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What is it with.....BBC

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

What is the fascination with BBC?? I don't quite fully understand it, a lot of couples or singles specifically state BBC only. Is it a fantasy only or a pre conceived idea all black guys own a big weapon?

I've been involved in a couple of meets with a few guys and BBC didn't exist.

Just curious

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I love radio 4

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

" I love radio 4

I'm more if a 4extra guy with my DAB lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It doesn't have to be big, and it's not all about the cock. Theres a personality involved to.

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By *igSuki81Man over a year ago

Retirement Village

" I love radio 4

Radio 2 myself

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By *igSuki81Man over a year ago

Retirement Village

"It doesn't have to be big, and it's not all about the cock. Theres a personality involved to."

Agree and disagree. I get what you say about the size of cock but not personality. A personality is as individual as the person and is gained through nurture when we're younger and lifes experiences as we grow up.

So what is it about BBC personality then and if you found a similar personality on a white, asian, oriental, eskimo etc etc etc guy would that be attractive to you too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I guess the point is you can say you'd only meet black guys, or blond girls, or women with huge tits etc etc. but that doesn't mean that you would have to meet all of them regardless of their character.

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By *ustyBrunette35Couple over a year ago

birmingham

"I've been involved in a couple of meets with a few guys and BBC didn't exist.

Just curious

I'm guessing that the people you are referring too are after the ones that DO exist

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

I find the only people that start these types of threads are those frustrated the object of their desire doesn't want them.

Black/Asian guys complaining about profiles with no blacks or Asians.

Bi men complaining about couples not wanting to meet them.

Short men complaining about people wanting 6 footers.

Fit/toned men complaining about women picking couch potatoes with beer guts over them.

Honestly, if people could but concentrate on the thousands they do appeal to rather than having pathetic, subtle, digs at the preferences of others and got over themselves the happier they'd be.

Just my (humble) opinion of course!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It doesn't have to be big, and it's not all about the cock. Theres a personality involved to."

yes and no.

for the profiles that specifically ask for BBC then im afraid it has nothing to do with the person attached, and i dont care how much the person behind the profile protests, its not.

its al about the colour and the size of it, otherwise they would just ask for big cock.

then, onto the owner of the BBC.

for every black guy that wants to trade on his personality and try to look past his colour or stereotypical cock size, there is another that will absolutely trade on the fact he is black, and has a big dick.

are they detrimental to each other?

well absolutely.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I find the only people that start these types of threads are those frustrated the object of their desire doesn't want them.

Black/Asian guys complaining about profiles with no blacks or Asians.

Bi men complaining about couples not wanting to meet them.

Short men complaining about people wanting 6 footers.

Fit/toned men complaining about women picking couch potatoes with beer guts over them.

Honestly, if people could but concentrate on the thousands they do appeal to rather than having pathetic, subtle, digs at the preferences of others and got over themselves the happier they'd be.

Just my (humble) opinion of course! "

judging by the ops arse, though, i think he may be of the black persuasion, so although i agree, usually your thinking is more than accurate, on this occasion, not quite so

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Me thinks, you're wrong.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Me thinks, you're wrong."

after looking at it full size, you are correct.

everyone, its free reign on the moany OP lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I reckon he's an owner of a BWC and wants to know why etc etc etc.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I reckon he's an owner of a BWC and wants to know why etc etc etc."

i like them, although the fuel economy could be better

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It doesn't have to be big, and it's not all about the cock. Theres a personality involved to.

yes and no.

for the profiles that specifically ask for BBC then im afraid it has nothing to do with the person attached, and i dont care how much the person behind the profile protests, its not.

its al about the colour and the size of it, otherwise they would just ask for big cock.

then, onto the owner of the BBC.

are they detrimental to each other?

well absolutely.

Excellent point. The thing about personality is a bit of a red herring surely. Lets face it most, not all, but most meets are one offs. Yes charisma and charm are important to many( self included) but it all boils down to basic animal instinct for most. In the interests of balance is there any WBC out there "wee black ***t

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I reckon he's an owner of a BWC and wants to know why etc etc etc.

i like them, although the fuel economy could be better"

I have my very own BBC (big black car) and the fuel economy is shocking!

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By *estless in batterseaMan over a year ago

Wandsworth

"It doesn't have to be big, and it's not all about the cock. Theres a personality involved to.

yes and no.

for the profiles that specifically ask for BBC then im afraid it has nothing to do with the person attached, and i dont care how much the person behind the profile protests, its not.

its al about the colour and the size of it, otherwise they would just ask for big cock.

then, onto the owner of the BBC.

are they detrimental to each other?

well absolutely.

because Fabio on these very boards is the figurehead of a guy thats always trying to get people to look past a skin colour and look more at the person beneath, and yet, at most turns his message is stubbornly shut down by those that only have an interest in getting as much pussy as they can by being black"
i think Fabio has a problem with his skin colour or naive about the fact the we humans tend to put people into groups, be it colour, class, age, status... Etc

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It doesn't have to be big, and it's not all about the cock. Theres a personality involved to.

yes and no.

for the profiles that specifically ask for BBC then im afraid it has nothing to do with the person attached, and i dont care how much the person behind the profile protests, its not.

its al about the colour and the size of it, otherwise they would just ask for big cock.

then, onto the owner of the BBC.

are they detrimental to each other?

well absolutely.

because Fabio on these very boards is the figurehead of a guy thats always trying to get people to look past a skin colour and look more at the person beneath, and yet, at most turns his message is stubbornly shut down by those that only have an interest in getting as much pussy as they can by being blacki think Fabio has a problem with his skin colour or naive about the fact the we humans tend to put people into groups, be it colour, class, age, status... Etc"

having been on and off the boards for a fair while, im afraid i have to disagree with you.

shaun is one of the few guys, not the only one i might add, who i can honestly say, i have never seen trading o nthe colour of his skin, but more on his attitude, personality and honesty.

if you have seen different then fair enough, but if more people had the attitude it matters more about the contents than the wrapping, then there would be a lot less hatred in the world, or rather, there would be fewer things for those that hate, to hate.

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"I find the only people that start these types of threads are those frustrated the object of their desire doesn't want them.

Black/Asian guys complaining about profiles with no blacks or Asians.

Bi men complaining about couples not wanting to meet them.

Short men complaining about people wanting 6 footers.

Fit/toned men complaining about women picking couch potatoes with beer guts over them.

Honestly, if people could but concentrate on the thousands they do appeal to rather than having pathetic, subtle, digs at the preferences of others and got over themselves the happier they'd be.

Just my (humble) opinion of course!

judging by the ops arse, though, i think he may be of the black persuasion, so although i agree, usually your thinking is more than accurate, on this occasion, not quite so"

I REALLY need my eyes testing as I looked before posting and thought he was white!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

His verification says "won't meet asian or black men" that's what I based my theory on.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

" I love radio 4

I always call in the Home Service

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I find the only people that start these types of threads are those frustrated the object of their desire doesn't want them.

Black/Asian guys complaining about profiles with no blacks or Asians.

Bi men complaining about couples not wanting to meet them.

Short men complaining about people wanting 6 footers.

Fit/toned men complaining about women picking couch potatoes with beer guts over them.

Honestly, if people could but concentrate on the thousands they do appeal to rather than having pathetic, subtle, digs at the preferences of others and got over themselves the happier they'd be.

Just my (humble) opinion of course!

judging by the ops arse, though, i think he may be of the black persuasion, so although i agree, usually your thinking is more than accurate, on this occasion, not quite so

I REALLY need my eyes testing as I looked before posting and thought he was white!

no, your alright.

its me that needs to do that lol

apology extended

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

For most of it's participants I would imagine that this scene is primarily about fantasy than a search for a life partner.

Sexual fantasy is driven by attraction, no one should have any legal attraction or fantasy policed in any way.

I am attracted to women, whether single or part of a couple. That does not mean that I find ALL women attractive, it also does not mean that I would accept the charge of being sexist because I don't find men sexually attractive.

My initial attraction is not a womens personality, it's the visual. Her personality simply closes the deal.

I am not looking for a wife, many of the women I meet already have a husband! I want to find them sexually attractive and get on with them on a personal level just enough for us to have great sex.

I see little difference between the way I manage my preferences and a women or couple manage theirs by being very specific in a profile written to attract people to share their fantasy.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have not seen many profiles that state black women only...

