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WHY IS NOBODY INTERESTED?
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I really dont know what i am doing wrong! I am a 100% geniune ( and verified by webcam ) man. I am clean living and totally new to this scene, i am a good looking guy and i look after myself. So i am completely baffled aa to why 90% of my messages are getting ignored or when i do get a rare reply, its a one word answer and then hear nothing for days. Please help!! Thankyou |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Because this site is saturated with single guys, quit your moaning the women on here are real people and arent the fantasy you think they are and just want to fuck random people |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
Titz Towers, North Notts |
Hun, you have a 2 line profile that says very little. All of your pics are hidden. There are 94,000 single guys on here. You aren't selling yourself. Your profile is hurting your chances of success. Look at the profiles of guys in the forum and see the difference on those who have had a lot of success.  |
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Let me guess..... You heard swingers are all out having wild parties & group sex?
Well that's true  for lots of us but this site is a tool in swinging not insta shag.
Run off and joined your local swinging club yet? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I really dont know what i am doing wrong! I am a 100% geniune ( and verified by webcam ) man. I am clean living and totally new to this scene, i am a good looking guy and i look after myself. So i am completely baffled aa to why 90% of my messages are getting ignored or when i do get a rare reply, its a one word answer and then hear nothing for days. Please help!! Thankyou"
I can see one big problem and one slightly smaller problem.
Big problem--- No picture, when someone gets a message or looks at profile, no picture on show they move onto the next, it takes 3 seconds..
Small problem --on a very short profile you mention clean twice, if someone was dirty you wouldn't say, I am dirty. people have high expectations to do with cleanliness so would be automatically expected. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hear nothing for days? 
You've been here a week.
It takes time. It's not instashag.
And there's as many words in this post as your profile!
Effort in = positive experiences. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i do have a profile pic!! and i have plenty more in my friends gallery. I am not looking for an instant fuck!! lol. Just some nice replies and some banter to start with."
But your profile pic is just a thumbnail pic. You need to put SOME photos on your public profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i do have a profile pic!! and i have plenty more in my friends gallery. I am not looking for an instant fuck!! lol. Just some nice replies and some banter to start with."
no you don't have a profile pic on view you have an avatar which is too small to be clear. |
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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago
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You need to put a bit of effort in, if you want to be more successful. Pad your profile out with a bit more detail. Upload some public photos, and maybe review the content of the messages you are sending. Good luck  |
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I think saying you are only after a female does limit the numbers that you could possibly meet.
Why not put couples as this would increase your chances a hundred fold.
Also, nice pic...but add more.
Have 4 or 5 and one showing your cock... as the feedback says it is good.
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i hope everyone can see my pics now. I was a bit of a donut! i had my profile pic on friends only! my bad! i wasnt sure about cock pics, as although i know this is a swinging site...i thought alot of women dont respect guys with their cocks on display! but i will happily post it if thats what the public want! lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i hope everyone can see my pics now. I was a bit of a donut! i had my profile pic on friends only! my bad! i wasnt sure about cock pics, as although i know this is a swinging site...i thought alot of women dont respect guys with their cocks on display! but i will happily post it if thats what the public want! lol"
Great pics, they will help your cause x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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pics are better.
profile really isnt, still says nothing that cant be said in a sentence
cant accomodate, at 31 there has to be a bloody good reason, otherwise most will suspect partner/wife stops you bringing people home, the cow! |
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Study MENS profiles, till you learn what looks good, and sounds great!
Then adjust your profile to suit.
You use the word "clean" in twice in rapid succession which is odd.
You cannot accommodate.
No face pic.
Keep polishing your profile, send out LOADS of messages......
Put in lots of effort.....
And you will succeed.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I really dont know what i am doing wrong! I am a 100% geniune ( and verified by webcam ) man. I am clean living and totally new to this scene, i am a good looking guy and i look after myself. So i am completely baffled aa to why 90% of my messages are getting ignored or when i do get a rare reply, its a one word answer and then hear nothing for days. Please help!! Thankyou"
Stop sobbing and crying and moaning .....if your impatient ....go back to the real world ....nothing is more annoying then "why aren't I getting meets " blah blah forum posts ...man up !! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Putting posts up saying why doesn't anyone like me, whilst proclaiming you're good looking isn't gonna boost how attractive you appear in the eyes of the ladies |
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