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"Happens to me all the time ... I usually apologize and promise to do better next time!" 
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"Happens to me all the time ... I usually apologize and promise to do better next time!" Nice one  All my swinging partners either scream, shout, sob, cry, faint, ... when they cum. They always have, whether its cuming through intercourse, and/or cuming through oral. Sobbing and crying is very common, and is very intimate. All guys should work to make the girls they're with achieve this  | |||
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"Happens to me all the time ... I usually apologize and promise to do better next time! Nice one All my swinging partners either scream, shout, sob, cry, faint, ... when they cum. They always have, whether its cuming through intercourse, and/or cuming through oral. Sobbing and crying is very common, and is very intimate. All guys should work to make the girls they're with achieve this "Please, don't 'work to make the girls they're with achieve this'. It has happened to me three times; the last quite recently and the most intense so far. I've no idea why it happens but the feeling is akin to being laid completely, emotionally bare and it is mind blowing. | |||
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Either way OP your partner gave you her answer and I'd agree it should be flattering to you | |||
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"Not sure if I should be worried that Ive never shed a tear during or after sex...although a few have may my eyes water "Bad shot? | |||
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"So yeah like the title, how many of you women have actually cried or had the urge to after sex? i ask this after the weekend i had a short but intense session with a FB of mine and after it i heard her sobbing in the toilet, Thinking i may of done something wrong, upon her return i asked what was wrong, she said nothing just that it was really good and it made her emotional(hormones) I did check this up on the internet it seems quite common.. ????" I cried for about 20 minutes, nothing to do with me orgasm, I lost 2 false eyelashes! and chipped a nail. | |||
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"this is just disturbing" What makes it disturbing? | |||
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"I've cried after a good orgasm. Sometimes it can be a bit overwhelming." This is exactly what a friend said to me the other day. A bit unnerving at first when she is on top of me and I feel tears dripping onto me... | |||
"the crying after sex makes it disturbing" Ok. I'm just trying to understand why you think it's disturbing. I absolutely couldn't have stopped myself from doing it recently and when I came down from that emotional bomb, I was exhausted. | |||
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"fair enough .... but i would find it disturbing" Ah, I see. *You* would find it disturbing. Thanks. | |||
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"I've cried after a good orgasm. Sometimes it can be a bit overwhelming." I must be missing out on something | |||
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"Wot a load of crap lol" What's a load of crap? | |||
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"the crying after sex makes it disturbing Ok. I'm just trying to understand why you think it's disturbing. I absolutely couldn't have stopped myself from doing it recently and when I came down from that emotional bomb, I was exhausted." Did you still manage to put the kettle on though? | |||
"the crying after sex makes it disturbing Ok. I'm just trying to understand why you think it's disturbing. I absolutely couldn't have stopped myself from doing it recently and when I came down from that emotional bomb, I was exhausted. Did you still manage to put the kettle on though?" Of course. I'm a very good host, I did it about eight hours later. | |||
"So yeah like the title, how many of you women have actually cried or had the urge to after sex? i ask this after the weekend i had a short but intense session with a FB of mine and after it i heard her sobbing in the toilet, Thinking i may of done something wrong, upon her return i asked what was wrong, she said nothing just that it was really good and it made her emotional(hormones) I did check this up on the internet it seems quite common.. ????" I well up and shed a gentle tear sometimes during - if I am finding it a really deep release, or really good. It's nothing to fear. | |||
"the crying after sex makes it disturbing Ok. I'm just trying to understand why you think it's disturbing. I absolutely couldn't have stopped myself from doing it recently and when I came down from that emotional bomb, I was exhausted. Did you still manage to put the kettle on though? Of course. I'm a very good host, I did it about eight hours later." i wouldn't stick around for a cup of tea ... i'd be off ... far too creepy | |||
"If any bloke has made a woman cry, and lives near me, please message me. I would like to see if you have that effect on me x" There will be plenty who have made women cry. Normally involves shagging best friends/ sisters, emptying bank accounts, mental & physical cruelty....the list goes on One or two might be good at sex too of course.  | |||
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"My first gf ever ( I was her first too), her body starts shaking in a worrying way and faint during sex. Not every time but from time to time. She didnt know what caused it and I used to freak out. Have any of u experienced this? "I have been very close to fainting when I do anal but luckily it hasn't happened yet | |||
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"My first gf ever ( I was her first too), her body starts shaking in a worrying way and faint during sex. Not every time but from time to time. She didnt know what caused it and I used to freak out. Have any of u experienced this?
I have been very close to fainting when I do anal but luckily it hasn't happened yet "Is that from pain?! Mine used to have it when she is getting really wet and having an intense orgasm | |||
"My first gf ever ( I was her first too), her body starts shaking in a worrying way and faint during sex. Not every time but from time to time. She didnt know what caused it and I used to freak out. Have any of u experienced this?
