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Would you give it all up?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would you give up the swinging lifestyle for a chance with "the perfect" partner?"
I have the perfect partner. So I guess we don't have to give anything up. Except maybe our virginity to a TV/TS  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Even with long term partner swinging is not everything if you have been at it years . Just something you do to add some spice now and again .. If you did it to much like most things be boring. Its no big deal. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we feel we have each found the perfect partner, so if either of us decided that was that, then yes, we would give up in a heartbeat.
and i have already said this isnt something i would want to do either alone or with anyone else, because its OUR thing |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Already found her and we do it together."
Can I ask what would happen if one of you no longer wanted to swing and didn't want the other to continue either? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Whilst I would agree with the point made about "the right one" also being into swinging I cant help but think you would be crazy if you valued swinging before everything else.
If Mrs J became ill for instance meaning this kind of thing was no longer possible would I walk away from Fab or her?
Fab in an instant. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Whilst I would agree with the point made about "the right one" also being into swinging I cant help but think you would be crazy if you valued swinging before everything else.
If Mrs J became ill for instance meaning this kind of thing was no longer possible would I walk away from Fab or her?
Fab in an instant."
crazy if you valued swinging before everything else.
Yes crazy sex and swinging is nothing more then a bit of fun . For some I think its there life . |
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Difficult question.... If I met a swinger I we'd keep exploring our boundries. If she was vanilla Id give it up.... Unless she wanted to try it. My last love had thort about swinging but we finished before we'd tried it   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes. But nobodys perfect.....
Even though you can have a wild time on occasion I think like everything repetition takes the edge off....
I' ve given up searching but am sure it will happen sometime when least expected. Hopefully shes a bi- fem, size ten, no limits, curvy great hair, teeth...and on and on.
Even better if shes a mountainbiker   |
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By *er himWoman
over a year ago
Essex |
"we feel we have each found the perfect partner, so if either of us decided that was that, then yes, we would give up in a heartbeat.
and i have already said this isnt something i would want to do either alone or with anyone else, because its OUR thing"
So us too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Whilst I would agree with the point made about "the right one" also being into swinging I cant help but think you would be crazy if you valued swinging before everything else.
If Mrs J became ill for instance meaning this kind of thing was no longer possible would I walk away from Fab or her?
Fab in an instant."
A man with his head in the right place |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Already found her and we do it together.
Can I ask what would happen if one of you no longer wanted to swing and didn't want the other to continue either?"
Point taken, and yes if one or the other of us didn't want to continue then of course the swinging would finish. In our case I cannot see that happening though but each to their own x  |
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By *er himWoman
over a year ago
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"Whilst I would agree with the point made about "the right one" also being into swinging I cant help but think you would be crazy if you valued swinging before everything else.
If Mrs J became ill for instance meaning this kind of thing was no longer possible would I walk away from Fab or her?
Fab in an instant."
Generally agree, but we both know that if one was long term ill/disabled and couldnt satisfy the others sexual needs would understand and find a very select few who would be understanding and still all be together in seeing the other relieving that need.
Having said that there was an occasion recently which stopped us even making love together and we just dropped Fab until we both could play equally again, but we knew it the blip was short term |
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"Would you give up the swinging lifestyle for a chance with "the perfect" partner?"
No as no such thing as the perfect partner as mentioned.
Also if I decide to be in a relationship again ideally he would be bi and love this lifestyle too   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If one of us wanted to quit neither of us wants to swing without the other(we discussed it recently)Swinging is something we came to together and will leave together when and if the time comes.We feel what we have is special and that will always come first. |
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By *er himWoman
over a year ago
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"If one of us wanted to quit neither of us wants to swing without the other(we discussed it recently)Swinging is something we came to together and will leave together when and if the time comes.We feel what we have is special and that will always come first."
Definately agree the same for us too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If one of us wanted to quit neither of us wants to swing without the other(we discussed it recently)Swinging is something we came to together and will leave together when and if the time comes.We feel what we have is special and that will always come first.
Definately agree the same for us too"
And us, been together to long, all or nothing x |
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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago
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My perfect partner (a man) can't give me the female touch. He hopefully wont have breasts....
So no. I can't see how I could ever meet the perfect man.
The perfect man that likes what I like and is happy also with this lifestyle. ..then yes possibly x |
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I met my partner on here. He's into group sex and dogging: I'm not. I like D/s play: he doesn't. Neither of us are jealous and have discussed both being free to pursue our individual likes. So I don't have to give anything up.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I (him) could not give up my lifestyle for anyone. It was my choice before and it always will be. I love my life and don't see any reason to ever change it. That being said for me it goes far deeper than just sex.. I love being different and being different makes me happy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Only one girl I'd do it for, but yes, I'd give up my play friend, here, one night stands, the whole shebang for a relationship with her. I could become a committed man, but only for the right person. She was the kindest and most beautiful person ever, really touched my soul. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think for myself if I met a girl who I fell in love with and felt that swinging would perhaps impede the relationship then for sure I would give it up. However if she too wanted to swing then I would be more than happy to continue, but as a partnership. That all said and done realistically the chance of me meeting and falling in love with a girl in the near distant future is somewhat slim to say the least. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No. The 'perfect partner' (if such a person exists) would accept me for who I am and this is part of me. I've tried vanilla and I'm shit at it. Luckily for me I've found someone who's pretty damn close to perfect and loves my slutty side! |
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