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I don't see why its a problem with some people that I find black guys incredibly attractive, great fun to be with, not at all needy (in fact as content as me to keep things to one off meets), and usually (but not always) fantastic in bed. Its not a fantasy, or some kink to do with forbidden fruit. I just like 'em.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

some like it,some dont,some dont care

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ladies can choose what kind of cock they prefer whether they like big or small, black or white, straight or bendy, its of no relevance to anyone else other than the owner of the cock in question. Me I prefer them biggish either black or white, just my personal choice....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"[...] Fabio on these very boards is the figurehead of a guy thats always trying to get people to look past a skin colour and look more at the person beneath, and yet, at most turns his message is stubbornly shut down by those that only have an interest in getting as much pussy as they can by being black"

I can't see that as 'shut down' - if a black guy can get his fill BECAUSE he's black then I can't blame him for using that to his advantage, and I wish him success.

If Fabio wants to promote a more wider approach, not just based on skin colour, then I wish him well, too. Each to their own.

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By *igSuki81Man over a year ago

Retirement Village

"... Fabio on these very boards is the figurehead of a guy thats always trying to get people to look past a skin colour and look more at the person beneath, and yet, at most turns his message is stubbornly shut down by those that only have an interest in getting as much pussy as they can by being black.... "

i do like _abio's views and i do agree with him but lets face it, some people get what they want cause of their skin tone and it works for them.

If certain gents want to be seen for their colour alone then good luck to them.

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By *igSuki81Man over a year ago

Retirement Village

"some like it,some dont,some dont care"

I like you sexy man

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think if someone ask for bbc or fit toned or what ever it's up to them as in neither I don't message them as I'd be wasting there and my time ! .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have met many black men and have had committed relationships with some. ..

They are my weakness I look at a black man and get butterflies.

Obviously not every black man but definitely the majority

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have met many black men and have had committed relationships with some. ..

They are my weakness I look at a black man and get butterflies.

Obviously not every black man but definitely the majority

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Everyone to their own.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I find the only people that start these types of threads are those frustrated the object of their desire doesn't want them.

Black/Asian guys complaining about profiles with no blacks or Asians.

Bi men complaining about couples not wanting to meet them.

Short men complaining about people wanting 6 footers.

Fit/toned men complaining about women picking couch potatoes with beer guts over them.

Honestly, if people could but concentrate on the thousands they do appeal to rather than having pathetic, subtle, digs at the preferences of others and got over themselves the happier they'd be.

Just my (humble) opinion of course! "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I like to watch bbc 1.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't see why its a problem with some people that I find black guys incredibly attractive, great fun to be with, not at all needy (in fact as content as me to keep things to one off meets), and usually (but not always) fantastic in bed. Its not a fantasy, or some kink to do with forbidden fruit. I just like 'em.

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

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By *reedy_for_funCouple over a year ago

My House

For me personally, I find that most black guys tend to be naturally assertive and not shy when performing in front of and along-side my hubby. Sorry to say it's NOT about cock size (we've met white guys with bigger) no matter what others say. I still go with white guys and couples, Asian guys sometimes and have rarely had a disappointing meet.

Basically, at the end of the day, it's about choice and preferences. As a woman I can choose what I want and what you think about it means nothing. It doesn't mean I get what I want but that's another thread

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I just love black men.... I love their bodies and strong personalities.

I have had several relationships with black men and they are my first choice on here.

They "do it" for me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

dont worry in about 20 years you can join us in the "old man young woman club" wont see as much action as the bbc but good fun pissing the young lads off

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Forgot to say as well, I like black women to, as the black and white skin touches, its electric

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What is the fascination with BBC?? I don't quite fully understand it, a lot of couples or singles specifically state BBC only. Is it a fantasy only or a pre conceived idea all black guys own a big weapon?

I've been involved in a couple of meets with a few guys and BBC didn't exist.

Just curious

All cocks are black after anal x x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've been involved in a couple of meets with a few guys and BBC didn't exist.

Just curious

All cocks are black after anal x x"
Depends if you had an kebab the other night lol x.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It doesn't have to be big, and it's not all about the cock. Theres a personality involved to.

yes and no.

for the profiles that specifically ask for BBC then im afraid it has nothing to do with the person attached, and i dont care how much the person behind the profile protests, its not.

its al about the colour and the size of it, otherwise they would just ask for big cock.

then, onto the owner of the BBC.

are they detrimental to each other?

well absolutely.

I have to agree, very true.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It doesn't have to be big, and it's not all about the cock. Theres a personality involved to.

yes and no.

for the profiles that specifically ask for BBC then im afraid it has nothing to do with the person attached, and i dont care how much the person behind the profile protests, its not.

its al about the colour and the size of it, otherwise they would just ask for big cock.

then, onto the owner of the BBC.

are they detrimental to each other?

well absolutely.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I do my best to steer clear of the whole BBC thing because it's not just about cock size. It seems you have to behave in a certain way as well, depending on what that person is after.

Personally, I'm here for mutual pleasure. Not to jump through hoops due to the colour of my skin.

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

nice of you all to discuss me....

It is something that will always polarise opinion... just like using the "N" word does... some people will claim they are reclaiming the word... some people want no part of it......

I do find it quite funny that whilst some people say they want "BBC" they then say they are more interested in the person it belongs to... because most of the time I dont think that is the case at all.......

so people want to play it up... but then if it backfires they are the first people to complain.....

I would like to think that we as people are better than that now.... but hey, any advantage to get a leg over....

I strive to be the best person I can be... that is the way I was taught by my mother.. and I would like to think I do that on my own merits......

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By *igSuki81Man over a year ago

Retirement Village

"nice of you all to discuss me....

It is something that will always polarise opinion... just like using the "N" word does... some people will claim they are reclaiming the word... some people want no part of it......

so people want to play it up... but then if it backfires they are the first people to complain.....

I would like to think that we as people are better than that now.... but hey, any advantage to get a leg over....

I strive to be the best person I can be... that is the way I was taught by my mother.. and I would like to think I do that on my own merits......"

The big man is here

& awesome with his post

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"i think Fabio has a problem with his skin colour or naive about the fact the we humans tend to put people into groups, be it colour, class, age, status... Etc"

actually... er... nope..

I was black yesterday, I'll be black today... and I am guessing I'll probably be black tomorrow..... my parents were... my grandparents told me stories of what thinks were like pre civil rights.. I respect my history....

I am black, but being black does not define every part of my existance....

"if I bleed if my blood not red like everyone elses"....

I get to define me.... no one else.....

its the difference between being "a black guy, who happens to be nice"... and "a nice guy, who happens to be black".... the onus being on the part of it I can actually control!

I want people to look at me for me... not based on some fantasy stereotype which may or may not be true...

some will.... hello

some wont..... goodbye

I get called a "hater".... water off a ducks back....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"nice of you all to discuss me....

It is something that will always polarise opinion... just like using the "N" word does... some people will claim they are reclaiming the word... some people want no part of it......

so people want to play it up... but then if it backfires they are the first people to complain.....

I would like to think that we as people are better than that now.... but hey, any advantage to get a leg over....

I strive to be the best person I can be... that is the way I was taught by my mother.. and I would like to think I do that on my own merits......

The big man is here

& awesome with his post

Would the expression 'brown-nosing' be totally unacceptable in this context?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My 2p worth...

I was put off meeting ANY black men due to a few who brand themselves as BBC and chasing white pussy. A few got pushy as I dare to turn them down, and while I shouldn't tar all with the same brush, it did put me off black men (narrow minded yes) I'm not able to take huge dongs either and I don't want a man meeting me because my pussy is white.

Thankfully I was looked after and proven wrong but I still avoid those who call themselves BBC

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By *exydoctorsCouple over a year ago

Galway/Clare

For me, the combination of pale white skin and black skin is very erotic, whichever way the mix is. And then as someone who likes watching his wife enjoy herself, her having a black man is a nice combo fantasy. Wouldn't have to have a huge cock though lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

theres got to be an element of subconscious racist connotations. Not saying if you want BBC you are a racist, more that you might still view it as a bit taboo due to your upbringing etc

anyone care to elaborate/tell me I'm full of shit? Open to criticism!

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By *lackMetalMan over a year ago

Centre

"theres got to be an element of subconscious racist connotations. Not saying if you want BBC you are a racist, more that you might still view it as a bit taboo due to your upbringing etc

anyone care to elaborate/tell me I'm full of shit? Open to criticism! "

No, you are not full of shit! I agree with you. Thee are racist connotations to it. I happen to think that the minute someone's colour comes before them being human, then there is an element of racism/ignorance there.