I have been very close to fainting when I do anal but luckily it hasn't happened yet
Is that from pain?! Mine used to have it when she is getting really wet and having an intense orgasm "yes because I have a sore back so doing anal doggie style is pure agony for me | |||
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"the crying after sex makes it disturbing Ok. I'm just trying to understand why you think it's disturbing. I absolutely couldn't have stopped myself from doing it recently and when I came down from that emotional bomb, I was exhausted. Did you still manage to put the kettle on though? Of course. I'm a very good host, I did it about eight hours later. i wouldn't stick around for a cup of tea ... i'd be off ... far too creepy" Now it's creepy? Why do you find some emotions so challenging? | |||
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"the crying after sex makes it disturbing Ok. I'm just trying to understand why you think it's disturbing. I absolutely couldn't have stopped myself from doing it recently and when I came down from that emotional bomb, I was exhausted. Did you still manage to put the kettle on though? Of course. I'm a very good host, I did it about eight hours later. i wouldn't stick around for a cup of tea ... i'd be off ... far too creepy Now it's creepy? Why do you find some emotions so challenging?" Nothing creepy about it really. Intense orgasms and sexual experiences can create a cathartic release of pent up energy that can lead to uncontrollable expression of emotion. Most often this is crying because we suppress or repress a lot of emotions to get on with daily life. It is also possible to end up with a massive fit of the giggles or laughter as we release our inhibitions in intense sex. The giggles and laughter or just an unusual level of playfulness are a way of expressing our pent up embarrassment. This is all really natural and should be celebrated as part of our humanity not seen as creepy. | |||
"My first gf ever ( I was her first too), her body starts shaking in a worrying way and faint during sex. Not every time but from time to time. She didnt know what caused it and I used to freak out. Have any of u experienced this? "Again this is really natural too. Our body has energy cursing through it for simplicity let's call it our life force. As humans we keep this life force in check most of the time to function in the world. During sexual experience a huge amount of energy can be released within the body from the energy centre at the base of our spine. This can cause the body to shake, feel like it is coursing with energy and other ecstatic experiences. It doesn't happen to everyone, and certainly not in the same way, for some it happens in a relatively controlled way and for others it can be uncontrolled and disconcerting. If this is uncontrolled and disconcerting for anyone they should seek advice. Eastern spiritual practices are very useful in helping with this. | |||
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"I have a few times when it's been very very intense. I just get overcome with emotion, in a good way though " | |||
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we still talk and I brought it up the other day and he hated the fact that I did lol said it was something he was going through mixed with a mind blowing orgasm so mum is the word...starting....now | |||
" Never had a man cry yet though . Now there's a challenge . "I once went with a girl who thought that biting my cock during oral would be sexy/edgy. Now you know how to do it.... | |||
"Happens to me all the time ... I usually apologize and promise to do better next time! Nice one All my swinging partners either scream, shout, sob, cry, faint, ... when they cum. They always have, whether its cuming through intercourse, and/or cuming through oral. Sobbing and crying is very common, and is very intimate. All guys should work to make the girls they're with achieve this
Please, don't 'work to make the girls they're with achieve this'.
It has happened to me three times; the last quite recently and the most intense so far. I've no idea why it happens but the feeling is akin to being laid completely, emotionally bare and it is mind blowing.
"Perhaps I didn't explain myself properly, earlier. The reason that I always advocate 'working to make the girls they're with achieve this' is to share, the intensity and passion of what I feel, with my partner. When I cum, the experience is completely mind and body shattering ... like the universe exploding, and then slowly and wonderfully re-building. And the person I'm with is fully part of that, we're an entity joined as one, physically and spiritually. When my partners experience that, invariably they sob and cry and scream with the pleasure of it. Some find this easier to achieve than others. And for those who take longer to achieve, I recommend that the man who is with them, does everything he can to ensure that they too reach and enjoy that plateau. Its an incredible experience, and I believe that everyone should enjoy it. Two bodies, two souls, two minds ... locked in ecstasy ... as one, making something wondrous. Try it | |||
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"Had a very dear FB who I saw for a number of years. We used to have very intimate and intense sessions where she would orgasm a lot and would often cry. I always found it deeply erotic and it made us very close. I miss her "I can empathise with both of you entirely. I was wrapped up in safe arms and it was a powerful thing for both of us. | |||
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was having anal and couldn't stick the girth of this guy so told him put it in my pussy and loved it til both holes were tingling too much as he tried back anal and it was unreal cried for half hour after but weird thing was after we stopped I was squirting for about 5 mins | |||
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