok with meeting |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"See, I have been meeting the male half of a couple for nearly three years now, we first started speaking in chat, then he contacted me from their couple profile, because they both had verifications from other singles, I wasn't worried in the slightest that he was lying to me! So wasn't an issue, just a suggestion
wow I thought you had permed your hair for a minute then "
Tsk! Why does everyone need their bloody eyes tested???
It's quite clearly a fan of feathers! Sheesh  |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"See, I have been meeting the male half of a couple for nearly three years now, we first started speaking in chat, then he contacted me from their couple profile, because they both had verifications from other singles, I wasn't worried in the slightest that he was lying to me! So wasn't an issue, just a suggestion
Thank you Hun x"
Your welcome, but, from another point of view, even though you speak to the female your OH is in contact with....in fairness you could just be a female friend.....
Can I ask, if you have rules, such as he can only meet at certain times? Or can he do overnighters?
As that would be another possible no, no if cannot meet in the evenings, as I only meet at weekends, in the evening.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"because people on here are generally mistrusting so how is anyone to know he is not playing away?
or even there is a wife thats happy to let him play with others.
most are used to single men trying everything to get ahead so im afraid with your input on the profile, it comes across very confusing.
This. It may well be true but it just sounds like a ploy to try and get more meets.
Thumbs down to that I'm affraid with every meet the female discuses things before hand so it's all above board, if it's not for you then fine but everyone is different that's all were trying to say"
Why ask what people think then complain when they reply? If I looked at your profile I wouldn't even mail you, because of the reason I gave above.
Other women would be fine with it though. I'm not saying it's a bad thing at all, just saying what I'd do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"See, I have been meeting the male half of a couple for nearly three years now, we first started speaking in chat, then he contacted me from their couple profile, because they both had verifications from other singles, I wasn't worried in the slightest that he was lying to me! So wasn't an issue, just a suggestion
wow I thought you had permed your hair for a minute then
Tsk! Why does everyone need their bloody eyes tested???
It's quite clearly a fan of feathers! Sheesh "
your fannies feathered?
you need a trim love lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"See, I have been meeting the male half of a couple for nearly three years now, we first started speaking in chat, then he contacted me from their couple profile, because they both had verifications from other singles, I wasn't worried in the slightest that he was lying to me! So wasn't an issue, just a suggestion
Thank you Hun x
Your welcome, but, from another point of view, even though you speak to the female your OH is in contact with....in fairness you could just be a female friend.....
Can I ask, if you have rules, such as he can only meet at certain times? Or can he do overnighters?
As that would be another possible no, no if cannot meet in the evenings, as I only meet at weekends, in the evening.... "
He can meet whenever it's best for all parties, we have kids so have to work round that |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"because people on here are generally mistrusting so how is anyone to know he is not playing away?
or even there is a wife thats happy to let him play with others.
most are used to single men trying everything to get ahead so im afraid with your input on the profile, it comes across very confusing.
This. It may well be true but it just sounds like a ploy to try and get more meets.
Thumbs down to that I'm affraid with every meet the female discuses things before hand so it's all above board, if it's not for you then fine but everyone is different that's all were trying to say
Why ask what people think then complain when they reply? If I looked at your profile I wouldn't even mail you, because of the reason I gave above.
Other women would be fine with it though. I'm not saying it's a bad thing at all, just saying what I'd do. "
Sorry and thanks |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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"Now before anyone starts this is the fem half of a genuine couple, we have kids so can't accommodate and I have no problem in sharing my man and letting him play out, what I don't get is why we don't get many replies to messages what difference is he to a single guy he is playing with full permission and has met in the past it just seems lately that either he has turned into the ugliest guy on the planet which I know isn't true or, well you tell me
Cheers all small rant done with xx"
The fem half of a single mans profile.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My hubby made a profile for himself through my suggestion in hopes to meet up with someone and mentions he's married, that I know about it. Reading this thread has definitely opened our eyes to a few things |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe look at redoing some photos. Sorry OP but they're not doing it for me.
There's not enough of your guy to see what he looks like - as in body type.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Solely going on the wording of the profile text - then straight away, after reading the text 'fem half of the couple', I would think 'what female!, this is a single guys profile.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Maybe look at redoing some photos. Sorry OP but they're not doing it for me.
There's not enough of your guy to see what he looks like - as in body type.
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Thank you we will get snapping at the weekend |
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