Good on you for throwing this valid point out there.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"theres got to be an element of subconscious racist connotations. Not saying if you want BBC you are a racist, more that you might still view it as a bit taboo due to your upbringing etc

anyone care to elaborate/tell me I'm full of shit? Open to criticism! "

it's nothing to do with racism at all . It's just either a preference or a fantasy. Just like a man may state he wants a woman with very large tits , or in my case I do find black ladies very attractive because I simply love the look and skin tone. Does that make me a racist ?? I think not .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

cheers man!

tbh I grew up in an almost 100% white area so I think I'm a bit guilty of the taboo thing myself.

although I also grew up in liverpool where the white girls use to much face take its hard to tell what race anyone is!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"theres got to be an element of subconscious racist connotations. Not saying if you want BBC you are a racist, more that you might still view it as a bit taboo due to your upbringing etc

anyone care to elaborate/tell me I'm full of shit? Open to criticism!

I didnt say it made you racist, I think you missed the point of what I was saying

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I meant fake tan!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"some like it,some dont,some dont care"

Yep, it's that simple

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't accept that if someone finds black skin attractive that they are by default playing into some kind of BBC stereotype thinking. Attraction is more complex than that.

There is nothing wrong with difference, celebrating difference or being attracted to difference.

The key is to appreciate that the difference is not in itself the complete picture of any person but just part of the mix.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't accept that if someone finds black skin attractive that they are by default playing into some kind of BBC stereotype thinking. Attraction is more complex than that.

There is nothing wrong with difference, celebrating difference or being attracted to difference.

The key is to appreciate that the difference is not in itself the complete picture of any person but just part of the mix. "

Wahey. Voice of reason.

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By *exydoctorsCouple over a year ago

Galway/Clare

"theres got to be an element of subconscious racist connotations. Not saying if you want BBC you are a racist, more that you might still view it as a bit taboo due to your upbringing etc

anyone care to elaborate/tell me I'm full of shit? Open to criticism! "

In that case, liking women has sexist connotations

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"theres got to be an element of subconscious racist connotations. Not saying if you want BBC you are a racist, more that you might still view it as a bit taboo due to your upbringing etc

anyone care to elaborate/tell me I'm full of shit? Open to criticism!

Good on you for throwing this valid point out there."

I disagree here. Just because I find black guys attractive where is the racism or ignorance in that? we can't deny that there is a difference in skin colour. That is what I find attractive. For me it is nothing more than that. It certainly doesn't come before them being human. And if I was looking for a life partner the colour of their skin wouldn't come into it. I'm not here to do that. I want to have sex with guys I find attractive. It pisses me off when people assume that because you find black guys attractive you are after BBC. Some are just as some black guys use that as their USP. There is nothing wrong with that. Hell if I had big tits, I'd advertise it for the world to see!

why should I have to justify one of my sexual attractions? If I go into a restaurant and order a steak I don't expect the waiter to ask me why I don't want fish!

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"why should I have to justify one of my sexual attractions? If I go into a restaurant and order a steak I don't expect the waiter to ask me why I don't want fish!"

Got to love this analogy!

I have replied on this post so probably can be accused of 'justifying' my choice. However the men I meet also have a choice. If a black or Asian man is uncomfortable meeting a woman who enjoys black or Asian men, then they have as much right to refuse those meets as I have to request them. I'm not on here to have a deep philosophical debate about my preferences regarding colour, height, size of cock, or body type. I know what I like and if I like what I see then wahey.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"theres got to be an element of subconscious racist connotations. Not saying if you want BBC you are a racist, more that you might still view it as a bit taboo due to your upbringing etc

anyone care to elaborate/tell me I'm full of shit? Open to criticism!

Good on you for throwing this valid point out there.

why should I have to justify one of my sexual attractions? If I go into a restaurant and order a steak I don't expect the waiter to ask me why I don't want fish!"

hope the mods close this thread now , this reply says it all and very eloquently .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Personally, I think that porn plays a big part in perpetuating the Big Black Cock myth.

In porn, male performers typically have big cocks. Much of the porn we see in the UK comes from America, where according to Wikipedia, black people are actually surprisingly rare, making up just 12.6% of the population, and the UK population is even lower than that at just 3%. So when you consider the porn male selection process, coupled with the overall rarity of black folk, you'll see why most people associate them with being well endowed - of course you get well endowed whites in porn too, and lots of them, but given that most women in the UK or USA will have probably been face to face with a white guys cock at some point, that won't have been subject to the porn selection process, white guys typically won't be automatically assumed to be well endowed.

Statistically, the most well endowed men in the world are said to be Latinos, especially those from South America.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"theres got to be an element of subconscious racist connotations. Not saying if you want BBC you are a racist, more that you might still view it as a bit taboo due to your upbringing etc

anyone care to elaborate/tell me I'm full of shit? Open to criticism! "

This is not based on any certifiable evidence, it's your personal opinion and you're entitled to it.

I presume you're not stating that your personal opinion is some sort of blanket truth that anyone else should be expected to agree with?

If anyone chooses to agree with you, that is for them, but does not make your theory any more factual.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just an observation, but I notice the OP is staying very quiet. A case of light the touch paper and run, or maybe he didn't get the answer he was hoping for?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Im late seeing this thread because i went to bmfc (blackmansfanclub) party last night,Why did i go because i adore blackmen,many reasons Why which i dont need to justify

I dont see it as a problem When I see woman/couples advertising for bbc Its a preference,just like people advertise for other things things they enjoy

I dont advertise as in say i want bbc however with blackmen in pictures,bmfc veri and mentioned on my profile,it tiny Bit obvious i like blackmen

Bbc is Not a myth,however i Do not Check a guys pants before i take him to play,they can be small,medium or large.i have chatted,flirted,maybe danced and dragged them to a room lol i wouldnt go to a room with them if didnt get blown away by the whole package Not just what is in there pants as that dosent get seen til then.i meet at clubs When they clothed then tell them im on here,80% blackmen i meet i never had a preview of there profile pics here or profile so wouldnt know if bbc

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i like black girls, but then again i like girls i don't care where you (or your grandparents) hail from it simply does not bother me, i cant choose what i find i attractive i just do

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By *orthyorkypairCouple over a year ago

North Yorkshire

I've been involved in a couple of meets with a few guys and BBC didn't exist.

Just curious

i listen to Minster FM myself lol

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By *inxanddappaCouple over a year ago

Darlington

one thing i have not heard people mention is CONTRAST.... black on white is such a beautiful thing, its not about cock size for most girls (having said that most girls prefer bigger willies), it is about the contrast for most... sweet and sour, chalk and cheese, salt and pepper. Some things just fit together by default rather than design, the whole 'bbc' thing is totally to be expected and understood! its not hard to grasp, if a girl is into black guys then she aint gonna put an add small black cock is she haha... so i think some look into this deeper than it actually is, the like black guys and the dont wont no little black guy so they request bbc's big black cocks.. and heres another thing, i here this bbc arguement alot, but there are even more people who wouldnt and have never tried a bbc yet nobody seems have any concerns with that, if its questioned, a sharp swift response of "thats there preference, or not everybody likes bbc".. but yet the bbc keeps getting drag into forums time and time again to explain why a 'SELECT FEW' request bbc's on there profiles..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Usually by well hung white guys who can't understand how they've been turned down. It's not all about size.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Usually by well hung white guys who can't understand how they've been turned down. It's not all about size."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have no problem with people expressing a preference for BBC or for that matter expressing a preference for whites only (though I can take exception to the way that gets worded but that's a whole different thread!), ultimately swinging is about sex and exploring sexual fantasies. Sometime we look for something very specific and I'm sure we all do.

And I also think that for singlemen on here in particular they all need, if not a unique selling point then certainly an angle to make themself stand out from the masses. For some the fact that they are black and think they have a big cock is their chosen method of standing out, if it works for them great but personally I find it one dimensional, dull and uninspiring. And in some cases it seems to come paired with a sense of entitlement and arrogance, not traits we are in the slightest bit interested in.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We like itv too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We don’t understand all the fuss about BBC, surely it is just a preference for those that are asking for one.

We think that part of the problem is, is that those users who object to the term BBC being used by others, to find potential playmates, means that this is the only criteria required.

