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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Has any woman came across a guy that tears them everytime they have sex? Don't mean to sound big headed but every time I have sex I always end up tearing whoever I'm doing it with and it makes me feel nasty  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Has any woman came across a guy that tears them everytime they have sex? Don't mean to sound big headed but every time I have sex I always end up tearing whoever I'm doing it with and it makes me feel nasty "
My advice- lube. Be prepared to reapply every so often, and make sure you warm the poor lady up properly! |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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Do you have a piercing or something? Where do they tear? Internally or externally?
If a woman is not 'ready' then chances of tearing inside will increase. If they are still too dry to permit easy entry then stop immediately, and turn them on more. Or if their lack of lady juice is a medical condition, use lubrication.
Slow and sure usually works out better than ramming the castle gates. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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My nails don't come into it :p and we do use lube but somehow she always ends up torn. She says it doesn't hurt at the time but afterwards it hurts a little bit |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Do you have a piercing or something? Where do they tear? Internally or externally?
If a woman is not 'ready' then chances of tearing inside will increase. If they are still too dry to permit easy entry then stop immediately, and turn them on more. Or if their lack of lady juice is a medical condition, use lubrication.
Slow and sure usually works out better than ramming the castle gates."
no I'm not pierced and with 1 particular lass it doesn't matter how wet she gets she can't fit it all in and it ends up tearing her. I don't mean to sound big headed its just baffling how its happening  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Probably more about technique than size.
I've been with guys who are bigger than yours looks and no issues.
Remember... babies come out of there so I'd work on technique and not assume it's size"
thanks for the advice  |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"Do you have a piercing or something? Where do they tear? Internally or externally?
If a woman is not 'ready' then chances of tearing inside will increase. If they are still too dry to permit easy entry then stop immediately, and turn them on more. Or if their lack of lady juice is a medical condition, use lubrication.
Slow and sure usually works out better than ramming the castle gates. no I'm not pierced and with 1 particular lass it doesn't matter how wet she gets she can't fit it all in and it ends up tearing her. I don't mean to sound big headed its just baffling how its happening "
Seeing as the vagina should open enough to permit a baby's head it sounds like she has a medical problem, maybe vaginitis which prevents the stretching. If its a problem (and it would be for me) she needs to go to the doctors to get it checked out. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Thanks Wyrdwoman that's what I was thinking aswell but how on earth do I tell her to go to the docs and say 'my pussy rips whenever I take a cock'? Haha |
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slow down and smell the roses..theirs more to sex than jack hammering. a women's mind is a very powerful thing. if you get things warmed up right lots of hot delicious forplay and make sure you listen to what her body is telling ya you shouldnt have that problem anymore.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"slow down and smell the roses..theirs more to sex than jack hammering. a women's mind is a very powerful thing. if you get things warmed up right lots of hot delicious forplay and make sure you listen to what her body is telling ya you shouldnt have that problem anymore.
Fred"
Fred, you've made my day. Cheers!
L. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"slow down and smell the roses..theirs more to sex than jack hammering. a women's mind is a very powerful thing. if you get things warmed up right lots of hot delicious forplay and make sure you listen to what her body is telling ya you shouldnt have that problem anymore.
Fred"
Fred, you've made my day. Cheers!
L. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"slow down and smell the roses..theirs more to sex than jack hammering. a women's mind is a very powerful thing. if you get things warmed up right lots of hot delicious forplay and make sure you listen to what her body is telling ya you shouldnt have that problem anymore.
Fred"
Fred, you've made my day. Cheers!
L. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thanks Wyrdwoman that's what I was thinking aswell but how on earth do I tell her to go to the docs and say 'my pussy rips whenever I take a cock'? Haha"
You said . Whoever you are doing it with it happens !!! So this particular girl does not have a problem . You do
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"slow down and smell the roses..theirs more to sex than jack hammering. a women's mind is a very powerful thing. if you get things warmed up right lots of hot delicious forplay and make sure you listen to what her body is telling ya you shouldnt have that problem anymore.
Fred"
there's loads of foreplay before hand and I don't 'jackhammer' her. We've been seeing each other on a regular basis for 5 month now and mostly its normal sex instead of fucking hard and fast and it still happens |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why are you talking about this one girl when your original post said whoever you do it with it happens ? "
Can you smell that? 
OP I'm small and quite snug, if not turned on and wet enough it hurts, sometimes lube is needed to ensure I don't get sore but have taken men wider than you look with no tearing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you have a piercing or something? Where do they tear? Internally or externally?
If a woman is not 'ready' then chances of tearing inside will increase. If they are still too dry to permit easy entry then stop immediately, and turn them on more. Or if their lack of lady juice is a medical condition, use lubrication.
