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over a year ago
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Personally I wouldn't respond to a wink...i do check out their profile when I have one, but even if they match my criteria, i dismiss them for the sheer laziness of not having messaged me |
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over a year ago
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I dont really look at the winks folder at all !! Sometimes when I am reading someones veri's or see a post on here - I'll click on the profile and see the persons winked at me - that sometimes encourages me to message.
I must say I use it to wink at guys - I think guys check their winks more ? I usually get a response !! X |
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We use winks as an indication that we like someones profile and would like to get to know them better, the cyber equivalent of the "smile across a crowded room".
I think its actually better to wink than to clutter up their inbox, they can check us out, if there's a mutual interest then the messages can start.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We use winks as an indication that we like someones profile and would like to get to know them better, the cyber equivalent of the "smile across a crowded room".
That's so true
I think its actually better to wink than to clutter up their inbox, they can check us out, if there's a mutual interest then the messages can start. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We use winks as an indication that we like someones profile and would like to get to know them better, the cyber equivalent of the "smile across a crowded room".
I think its actually better to wink than to clutter up their inbox, they can check us out, if there's a mutual interest then the messages can start. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A wink is the same as a smile in a social setting. If you get a smile back the you could go over and say hello, or in this case a wink back means they could be interested, so send a message and see if you have grounds to take it further.
If you see it anyother way, then that's your issue. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Personally I wouldn't respond to a wink...i do check out their profile when I have one, but even if they match my criteria, i dismiss them for the sheer laziness of not having messaged me "
I don't think it is laziness, its just like smiling at someone to signify interest. if there is mutual attraction then the messaging can start |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personally I wouldn't respond to a wink...i do check out their profile when I have one, but even if they match my criteria, i dismiss them for the sheer laziness of not having messaged me "
So why not just wink back. Some people use the wink to see if your interested without u having to read mail. Then if u show an interest back will send a message |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am all in favour of the wink facility on here, i think it is a great and fun way of displaying mutual attraction.
What does everyone else think?"
I wink because non paying members wouldn't know I have viewed their profile, its the only way to see if and who has looked at you. |
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"I am all in favour of the wink facility on here, i think it is a great and fun way of displaying mutual attraction.
What does everyone else think?"
Hate the damn things, i prefer a guy to message me, winks are sheer lazy, in my opinion |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we often send a wink to someones profile if we like what we see
often get a wink back, so then start messaging them, and see where it goes
think its a good thing  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree with the winks... when I receive one if I dont like the persons profile ill ignore the wink.... I think its much easier that way than reading a message and replying with a no thanks.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Everyone uses this site and its features in a way that suits them...if we were all the same we'd be a utopian society like the people of Logans Run and and executed when we reached that age...hear hear for difference, variety, and the spice of life! |
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