Surely for most people searching for BBC, it has to be attached to a suitable attractive guy (his ‘attractiveness’ based upon their criteria and rightly so). It’s not just about the cock, but if they are lucky enough to find one that matches what they are looking for is surely the cherry on a sexy cake. We would suggest that in the majority of cases, unless someone is looking for a certain fetish, such as an all-black gangbang, it is not simply the case of finding a cock that just happens to be black and big. That’s just silly, there has to be more to it than that, there has to be some form of physical attraction involved otherwise you would just use a BBD (Big, Black Dildo) and be done with it.

As for the argument that it dehumanises guys and is nowhere near as important personality, we believe that this is basically bollocks too. We have never heard any guy, or group of guys say… ‘Cor look at the wits on her’, although we have heard something very similar on numerous occasions. Initially looks are extremely important but that said, beauty is in the eye of the beholder and what you find attractive varies from one individual to the next.

As humans we cannot help this, we all prefer something that is aesthetically appealing. Therefore the starting point for choosing a potential playmate is always based on looks. After all how can you judge a personality unless you get to know someone really well? That means considerably more time than the few hours the average meet takes place for. How many of us have ex's we thought were the dogs doodahs to begin with only to find out later they were dog shit. Looks attract in the beginning and it's personality that keeps us sticking around until the end but the majority of us on here are not looking for that kind of relationship, so physical looks must have the upper hand on a site like this.

We don’t understand why black guys take offence at the term BBC. It can’t be the word ‘black; because that is how loads of guys on here, of a certain hue describe themselves, surely it cannot be the word ‘cock’, so does the word ‘big’ offend and if so why? Is it because those offended only qualify on two of the three elements?

We have read that it may be down to a historical perspective. But how can couples or woman looking for a good looking black guy, with a large cock, to have sex with, be objectively offensive to black guys as a whole? Surely it cannot relate to issues of slavery and civil rights in this arena. We say this because we doubt if any Caucasians on here would link it to this, after all the majority of us where not around during the civil rights movement. We believe that for the majority of couples, and woman on here, have had their opinions of interracial sex and the issue of well-endowed black guys fucking white woman formed from Hip-Hop culture, an industry predominantly associated with a seemingly misogynist group of black guys.

Unlike certain words that are extremely offensive we have never heard anyone use the phrase BBC to insult or degrade anyone. Far from that, the phrase is one of desire. The woman looking for BBC wants to be pleased by a man, with a large cock, who just happens to be black. How else are those looking for this supposed to ask, would BCB be more acceptable, you know a Big Cocked Black guy?

At the end of the day it’s just about personal preference, just the same as age, weight, smoker, non-smoker, gender etc. It is not something to get hung up about.

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By *inxanddappaCouple over a year ago

Darlington

"We don’t understand all the fuss about BBC, surely it is just a preference for those that are asking for one.

We think that part of the problem is, is that those users who object to the term BBC being used by others, to find potential playmates, means that this is the only criteria required.

At the end of the day it’s just about personal preference, just the same as age, weight, smoker, non-smoker, gender etc. It is not something to get hung up about.

ive been black all my life, trust me ive even checked all the old photo's lol, but seriously no black guys gets offended buy the term bbc, infact our eyes are well tuned to spotting tho 3 letters in jumbled mass of jibblerish with only a one second glance, in other words most of us blck guys actively look out for the bbc symbol lol.. i just dont understand why the black mans cock keeps getting dragged into forums to defend intself, would the thread-starter have made this thread about whites only profiles...!!! i guess if i dont just ask the question outright nobody will address it, so here it is.. What is the white mans problem with white girls wanting to ride a black cock..???? please dont dance around question!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I actually chat to a few black men who are put off by the term BBC....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" i guess if i dont just ask the question outright nobody will address it, so here it is.. What is the white mans problem with white girls wanting to ride a black cock..???? please dont dance around question!!

Plenty of people have a problem with preferences that exclude them. I get the impression that you are saying that it is a race issue but conversely a quick forum search will confirm plenty of complaints about profiles that are only seeking white men.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I actually chat to a few black men who are put off by the term BBC...."

But why? You have stated that the guys are black, by being a guy they must have a cock, so that only leaves the big... are they put off by that?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Because they are a human being that happens to be black and would rather not use BBC to sell themselves.

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By *inxanddappaCouple over a year ago

Darlington

"I actually chat to a few black men who are put off by the term BBC...."

would they turn down a meet coz of it? live i say ive never met 1 single black guy that had a problem with that, ask most black guys and they will give you a few more letters like BMW!!! its just my experience

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We don’t understand all the fuss about BBC, surely it is just a preference for those that are asking for one.

We think that part of the problem is, is that those users who object to the term BBC being used by others, to find potential playmates, means that this is the only criteria required.

At the end of the day it’s just about personal preference, just the same as age, weight, smoker, non-smoker, gender etc. It is not something to get hung up about.

Well thought out, well balanced and well written.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The problem is simply the type of people who start these threads. They are the ones with the problem and the only ones with the fascination. No one else.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I actually chat to a few black men who are put off by the term BBC....

But why? You have stated that the guys are black, by being a guy they must have a cock, so that only leaves the big... are they put off by that?"

It's not a term I've ever used and I don't believe I'll use it to describe myself in the future.

That said, it does not and has never bothered me.

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By *inxanddappaCouple over a year ago

Darlington

tbf i havent seen many of the threads you mention, but i have 'actually' come across treads like this time and time again... lets just be honest about the amount of times this is raised as a topic of justification in comparison to any reverse threads about whites only.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I actually chat to a few black men who are put off by the term BBC....

I have before and I will again what most black guys do as you put it has nothing to do with my point of view.

People can express needs and wants anyway they see fit. I can also decide what works for me in the same way.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I actually chat to a few black men who are put off by the term BBC....

I have before and I will again what most black guys do as you put it has nothing to do with my point of view.

People can express needs and wants anyway they see fit. I can also decide what works for me in the same way.

It isn't just the ones that inbox me selling their BBC though, it extends to white men who just have to advertise the fact they are VWE.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

there are so many schools of thought on the BBC issue, I lost interest in using myself in such a manner years ago.I dont actively seek seekers, some seekers are disapointed I'm probably not exactly 'black enough'...in the end I dont really care, I can get meets without mentioning anything about being black ever

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By *inxanddappaCouple over a year ago

Darlington

"The problem is simply the type of people who start these threads. They are the ones with the problem and the only ones with the fascination. No one else."

top girl, hi iq and i could kiss you

your the only one who has answered the question... everybody just have think about my question and this ladies answer then ask youself why we dignify these thread starters and there self sided question with a any response at all!

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By *inxanddappaCouple over a year ago

Darlington

"I actually chat to a few black men who are put off by the term BBC....

I have before and I will again what most black guys do as you put it has nothing to do with my point of view.

People can express needs and wants anyway they see fit. I can also decide what works for me in the same way.

ok you but you really didnt address the question i asked.. you claimed you spoke to black gus who were offened by the bbc term, so i asked they were offened enough to tern down meets, most black guys are fully aware of the stigmas attached to being black, on not described as black on profile nore does it mention anything about bbc and it never will, we sell ourselves as an interracial couple, infact ive seen many black profiles and seldom do they use the term bbc... like i said and i satand by what i said about black NOT taking offence to term bbc!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Because they are a human being that happens to be black and would rather not use BBC to sell themselves. "

You seem to be missing the point, its not a derogatory term, the guys are black, have a cock and it's up to the parties concerned to establish what constitutes big.

Is it derogatory if we asked to meet blondes, BBW's or older guys or gals?

What about those profiles who actively state they will not meet people of a particular race, aren't they being more offensive?

Well the answer is obviously no, all they are doing is stating their preferences for potential playmates. Freedom of choice is all it is.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I actually chat to a few black men who are put off by the term BBC....

I have before and I will again what most black guys do as you put it has nothing to do with my point of view.

People can express needs and wants anyway they see fit. I can also decide what works for me in the same way.

to term bbc!!"

I said yes I was offended by the term and yes I have turned down meets where the term has been used.

When did you become the official spokesman for black men?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Because they are a human being that happens to be black and would rather not use BBC to sell themselves.

You seem to be missing the point, its not a derogatory term, the guys are black, have a cock and it's up to the parties concerned to establish what constitutes big.

Is it derogatory if we asked to meet blondes, BBW's or older guys or gals?

What about those profiles who actively state they will not meet people of a particular race, aren't they being more offensive?

Well the answer is obviously no, all they are doing is stating their preferences for potential playmates. Freedom of choice is all it is."

As a fat bird I am offended by men calling me BBW, and won't meet men who are meeting me just because I'm BBW in their eyes.

