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Anyone else think me having 4 ffm's in about 14months makes me too experienced ? I was a little shocked when told this today. And yes i know every has their own perspectives. Im just curious what others think . |
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"Anyone else think me having 4 ffm's in about 14months makes me too experienced ? I was a little shocked when told this today. And yes i know every has their own perspectives. Im just curious what others think ."
I'm shocked you're shocked! Come on now, you've read comments from people who are put off by swingers having more than one verification saying they meet for sex. So you with your four in fourteen months by the definition of some are a hardened swinger who has slept with half the site! 
Seriously: I wouldn't worry about it! |
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"Anyone else think me having 4 ffm's in about 14months makes me too experienced ? I was a little shocked when told this today. And yes i know every has their own perspectives. Im just curious what others think ."
No.. we think you need more practice  |
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"Anyone else think me having 4 ffm's in about 14months makes me too experienced ? I was a little shocked when told this today. And yes i know every has their own perspectives. Im just curious what others think ."
Would you like to make that 5??  xx |
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I don't think jealousy is the motivation behind such remarks, I think its double standards, some people want a sexually experienced person who can fill their every desire, they want them to have only ever had one partner if they aren't a virgin, they want them to be excluisve to them but they reserve the right to meet as many people as possible.
Keep a subscription going for a monthly delivery from the salt mine and use it liberally on every message you receive, good and bad  |
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"Out of interest who told you?
The judgemental nature of some swingers regarding other people's sexual antics nevers ceases to amaze me."
Lol. It is starting to stop amazing me lately, I find it hard to credit but sadly am becoming used to judgement, criticism and disgust wrapped up as preference  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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I can't name names obviously and wouldn't want to as they were entitled to their opinion ....
But it came from a couple that i had a social with. If they weren't experienced i'd understand but they play with couples at clubs. That's why it baffled me slightly. Unless it was just an excuse and if that's the case id rather an honest "no chemistry " response.
Well not to worry was just curious on peoples thoughts. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Anyone else think me having 4 ffm's in about 14months makes me too experienced ? I was a little shocked when told this today. And yes i know every has their own perspectives. Im just curious what others think ."
Just think...
Would your son/daughter/dad/mum/sister/brother think that is too many?
Or if it was your daughter doing it would you think that was too many or not enough? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Anyone else think me having 4 ffm's in about 14months makes me too experienced ? I was a little shocked when told this today. And yes i know every has their own perspectives. Im just curious what others think .
Just think...
Would your son/daughter/dad/mum/sister/brother think that is too many?
Or if it was your daughter doing it would you think that was too many or not enough?"
Im pretty sure if they were in my shoes they'd have all had more than 4. And i wouldn't have any thoughts if it was too many or not enough for them as it would have been their choice. |
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"Anyone else think me having 4 ffm's in about 14months makes me too experienced ? I was a little shocked when told this today. And yes i know every has their own perspectives. Im just curious what others think .
Just think...
Would your son/daughter/dad/mum/sister/brother think that is too many?
Or if it was your daughter doing it would you think that was too many or not enough?"
I don't really understand why that's relevant  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Anyone else think me having 4 ffm's in about 14months makes me too experienced ? I was a little shocked when told this today. And yes i know every has their own perspectives. Im just curious what others think ."
I think, so what! Do wat you like doing and enjoy!!! 4 or 44 who cares! Enjoy xx  |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
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"Out of interest who told you?
The judgemental nature of some swingers regarding other people's sexual antics nevers ceases to amaze me."
That's why my attitude is 'fuck em' they don't know me and they're not on my Christmas card list'. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"What a totally ridiculous thing for a couple to say. I for one can speak from experience and you are amazing at what you do. As the old saying goes practice makes perfect.
Hope to see you soon;-)"
Thanks D&G. Hope to see you again soon too  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Anyone else think me having 4 ffm's in about 14months makes me too experienced ? I was a little shocked when told this today. And yes i know every has their own perspectives. Im just curious what others think ."
It makes you experienced for wanting to go one step further as maybe you have done most things one two one? It doesn't matter if people think you're experienced on not. What matters is that you have fun and enjoy |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What a totally ridiculous thing for a couple to say. I for one can speak from experience and you are amazing at what you do. As the old saying goes practice makes perfect.
Hope to see you soon;-)"
I am always practicing  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What a totally ridiculous thing for a couple to say. I for one can speak from experience and you are amazing at what you do. As the old saying goes practice makes perfect.
Hope to see you soon;-)
I am always practicing "
Care to practice somewhere different |
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