Slow and sure usually works out better than ramming the castle gates. no I'm not pierced and with 1 particular lass it doesn't matter how wet she gets she can't fit it all in and it ends up tearing her. I don't mean to sound big headed its just baffling how its happening
Seeing as the vagina should open enough to permit a baby's head it sounds like she has a medical problem, maybe vaginitis which prevents the stretching. If its a problem (and it would be for me) she needs to go to the doctors to get it checked out."
 If it's only with one girl I'd say the problem is with her. |
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"Why are you talking about this one girl when your original post said whoever you do it with it happens ?
Can you smell that?
OP I'm small and quite snug, if not turned on and wet enough it hurts, sometimes lube is needed to ensure I don't get sore but have taken men wider than you look with no tearing."
Can't see would need pics |
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"Has any woman came across a guy that tears them everytime they have sex? Don't mean to sound big headed but every time I have sex I always end up tearing whoever I'm doing it with and it makes me feel nasty "
Why should you feel Big Headed ? Cock size is ascribed at birth. You didn't win it in the biggest cock competition .... oh ...... maybe.....
Has the lady in question had children ? and split and had stitches or had an episiotomy .... ?
Are you one of those blokes that doesn't really know where the vagina entrance is and basically stabs all over the place until you get there? Blokes that do that sometimes stretch the outer vagina skin because they don't know they are NOT at the vaginal opening ?
Oh come on women .. you've all had one of those blokes that tries shoving it through the 'bridge' while you look on like this  Don't say you haven't! |
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"Has any woman came across a guy that tears them everytime they have sex? Don't mean to sound big headed but every time I have sex I always end up tearing whoever I'm doing it with and it makes me feel nasty
Why should you feel Big Headed ? Cock size is ascribed at birth. You didn't win it in the biggest cock competition .... oh ...... maybe.....
Has the lady in question had children ? and split and had stitches or had an episiotomy .... ?
Are you one of those blokes that doesn't really know where the vagina entrance is and basically stabs all over the place until you get there? Blokes that do that sometimes stretch the outer vagina skin because they don't know they are NOT at the vaginal opening ?
Oh come on women .. you've all had one of those blokes that tries shoving it through the 'bridge' while you look on like this Don't say you haven't!"
So true and very painful
Op does this happen in all positions? Tell your friend she may need to use medical vaginal dilators.....look on vaginismus.com |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Has any woman came across a guy that tears them everytime they have sex? Don't mean to sound big headed but every time I have sex I always end up tearing whoever I'm doing it with and it makes me feel nasty
Why should you feel Big Headed ? Cock size is ascribed at birth. You didn't win it in the biggest cock competition .... oh ...... maybe.....
Has the lady in question had children ? and split and had stitches or had an episiotomy .... ?
Are you one of those blokes that doesn't really know where the vagina entrance is and basically stabs all over the place until you get there? Blokes that do that sometimes stretch the outer vagina skin because they don't know they are NOT at the vaginal opening ?
Oh come on women .. you've all had one of those blokes that tries shoving it through the 'bridge' while you look on like this Don't say you haven't!"
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"Has any woman came across a guy that tears them everytime they have sex? Don't mean to sound big headed but every time I have sex I always end up tearing whoever I'm doing it with and it makes me feel nasty "
Every woman you've had sex with tears? |
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"Has any woman came across a guy that tears them everytime they have sex? Don't mean to sound big headed but every time I have sex I always end up tearing whoever I'm doing it with and it makes me feel nasty
Every woman you've had sex with tears? "
Without going in to too much detail if you know what's involved in a basic smear test then you will understand why people are a little cynical of your claim. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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If its a specific girl, get her to check with her local gum clinic, even go together, and check both of you, but it could be how her vagina/womb lies, if it's naturally tilted then "normal" angles can catch the top or bottom so Try different positions to find a good one For her.
And slow down. When a woman is fully aroused mentally, only then, her body gets ready physically, this takes time, so don't rush things, her body lubricates initially but you need a enough lubrication to cover her depth (or add some and reapply), but also her cervix entrance will pull up out of the way, so even if she seems ready, slow down n give her body time to catch up/adjust.. also build the depth of your thrusts, don't go in full pelt.
Nothing to do with size as any healthy woman in the right situation can take a surprising amount. I've been horny/playing and struggled to take a big appendage, but then as we have continued with other play and my body's caught up, suddenly Ive been ready for more depth/girth... It happens. And guys that get lost and bump into skin bits initially.. well it's easily done, but it's only the lube that prevents it being sore! |
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"If its a specific girl, get her to check with her local gum clinic, even go together, and check both of you, but it could be how her vagina/womb lies, if it's naturally tilted then "normal" angles can catch the top or bottom so Try different positions to find a good one For her.
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No, he says its every time he has sex and whoever he's with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If its a specific girl, get her to check with her local gum clinic, even go together, and check both of you, but it could be how her vagina/womb lies, if it's naturally tilted then "normal" angles can catch the top or bottom so Try different positions to find a good one For her.