Stating preferences is fine it's the way people do it that matters. Labels are for jam jars.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

on not described as black on profile nore does it mention anything about bbc and it never will, we sell ourselves as an interracial couple, infact ive seen many black profiles and seldom do they use the term bbc... "

I think you are being very selective in what you see on the site so that it suits your argument

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I said yes I was offended by the term and yes I have turned down meets where the term has been used.

When did you become the official spokesman for black men?"

Can we ask on what grounds do you find it offensive?

If we were chatting to you and my partner found you attractive and told you so and you found her attractive, and a prospective meet was on the cards, would you be offended if she asked how large you were and could you confirm this?

And if you are and do not want to, does that mean you are happy to meet woman without seeing pics of them?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Because they are a human being that happens to be black and would rather not use BBC to sell themselves.

You seem to be missing the point, its not a derogatory term, the guys are black, have a cock and it's up to the parties concerned to establish what constitutes big.

Is it derogatory if we asked to meet blondes, BBW's or older guys or gals?

What about those profiles who actively state they will not meet people of a particular race, aren't they being more offensive?

Well the answer is obviously no, all they are doing is stating their preferences for potential playmates. Freedom of choice is all it is.

As a fat bird I am offended by men calling me BBW, and won't meet men who are meeting me just because I'm BBW in their eyes.

Stating preferences is fine it's the way people do it that matters. Labels are for jam jars."

Just realised you have not read, or read properly our earlier post, were we stated that there had to be more to it than just a BBC, you have to be attracted to the person, who then has hopefully the size of cock you are after.

The term simply states something that you are looking for. as you say you dislike the term BBW but then state you are a 'fat bird' but we think that a Big Beautiful Woman is far less insulting than 'fat bird', and surely that too is a label.

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By *egasus NobMan over a year ago

Wandsworth

Could have been talking about rooster hence (bbc)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Fat is just a descriptive word not a label. Being fat doesn't automatically mean I am beautiful. I am just me....

The same as a black man would still be who he is if he suddenly turned pink overnight.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Could have been talking about rooster hence (bbc)"

Whats rooster?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Fat is just a descriptive word not a label. Being fat doesn't automatically mean I am beautiful. I am just me....

The same as a black man would still be who he is if he suddenly turned pink overnight."

So which of the words that comprise BBC are not descriptive?

And the pink thing is a little silly....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Fat is just a descriptive word not a label. Being fat doesn't automatically mean I am beautiful. I am just me....

The same as a black man would still be who he is if he suddenly turned pink overnight.

So which of the words that comprise BBC are not descriptive?

And the pink thing is a little silly...."

It is just a big cock regardless of size....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Fat is just a descriptive word not a label. Being fat doesn't automatically mean I am beautiful. I am just me....

The same as a black man would still be who he is if he suddenly turned pink overnight.

So which of the words that comprise BBC are not descriptive?

And the pink thing is a little silly....

It is just a big cock regardless of size...."

That made us laugh, not sure you have got the hang of this...

How can a cock be 'big' REGARDLESS of size?

And if you think that labels are offensive how come you use them on your profile, and we quote...

'BBC? Skin colour doesn't bother me but if BBC is your only selling point then I'm not interested (same goes for BWC)'

So it seems that you don't mind a BBC as long as the profile has more to it than just that...

Confused? We are...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some people just make you want to bang your head against a brick wall.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Fat is just a descriptive word not a label. Being fat doesn't automatically mean I am beautiful. I am just me....

The same as a black man would still be who he is if he suddenly turned pink overnight.

So which of the words that comprise BBC are not descriptive?

And the pink thing is a little silly....

It is just a big cock regardless of size....

That made us laugh, not sure you have got the hang of this...

How can a cock be 'big' REGARDLESS of size?

And if you think that labels are offensive how come you use them on your profile, and we quote...

'BBC? Skin colour doesn't bother me but if BBC is your only selling point then I'm not interested (same goes for BWC)'

So it seems that you don't mind a BBC as long as the profile has more to it than just that...

Confused? We are..."

I'm pretty sure critiquing profiles unless requested is against fiorum rules...

But it's hardly a difficult concept to grasp surely? People selling themselves on the basis of the size of their cock is not an attractive trait to everyone.

It is no different to the unpleasant "any hole's a goal" mentality some men have.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Fat is just a descriptive word not a label. Being fat doesn't automatically mean I am beautiful. I am just me....

The same as a black man would still be who he is if he suddenly turned pink overnight.

So which of the words that comprise BBC are not descriptive?

And the pink thing is a little silly....

It is just a big cock regardless of size....

That made us laugh, not sure you have got the hang of this...

How can a cock be 'big' REGARDLESS of size?

And if you think that labels are offensive how come you use them on your profile, and we quote...

'BBC? Skin colour doesn't bother me but if BBC is your only selling point then I'm not interested (same goes for BWC)'

So it seems that you don't mind a BBC as long as the profile has more to it than just that...

Confused? We are...

I'm pretty sure critiquing profiles unless requested is against fiorum rules...

But it's hardly a difficult concept to grasp surely? People selling themselves on the basis of the size of their cock is not an attractive trait to everyone.

It is no different to the unpleasant "any hole's a goal" mentality some men have. "

Thank you

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By *inxanddappaCouple over a year ago

Darlington

"I actually chat to a few black men who are put off by the term BBC....

I have before and I will again what most black guys do as you put it has nothing to do with my point of view.

People can express needs and wants anyway they see fit. I can also decide what works for me in the same way.

to term bbc!!

I said yes I was offended by the term and yes I have turned down meets where the term has been used.

When did you become the official spokesman for black men?"

ok continue to deliberately misunderstand clear question asked... am not am official spokes man for black people but you said something and i asked for clarification being a blackman myself, but i will not converse with you further on this point as we clearly have a communication breakedown

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By *inxanddappaCouple over a year ago

Darlington

"I said yes I was offended by the term and yes I have turned down meets where the term has been used.

When did you become the official spokesman for black men?

Can we ask on what grounds do you find it offensive?

And if you are and do not want to, does that mean you are happy to meet woman without seeing pics of them?"

you cant really ask her anything, ive tried!! lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

To some, it's a fantasy while to others it's a preference.

Each to their own...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Fat is just a descriptive word not a label. Being fat doesn't automatically mean I am beautiful. I am just me....

The same as a black man would still be who he is if he suddenly turned pink overnight.

So which of the words that comprise BBC are not descriptive?

And the pink thing is a little silly....

It is just a big cock regardless of size....

That made us laugh, not sure you have got the hang of this...

How can a cock be 'big' REGARDLESS of size?

And if you think that labels are offensive how come you use them on your profile, and we quote...

'BBC? Skin colour doesn't bother me but if BBC is your only selling point then I'm not interested (same goes for BWC)'

So it seems that you don't mind a BBC as long as the profile has more to it than just that...

Confused? We are...

I'm pretty sure critiquing profiles unless requested is against fiorum rules...

But it's hardly a difficult concept to grasp surely? People selling themselves on the basis of the size of their cock is not an attractive trait to everyone.

It is no different to the unpleasant "any hole's a goal" mentality some men have.

Thank you

Sorry if we offended you, it is not our intention. We have stated that there has to be more to it than just a large cock of a certain colour.

We are just stating that the term itself is purely descriptive and should not be taken as offensive and whilst we agree that by asking for this may detract some from possible meets, it is surely just a fairly accurate way of asking for a particular preference you have. How else could you ask for this, if it is your thing to meet good looking black guys with large cocks?

We pointed out that you have used this term on your profile only to illustrate that you cannot find the term offensive, otherwise you would not have used it yourself and if this has offended you we do apologise again.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I actually chat to a few black men who are put off by the term BBC....

I have before and I will again what most black guys do as you put it has nothing to do with my point of view.

People can express needs and wants anyway they see fit. I can also decide what works for me in the same way.

to term bbc!!

I said yes I was offended by the term and yes I have turned down meets where the term has been used.

When did you become the official spokesman for black men?

She did not reply to your post I did and I am also a blackman.

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By *entfootloverMan over a year ago

Sevenoaks

"To some, it's a fantasy while to others it's a preference.

Each to their own...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"To some, it's a fantasy while to others it's a preference.

Each to their own...

That sums it all up nicely

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I said yes I was offended by the term and yes I have turned down meets where the term has been used.

When did you become the official spokesman for black men?

Can we ask on what grounds do you find it offensive?

