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Barring single guys.

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

This may seem strange but I would rather a couple or single woman that has been messaged by me and not read, not replied or just deleted just block me from future searches. I only search for those not blocking single guys.

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By *ezebelWoman over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Some people do do that - although for every guy like yourself who prefers that there will be another ten complaining about why they have been blocked...

One of those situations when people cant really win unfortunately.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

It is best for me to know it is a permanent no. Blocking at outset helps as does proper age range. 18 - 99 is unrealistic and like the lady above a proper age range which sadly I am too old for as I think she is hot saves time and hassle.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Some people do do that - although for every guy like yourself who prefers that there will be another ten complaining about why they have been blocked...

One of those situations when people cant really win unfortunately."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This may seem strange but I would rather a couple or single woman that has been messaged by me and not read, not replied or just deleted just block me from future searches. I only search for those not blocking single guys. "

You could block them yourself?

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By *ooldudeMan over a year ago

manchester

I would suggest bald eagle that the reason why many members do not respond is that alot are actually escorts incognito. Hence no age problem as your money would suffice as well as David Pechams. This is not saying they all are just that many are. Ever wondered as to why a large percentage frequent the site almost 24/7 now you know. Quite obviously as mentioned they keep a low profile but goes without saying they would not give you the time of day unless you were coughing up.SIMPLES.

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By *renchbambi xWoman over a year ago

Need to know basis

I respond to all messages as long as they are not rude or obnoxious but do not block. I open/close my inbox to singles as and when it gets too busy. I only block those who come back after receiving a very polite 'no thank you' message asking 'why?' or saying 'who the F*** are you to turn me down'.

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By *teveanddebsCouple over a year ago

Norwich

"I would suggest bald eagle that the reason why many members do not respond is that alot are actually escorts incognito. Hence no age problem as your money would suffice as well as David Pechams. This is not saying they all are just that many are. Ever wondered as to why a large percentage frequent the site almost 24/7 now you know. Quite obviously as mentioned they keep a low profile but goes without saying they would not give you the time of day unless you were coughing up.SIMPLES."

What sort of twisted logic is that? Why would anyone in business ignore a potential customer?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We vary...the monkey puts the filter on and I take it off because I have entered interesting into conversations with people I have no intention of fucking through posting on the forum that wouldn't have occurred if they'd been blocked...perhaps you could just read profiles and respect the wishes expressed on them? R

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

What sort of twisted logic is that?"

it the logic that basically leave the other person blameless......

its an easy accustions to throw out such as "fake" or "Timewaster"... and then see what sticks....

I don't really care if its a no thank you.. or they delete... I am not owed for sending a message in any way shape or form...

its a mindset thing.... everything is a no until otherwise.... anything I get back is a gift....

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By *ooldudeMan over a year ago

manchester

The logic is simple.This is a site that does not allow prostitutes to openly ply their trade so they keep a low profile and wait for other party to offer them money. Logic is also I have been a businessman all my life. You will also see the very same members offering services on pay and escort sites so get real geese.

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By *ezebelWoman over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

"The logic is simple.This is a site that does not allow prostitutes to openly ply their trade so they keep a low profile and wait for other party to offer them money. Logic is also I have been a businessman all my life. You will also see the very same members offering services on pay and escort sites so get real geese."

So they allegedly wait until someone offers them money? Easy answer is dont offer them money then...

If people on the site also work as escorts then thats their business. As long as they dont use the site to tout for custom then there isnt a problem.

If someone does use the site in that way you only need to report them and Admin will deal with it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So they allegedly wait until someone offers them money? Easy answer is dont offer them money then...

If people on the site also work as escorts then thats their business. As long as they dont use the site to tout for custom then there isnt a problem.

If someone does use the site in that way you only need to report them and Admin will deal with it."

Either the OP is on a wind up - or has experience in this area!!

Either way I suspect the number of people 'touting for business' is both minuscule - and easy to spot from profile wording, status updates and the oh so subtle mention of 'gifts', 'rewards' and getting 'looked after' in profile text!

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By *ooldudeMan over a year ago

manchester

Don't think they would be naïve enough to mention on text. Alas where sex is concerned money will come into the equation. What was trying to get through to original question is don't be dismayed at lack of response from many single females as they are prostitutes and woman that fuck for nowt and men that work for nowt will always be busy. The majority of swingers clubs are run by pimps and working girls etc. Not calling anybody just trying to educate those that are not street wise. And you cannot report a member for not openly advertising their motives at being on site.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Don't think they would be naïve enough to mention on text. Alas where sex is concerned money will come into the equation. What was trying to get through to original question is don't be dismayed at lack of response from many single females as they are prostitutes and woman that fuck for nowt and men that work for nowt will always be busy. The majority of swingers clubs are run by pimps and working girls etc. Not calling anybody just trying to educate those that are not street wise. And you cannot report a member for not openly advertising their motives at being on site. "

Sorry - but that's the biggest pile of crap I've read in a long time!!

Pretty sure 99.9% of profiles aren't prostitutes - and as for the clubs comment - WTF???

*and I've just spotted a profile 'niave enough' to include several insinuations that some form of 'incentive' would be more likely to get a response re meets. Might have to report it!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Frustrating maybe but important not in the slightest for me.

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By *cottishrichMan over a year ago

Here and there

Either use the private notes function to remind yourself that they aren't interested or you can stop them showing up in your searches by blocking the profile yourself.

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By *ooldudeMan over a year ago

manchester

Had you taken the time to read and fully digest my posts which quite obviously you haven't you would see I never mentioned ALL but many and many many more than 0.1 pc I assure you.Some people never listen to those that know. People in the industry call them punters and they listen to bullshit all day and take it in. Carry on.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm on here with a single profile, so are you telling this thread that I or the many friends I have on this site are hookers? I also frequent swingers clubs, according to you then, that would be when I contact my pimp!

Personally, I find it amazing that someone with your arrogance and twisted outlook has been allowed to be on this site. I for one refute your suggestions totaly and I find both you and your remarks offensive in the extreme!

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By *otlovefun42Couple over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

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By *otlovefun42Couple over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

Take it from someone who has visited over 30 clubs in five different countries as a couple in the last 4 years. Has also in a previous relationship and as a single guy visited nearly as many UK ones and has been on the swinging scene for over 25 years.

Your post is absolute nonsense.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Kooldude thats not very kool dude

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By *otlovefun42Couple over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

Well said

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Had you taken the time to read and fully digest my posts which quite obviously you haven't you would see I never mentioned ALL but many and many many more than 0.1 pc I assure you.Some people never listen to those that know. People in the industry call them punters and they listen to bullshit all day and take it in. Carry on. "

I read. I digested. I even chuckled a bit.

But I guess someone looking to be someone's 'expensive hobby' would know all about swinging for personal gain!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well if alot of women on here are escorts they must have lousy business acumen going by the number of single males complaining about a lack of meets over the last few months

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well said

Wow! Did he just insult women for having sex full stop then???

Prostitutes and having sex 'for nowt'!!

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By *ezebelWoman over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Now you can be reassured that I have read and thoroughly digested your posts....

As the majority of females using the site are likely to find your comments highly offensive - as I do - then I think its best if we leave it there

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