And slow down. When a woman is fully aroused mentally, only then, her body gets ready physically, this takes time, so don't rush things, her body lubricates initially but you need a enough lubrication to cover her depth (or add some and reapply), but also her cervix entrance will pull up out of the way, so even if she seems ready, slow down n give her body time to catch up/adjust.. also build the depth of your thrusts, don't go in full pelt.
Nothing to do with size as any healthy woman in the right situation can take a surprising amount. I've been horny/playing and struggled to take a big appendage, but then as we have continued with other play and my body's caught up, suddenly Ive been ready for more depth/girth... It happens. And guys that get lost and bump into skin bits initially.. well it's easily done, but it's only the lube that prevents it being sore! "
If you read his original post it says " Whoever he goes with " Not one specific girl |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If its a specific girl, get her to check with her local gum clinic, even go together, and check both of you, but it could be how her vagina/womb lies, if it's naturally tilted then "normal" angles can catch the top or bottom so Try different positions to find a good one For her.
And slow down. When a woman is fully aroused mentally, only then, her body gets ready physically, this takes time, so don't rush things, her body lubricates initially but you need a enough lubrication to cover her depth (or add some and reapply), but also her cervix entrance will pull up out of the way, so even if she seems ready, slow down n give her body time to catch up/adjust.. also build the depth of your thrusts, don't go in full pelt.
Nothing to do with size as any healthy woman in the right situation can take a surprising amount. I've been horny/playing and struggled to take a big appendage, but then as we have continued with other play and my body's caught up, suddenly Ive been ready for more depth/girth... It happens. And guys that get lost and bump into skin bits initially.. well it's easily done, but it's only the lube that prevents it being sore! If you read his original post it says " Whoever he goes with " Not one specific girl "
Yeah I gathered hence the going to the gum together n the slow down bit onwards which was general.. sorry if I wasn't clear.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've had a few encounters with this problem, I find sometimes when the guy is 'extremely' aroused, they can tend to lean heavily on one area of the vaginal opening, and almost grind against it, usually while hittin the perfect spot...
It's not always apparent until after play, but ALWAYS fkn worth it! 
Just be careful with yer angles!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I've had a few encounters with this problem, I find sometimes when the guy is 'extremely' aroused, they can tend to lean heavily on one area of the vaginal opening, and almost grind against it, usually while hittin the perfect spot...
It's not always apparent until after play, but ALWAYS fkn worth it!
Just be careful with yer angles! "
cheers I'll keep that in mind |
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"Has any woman came across a guy that tears them everytime they have sex? Don't mean to sound big headed but every time I have sex I always end up tearing whoever I'm doing it with and it makes me feel nasty
Why should you feel Big Headed ? Cock size is ascribed at birth. You didn't win it in the biggest cock competition .... oh ...... maybe.....
Has the lady in question had children ? and split and had stitches or had an episiotomy .... ?
Are you one of those blokes that doesn't really know where the vagina entrance is and basically stabs all over the place until you get there? Blokes that do that sometimes stretch the outer vagina skin because they don't know they are NOT at the vaginal opening ?
Oh come on women .. you've all had one of those blokes that tries shoving it through the 'bridge' while you look on like this Don't say you haven't!"
 Gwanny you sleigh me! I don't think there's a sexually active woman alive that doesn't know what you mean! |
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"I've had a few encounters with this problem, I find sometimes when the guy is 'extremely' aroused, they can tend to lean heavily on one area of the vaginal opening, and almost grind against it, usually while hittin the perfect spot...
It's not always apparent until after play, but ALWAYS fkn worth it!
Just be careful with yer angles! cheers I'll keep that in mind "
So are you going to respond to what you be been asked? Is it one woman or all of them? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I've had a few encounters with this problem, I find sometimes when the guy is 'extremely' aroused, they can tend to lean heavily on one area of the vaginal opening, and almost grind against it, usually while hittin the perfect spot...
It's not always apparent until after play, but ALWAYS fkn worth it!
Just be careful with yer angles! cheers I'll keep that in mind
So are you going to respond to what you be been asked? Is it one woman or all of them? "
all of them. Only 1 has had kids but that was thru section so I'm guessing its due to tightness of there pussy rather than anything to do with my size |
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"I've had a few encounters with this problem, I find sometimes when the guy is 'extremely' aroused, they can tend to lean heavily on one area of the vaginal opening, and almost grind against it, usually while hittin the perfect spot...
It's not always apparent until after play, but ALWAYS fkn worth it!
Just be careful with yer angles! cheers I'll keep that in mind
So are you going to respond to what you be been asked? Is it one woman or all of them? all of them. Only 1 has had kids but that was thru section so I'm guessing its due to tightness of there pussy rather than anything to do with my size"
Seems very strange. Even a virgin isn't necessarily likely to tear (apart from the hymen obviously) so I see no reason why anyone would tear during normal sexual intercourse. |
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