And if you are and do not want to, does that mean you are happy to meet woman without

seeing pics of them?"

Sorry I got sidetracked with something else.

I find people sending me messages looking for

big black cock offensive. The attitudes of people often using the term are often terrible. As I have already said this is me others may see it another way.

People can communicate what they want in other ways without this happening. It's clear I am black why not say we are looking for WE or VWE.

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By *inxanddappaCouple over a year ago

Darlington

"I actually chat to a few black men who are put off by the term BBC....

I have before and I will again what most black guys do as you put it has nothing to do with my point of view.

People can express needs and wants anyway they see fit. I can also decide what works for me in the same way.

to term bbc!!

I said yes I was offended by the term and yes I have turned down meets where the term has been used.

When did you become the official spokesman for black men?

She did not reply to your post I did and I am also a blackman."

ok so your the first guy i have ever met in my ebtire life that has turned down meets strickly based on the term of bbc.. good on you thats your preference, but STILL stand by what i said, as i said i believe MOST but not ALL black guys dont get offended by the bbc term... i know and joke with lots of black guys about our cocks as does lots of other white men and have never heard one of them take offence to the promotion of their manhood, black men are usually quite confident by nature in that department, as am sure you are too.. but if you find it offensive can i ask you why? as i dont understand the offence being caused as a blackman myself. does bbw offend you, or what about tv, tg ect.. when does a discription/depiction of anything bacl become acceptable as non intentionally offensive... if a girl came at me with "let me see your ni££er dick" then id block her, but if was politely amused, intrigued but perhaps wasnt aware of any offence in saying bbc to me, then why should i feel the need to take offence... why?? just because am 'black' and i can pick and chose when and when not take offence of out context??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I said yes I was offended by the term and yes I have turned down meets where the term has been used.

When did you become the official spokesman for black men?

Can we ask on what grounds do you find it offensive?

And if you are and do not want to, does that mean you are happy to meet woman without

seeing pics of them?

Sorry I got sidetracked with something else.

I find people sending me messages looking for

big black cock offensive. The attitudes of people often using the term are often terrible. As I have already said this is me others may see it another way.

People can communicate what they want in other ways without this happening. It's clear I am black why not say we are looking for WE or VWE."

What you have said is plainly offensive, if they mail you asking for BBC, they are showing their ignorance and clearly not improving their chances of a meet. It's as stupid as asking a white guy for a BWC and such idiots do not deserve to meet anyone.

However what we are talking about is those users who put on their profiles that they would like BBC. As we have already stated there must be more to this than just cock size and colour and we believe that that physical attraction is a must. So that said how does that offend anyone who comes across such a profile?

Surely it is just a filter and if a guy thinks they match up to this acronym they are then ahead of the game and it allows them to respond to the profile with more confidence of an actual meet.

The term BBC is purely descriptive and should be viewed as such, otherwise how should someone seek out sexy (to the female lol) large cocked black guys, if that's her thing?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I actually chat to a few black men who are put off by the term BBC....

I have before and I will again what most black guys do as you put it has nothing to do with my point of view.

People can express needs and wants anyway they see fit. I can also decide what works for me in the same way.

to term bbc!!

I said yes I was offended by the term and yes I have turned down meets where the term has been used.

When did you become the official spokesman for black men?

She did not reply to your post I did and I am also a blackman.

I don't like people making assumptions about me based on my colour. I have had this conversation many times always turns out the same way.

What you do works for you and that's the main thing.

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By *inxanddappaCouple over a year ago

Darlington

"I said yes I was offended by the term and yes I have turned down meets where the term has been used.

When did you become the official spokesman for black men?

Can we ask on what grounds do you find it offensive?

And if you are and do not want to, does that mean you are happy to meet woman without

seeing pics of them?

Sorry I got sidetracked with something else.

I find people sending me messages looking for

big black cock offensive. The attitudes of people often using the term are often terrible. As I have already said this is me others may see it another way.

People can communicate what they want in other ways without this happening. It's clear I am black why not say we are looking for WE or VWE."

isnt ve or vve a similar thing, to some guys that puts a pressure on them to be expected to perform for long periods, or to have staying power, or its gotta be rock hard, but thats not always the case, i feel more pressure on having to perform even tho i fuck like porn star if i dont stress about things, but in honesty the fact that am expected to have a big taj less offensive than the expectation of marathon sex on demand because am 'black' and therefore must be good in bed.. that gets my goat more that any bbc labels discriptive value, now you touched on something entirely different, you mentioned the attitude used when using thid term... you will probs not agree but here goes anyway, if i met you said "wussup my ni££a" in a greeting and friend sub-ghetto way that brothers do.. it would be entirely different to if i stopped you randomly and flared up and screamed the same words in your face... then it becomes aimed and tailored to be insulting

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's because you can replay the action on the BBC iPlayer.

I've been involved in a couple of meets with a few guys and BBC didn't exist.

Just curious

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By *inxanddappaCouple over a year ago

Darlington

"I said yes I was offended by the term and yes I have turned down meets where the term has been used.

When did you become the official spokesman for black men?

Can we ask on what grounds do you find it offensive?

And if you are and do not want to, does that mean you are happy to meet woman without

seeing pics of them?

Sorry I got sidetracked with something else.

I find people sending me messages looking for

big black cock offensive. The attitudes of people often using the term are often terrible. As I have already said this is me others may see it another way.

People can communicate what they want in other ways without this happening. It's clear I am black why not say we are looking for WE or VWE.

Surely it is just a filter and if a guy thinks they match up to this acronym they are then ahead of the game and it allows them to respond to the profile with more confidence of an actual meet.

The term BBC is purely descriptive and should be viewed as such, otherwise how should someone seek out sexy (to the female lol) large cocked black guys, if that's her thing?"

perfectly said, as i said earlier, i dont understand how offence is caused by using the bbc, and apart from the gentleman who posted his contempts i have never come across any other black males who have taken offence to the term bbc

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By *onny BonesMan over a year ago

a block away from heaven

I admit to finding this topic quite difficult to understand. I am a 'blklad' as my handle says and do not feel that I am trading on my colour.

If a reader can not look beyond that and is excited by the prospect of playing because I am black why should I complain. I am here to be used for someones pleasure and will seek my own pleasure from another consenting adult.

I see some of those named earlier in the thread seem to be offended if a person wants to play with them for this reason only. Why? Why is it an offence to be part of a persons fantasy?

To answer the OP's question, I believe you have to dissect the term BBC. BIG - What is big to one person may not be to another, so that is based on opinion. Black, there are some who have a preference for black men or women. Cock - self explanatory! I believe that the term is used to raise awareness to the masses of a preference.

It's easy to say what people want to hear and it amazes me that some on here fall for the big words and those constantly distancing themselves from what they are.

I wonder what some would say to those who have to write in big bold words that they do not wish to play with black men?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I said yes I was offended by the term and yes I have turned down meets where the term has been used.

When did you become the official spokesman for black men?

Can we ask on what grounds do you find it offensive?

And if you are and do not want to, does that mean you are happy to meet woman without

seeing pics of them?

Sorry I got sidetracked with something else.

I find people sending me messages looking for

big black cock offensive. The attitudes of people often using the term are often terrible. As I have already said this is me others may see it another way.

People can communicate what they want in other ways without this happening. It's clear I am black why not say we are looking for WE or VWE.

I would either have a long conversation with you or walk in the opposite direction doing this

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I admit to finding this topic quite difficult to understand. I am a 'blklad' as my handle says and do not feel that I am trading on my colour.

I see some of those named earlier in the thread seem to be offended if a person wants to play with them for this reason only. Why? Why is it an offence to be part of a persons fantasy?

It's easy to say what people want to hear and it amazes me that some on here fall for the big words and those constantly distancing themselves from what they are.

I wonder what some would say to those who have to write in big bold words that they do not wish to play with black men? "

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I admit to finding this topic quite difficult to understand. I am a 'blklad' as my handle says and do not feel that I am trading on my colour.

I see some of those named earlier in the thread seem to be offended if a person wants to play with them for this reason only. Why? Why is it an offence to be part of a persons fantasy?

It's easy to say what people want to hear and it amazes me that some on here fall for the big words and those constantly distancing themselves from what they are.

I wonder what some would say to those who have to write in big bold words that they do not wish to play with black men? "

I would not say anything to them and if they said anything to me I would block them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Surely it is just a filter and if a guy thinks they match up to this acronym they are then ahead of the game and it allows them to respond to the profile with more confidence of an actual meet.

The term BBC is purely descriptive and should be viewed as such, otherwise how should someone seek out sexy (to the female lol) large cocked black guys, if that's her thing?"

As I'm a lady who mentions the term BBC on her profile (and coincidentally looking exclusively for that), I can say that is absolutely SPOT ON.

Can we move along from these topics now please...?

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By *inxanddappaCouple over a year ago

Darlington

"I said yes I was offended by the term and yes I have turned down meets where the term has been used.

When did you become the official spokesman for black men?

Can we ask on what grounds do you find it offensive?

And if you are and do not want to, does that mean you are happy to meet woman without

seeing pics of them?

Sorry I got sidetracked with something else.

I find people sending me messages looking for

big black cock offensive. The attitudes of people often using the term are often terrible. As I have already said this is me others may see it another way.

People can communicate what they want in other ways without this happening. It's clear I am black why not say we are looking for WE or VWE.

I would either have a long conversation with you or walk in the opposite direction doing this

haha walk, run, i dont care

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By *inxanddappaCouple over a year ago

Darlington

"I admit to finding this topic quite difficult to understand. I am a 'blklad' as my handle says and do not feel that I am trading on my colour.

I see some of those named earlier in the thread seem to be offended if a person wants to play with them for this reason only. Why? Why is it an offence to be part of a persons fantasy?

It's easy to say what people want to hear and it amazes me that some on here fall for the big words and those constantly distancing themselves from what they are.

I wonder what some would say to those who have to write in big bold words that they do not wish to play with black men?

Exactly

this has been my point all along

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

And still no surface from the OP......just saying!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i have a cock the size of a AA battery however i bang like a shit house when the plagues in town so am i jealous of a guy with a bigger cock than me ? god damn right i am, can i do anything about it ? hell no and believe me i've tried (swung irons from it, strecthing exercises & pumps) but does it bother me if a fella drops his shreddies at a meet and he is hung like shreks donkey ? no because i have a 9" tongue

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By *r Mahogany70Man over a year ago

Leicester

"nice of you all to discuss me....

It is something that will always polarise opinion... just like using the "N" word does... some people will claim they are reclaiming the word... some people want no part of it......

so people want to play it up... but then if it backfires they are the first people to complain.....

I would like to think that we as people are better than that now.... but hey, any advantage to get a leg over....

I strive to be the best person I can be... that is the way I was taught by my mother.. and I would like to think I do that on my own merits......

The big man is here

& awesome with his post

Would the expression 'brown-nosing' be totally unacceptable in this context?

No, I think you're alright with that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This is a site for dreams, stereotypes and self gratification. nothing is real, when you start believing what you see written, its probably time to increase your medication.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Surely it is just a filter and if a guy thinks they match up to this acronym they are then ahead of the game and it allows them to respond to the profile with more confidence of an actual meet.

The term BBC is purely descriptive and should be viewed as such, otherwise how should someone seek out sexy (to the female lol) large cocked black guys, if that's her thing?

As I'm a lady who mentions the term BBC on her profile (and coincidentally looking exclusively for that), I can say that is absolutely SPOT ON.

Can we move along from these topics now please...?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"And still no surface from the OP......just saying!"

He will be watching

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Apparenrly there was a scientific survey done in the states in 1960s which disproved the myth of black bigger than white on penis size the results were taken from american college students and proved on average white guys had bigger penisis

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By *entfootloverMan over a year ago

Sevenoaks

"Apparenrly there was a scientific survey done in the states in 1960s which disproved the myth of black bigger than white on penis size the results were taken from american college students and proved on average white guys had bigger penisis"

And your point is?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The misses want one just because she never had one. He was terrible she stop fucking him and finished oral and then said to me "BBC and no clue sucks noe make me cum and let's go home."

We try again with a stud we came highly recommended she said it was better but just not wort all the hype.

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By *habsMan over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

Is it safe to come out of hiding now?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

And your point is?

"
oh here we go another clever fucker

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think most women fantasize about trying a big cock even though they've been taught to say that "size doesn't matter" and because of the perception that black men are more likely to have a big cock fantasizing about a big black cock is probably pretty common!

Women I have met tell ME that "size doesn't matter" (I’m only about average in size depending on who’s measuring) but it's obvious when we play with their "toys" she appreciates the additional "size" and depth of penetration.

I think it's funny because would it be shallow if a guy wants to sleep with a woman for her big breasts?

KEEP CALM AND ,,,,,,,,,,,

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

I have tried to deliberately stay out of this thread but been reading... I think my view is well known and the amount of PM's I get on it is really heart-warming....

I am another like Complex Mister, who has walked away from potential meets based of the BBC issue and would again in the future.. and I know, by the post I have gotten, we are not the only two.....

the point I try to get across a lot is that by using it some are probably polarising the very people they are trying to attract, the irony of the discussion

the power of the written word.... if I used the "N" word to describe black people there would be outrage, so I find it hard for some people to understand when BBC in the context it is used why some may find it offensive

as some else said... don't have a problem with preferences, but do have an issue with the way that preference is expressed...

got asked by a couple the other day to "cuckold them with my "N" cock...." I stopped talking to them straight away.... then got back to me to asked what they did wrong?

I think in this case porn gives a skewed view of what is acceptable to people and what isn't.... I am not out to reclaim the term "BBC", I just dont like it, and if I want to use that as part of my filtering process, then so be it.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The misses want one just because she never had one. He was terrible she stop fucking him and finished oral and then said to me "BBC and no clue sucks noe make me cum and let's go home."

We try again with a stud we came highly recommended she said it was better but just not wort all the hype.

A bbc (!) Isn't a thing or a commodity, to "try one" . That's complete objectification! Like someone saying "I drove an Audi once, didn't like it." Wrong! As bad as someone having a sexual bucket list with "bbc" struck through!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have tried to deliberately stay out of this thread but been reading... I think my view is well known and the amount of PM's I get on it is really heart-warming....

I am another like Complex Mister, who has walked away from potential meets based of the BBC issue and would again in the future.. and I know, by the post I have gotten, we are not the only two.....

the point I try to get across a lot is that by using it some are probably polarising the very people they are trying to attract, the irony of the discussion

as some else said... don't have a problem with preferences, but do have an issue with the way that preference is expressed...

got asked by a couple the other day to "cuckold them with my "N" cock...." I stopped talking to them straight away.... then got back to me to asked what they did wrong?

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By *bony in IvoryCouple over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

Been reading this thread with interest. There does seem to be a misconception that for many, the "BBC"/ Black Man is a fantasy and "forbidden fruit' to be sampled .( Each to their own, enjoy all! ) Yes, to some its a sexual preference... But also to some ( quite a few actually ) it's a life preference as well

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

All girls love chocolate

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By *bony in IvoryCouple over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

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By *bony in IvoryCouple over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

"Is it safe to come out of hiding now?

"
lmfao! You hide? Never!! Lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is it safe to come out of hiding now?

Last time I saw you, you were trying to hide inside my wife!

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By *ocoTemptationMan over a year ago

london

Well said

I realized long ago that that everyone has insecurities of one sort of another regardless of how they may appear on the outside. In additions peoples tastes do vary. Once you realize that you can stand tall (figuratively speaking) lol

"I find the only people that start these types of threads are those frustrated the object of their desire doesn't want them.

Black/Asian guys complaining about profiles with no blacks or Asians.

Bi men complaining about couples not wanting to meet them.

Short men complaining about people wanting 6 footers.

Fit/toned men complaining about women picking couch potatoes with beer guts over them.

Honestly, if people could but concentrate on the thousands they do appeal to rather than having pathetic, subtle, digs at the preferences of others and got over themselves the happier they'd be.

Just my (humble) opinion of course! "

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By *estless in batterseaMan over a year ago

Wandsworth

"I have tried to deliberately stay out of this thread but been reading... I think my view is well known and the amount of PM's I get on it is really heart-warming....

I am another like Complex Mister, who has walked away from potential meets based of the BBC issue and would again in the future.. and I know, by the post I have gotten, we are not the only two.....

the point I try to get across a lot is that by using it some are probably polarising the very people they are trying to attract, the irony of the discussion

as some else said... don't have a problem with preferences, but do have an issue with the way that preference is expressed...

got asked by a couple the other day to "cuckold them with my "N" cock...." I stopped talking to them straight away.... then got back to me to asked what they did wrong?

"
Ok maybe asking for your "N" cock is going a bit overboard and I would probably not like that myself but I have to ask, how exactly do you wish to be selected on here?! On your personality, your "views", your gender, obviously not your skin colour, how, tell us please???

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Probably because a BBC looks and sounds much more appealing than an LPM (Little Pink Maggot)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have tried to deliberately stay out of this thread but been reading... I think my view is well known and the amount of PM's I get on it is really heart-warming....

I am another like Complex Mister, who has walked away from potential meets based of the BBC issue and would again in the future.. and I know, by the post I have gotten, we are not the only two.....

the point I try to get across a lot is that by using it some are probably polarising the very people they are trying to attract, the irony of the discussion

as some else said... don't have a problem with preferences, but do have an issue with the way that preference is expressed...

got asked by a couple the other day to "cuckold them with my "N" cock...." I stopped talking to them straight away.... then got back to me to asked what they did wrong?

Ok maybe asking for your "N" cock is going a bit overboard and I would probably not like that myself but I have to ask, how exactly do you wish to be selected on here?! On your personality, your "views", your gender, obviously not your skin colour, how, tell us please???"

I guess in an ideal world we wouldn't have profile pics at all.

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By *estless in batterseaMan over a year ago

Wandsworth

"I have tried to deliberately stay out of this thread but been reading... I think my view is well known and the amount of PM's I get on it is really heart-warming....

I am another like Complex Mister, who has walked away from potential meets based of the BBC issue and would again in the future.. and I know, by the post I have gotten, we are not the only two.....

the point I try to get across a lot is that by using it some are probably polarising the very people they are trying to attract, the irony of the discussion

as some else said... don't have a problem with preferences, but do have an issue with the way that preference is expressed...

got asked by a couple the other day to "cuckold them with my "N" cock...." I stopped talking to them straight away.... then got back to me to asked what they did wrong?

I guess in an ideal world we wouldn't have profile pics at all."
Thats an EXTREMELY naive world. IT IS A SEX SITE and Sex has to do with the physical, and colour plays a massive part, hair, skin, even eyes. To want to be selected on the basis of I don't what is just laughable really...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I agree that there is a bit of a myth about Black men all having big willy's but................ We sure have seen some whoppas in our time, both black and white and at other times my effort has been cock of the day/night. But......... it's just so damn nice to see Mrs N with a black cock. And..... to be fair most of the guys we've met have been charming, courteous and really appreciative of the gift Mrs N is giving them, the chance for them to live out their fantasy of satisfying a sexy MILF.

Isn't that a common sense approach to take about it. So go with the flow and don't get so hung up about things

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Aww.

Such a nice read on a gloomy Sunday afternoon.

I've got a BBC next to me.

Big Brown Cuppa

Silk

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Aww.

Such a nice read on a gloomy Sunday afternoon.

I've got a BBC next to me.

Big Brown Cuppa

Silk"

May I have a dunk?!

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By *ocoTemptationMan over a year ago

london

I used to conclude that the term BBC was universally demeaning and it is partly why I have such a long profile. It has had the desired effect of me almost never being contacted by idiots.

I still encounter the BBC term in some of the profiles of people who contact me but I now see it as just txt speak. I don't fit the big black man stereotype so I have to conclude that anyone that meets me is more concerned with the overall package as opposed to just one single element about me...

"I have tried to deliberately stay out of this thread but been reading... I think my view is well known and the amount of PM's I get on it is really heart-warming....

I am another like Complex Mister, who has walked away from potential meets based of the BBC issue and would again in the future.. and I know, by the post I have gotten, we are not the only two.....

the point I try to get across a lot is that by using it some are probably polarising the very people they are trying to attract, the irony of the discussion

as some else said... don't have a problem with preferences, but do have an issue with the way that preference is expressed...

got asked by a couple the other day to "cuckold them with my "N" cock...." I stopped talking to them straight away.... then got back to me to asked what they did wrong?

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman over a year ago

kinky land

some like black some like white, some like vwe some dont.

Some of us dont even consider a persons skin colour or the size of their tool and meet the person

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why are there so few profiles that state black women or asian men preferred?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why are there so few profiles that state black women or asian men preferred?"

I could write that on mine, but it wouldn't help me get any meets!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

....And what about all the profiles; saying they only want 'white guys'..? The OP is bias. In fact, there are more profiles saying they only meet 'whites' than the ones saying they want BBC.

There is ONLY one race - and its human race!

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By *onny BonesMan over a year ago

a block away from heaven

"I have tried to deliberately stay out of this thread but been reading... I think my view is well known and the amount of PM's I get on it is really heart-warming....

I am another like Complex Mister, who has walked away from potential meets based of the BBC issue and would again in the future.. and I know, by the post I have gotten, we are not the only two.....

the point I try to get across a lot is that by using it some are probably polarising the very people they are trying to attract, the irony of the discussion

as some else said... don't have a problem with preferences, but do have an issue with the way that preference is expressed...

got asked by a couple the other day to "cuckold them with my "N" cock...." I stopped talking to them straight away.... then got back to me to asked what they did wrong?

Using the N word is not appropriate by any race in any situation. That was not included in the thread. That is racism. I find it hard to find the offence in referring to me as black.

I once discussed being called a black b******d and asked what I was most offended by. I pose the same question to you Fabio. What part of the term causes such offence? How do you feel about the term BBW?? I have read your profile and compliment you on it. It is very clear about what you like and dislike and presents very well. I also noted that when describing yourself the first thing you note is your colour/race.

I don't mind admitting that to some I will only ever be considered for my cock, yet I find it easier to accept due to me not currently seeking my life partner on a swingers site. I admire you seeking those who want to engage because of your mind, but how many will play because of your physical appearance and not your insightful thoughts?

I do hope that you do not stay away from forums or threads. Your opinion is as valued as the next. I too have stayed away from forums because I may not be comfortable in expressing my opinion because I do not always agree with the masses, but by doing so damages the integrity of forums.

Nobody on here has been disrespectful and applaud all for contributing on a touchy subject whatever their opinion.

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By *rnortholtMan over a year ago

Waveney Valley

The thing I like about being here is I've met all sorts I might not have met otherwise. We all have our likes, but I always think, when I see BBC only, or it's alter ego "we're not racist but black and Asian just doesn't do it for us", do they know what they're missing?

"I used to conclude that the term BBC was universally demeaning and it is partly why I have such a long profile. It has had the desired effect of me almost never being contacted by idiots.

I have tried to deliberately stay out of this thread but been reading... I think my view is well known and the amount of PM's I get on it is really heart-warming....

I am another like Complex Mister, who has walked away from potential meets based of the BBC issue and would again in the future.. and I know, by the post I have gotten, we are not the only two.....

the point I try to get across a lot is that by using it some are probably polarising the very people they are trying to attract, the irony of the discussion

as some else said... don't have a problem with preferences, but do have an issue with the way that preference is expressed...

got asked by a couple the other day to "cuckold them with my "N" cock...." I stopped talking to them straight away.... then got back to me to asked what they did wrong?

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By *inxanddappaCouple over a year ago

Darlington

"....And what about all the profiles; saying they only want 'white guys'..? The OP is bias. In fact, there are more profiles saying they only meet 'whites' than the ones saying they want BBC.

There is ONLY one race - and its human race!"

even now nobody wants to adress that question, ive been asking this all along, wy are we having this discussion when we should be counselling the op lol

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By *inxanddappaCouple over a year ago

Darlington

"I have tried to deliberately stay out of this thread but been reading... I think my view is well known and the amount of PM's I get on it is really heart-warming....

I am another like Complex Mister, who has walked away from potential meets based of the BBC issue and would again in the future.. and I know, by the post I have gotten, we are not the only two.....

the point I try to get across a lot is that by using it some are probably polarising the very people they are trying to attract, the irony of the discussion

as some else said... don't have a problem with preferences, but do have an issue with the way that preference is expressed...

got asked by a couple the other day to "cuckold them with my "N" cock...." I stopped talking to them straight away.... then got back to me to asked what they did wrong?

Using the N word is not appropriate by any race in any situation. That was not included in the thread. That is racism. I find it hard to find the offence in referring to me as black.

Nobody on here has been disrespectful and applaud all for contributing on a touchy subject whatever their opinion."

well said.. i have also aked this question but so far it has gone unanswered

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"The problem is simply the type of people who start these threads. They are the ones with the problem and the only ones with the fascination. No one else."

Said that from the get go!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Only 2 more messages and this thread closes lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

How many?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So what is it with BBC........?

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By *urewaterMan over a year ago

Sex Lab

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